FabSwingers.com forum: Dad bods v ripped bods

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What's your thoughts ladies

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

The person inside is far more relevant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That certain inbetween bod

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

50,s dadbod here and happy was ripped n muscley yrs ago in army , ageing gracefully now

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Athletic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watching this closely to know if I have to eat more or train more so as to feel accepted

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

I've currently gone past the dad bod stage. Getting back on the fitness tomorrow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined the gym in December but I ate a box of timbs Friday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a ripped bod is likely to attract the initial interest. In other words get you to first base.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

What about ripped dads

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

I like people, their bods are not important, for the most part

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I like both. I just don’t seem to be physically attracted to very fat or very slim.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well my pic is actually pretty covid put about a stone on since so I'm a little over weight I do prefer to keep my self in a bit better shape but I'm happ to be fair

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Watching this closely to know if I have to eat more or train more so as to feel accepted "

Your left arm has a tiny bit too much fat on at the top for my liking

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm happy with either really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Basically on Fab atm to fuck the Dad bods until I get back in shape myself. (That is the sex plan, not the fitness one!). Then I'll need them fit, but not obsessively protein shakey, again... I am happy being the least fit person in the bed by a range of margins tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like it or not, its best I've got

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

"The person inside is far more relevant

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like people, their bods are not important, for the most part "

110% . What you wish to see,matters

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By *ustincider888Man
over a year ago

Preston Ish

I'm going for the in between look which basically means I like to exercise but without giving up the pies and pints ....... oh and cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm tall and lean and run long distance so I have a decent body. Not through choice it just is.. I wish I could add a few pounds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The person inside is far more relevant

Totally agree. But for many it's the initial visual that matters.

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

"The person inside is far more relevant

My insides are just guts and blood.. I would say a good heart too but that's debatable lol

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"The person inside is far more relevant

Totally agree. But for many it's the initial visual that matters. "

I don’t think that’s unusual though. I couldn’t have sex with someone I’m not physically attracted to. Is that not normal then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Athletic

It is of course an individual choice and everybody here looks at things differently and chooses to their own needs , it as after all their life ..their choices ..do not choose a particular type because everyone else does , fair play .

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By *al kalMan
over a year ago

london

I’m on the cusp of both. Not sure which way the pendulum will eventually swing though.

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

On here I'd say that most go for tatts and abs or in shape bodies as a visual personality doesn't come into it until you meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The person inside is far more relevant

Totally agree. But for many it's the initial visual that matters.

I don’t think that’s unusual though. I couldn’t have sex with someone I’m not physically attracted to. Is that not normal then?"

Nope you're not wrong , you're fully correct , you have to be physically attracted to them to fuck them, it's only natural.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"The person inside is far more relevant

Totally agree. But for many it's the initial visual that matters. "

But not for all.

Unless someone is genuinely physically repulsive to me I don't care how they look at the beginning. And I think I've only felt that absolute no a couple of times in my lifetime.

When I know someone enough to be attracted to their personality, their body becomes beautiful to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The person inside is far more relevant

Totally agree. But for many it's the initial visual that matters.

I don’t think that’s unusual though. I couldn’t have sex with someone I’m not physically attracted to. Is that not normal then?"

I think it is normal. So in the context of the thread I'd say that there will be a tendency for women to go for the ripped bods rather than the dad bods.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"The person inside is far more relevant

Totally agree. But for many it's the initial visual that matters.

I don’t think that’s unusual though. I couldn’t have sex with someone I’m not physically attracted to. Is that not normal then?

I think it is normal. So in the context of the thread I'd say that there will be a tendency for women to go for the ripped bods rather than the dad bods."

I disagree. Having seen lots of these threads before. I think you’ll find they don’t

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"What's your thoughts ladies"

Depending on the consensus if you are fit will you get fat, or if fat will you get fit?

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By *omeotango121Man
over a year ago

sussex

You’re pics looks good fella that good balance between the two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The person inside is far more relevant

Totally agree. But for many it's the initial visual that matters.

But not for all.

Unless someone is genuinely physically repulsive to me I don't care how they look at the beginning. And I think I've only felt that absolute no a couple of times in my lifetime.

When I know someone enough to be attracted to their personality, their body becomes beautiful to me."

And that I think is the key if you're looking to establish a deeper more lasting arrangement with someone.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Fit bods are lovely to look at but I prefer a guy with a bit of padding over his muscles, I like the squeezy squidgy feel of having my arms full when I cuddle someone so a softer body is my preference. If you look like you belong on the front row of a scrum then you’re for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The person inside is far more relevant

Have to agree with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A fit body is always more attractive and better to play with.

nothin beats attraction and a good vibe

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I don't class myself as either.

Don't like the gym culture so I'm not a member. Couldn't stick out for more than a month.

I call myself athletic on here because I promised myself a few years ago I'd never refer to myself as average ever again but I don't run or train at all.

I've never had any complaints or negative comments hence why I've never been too worried about sticking a label on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ripped mind,shredded thought process,plump heart!!

Cant beat the face to face =

"Chat,flirt,eye-contact,smell of Cologne, body language,voice tone,skin touch lightly,"

Iam at my best inperson tbh.

On here its 1% of me!

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By *ove2lickMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Hairy dad bod here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree we are all attracted to certain types but for me their personality is more important than pure physical shape. Just upsets me when people body shame, if you don't like someone's body then just move on, no need to get nasty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree we are all attracted to certain types but for me their personality is more important than pure physical shape. Just upsets me when people body shame, if you don't like someone's body then just move on, no need to get nasty."

100% this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality is far more important, but I’m not a fan of ripped bodies personally

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not a competition, although some would have you believe it very much

Preferences considered and despite the cliques, swinging is more inclusive than it is exclusive

There's space here for all of us

We just won't appeal to everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The person inside is far more relevant

Get them out you monster!

