FabSwingers.com forum: Older or younger?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When it comes to sex partners, which do you prefer?

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Just younger say 48/49

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

A couple of years either way is fine by me

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Only ever younger

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By *BootyfulDayWoman
over a year ago

…

I usually prefer older

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By *tsJustKateWoman
over a year ago

London

I really don't mind!

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By *burns7Man
over a year ago

walsall

Older definitely

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By *isge BeathaWoman
over a year ago

Here, There and Everywhere

Younger, definitely!

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By *REEPALESTINEMan
over a year ago

derby

Older

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

Younger

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By *utieBootyPatootieWoman
over a year ago

Here or There abouts

Both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both x but I prefer the mature women and couples.

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Have had significant differences either way over the years, it's all about the person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I had to pick, older, show me what you got boomers!

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Both are good

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By *rPeachPiercedPrincessCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Track record it’s normally older

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

Never been with an older woman wonder what it’s like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When it comes to sex partners, which do you prefer?"

I never ask a woman her age….it’s rude.

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By *ustincider888Man
over a year ago

Preston Ish

I have no preference as long as I find them attractive and sexy although I do tend to steer clear of women in their early 20s.

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By *arkcrystalMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Pulse optionsl

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By *urve_your_enthusiasmWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Younger usually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older before pension age though.

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By *lknhungMan
over a year ago

Luton

Older for sure

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Generally a fair bit younger, but occasionally my own age ish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either but do like good milf

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By *tag-slagTV/TS
over a year ago

NCL

Older definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both, a bit younger and a bit older work for me, it's more about how the person is when they communicate

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Older on the whole for men, my age or a bit younger for women. It's not set though, I'm attracted to men closer to my age than 10 years older occasionally.

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By *illyTwinkleWoman
over a year ago

South Tyneside

Oh definitely younger!

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By *Mr-Man
over a year ago

Nearby

Like most I’ll say both however older has typically been the better experience for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both either or. But if younger I only find it hot if they're around 5 years younger at least.

Depends on the woman and how hot they are though obviously!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

They’ve all been younger.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I usually find myself with people about 4 years older or so than myself. Not a conscious decision, just the way jt tends to work out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been with both

Don't have a preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mixture

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By *heSilverFox1701Man
over a year ago

Near Sleaford

About the same. Younger are generally not much fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs tends to go for older, around 10 years older, but wanting to try a little younger for a new experience.

Mr doesn't mind so much, either way.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Young enough for maturity and old enough for a vintage.

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By *mwirralMan
over a year ago

wirral

Have tried both and have relationships with both, its all down to the person not their age

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Not fussed. Make me laugh & I'm easy

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

Age really doesn’t bother me. And that’s not a “I’ll shag anyone” thing, it’s more that I’m attracted to the person not the age. I’ve been with 30somethings and 50somethings and had equal fun with both.

As long as they’re fun and sexy I’m happy!

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

When you get to my age all most all partners are younger

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

"When it comes to sex partners, which do you prefer?"

Young single men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Younger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Intellectual maturity

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

" Intellectual maturity "

Oh dammit

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

Not bothered, i have my age limits set, that move as i get older,

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Younger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Intellectual maturity

Oh dammit

Exactly

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

5ish years either side.

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

"When it comes to sex partners, which do you prefer?"

Younger men for everything for me. Don't need or want an older man talking like he's my father with all his "friendly advice" I carry alot of wisdom on my shoulders from the age of 18 and at 34 I have grown and developed more and still learning to cope with understanding others as humans

I just refrain from older men they have never piqued my interest xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older please

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Most here are younger than me! Lol I prefer 50ish any younger 2 young x

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By *rStroker69Man
over a year ago

wells

Older or younger....just not around my age

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Definitely younger. I found maturity doesn’t come with age but ego does. I don’t want that.

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By *il sub princessWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

I am attracted to younger

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By *eachybobMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh ish

Either, no preference

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

Older

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Yes!

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By *ts_Business_TimeCouple
over a year ago

Berkshire

Don’t really mind, as long as they are hot and know what they are doing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most definitely older

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By *K430Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

Either , totally person dependent

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Varies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either

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By *estman for the jobMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Depends on the person,youngest I've met was 18 I was 44,oldest was 62 I was 48 but she could of passed for mid 40s

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By *orksguy1965Man
over a year ago

Howden

Older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

us oldies still got it,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually older but I'm starting to find younger attractive no less than 25 x

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By *inks_apeyCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

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By *mily28Woman
over a year ago

Clapham

Older...

