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By *ris Gray OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Well could ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to think I could but now I'm not so sure.

That said, I'd rather have no sex than bad sex

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By *ixenitedWoman
over a year ago

Here or There abouts

Hell no, id rather live without chocolate and I looovee chocolate! lol

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

Nope

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By *ris Gray OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

I did for many years but I'm ok now

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I would have to learn how to manage. If it's a choice between death or living without sex, I'd pick staying alive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I don’t think I could

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By *oomarangMan
over a year ago

Chester

No hence I left my wife

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By *ris Gray OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"No hence I left my wife "
awwww is she ok?

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By *ldFashionedGentMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"I used to think I could but now I'm not so sure.

That said, I'd rather have no sex than bad sex "

This - could I live without bad sex - Yup, I’m doing that now (achilles tendon surgery will do that to you)

But I still remember wild, amazing, toe curling, grip the sheets sex. And who wants to live without that

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By *wimmingbadgerMan
over a year ago

Leicester

I've managed for six years so I guess so!

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By *irthlingMan
over a year ago

stroud

I think the forum has finally run out of content to discuss

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"No hence I left my wife "

Left my partner for the same reason. 7years with no sex was soul destroying and the thought of no sex ever again was unbearable.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

yes and I do

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By *ris Gray OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"I think the forum has finally run out of content to discuss"
oh no it hasn't

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

No not personally! Too slutty to be a nun. Hahaha

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

I have done but would rather not be in that position again if you will excuse the pun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have done but would rather not be in that position again if you will excuse the pun"

Shame you’re looking for younger men as I find myself in your favorite position too. Should we share a pose?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I could.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

I mean, technically I COULD live without sex, it's not a critical life function like breathing. I wouldn't want to though, I enjoy it. And my smart watch thinks I'm doing quite a lot of steps when I have sex, so it helps me hit my daily step goal.

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By *ris Gray OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"I mean, technically I COULD live without sex, it's not a critical life function like breathing. I wouldn't want to though, I enjoy it. And my smart watch thinks I'm doing quite a lot of steps when I have sex, so it helps me hit my daily step goal. "
omg who'd have thought guys you can get fit too..... Win win

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By *tsJustKateWoman
over a year ago

London

I could live without it, but I don't want to. As long as I'm able (and guys still want me) I'll enjoy it as much as I can. I love cock too much.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

At the moment I am living without it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course. I'm already living without sex.

It's not like I'm going to die, if I don't slip it in.

Or am I..

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By *ris Gray OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Of course. I'm already living without sex.

It's not like I'm going to die, if I don't slip it in.

Or am I.. "

you'll dry up and shrivel...... Thats what the experts say

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By *trawberry shortcake 9999Woman
over a year ago

.

Yes I could, I have, but I choose not too now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously, yes.

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By *obandruthCouple
over a year ago

wolverhampton

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So if you choose no then it’s a bullet to the head?

I think I could manage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately having to atm as are many sinhle guys on here

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

I'd rather not. Question: am I still allowed to wank?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Difficult for both mr and Mrs , 2-3 days and we get aggravated, let’s just say at the moment Mrs has new piercings in and she’s struggling

Told 5 days before protected sex and 3 weeks before bare back

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth


"No hence I left my wife

Left my partner for the same reason. 7years with no sex was soul destroying and the thought of no sex ever again was unbearable."

Agree with this, it can also destroy your self belief (at least it did mine) and I decided that hope was better than no hope so I walked. Have I had a plethora of sex since ,no but I've had some. So that's good

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By *pandjMan
over a year ago

Sparkford

Did it for nearly all my 30s with my ex hence why she's an ex. The frustration of hoping things would get better kills you especially that it never did.

Pretty much completed the porn hub sites so now they don't do anything for me.

Rediscovered my sex life thabks to modern dating and would never ever go back.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've gone for 10 years with no sexual contact at all so yes I could.

When I joined here 6 years ago I could easily have been like a kid in a sweet shop and taken every offer and opportunity but I didn't.

I've probably met 100 people in that time mostly through social events but only got naked with a handful of those while turning down twice as many offers as I've accepted.

I enjoy sex but I don't need it.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Yeah course. I’d rather not though

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Yes, not having sex doesn't kill you.

I spent years with my ex with no sex. You get used to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do live without sex

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

North West


"Well could ya "

I seem to be doing ok so far !!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Yes !

Next

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By *heFabtasticsCouple
over a year ago

brentwood

Well I wouldn’t kill myself if I wasn’t getting any so that would be YES

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I really don't think I could. I've only ever gone without sex for 6 weeks, in all my adult life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, I could. And I wonder if it would make life easier if I had no desire.

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

Not a chance!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only had sex once in past 2yrs, so yeah.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

Yes no problem other things in life I can get more enjoyment from no problem

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By *vilsluggMan
over a year ago

GH

Yeah could do it, wouldn’t like it though.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Sex yes, intimacy no...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, not having sex doesn't kill you.

I spent years with my ex with no sex. You get used to it."

°°°

Yep, I was solo sex only for years waiting on the separation and divorce as I'd not cheat or break vows, even on a hateful ex. But I had the knowledge that it was still available & all ahead of me to keep positive about and the solo sex I still class as sex.

If it wasn't a thing, if it didn't exist, or my libido flat-lined? I'd be alive and have friends and family and a life obv but there's no replacing the zing of epic sex or the intimacy of it.

I'm not in to ONS or NSA so it's not the functionality it's the whole package and the person you're connected to.

I guess it makes you less of an island in life perhaps.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Currently am

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By *ris Gray OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Yes, not having sex doesn't kill you.

I spent years with my ex with no sex. You get used to it.

