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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks to the disproportionate ratio males/females here every single women has a chance.

Males should be paid for this.

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin

How much?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Paid in what? By who?

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

I don't quite follow...

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

Eh?

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Paid for what?

You mean in lieu of feeling grateful for any attention we receive?

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

Paid for what...just being on here? Think there would be even more men if that were the case.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Paid in what? By who?"

Paid non whatever you want (dollars, sterlings, potatoes, handjobs) by the community of females that thanks to this has a chance

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Paid in what? By who?

Paid non whatever you want (dollars, sterlings, potatoes, handjobs) by the community of females that thanks to this has a chance"

If they have a 1% chance with whiny people like you , they should be paid

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"Paid in what? By who?

Paid non whatever you want (dollars, sterlings, potatoes, handjobs) by the community of females that thanks to this has a chance"

You mean by the women who only have a chance on here purely because of the numbers imbalance?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I didn’t offend yourself or judge you. Did I?

Moron

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Paid in what? By who?

Paid non whatever you want (dollars, sterlings, potatoes, handjobs) by the community of females that thanks to this has a chance

You mean by the women who only have a chance on here purely because of the numbers imbalance? "

Correct

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West


"Paid in what? By who?

Paid non whatever you want (dollars, sterlings, potatoes, handjobs) by the community of females that thanks to this has a chance"

Why should I pay for the fact some mens standards are on the floor and play with anyone?

So I’m understanding correctly….

I should pay men to be on a sex site to want to play with me even though I don’t want to play with 99.9% of them?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"Paid in what? By who?

Paid non whatever you want (dollars, sterlings, potatoes, handjobs) by the community of females that thanks to this has a chance"

I mean. If you have a problem with women being able to get laid, you should probably just stop putting out

Women can always get laid anywhere. Because men. If men don't like that they should probably adjust their behaviours rather than expecting payment.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West


"Paid in what? By who?

Paid non whatever you want (dollars, sterlings, potatoes, handjobs) by the community of females that thanks to this has a chance

You mean by the women who only have a chance on here purely because of the numbers imbalance?

Correct "

Blame your male counterparts who fuck anyone rather than the women who get laid

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"Paid in what? By who?

Paid non whatever you want (dollars, sterlings, potatoes, handjobs) by the community of females that thanks to this has a chance

I mean. If you have a problem with women being able to get laid, you should probably just stop putting out

Women can always get laid anywhere. Because men. If men don't like that they should probably adjust their behaviours rather than expecting payment."

Ive always said this. Men create their own problems on here.

By being so desperate and willing to fuck anything, they create this situation.

If all the men in here decided one day to be as discerning as the women, the balance would correct itself quickley and be more even.

That will never happen though of course

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Paid in what? By who?

Paid non whatever you want (dollars, sterlings, potatoes, handjobs) by the community of females that thanks to this has a chance

Why should I pay for the fact some mens standards are on the floor and play with anyone?

So I’m understanding correctly….

I should pay men to be on a sex site to want to play with me even though I don’t want to play with 99.9% of them? "

You can play free with the correct one (for you) only because there are thousands of males (and therefore you can ignore easily 99.9% of us).

I know it’s unpopular but it’s true

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Paid in what? By who?

Paid non whatever you want (dollars, sterlings, potatoes, handjobs) by the community of females that thanks to this has a chance

I mean. If you have a problem with women being able to get laid, you should probably just stop putting out

Women can always get laid anywhere. Because men. If men don't like that they should probably adjust their behaviours rather than expecting payment.

Ive always said this. Men create their own problems on here.

By being so desperate and willing to fuck anything, they create this situation.

If all the men in here decided one day to be as discerning as the women, the balance would correct itself quickley and be more even.

That will never happen though of course"

Agree with everything you said

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Paid in what? By who?

Paid non whatever you want (dollars, sterlings, potatoes, handjobs) by the community of females that thanks to this has a chance

You mean by the women who only have a chance on here purely because of the numbers imbalance?

Correct

Blame your male counterparts who fuck anyone rather than the women who get laid "

I would love to blame them, still won’t fix the issue.

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over a year ago

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish


"Paid in what? By who?

Paid non whatever you want (dollars, sterlings, potatoes, handjobs) by the community of females that thanks to this has a chance"

Ah I see, they wouldn't have a chance normally. So they should lavish men with desperate gratitude. Gotcha.

J

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"Paid in what? By who?

Paid non whatever you want (dollars, sterlings, potatoes, handjobs) by the community of females that thanks to this has a chance

Ah I see, they wouldn't have a chance normally. So they should lavish men with desperate gratitude. Gotcha.

J"

The ones outside their league only, i think is the crux of it.

They can fuck those in their own league for free

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"

You can play free with the correct one (for you) only because there are thousands of males (and therefore you can ignore easily 99.9% of us).

I know it’s unpopular but it’s true"

But if there was only the 99.9% of unwanted penii, I'd just stay celibate

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West


"Paid in what? By who?

Paid non whatever you want (dollars, sterlings, potatoes, handjobs) by the community of females that thanks to this has a chance

Why should I pay for the fact some mens standards are on the floor and play with anyone?

So I’m understanding correctly….

I should pay men to be on a sex site to want to play with me even though I don’t want to play with 99.9% of them?

You can play free with the correct one (for you) only because there are thousands of males (and therefore you can ignore easily 99.9% of us).

I know it’s unpopular but it’s true"

Not true though.

Your making out the women on here can play with who they want only cos there’s lots of men on here.

As though we can’t have sex with who we like in the real world too…

Blaming women for not getting laid seems rather strange and dangerous behaviour really

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I’m up for being paid to take one for the team so some munter gets her goodie bag filled! Where do I sign up?

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West


"Paid in what? By who?

Paid non whatever you want (dollars, sterlings, potatoes, handjobs) by the community of females that thanks to this has a chance

Ah I see, they wouldn't have a chance normally. So they should lavish men with desperate gratitude. Gotcha.

J

The ones outside their league only, i think is the crux of it.

They can fuck those in their own league for free"

Who decides the league exactly?

Wow, I actually can’t even believe men in 2023 make comments like this I’m shocked lol

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By *atty CoramWoman
over a year ago

Wimbledon


"Paid in what? By who?