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By *inks_apeyCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Both but track record for me would be older kinks x

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

cant help if i have the body of younger man,, such a big head,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older for me! 50+

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"Young enough for maturity and old enough for a vintage."

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But other factors/criteria take precedence.

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

"When it comes to sex partners, which do you prefer?"

It depends. I love a younger man for stamina, enthusiasm & fun, but when it comes to a guy being unselfish, understanding how to give pleasure & really enjoying doing that, I usually find that in a man nearer my own age.

I have found a complete gem of a 26 year old who fulfills both, but unfortunately we don't get the chance to meet very often

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By *itty Kat ABWoman
over a year ago

North Somerset

Older preferably...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer slightly younger, but not by much, just a few years variance is enough. Max 10 years for sure or you risk being far too far apart in your life stages.

Older isn't a draw for me in and of itself.

But if I meet someone away from here I don't ask their age up front, you can get a feel for sour attitudes and Victor Meldrew dispositions very quickly and easily.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older I much prefer

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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield

I don't have a preference, I've played with women from 18 to mid 50s, and had good and not-so-good experiences with ones from both ends of the scale. I'm quite picky about who I play with in terms of attitude, personality, character as well as looks, but if we get on then age itself isn't a huge factor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always used to prefer older but now I'd definitely be more open to younger men.

Over 30 and under 50 is probably my age preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer men younger than me

(30+) though looking at some of the older men on here a few give me flutters in the right places

(Mrs)

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"Both

Same so far both.

I think I'm more matched in stamina to someone my age obviously.

But If a 30-year-old guy wants to have 3 rounds I'm hardly going to say no.

and if a 60-year-old guy is just going to pleasure me all night long with toys I'm not going to say no either.

I know people have their preferences but the age hasn't been a barrier for me for sexual pleasure and exploration.

In the past, we had sexual partners who were out age so we made accommodations but now life partners for life are rare so we meet a whole range of partners and it's understanding their perspectives capabilities and drives.

I find in my 40s pleasure with guys in their 30s, 40s, 50s and 60s. I haven't attempted a guy in his 20s as I have all kinds of preconceived ideas about corrupting our youth. Lol!

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"Prefer slightly younger, but not by much, just a few years variance is enough. Max 10 years for sure or you risk being far too far apart in your life stages.

Older isn't a draw for me in and of itself.

But if I meet someone away from here I don't ask their age up front, you can get a feel for sour attitudes and Victor Meldrew dispositions very quickly and easily."

Lol at Victor Mildrew. I can be quite grumpy until I'm at it. Lol! Then I forget all the things that make me grumpy. Lol!

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By *lecom1Couple
over a year ago

Stornoway

They're all younger these days, keep meeting these kids in their 50's and 60's

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"I don't have a preference, I've played with women from 18 to mid 50s, and had good and not-so-good experiences with ones from both ends of the scale. I'm quite picky about who I play with in terms of attitude, personality, character as well as looks, but if we get on then age itself isn't a huge factor. "

40s is really a sweet spot isn't it.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"cant help if i have the body of younger man,, such a big head,,"

Lol!

I would based on body solely but as Nero said other factors may take preference.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"Don’t really mind, as long as they are hot and know what they are doing "

I must admit I'm neurodivergently confused at this "know what they are doing"

As I've asked a fellow meet: does that mean if they know that the penis goes in the vagina or...if they are trying to put the penis in the earhole or the armpit...although there may be a kink that I haven't discovered of sticking it in those unconventional places.

My brain thinks men will stick their penis anywhere given half the chance. Logically I know this is not true but it doesn't override my neuordivergent eww.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

All of my sexual partners have been older than me and all of them have been pretty good.

The only exception is one who was about 20 years old and honestly it was my worst sexual experience.

I guess I prefer them older than me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older.

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By *reen as JadeCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

We normally go older, but if the right person who we liked was younger then so be it x

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By *tuvyMan
over a year ago

bedford

Single ladies older, couples my age.

Barmaids, any age lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Around my age..but if they are younger or older then that’s fine..

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By *ittle John LittleMan
over a year ago

Sunny Sunderland

Not to bothered, its all about the person.

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By *unlovers70Couple
over a year ago

Overseas

Hubby is older but if we are playing with single guys I prefer younger!

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

Older men younger women I find the pattern mostly

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

Just a number for me - its attitude all the way for me… and eyes!!

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