°°°

Yep, I was solo sex only for years waiting on the separation and divorce as I'd not cheat or break vows, even on a hateful ex. But I had the knowledge that it was still available & all ahead of me to keep positive about and the solo sex I still class as sex.

If it wasn't a thing, if it didn't exist, or my libido flat-lined? I'd be alive and have friends and family and a life obv but there's no replacing the zing of epic sex or the intimacy of it.

I'm not in to ONS or NSA so it's not the functionality it's the whole package and the person you're connected to.

I guess it makes you less of an island in life perhaps."

yes I'm with you on that, its a connection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't be much fun without it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex yes, intimacy no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I'm a take it or leave it type

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By *ris Gray OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Yes. I'm a take it or leave it type"
i think most people are by the sounds of it

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By *am101aMan
over a year ago

swad

without sex maybe, without wanking-no!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. I'm a take it or leave it typei think most people are by the sounds of it "

Seriously the best way, let it be #downstream

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By *pank the MonkeyCouple
over a year ago

Down the Rabbit Hole and Round the Corner

That would depend on what I got instead of it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no. Px

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Do I get a choice?

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By *ris Gray OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Yes. I'm a take it or leave it typei think most people are by the sounds of it

Seriously the best way, let it be #downstream"

let it be let it be if you can't find an answer let it be

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Technically, yes but why?!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By *aulmck2Man
over a year ago

clayton le moor

Absolutely not I love sex and I love eating pussy

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By *isge BeathaWoman
over a year ago

Here, There and Everywhere

God no! Managed it for many years with my ex. Now I'm making up for lost time!

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

At my age and with my health issues I have no choice but to forgo any sexual activities.

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By *urvytreatWoman
over a year ago

somewhere nice

Personally yes I could but wouldn’t want to. Mind that’s only because the bloody menopause is playing havoc with my libido

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to think I could but now I'm not so sure.

That said, I'd rather have no sex than bad sex "

This ^^^^

Actually...no...I know I couldn't now bit would still swerve bad sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally yes I could but wouldn’t want to. Mind that’s only because the bloody menopause is playing havoc with my libido "

Hiya,

Mine has gone up...

Have you started HRT? I also did a blood test to check my testosterone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's a difficult decision but it would have to depend on the person/situation as to whether i could or not. Mr

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Yes. It's not the be all and end all of everything x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe I could, but I would be extremely miserable

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By *ig_eric_tionMan
over a year ago

IPSWICH

It seems I already do.

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By *pank the MonkeyCouple
over a year ago

Down the Rabbit Hole and Round the Corner


"Yes. It's not the be all and end all of everything x"

I agree, friendship/companionship comes first

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Yes. It's not the be all and end all of everything x

I agree, friendship/companionship comes first"

Exactly....never known anyone to die from not having it

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By *pank the MonkeyCouple
over a year ago

Down the Rabbit Hole and Round the Corner


"Yes. It's not the be all and end all of everything x

I agree, friendship/companionship comes first

Exactly....never known anyone to die from not having it "

But some get a bit grumpy

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By *ogan WillowCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I am sure that the world wouldn't end for us, however we would have reached a precipice.

We simply have such a great time together with it daily.

Logan

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

If affection and intimacy were still available, of course

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"Well could ya "

Have been doing that for past 3years but ever hopeful

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

Yes. I could live without it very easily

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

No I couldn't

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"No I couldn't "

Taxi

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Apparently so.

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By *lexanderSupertrampMan
over a year ago

Gourock

I don't think I could, I'd miss the intimacy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

YES!!!

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Easily as at the moment I’ve managed quite well.

Had plenty in the past, so I don’t feel I’ve missed out.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I could live without sex, but I couldn't live without a kiss and a cuddle.

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By *ris Gray OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Yes. I could live without it very easily "
you don't want to though do you shag?

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By *etric5555Man
over a year ago

BISHOP AUCKLAND

Have been for 4 yrs since Mrs lost sexual appetite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. I become irritable if I've not been fucked for a week or two.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Nope. I become irritable if I've not been fucked for a week or two."

Same. I'm either grumpy because I need food, sex or sleep. No other reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No hence I left my wife

Left my partner for the same reason. 7years with no sex was soul destroying and the thought of no sex ever again was unbearable."

Making up for it now though

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By *lowhands7Man
over a year ago

South Leicestershire / Burton on Trent

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By *ammerandthongsCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

Hell no

Amy

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By *lowhands7Man
over a year ago

South Leicestershire / Burton on Trent

NO!!

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Does that include my toys? Could if I can still use those I b happy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank heavens for fab lol

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By *ts_Business_TimeCouple
over a year ago

Berkshire

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, but can't live without intimacies such as cuddles, smooches, hand holds etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gone nearly 35 years without it, so probably yeah.

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By *J_SpiceyCouple
over a year ago

Kinky Kings Lynn

Could but don’t want to

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By *inks_apeyCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Yes if oral was still on the menu

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By *hatChattyGuyMan
over a year ago

folkestone

I am, but not enjoying it lol

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By *urvySub87Woman
over a year ago

Near Wellingborough

Not for too long. 3 months is the longest I've gone, it was torture

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia


"No I couldn't

Taxi "

I'm waiting

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By *hatBeardedChapMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Have been living without it for years now

Various reasons, major one being Heart defect that I had to have major surgery on

Trying to get back on that sex train haha but it's hard out here

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By *iscreetguy16Man
over a year ago

chester le street

Nope

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By *xciter7169Man
over a year ago

The Midlands

I Do

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Probably. More important things

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

No.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Not much choice when you get old. Sadly.

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"Yes. I could live without it very easily you don't want to though do you shag? "
No. I wouldnt want that

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