Paid non whatever you want (dollars, sterlings, potatoes, handjobs) by the community of females that thanks to this has a chance

You mean by the women who only have a chance on here purely because of the numbers imbalance?

Correct

Blame your male counterparts who fuck anyone rather than the women who get laid

I would love to blame them, still won’t fix the issue. "

For clarity the issue that needs fixing is that you need to get laid and ... you are not?

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"Paid in what? By who?

Paid non whatever you want (dollars, sterlings, potatoes, handjobs) by the community of females that thanks to this has a chance

Ah I see, they wouldn't have a chance normally. So they should lavish men with desperate gratitude. Gotcha.

J

The ones outside their league only, i think is the crux of it.

They can fuck those in their own league for free

Who decides the league exactly?

Wow, I actually can’t even believe men in 2023 make comments like this I’m shocked lol "

I have no idea. Im just surmising the crux of the thread, as i understand it

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish


"Paid in what? By who?

Paid non whatever you want (dollars, sterlings, potatoes, handjobs) by the community of females that thanks to this has a chance

Ah I see, they wouldn't have a chance normally. So they should lavish men with desperate gratitude. Gotcha.

J

The ones outside their league only, i think is the crux of it.

They can fuck those in their own league for free

Who decides the league exactly?

Wow, I actually can’t even believe men in 2023 make comments like this I’m shocked lol "

It's the new Fab Fuck League. Relegation looms for us less than perfect specimens.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

The abuse in my inbox for bang average men right now…. Jeeze this touched a nerve.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West


"Paid in what? By who?

Paid non whatever you want (dollars, sterlings, potatoes, handjobs) by the community of females that thanks to this has a chance

Ah I see, they wouldn't have a chance normally. So they should lavish men with desperate gratitude. Gotcha.

J

The ones outside their league only, i think is the crux of it.

They can fuck those in their own league for free

Who decides the league exactly?

Wow, I actually can’t even believe men in 2023 make comments like this I’m shocked lol

It's the new Fab Fuck League. Relegation looms for us less than perfect specimens. "

Imagine if men actually understood there’s more to getting laid than what they looked like, maybe they’d understand from our perspective lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Paid in what? By who?

Paid non whatever you want (dollars, sterlings, potatoes, handjobs) by the community of females that thanks to this has a chance

Ah I see, they wouldn't have a chance normally. So they should lavish men with desperate gratitude. Gotcha.

J

The ones outside their league only, i think is the crux of it.

They can fuck those in their own league for free

Who decides the league exactly?

Wow, I actually can’t even believe men in 2023 make comments like this I’m shocked lol

It's the new Fab Fuck League. Relegation looms for us less than perfect specimens. "

Three up three down. Sounds like a recipe for a good night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Paid in what? By who?

Paid non whatever you want (dollars, sterlings, potatoes, handjobs) by the community of females that thanks to this has a chance

Ah I see, they wouldn't have a chance normally. So they should lavish men with desperate gratitude. Gotcha.

J

The ones outside their league only, i think is the crux of it.

They can fuck those in their own league for free

Who decides the league exactly?

Wow, I actually can’t even believe men in 2023 make comments like this I’m shocked lol

It's the new Fab Fuck League. Relegation looms for us less than perfect specimens.

Imagine if men actually understood there’s more to getting laid than what they looked like, maybe they’d understand from our perspective lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks to the disproportionate ratio males/females here every single women has a chance.

Males should be paid for this.

"

Eh?

Sounds like funds….I’m in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish


"The abuse in my inbox for bang average men right now…. Jeeze this touched a nerve. "

Oof. Maybe worth changing your filters for a bit until this thread fills up and drops off the radar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Paid in what? By who?

Paid non whatever you want (dollars, sterlings, potatoes, handjobs) by the community of females that thanks to this has a chance

I mean. If you have a problem with women being able to get laid, you should probably just stop putting out

Women can always get laid anywhere. Because men. If men don't like that they should probably adjust their behaviours rather than expecting payment.

Ive always said this. Men create their own problems on here.

By being so desperate and willing to fuck anything, they create this situation.

If all the men in here decided one day to be as discerning as the women, the balance would correct itself quickley and be more even.

That will never happen though of course"

I would change that to "as discerning as most women". It's pretty obvious from forum interaction and veries that not all are equally fussy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks to the disproportionate ratio males/females here every single women has a chance.

Males should be paid for this.

"

The men get a shag, what more do you want lol

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

Always wondered about the 1000 to 1 ratio that gets bandied about on here. Did a test on the forums a few years ago and in the local area it worked out around 10 to 1. Just checked whose near within a reasonable distance and its 29 men, 3 women, 1 TV/TS and 9 couples including us so not a massive imbalance.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Thanks to the disproportionate ratio males/females here every single women has a chance.

Males should be paid for this.

Eh?

Sounds like funds….I’m in. "

I’ll give you a fiver for a snog

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

I’m actually aghast at this.

Is this honestly what you believe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

WTF?! Women should pay men on here because the women may or may not want to sleep with them? You know this isn't the only place people can meet eachother for sex, yes?

Pxx

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"I don't quite follow... "

This thread reminds me of those arcane exam questions at college, where you read the entire paper top-to-bottom and you're still none-the-wiser.

If anyone else feels the same I'll be at the student union bar!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I'm trying to work out how many people I've said no to this week and whether I make enough to pay them all for being rejected. I make decent money, but even at a quid a go I can't afford that shit.

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree


"I don't quite follow...

This thread reminds me of those arcane exam questions at college, where you read the entire paper top-to-bottom and you're still none-the-wiser.

If anyone else feels the same I'll be at the student union bar! "

I think I’ll join you. My brain requires bleaching after that

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I don't quite follow...

This thread reminds me of those arcane exam questions at college, where you read the entire paper top-to-bottom and you're still none-the-wiser.

If anyone else feels the same I'll be at the student union bar! "

Coming to join you Nero. My head hurts.

XX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Paid in what? By who?

Paid non whatever you want (dollars, sterlings, potatoes, handjobs) by the community of females that thanks to this has a chance

You mean by the women who only have a chance on here purely because of the numbers imbalance?

