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"If I was genuinely interested in a person long term, I wouldn't give it all away so soon. Sexual attraction can be misconstrued for other things so I'd want to explore their mind before their body." now i know why it only takes me 5mins..they aint intrested in me at all | |||
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"So do you? Does your strategy change depending on if you just find them sexy but wouldn't go on date two or if you fancy the pants off them and can see yourself forming a relationship? Date one for us was coffee and cake, no naked, no beast with two backs but we were instantly smitten. Date two we were naked in minutes and stayed that way for the rest of the week. We both admitted that if we had found each other sexually attractive but not long term material we would have fucked on date one and gone our separate ways." well your example is more about an actual date and so yes I'd wait but if it were a sexual date then yes if all boxes are ticked why not have sex on that first date | |||
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"If you mean through fab the answer is no. Always at least one social before deciding to get naked. I've turned down socials when it was suggested anything more would happen afterwards. " Same. If they start hinting at sex stuff before we've even met then the social is cancelled. | |||
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"First meeting is only ever promised as a social. But it can become much more than that if the chemistry is there." Just like dating, if I remember it right. (It’s been a long time since I was single.) | |||
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"Just like dating, if I remember it right. (It’s been a long time since I was single.)" I suppose that was a long way of saying that yes, I sometimes used to fuck on first dates. If the chemistry was there. | |||
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""Could I feel your tits? Or would you show 'em to me?" (The person I'm replying in message to will get reference)" Damnn, beat me to it | |||
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"No I don't. Well, not any more. And I'm really happy not doing so - I like getting to know someone. Plus, the more relaxed I am, the more I enjoy sex. I'm not really meeting people for sex any more. It happens and is fantastic but I'm meeting for friendship etc, sex isn't the driving force." You said it better than me. | |||
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"Does anyone even date anymore? " I once dated on a first fuck. | |||
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"Nope, seriously nope even if I fancy the pants off them. The reason? I want to be sure that that is what I really want, they are are somebody I can trust with a degree of intimacy and getting a bit closer to my core. And this will take a little bit of time. I won't be rushed either. Ever." Ah I liked your post a lot! It's very close to how I feel. I don't think sex is a sacred thing, ascribe to it hangups that still exist. But I enjoy taking my time, removing sex and not feeling pressure to do something when I need that base level connection to be sexually attacted to someone. | |||
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"Does anyone even date anymore? I once dated on a first fuck. " | |||
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"Nope, seriously nope even if I fancy the pants off them. The reason? I want to be sure that that is what I really want, they are are somebody I can trust with a degree of intimacy and getting a bit closer to my core. And this will take a little bit of time. I won't be rushed either. Ever. Ah I liked your post a lot! It's very close to how I feel. I don't think sex is a sacred thing, ascribe to it hangups that still exist. But I enjoy taking my time, removing sex and not feeling pressure to do something when I need that base level connection to be sexually attacted to someone." Exactly - I am not celibate - I just value my body, my mental health more than going with a person where I might have regrets. | |||
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"Absolutely.. Life is short " Fancy a date lol | |||
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"Absolutely.. Life is short Fancy a date lol " Was referring cos you said you fuck on first dates just a bit of humour | |||
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"I don’t think I’ve ever not, to the point it was my New Year’s resolution which I broke before January was even over " Harlot want a date | |||
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