Correct

Blame your male counterparts who fuck anyone rather than the women who get laid

I would love to blame them, still won’t fix the issue. "

So what's your idea to fix this issue OP?? In your 8 weeks of being here you must gained some knowledge already so please, enlighten us

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"I'm trying to work out how many people I've said no to this week and whether I make enough to pay them all for being rejected. I make decent money, but even at a quid a go I can't afford that shit."

Then just open your filters and thighs and think about all the money you will save!

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I feel like the ladies should be paid for putting up with all the entitled guys and their bad tempers and constant moaning.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"Then just open your filters and thighs and think about all the money you will save! "

The filters are already open. But I think I'll keep my thighs together for those below what makes me happy. I'll also keep my purse shut though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you think that OP may hVe suffered some rejection in his life?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Thanks to the disproportionate ratio males/females here every single women has a chance.

Males should be paid for this.

"

Maybe pay if the quality of single males was worth it, unfortunately in the fab world it's not, if having more thirsty self entitelled men who think their best asset is their cock isn't worth paying for.

Women just have to reject more which is harder work.

Mrs

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Thanks to the disproportionate ratio males/females here every single women has a chance.

Males should be paid for this.

Maybe pay if the quality of single males was worth it, unfortunately in the fab world it's not, if having more thirsty self entitelled men who think their best asset is their cock isn't worth paying for.

Women just have to reject more which is harder work.

Mrs "

Women and couples should be paid per rejection for those who can't read if anything

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West


"I feel like the ladies should be paid for putting up with all the entitled guys and their bad tempers and constant moaning. "

Be like this guy!

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By *atty CoramWoman
over a year ago

Wimbledon


"I feel like the ladies should be paid for putting up with all the entitled guys and their bad tempers and constant moaning. "

Id be constantly moaning with the likes of you around....

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands


"I don't quite follow...

This thread reminds me of those arcane exam questions at college, where you read the entire paper top-to-bottom and you're still none-the-wiser.

If anyone else feels the same I'll be at the student union bar!

Coming to join you Nero. My head hurts.

XX"

Make mine a double, don't worry I'll pay!

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"I don't quite follow...

This thread reminds me of those arcane exam questions at college, where you read the entire paper top-to-bottom and you're still none-the-wiser.

If anyone else feels the same I'll be at the student union bar!

·

Coming to join you Nero. My head hurts.

XX

Make mine a double, don't worry I'll pay! "

Thank goodness for that! My chivalry has its limits...and so does my wallet.

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I don't quite follow...

This thread reminds me of those arcane exam questions at college, where you read the entire paper top-to-bottom and you're still none-the-wiser.

If anyone else feels the same I'll be at the student union bar!

·

Coming to join you Nero. My head hurts.

XX

Make mine a double, don't worry I'll pay!

Thank goodness for that! My chivalry has its limits...and so does my wallet. "

Don't worry I'll get a round in too.

XX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t wait to play the new Zelda !

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

I'll pay Males to spend the night with me, with a family sized bucket of KFC, can't say fairer than that!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Oh dear.

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle


"I'll pay Males to spend the night with me, with a family sized bucket of KFC, can't say fairer than that! "

Make it a boneless banquet and you’re on.

£9.37 for everyone else who’s paying me

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"I'll pay Males to spend the night with me, with a family sized bucket of KFC, can't say fairer than that! "

Everything’s a dildo after all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was just speaking to someone about this 700ish to 1 she reckoned probly more to be fair... the women need to do some recruitment lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll pay Males to spend the night with me, with a family sized bucket of KFC, can't say fairer than that! "

Only if you like it on the bone

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World


"I'll pay Males to spend the night with me, with a family sized bucket of KFC, can't say fairer than that!

Only if you like it on the bone "

It's full of variety!

Don't be picky!

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By *heMaestroMan
over a year ago

Solihull

This is an interesting subject. Although there are thousands of men to every woman... I think the quality of the men are suspect.

So many fake, false, weird, lying, dirty guys.... It's a shame really,. Maybe men should be charged to be vetted absolutely genuine as not to mess women about?

Obviously there are some women like this too.... But most are fine .. get the weirdos off of the site, then more decent men like me would have more luck, not that I'm complaining

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Why do blokes get shitty with women about things they control?!? I don't get it... Men are why the women you deem, ultimately, unfuckable, still get sex, not the women themselves. And we are all desirable to someone and not to most.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"I'll pay Males to spend the night with me, with a family sized bucket of KFC, can't say fairer than that!

Only if you like it on the bone

It's full of variety!

Don't be picky! "

Isn’t that what got us into this meas in the first place? Burds being picky?!?

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World


"I'll pay Males to spend the night with me, with a family sized bucket of KFC, can't say fairer than that!

Make it a boneless banquet and you’re on.

£9.37 for everyone else who’s paying me "

Deal Sprout!

Cheap date

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World


"I'll pay Males to spend the night with me, with a family sized bucket of KFC, can't say fairer than that!

Only if you like it on the bone

It's full of variety!

Don't be picky!

Isn’t that what got us into this meas in the first place? Burds being picky?!?"

Apparently so

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"Why do blokes get shitty with women about things they control?!? I don't get it... Men are why the women you deem, ultimately, unfuckable, still get sex, not the women themselves. And we are all desirable to someone and not to most. "

Because patriarchy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure I follow your logic, OP.

The women of fab are spoiled for choice on here. Supply massively exceeds demand.

I'd be interested to see some evidence of economic models where over supply results in an INCREASE in price - as usually it works the other way around. Prices rise as demand rises, not falls

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By *heMaestroMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"I'll pay Males to spend the night with me, with a family sized bucket of KFC, can't say fairer than that! "

Would you share? And what side would you go for?

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World


"I'll pay Males to spend the night with me, with a family sized bucket of KFC, can't say fairer than that!

Would you share? And what side would you go for?"

I always share if asked nicely...

And side of beans

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"I'll pay Males to spend the night with me, with a family sized bucket of KFC, can't say fairer than that!

Would you share? And what side would you go for?

I always share if asked nicely...

And side of beans "

Wrong answer.

Its gravy.

Its always gravy.

Unless you want to fuck corn?

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World


"I'll pay Males to spend the night with me, with a family sized bucket of KFC, can't say fairer than that!

Would you share? And what side would you go for?

I always share if asked nicely...

And side of beans

Wrong answer.

Its gravy.

Its always gravy.

Unless you want to fuck corn? "

The gravy is hideous , its not even like "real" gravy!

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By *heMaestroMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"I'll pay Males to spend the night with me, with a family sized bucket of KFC, can't say fairer than that!

Would you share? And what side would you go for?

I always share if asked nicely...

And side of beans "

Good choice beans every time! ... So would you mind sharing sometime gorgeous lady?

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante


"I'll pay Males to spend the night with me, with a family sized bucket of KFC, can't say fairer than that! "

Now you're talking...can we both stay over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think that OP may hVe suffered some rejection in his life?"

Yep. From lots of ugly women who should appreciate his kind offer of a fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Paid in what? By who?

Paid non whatever you want (dollars, sterlings, potatoes, handjobs) by the community of females that thanks to this has a chance

Why should I pay for the fact some mens standards are on the floor and play with anyone?

So I’m understanding correctly….

I should pay men to be on a sex site to want to play with me even though I don’t want to play with 99.9% of them?

You can play free with the correct one (for you) only because there are thousands of males (and therefore you can ignore easily 99.9% of us).

I know it’s unpopular but it’s true"

Men don't pay to be on the site. Why should women pay?

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Always wondered about the 1000 to 1 ratio that gets bandied about on here. Did a test on the forums a few years ago and in the local area it worked out around 10 to 1. Just checked whose near within a reasonable distance and its 29 men, 3 women, 1 TV/TS and 9 couples including us so not a massive imbalance."

Yup - I did a couple of surveys a few years ago. I asked everyone on the thread to look at ‘who’s near’ and say how many males, females, couples, TV’s etc there were in their area.

I collated info from 70 areas. It averaged out at 10:1 Guys feel better about not getting meets if they pretend it’s 100:1 though - so it’s easier to let them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel like the ladies should be paid for putting up with all the entitled guys and their bad tempers and constant moaning. "

^^what he said!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like being 1 in 10 million. no preasure on me to perform as others will always get picked before me

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"I don't quite follow...

This thread reminds me of those arcane exam questions at college, where you read the entire paper top-to-bottom and you're still none-the-wiser.

If anyone else feels the same I'll be at the student union bar!

·

Coming to join you Nero. My head hurts.

XX

Make mine a double, don't worry I'll pay!

Thank goodness for that! My chivalry has its limits...and so does my wallet.

Don't worry I'll get a round in too.

XX"

We're becoming quite a quorum in this pay-your-own-way Bår!

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By *ose and her beastCouple
over a year ago

Watford

The dilusion is strong in this one

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"I'll pay Males to spend the night with me, with a family sized bucket of KFC, can't say fairer than that!

Would you share? And what side would you go for?

I always share if asked nicely...

And side of beans

Wrong answer.

Its gravy.

Its always gravy.

Unless you want to fuck corn?

The gravy is hideous , its not even like "real" gravy! "

By “real” gravy you mean spunk right?

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Ah bless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks to the disproportionate ratio males/females here every single women has a chance.

Males should be paid for this.

Eh?

Sounds like funds….I’m in.

I’ll give you a fiver for a snog "

I’ll give you three for a tenner.

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

What exactly is supposed to be the problem, OP? That you can't meet people, or that women you don't find attractive do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohhhh, and we should be very, very grateful I suppose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Paid in what? By who?

Paid non whatever you want (dollars, sterlings, potatoes, handjobs) by the community of females that thanks to this has a chance

I mean. If you have a problem with women being able to get laid, you should probably just stop putting out

Women can always get laid anywhere. Because men. If men don't like that they should probably adjust their behaviours rather than expecting payment.

Ive always said this. Men create their own problems on here.

By being so desperate and willing to fuck anything, they create this situation.

If all the men in here decided one day to be as discerning as the women, the balance would correct itself quickley and be more even.

That will never happen though of course"

Spot on. If men unplugged!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think that OP may hVe suffered some rejection in his life?

Yep. From lots of ugly women who should appreciate his kind offer of a fuck.

"

Kick him from the front hard,& oh dont forget from the back too! Poor op. Getting jumped outright!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is someone going to pay me? Can I sack work off tomorrow? I need more information.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

If hot woman are lowering their standard to meet us then thank you all the guys who have caused this shift

OR you can stop blaming anyone else for not getting meets.

We get to meet a lot of people we want so not complaining in the slightest…

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know... there's lots of men off this site too..

So I could get laid... off this site too?

So it doesn't matter there's more men than women on here?

Men are just game to fuck anything with a pulse and women want someone they actually fancy?

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

.


"I can’t wait to play the new Zelda ! "

Well that's very random, you'll have to wait till May I'm afraid.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

just imaging how many more couples and women would still be on here if there was no abuse ?? no bullying?? no harassment sexual or not

also very wrong to think that all women and couples find what they are looking for on here there may be loads of males but trust me there are not many when it comes to matching up for fun ...

you could have a 1000s messages and not one will appeal as a woman or couple ... dont get me wrong there are lots and lots of good guys on here but i dont wanna play with them there very few i wanna play with ...has to be attraction .. both ways of course

there has always been alot more men on this scene 80s to now they run off and tell there mates and then before you know it theres zillions add into the covid shutdowns and now its silly numbers and you only have to see how many are joining everyday ..then add in singles guys pretending to be women and couples then not only is there to many men there a army of men winding other men up with fake accounts

paying for site will make no difference most pay now for acess to videos

and finally even with all that fab is by far the best site for swingers most couples and women can see through the rubbish to find the goods

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ratio could be 1:1 with us the last 2 humans alive and my personal choice in response to an 'invitation' from such an individual so clearly suffering from a frustrated sense of entitlement would be.....

*drum roll*

Hell no

It's not availability or numbers that gets a yes or a no for either sex.

It's the whole package deal.

Not being a dick helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks to the disproportionate ratio males/females here every single women has a chance.

Males should be paid for this.

"

no one forces single males to join, most men know the ratios before joining but still moan about it! Patience is the key to fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Paid in what? By who?

Paid non whatever you want (dollars, sterlings, potatoes, handjobs) by the community of females that thanks to this has a chance"

I don't need fab to have a chance hun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I didn’t offend anyone but just expressed an opinion, opened a tread.

You can disagree and reply without offending me, either as human being or personally.

It’s obviously difficult to digest but you all know that what I wrote it’s true.

Try to argue politely if you can otherwise you just prove a bit more that I am on the right side.

Have a lovely night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I didn’t offend anyone but just expressed an opinion, opened a tread.

You can disagree and reply without offending me, either as human being or personally.

It’s obviously difficult to digest but you all know that what I wrote it’s true.

Try to argue politely if you can otherwise you just prove a bit more that I am on the right side.

Have a lovely night."

Not true though xo

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I didn’t offend anyone but just expressed an opinion, opened a tread.

You can disagree and reply without offending me, either as human being or personally.

It’s obviously difficult to digest but you all know that what I wrote it’s true.

Try to argue politely if you can otherwise you just prove a bit more that I am on the right side.

Have a lovely night.

Not true though xo"

What exactly is not true?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I didn’t offend anyone but just expressed an opinion, opened a tread.

You can disagree and reply without offending me, either as human being or personally.

It’s obviously difficult to digest but you all know that what I wrote it’s true.

Try to argue politely if you can otherwise you just prove a bit more that I am on the right side.

Have a lovely night.

Not true though xo

What exactly is not true?"

I can get laid with or without this site. The ratio of men to women doesn't change that.

It's the fact more men are happy to shag anything that moves and women are more discerning that changes things

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West


"I didn’t offend anyone but just expressed an opinion, opened a tread.

You can disagree and reply without offending me, either as human being or personally.

It’s obviously difficult to digest but you all know that what I wrote it’s true.

Try to argue politely if you can otherwise you just prove a bit more that I am on the right side.

Have a lovely night."

Your original post is offensive to lots of women though.

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By *ingerie whoreTV/TS
over a year ago

kirk hammerton

Just a observation but this post might increase the odds of not getting a meet I’m just saying lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I didn’t offend anyone but just expressed an opinion, opened a tread.

You can disagree and reply without offending me, either as human being or personally.

It’s obviously difficult to digest but you all know that what I wrote it’s true.

Try to argue politely if you can otherwise you just prove a bit more that I am on the right side.

Have a lovely night.

Not true though xo

What exactly is not true?

I can get laid with or without this site. The ratio of men to women doesn't change that.

It's the fact more men are happy to shag anything that moves and women are more discerning that changes things "

Thanks to the disproportionate ratio males/females here every single women has a chance.

I don’t think what you stated (that you can get laid) makes my post offensive to you or even not real.

Yes, males are often happy to fuck also radiators or holes in bricks and the disproportionate ratio makes this 100 times worse than real life.

Still, any female here has got chances to find someone, prove me wrong if you can.

Can they find someone also in real life, maybe…

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I didn’t offend anyone but just expressed an opinion, opened a tread.

You can disagree and reply without offending me, either as human being or personally.

It’s obviously difficult to digest but you all know that what I wrote it’s true.

Try to argue politely if you can otherwise you just prove a bit more that I am on the right side.

Have a lovely night.

Your original post is offensive to lots of women though. "

I posted :

Thanks to the disproportionate ratio males/females here every single women has a chance.

Males should be paid for this.

Where exactly I offended lots of women?

Just stating the obvious ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I didn’t offend anyone but just expressed an opinion, opened a tread.

You can disagree and reply without offending me, either as human being or personally.

It’s obviously difficult to digest but you all know that what I wrote it’s true.

Try to argue politely if you can otherwise you just prove a bit more that I am on the right side.

Have a lovely night.

Not true though xo

What exactly is not true?

I can get laid with or without this site. The ratio of men to women doesn't change that.

It's the fact more men are happy to shag anything that moves and women are more discerning that changes things

Thanks to the disproportionate ratio males/females here every single women has a chance.

I don’t think what you stated (that you can get laid) makes my post offensive to you or even not real.

Yes, males are often happy to fuck also radiators or holes in bricks and the disproportionate ratio makes this 100 times worse than real life.

Still, any female here has got chances to find someone, prove me wrong if you can.

Can they find someone also in real life, maybe…"

I never said I was offended- just said the fact there's more men on here means all women have some inflated ego.

There is someone for everyone so yes, any woman could get laid on or off of here. As could any man.

Just men get more rejection as women are more discerning

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish


"I didn’t offend anyone but just expressed an opinion, opened a tread.

You can disagree and reply without offending me, either as human being or personally.

It’s obviously difficult to digest but you all know that what I wrote it’s true.

Try to argue politely if you can otherwise you just prove a bit more that I am on the right side.

Have a lovely night.

Your original post is offensive to lots of women though.

I posted :

Thanks to the disproportionate ratio males/females here every single women has a chance.

Males should be paid for this.

Where exactly I offended lots of women?

Just stating the obvious ?"

The implication that we wouldn't have a chance if it weren't for the ratio. Fairly offensive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just a observation but this post might increase the odds of not getting a meet I’m just saying lol"

I’m sure it will be the same, at least for me, zero before and zero after.

On top of that it will be forgotten in hours, lost with all the other old conversations

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish


"Just a observation but this post might increase the odds of not getting a meet I’m just saying lol

I’m sure it will be the same, at least for me, zero before and zero after.

On top of that it will be forgotten in hours, lost with all the other old conversations "

For women who don't use the forums yes. For those of us who use block and private notes though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I didn’t offend anyone but just expressed an opinion, opened a tread.

You can disagree and reply without offending me, either as human being or personally.

It’s obviously difficult to digest but you all know that what I wrote it’s true.

Try to argue politely if you can otherwise you just prove a bit more that I am on the right side.

Have a lovely night.

Not true though xo

What exactly is not true?

I can get laid with or without this site. The ratio of men to women doesn't change that.

It's the fact more men are happy to shag anything that moves and women are more discerning that changes things

Thanks to the disproportionate ratio males/females here every single women has a chance.

I don’t think what you stated (that you can get laid) makes my post offensive to you or even not real.

Yes, males are often happy to fuck also radiators or holes in bricks and the disproportionate ratio makes this 100 times worse than real life.

Still, any female here has got chances to find someone, prove me wrong if you can.

Can they find someone also in real life, maybe…"

The only thing I know for sure is you would have zero chance with me and many of the other ladies on fab. That would also be the case in real life too! Your chances were slim before this thread but they are even worse odds now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I didn’t offend anyone but just expressed an opinion, opened a tread.

You can disagree and reply without offending me, either as human being or personally.

It’s obviously difficult to digest but you all know that what I wrote it’s true.

Try to argue politely if you can otherwise you just prove a bit more that I am on the right side.

Have a lovely night.

Your original post is offensive to lots of women though.

I posted :

Thanks to the disproportionate ratio males/females here every single women has a chance.

Males should be paid for this.

Where exactly I offended lots of women?

Just stating the obvious ?

The implication that we wouldn't have a chance if it weren't for the ratio. Fairly offensive. "

The implication or just the assumption is from your mind, I have never stated so.

More males, more chances for females.

I repeat what I wrote:

Thanks to the disproportionate ratio males/females here every single women has a chance.

The rest is invented

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like someones been watching too many Andrew Tate videos.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish


"Paid in what? By who?

Paid non whatever you want (dollars, sterlings, potatoes, handjobs) by the community of females that thanks to this has a chance

You mean by the women who only have a chance on here purely because of the numbers imbalance?

Correct "

Your own post above says otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I didn’t offend anyone but just expressed an opinion, opened a tread.

You can disagree and reply without offending me, either as human being or personally.

It’s obviously difficult to digest but you all know that what I wrote it’s true.

Try to argue politely if you can otherwise you just prove a bit more that I am on the right side.

Have a lovely night.

Not true though xo

What exactly is not true?

I can get laid with or without this site. The ratio of men to women doesn't change that.

It's the fact more men are happy to shag anything that moves and women are more discerning that changes things

Thanks to the disproportionate ratio males/females here every single women has a chance.

I don’t think what you stated (that you can get laid) makes my post offensive to you or even not real.

Yes, males are often happy to fuck also radiators or holes in bricks and the disproportionate ratio makes this 100 times worse than real life.

Still, any female here has got chances to find someone, prove me wrong if you can.

Can they find someone also in real life, maybe…

The only thing I know for sure is you would have zero chance with me and many of the other ladies on fab. That would also be the case in real life too! Your chances were slim before this thread but they are even worse odds now "

Funny enough this was exactly the point of my post. See we have a lot in common.

Regarding the chances here, zero before, zero after and this post will be read by a very super minor % of users so not sure it will affect anything other than me you and other 10

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Paid in what? By who?

Paid non whatever you want (dollars, sterlings, potatoes, handjobs) by the community of females that thanks to this has a chance

You mean by the women who only have a chance on here purely because of the numbers imbalance?

Correct

Your own post above says otherwise. "

I'm being ignored for making too much sense.. he doesn't like people talking sense or logic

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

Anyway, neither of us is going to change our minds so I wish you happy fabbing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Paid in what? By who?

Paid non whatever you want (dollars, sterlings, potatoes, handjobs) by the community of females that thanks to this has a chance

You mean by the women who only have a chance on here purely because of the numbers imbalance?

Correct

Your own post above says otherwise. "

My post was a joke (regarding the payment)

Don’t you have sense of humour left?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sounds like someones been watching too many Andrew Tate videos."

Who is Andrew Tate?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Paid in what? By who?

Paid non whatever you want (dollars, sterlings, potatoes, handjobs) by the community of females that thanks to this has a chance

You mean by the women who only have a chance on here purely because of the numbers imbalance?

Correct

Your own post above says otherwise.

I'm being ignored for making too much sense.. he doesn't like people talking sense or logic "

Ignored by whom?

Who is “he”?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Anyway, neither of us is going to change our minds so I wish you happy fabbing."

Happy Sunday to you too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not the numbers , it's the type of men this site attracts. They swarm in thinking they will get laid , they don't, then they cry about it. Everyone hates that kind of entitlement. The needy, whiny bullshit. It's embarrassing and cringe.

I've never met any man off fab. I'm not crying about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's not the numbers , it's the type of men this site attracts. They swarm in thinking they will get laid , they don't, then they cry about it. Everyone hates that kind of entitlement. The needy, whiny bullshit. It's embarrassing and cringe.

I've never met any man off fab. I'm not crying about it "

I don’t particularly like the generalisation of your point of view (all the men are the same, I don’t think all the women are the same here or anywhere) however I agree with the fact that this site attracts a certain type of men… and also a certain type of women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Car crash thread

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"I agree with the fact that this site attracts a certain type of men… and also a certain type of women.

"

Studs and sluts?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I agree with the fact that this site attracts a certain type of men… and also a certain type of women.

Studs and sluts? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not the numbers , it's the type of men this site attracts. They swarm in thinking they will get laid , they don't, then they cry about it. Everyone hates that kind of entitlement. The needy, whiny bullshit. It's embarrassing and cringe.

I've never met any man off fab. I'm not crying about it

I don’t particularly like the generalisation of your point of view (all the men are the same, I don’t think all the women are the same here or anywhere) however I agree with the fact that this site attracts a certain type of men… and also a certain type of women.

"

But you said every single woman thinks she has a chance.. so you're making generalisations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks to the disproportionate ratio males/females here every single women has a chance.

Males should be paid for this.

"

My point right here

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By *arpePinguisWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Just to check, can I restrict payments just to those I've rejected who HAVE actually read my profile? Cos I'm way into my overdraft and payday is Tuesday but i can still manage that financial blow.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks to the disproportionate ratio males/females here every single women has a chance.

Males should be paid for this.

My point right here "

I’m not sure you know what generalisation mean.

Stating that every women has a chance is not generalising but a fact based on numbers, probability.

This is a generalisation (thinking that every single man is like your description):

They swarm in thinking they will get laid , they don't, then they cry about it. Everyone hates that kind of entitlement. The needy, whiny bullshit. It's embarrassing and cringe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not just stop with conflict back and forth between people be honest be direct and have fun

And if it doesn't work out move on

Have fun

And if you are not then move on elsewhere

No one forces you to stay

The worlds full of cock and pussy

Just because it's hard to get don't become a dick or pussy yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just to check, can I restrict payments just to those I've rejected who HAVE actually read my profile? Cos I'm way into my overdraft and payday is Tuesday but i can still manage that financial blow. "

Valid point, you should be reimbursed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And this is why the genuinely decent men do stand out on here ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why not just stop with conflict back and forth between people be honest be direct and have fun

And if it doesn't work out move on

Have fun

And if you are not then move on elsewhere

No one forces you to stay

The worlds full of cock and pussy

Just because it's hard to get don't become a dick or pussy yourself "

Same valid for you, plenty of posts to read.

Enjoy others if you don’t like to debate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks to the disproportionate ratio males/females here every single women has a chance.

Males should be paid for this.

My point right here

I’m not sure you know what generalisation mean.

Stating that every women has a chance is not generalising but a fact based on numbers, probability.

This is a generalisation (thinking that every single man is like your description):

They swarm in thinking they will get laid , they don't, then they cry about it. Everyone hates that kind of entitlement. The needy, whiny bullshit. It's embarrassing and cringe.

"

Oh no I do know what generalisation means. And if you've ru the figures and done the maths to prove EVERY woman here thinks she has a chance that's fine... hut until you have data that proves it's, it's a generalisation xo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

O I do I was just debating as to why my above point wasn't an option

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"O I do I was just debating as to why my above point wasn't an option "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks to the disproportionate ratio males/females here every single women has a chance.

Males should be paid for this.

My point right here

I’m not sure you know what generalisation mean.

Stating that every women has a chance is not generalising but a fact based on numbers, probability.

This is a generalisation (thinking that every single man is like your description):

They swarm in thinking they will get laid , they don't, then they cry about it. Everyone hates that kind of entitlement. The needy, whiny bullshit. It's embarrassing and cringe.

Oh no I do know what generalisation means. And if you've ru the figures and done the maths to prove EVERY woman here thinks she has a chance that's fine... hut until you have data that proves it's, it's a generalisation xo"

True, I can’t prove it.

They swarm in thinking they will get laid , they don't, then they cry about it.

Prove this please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks to the disproportionate ratio males/females here every single women has a chance.

Males should be paid for this.

My point right here

I’m not sure you know what generalisation mean.

Stating that every women has a chance is not generalising but a fact based on numbers, probability.

This is a generalisation (thinking that every single man is like your description):

They swarm in thinking they will get laid , they don't, then they cry about it. Everyone hates that kind of entitlement. The needy, whiny bullshit. It's embarrassing and cringe.

Oh no I do know what generalisation means. And if you've ru the figures and done the maths to prove EVERY woman here thinks she has a chance that's fine... hut until you have data that proves it's, it's a generalisation xo

True, I can’t prove it.

They swarm in thinking they will get laid , they don't, then they cry about it.

Prove this please "

I never stated it was a fact, I didn't even make the comment about men swarming. I merely stated you can't say you don't like generalising when you did exactly the same.

But feel free to see how poorly SOME men handle rejection ny reading my inbox

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By *heMaestroMan
over a year ago

Solihull

My view... there are more women than men on here fact. Some women have inflated egos as they can easily be picky and get laid, fact. However some men are like that too. Not all men or women though.

On the other hand there are extremely nice genuine people on here both men and women, you just need to find them and put a little effort in.

I personally wouldn't go with any woman, I like many types of women, but I have to also like their personality as well as their body. There needs to be an attraction.

Just be decent, respectful, pleasant, clean, well mannered and put some effort in. Don't be rude and abusive, coz that's just childish.

It's frustrating sometimes, but just be decent, be the best you can be and you will find someone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks to the disproportionate ratio males/females here every single women has a chance.

Males should be paid for this.

My point right here

I’m not sure you know what generalisation mean.

Stating that every women has a chance is not generalising but a fact based on numbers, probability.

This is a generalisation (thinking that every single man is like your description):

They swarm in thinking they will get laid , they don't, then they cry about it. Everyone hates that kind of entitlement. The needy, whiny bullshit. It's embarrassing and cringe.

Oh no I do know what generalisation means. And if you've ru the figures and done the maths to prove EVERY woman here thinks she has a chance that's fine... hut until you have data that proves it's, it's a generalisation xo

True, I can’t prove it.

They swarm in thinking they will get laid , they don't, then they cry about it.

Prove this please

I never stated it was a fact, I didn't even make the comment about men swarming. I merely stated you can't say you don't like generalising when you did exactly the same.

But feel free to see how poorly SOME men handle rejection ny reading my inbox "

Peace and love

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My view... there are more women than men on here fact. Some women have inflated egos as they can easily be picky and get laid, fact. However some men are like that too. Not all men or women though.

On the other hand there are extremely nice genuine people on here both men and women, you just need to find them and put a little effort in.

I personally wouldn't go with any woman, I like many types of women, but I have to also like their personality as well as their body. There needs to be an attraction.

Just be decent, respectful, pleasant, clean, well mannered and put some effort in. Don't be rude and abusive, coz that's just childish.

It's frustrating sometimes, but just be decent, be the best you can be and you will find someone."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks to the disproportionate ratio males/females here every single women has a chance.

Males should be paid for this.

My point right here

I’m not sure you know what generalisation mean.

Stating that every women has a chance is not generalising but a fact based on numbers, probability.

This is a generalisation (thinking that every single man is like your description):

They swarm in thinking they will get laid , they don't, then they cry about it. Everyone hates that kind of entitlement. The needy, whiny bullshit. It's embarrassing and cringe.

Oh no I do know what generalisation means. And if you've ru the figures and done the maths to prove EVERY woman here thinks she has a chance that's fine... hut until you have data that proves it's, it's a generalisation xo

True, I can’t prove it.

They swarm in thinking they will get laid , they don't, then they cry about it.

Prove this please "

You started a thread complaining that in your opinion some women who perhaps you thought would be an easy shag turned out to have standards.

You then threw your toys out of the pram as she had the sense to say no thanks, now you're venting in a passive aggressive way and it's backfiring on you.

Think that pretty much sums it up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks to the disproportionate ratio males/females here every single women has a chance.

Males should be paid for this.

My point right here

I’m not sure you know what generalisation mean.

Stating that every women has a chance is not generalising but a fact based on numbers, probability.

This is a generalisation (thinking that every single man is like your description):

They swarm in thinking they will get laid , they don't, then they cry about it. Everyone hates that kind of entitlement. The needy, whiny bullshit. It's embarrassing and cringe.

Oh no I do know what generalisation means. And if you've ru the figures and done the maths to prove EVERY woman here thinks she has a chance that's fine... hut until you have data that proves it's, it's a generalisation xo

True, I can’t prove it.

They swarm in thinking they will get laid , they don't, then they cry about it.

Prove this please

You started a thread complaining that in your opinion some women who perhaps you thought would be an easy shag turned out to have standards.

You then threw your toys out of the pram as she had the sense to say no thanks, now you're venting in a passive aggressive way and it's backfiring on you.

Think that pretty much sums it up "

Thanks to the disproportionate ratio males/females here every single women has a chance.

Males should be paid for this.

This is what I wrote, the rest is your imagination

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

ok hes aloud an opinion and no one should tell him to fuck off ...we all have opinions and many of us disagree but telling him to fuck off is worse than the post its self .... its a forum we debate chat moan and what ever but in a civil way

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford


"ok hes aloud an opinion and no one should tell him to fuck off ...we all have opinions and many of us disagree but telling him to fuck off is worse than the post its self .... its a forum we debate chat moan and what ever but in a civil way "

I disagree, civilly. I think it was very mild, restrained criticism.

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By *pank the MonkeyCouple
over a year ago

Down the Rabbit Hole and Round the Corner

Men get the short end of the stick around here. That's just the way it is. It ain't going to change any time soon, so if you can't handle rejection then you best pack up and leave. Harsh but true.

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By *anes HubbyCouple
over a year ago

Babbacombe Torquay

I sense rejection, resulting in bitterness

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

I’m a strong person. I’ve made knee jerk comments before, been pulled up. Thought about it and publicly apologised. I’m strong enough to admit when I’m wrong.

In this case. I stand by my comment, and I know I risk a ban. And I adore this forum. But I’m not apologising.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow, this escalated quickly.

If your having trouble getting women to sleep with you the common denominator is you. It isn't to do with the numbers. It is because most men on here lack personality.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Paid in what? By who?

Paid non whatever you want (dollars, sterlings, potatoes, handjobs) by the community of females that thanks to this has a chance

I mean. If you have a problem with women being able to get laid, you should probably just stop putting out

Women can always get laid anywhere. Because men. If men don't like that they should probably adjust their behaviours rather than expecting payment.

Ive always said this. Men create their own problems on here.

By being so desperate and willing to fuck anything, they create this situation.

If all the men in here decided one day to be as discerning as the women, the balance would correct itself quickley and be more even.

That will never happen though of course"

"Willing to fuck anything"

Like poetry. Women described as things. Couldn't get any better, could it?!

Jeez

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By *londebiguyMan
over a year ago

Southport


"Thanks to the disproportionate ratio males/females here every single women has a chance.

Males should be paid for this.

"

With some on here I would expect to be paid...

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

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Some vile opinions and comments on here. Great for adding to the block list though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks to the disproportionate ratio males/females here every single women has a chance.

Males should be paid for this.

My point right here

I’m not sure you know what generalisation mean.

Stating that every women has a chance is not generalising but a fact based on numbers, probability.

This is a generalisation (thinking that every single man is like your description):

They swarm in thinking they will get laid , they don't, then they cry about it. Everyone hates that kind of entitlement. The needy, whiny bullshit. It's embarrassing and cringe.

Oh no I do know what generalisation means. And if you've ru the figures and done the maths to prove EVERY woman here thinks she has a chance that's fine... hut until you have data that proves it's, it's a generalisation xo

True, I can’t prove it.

They swarm in thinking they will get laid , they don't, then they cry about it.

Prove this please

You started a thread complaining that in your opinion some women who perhaps you thought would be an easy shag turned out to have standards.

You then threw your toys out of the pram as she had the sense to say no thanks, now you're venting in a passive aggressive way and it's backfiring on you.

Think that pretty much sums it up

Thanks to the disproportionate ratio males/females here every single women has a chance.

Males should be paid for this.

This is what I wrote, the rest is your imagination "

You want money for being on a free swingers site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks to the disproportionate ratio males/females here every single women has a chance.

Males should be paid for this.

"

You make your comments O.P, you have a right to voice what you believe.

As for the f*@k off comment, that's a great advert for swingers who are suppose to be open minded and the rest.

I see this so many times and it is always the same abuse on abuse. I hear men wind up couples on here making arrangements for a meet, single guy ghosts the couple or single lady.

now look back at what has been written on this thread, and you see that you should expect this behaviour you should expect to be messed about, by single males.

reap what you sow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What am interesting read, and certainly an eye opener in what people think is offensive….

My opinion for what it’s worth.

No, I don’t think I should be paid to be here, even though I am a majority.

I just socialise in an online platform, why should I charge for that?

Should I charge money for sexy or expect to get paid. NO. Because I just enjoy sex as a connection between people, and it’s not a business transaction. Unless you think of your sex as a JOB, you shouldn’t expect to be paid.

Good luck op. your allowed an opinion, even though I think you actually believe what you said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

#nevergonnahappen #dreamon #womenruleonhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"#nevergonnahappen #dreamon #womenruleonhere"

#somewomen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

#ALLwomen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"#nevergonnahappen #dreamon #womenruleonhere"

!!!

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford


"#nevergonnahappen #dreamon #womenruleonhere

!!! "

Outsider has SUCH an emetophilia kink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"#nevergonnahappen #dreamon #womenruleonhere

!!! "

Aww bless you

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By *evonrobMan
over a year ago

Kingsbridge


"The abuse in my inbox for bang average men right now…. Jeeze this touched a nerve. "

Ha ha ha! That’s a brilliant comment. No one has to be on here! Respect and decency always. The ratio is what it is, makes success all the sweeter.

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