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Used to be ripped and handsome many years ago.

Can't stand this getting old malarkey

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

"I'm going for the in between look which basically means I like to exercise but without giving up the pies and pints ....... oh and cake "

What kind of cake!

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

Both! It depends on the person and vibe really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't class myself as either.

Don't like the gym culture so I'm not a member. Couldn't stick out for more than a month.

I call myself athletic on here because I promised myself a few years ago I'd never refer to myself as average ever again but I don't run or train at all.

I've never had any complaints or negative comments hence why I've never been too worried about sticking a label on it. "

More fooking labels than one in the world atm.

They sprout out overnight like s!

Created by very people and Jilted mindsets!

But have the masses singing to the chorus its "preferences/Choices " but built and formed by what info!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr inks body is perfect for me … I would say he is more than athletic….

He has a 6 pack ( doesn’t work hard for it the bugger) gorgeous shoulders and strong arms ….

I’ve not experienced many other males as I prefer females …. But I wouldn’t say no to extra timber but very large men aren’t a turn on for me , I’m also not into very slim men

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm more drawn to a dad bod than muscles, but it's the person who makes the body hot.

Mrs

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

Someone who can make me laugh please

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By *amyrrefMan
over a year ago

dundee

Probably more about your age for most of the women on here rather than body shape

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By *ang bang bangity bangCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

I'm big and clearly lift. I also clearly like Pringles. I'm not sure where that leaves me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Watching this closely to know if I have to eat more or train more so as to feel accepted

Your left arm has a tiny bit too much fat on at the top for my liking "

I use the right one to wank that’s why

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By *jb1811Man
over a year ago

Plymouth

Some like Athletic and ripped, some like dad bods, some like both, some don't care.

There is no general consensus. And none are wrong with their preferences either.

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

If everyone was the same, it would be a very boring world. People on line usually base their opinions on visual images which they would not necessarily do in real life. Face to face, there are plenty of other factors that influence someone's judgement. Not judging but from mere observations there seem to be quite a few people with narcissistic tendencies on here and quite a few followers too as often are on any kind of site like this but each to their own of course

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By *ing_of_the_swingers400Man
over a year ago

edinbugh

Back to dad bod just now but working on it……

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

"The person inside is far more relevant

Totally agree. But for many it's the initial visual that matters.

I don’t think that’s unusual though. I couldn’t have sex with someone I’m not physically attracted to. Is that not normal then?

I think it is normal. So in the context of the thread I'd say that there will be a tendency for women to go for the ripped bods rather than the dad bods."

Nah I wouldn’t say that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meh. My pics are accurate, I make no claims so you can make up your own mind.

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

"The person inside is far more relevant

Totally agree. But for many it's the initial visual that matters.

I don’t think that’s unusual though. I couldn’t have sex with someone I’m not physically attracted to. Is that not normal then?

I think it is normal. So in the context of the thread I'd say that there will be a tendency for women to go for the ripped bods rather than the dad bods.

I disagree. Having seen lots of these threads before. I think you’ll find they don’t "

And I will disagree with you from a male perspective. The males who are fawned over the most are gym fit and ripped

Beard

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By *pank the MonkeyCouple
over a year ago

Down the Rabbit Hole and Round the Corner

I'm a dad bod guy, It might not be perfect but it's got the experience level that comes with age

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"The person inside is far more relevant

Totally agree. But for many it's the initial visual that matters.

I don’t think that’s unusual though. I couldn’t have sex with someone I’m not physically attracted to. Is that not normal then?

I think it is normal. So in the context of the thread I'd say that there will be a tendency for women to go for the ripped bods rather than the dad bods.

I disagree. Having seen lots of these threads before. I think you’ll find they don’t

And I will disagree with you from a male perspective. The males who are fawned over the most are gym fit and ripped

Beard"

It’s fine. I don’t expect everyone to agree with me. It’s actually rare they do

. I 100% stick by what I said though.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"The person inside is far more relevant

Totally agree. But for many it's the initial visual that matters.

I don’t think that’s unusual though. I couldn’t have sex with someone I’m not physically attracted to. Is that not normal then?

I think it is normal. So in the context of the thread I'd say that there will be a tendency for women to go for the ripped bods rather than the dad bods.

I disagree. Having seen lots of these threads before. I think you’ll find they don’t

And I will disagree with you from a male perspective. The males who are fawned over the most are gym fit and ripped

Beard"

I've been to a handful of group socials and some of the most popular guys there haven't been near a gym in years.

The comment above also about women judging by age rather than body type is so far off the mark too.

I've seen lots of forum comments about being ignored because of their age and yet I'm almost 60 and never once had a conversation on here about my age.

Age and body type are only issues if you continually highlight them yourself and make them an issue.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"The person inside is far more relevant

Totally agree. But for many it's the initial visual that matters.

I don’t think that’s unusual though. I couldn’t have sex with someone I’m not physically attracted to. Is that not normal then?

I think it is normal. So in the context of the thread I'd say that there will be a tendency for women to go for the ripped bods rather than the dad bods.

I disagree. Having seen lots of these threads before. I think you’ll find they don’t

And I will disagree with you from a male perspective. The males who are fawned over the most are gym fit and ripped

Beard

I've been to a handful of group socials and some of the most popular guys there haven't been near a gym in years.

The comment above also about women judging by age rather than body type is so far off the mark too.

I've seen lots of forum comments about being ignored because of their age and yet I'm almost 60 and never once had a conversation on here about my age.

Age and body type are only issues if you continually highlight them yourself and make them an issue."

Definitely agree with that last paragraph x

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london

"Athletic

Are we a match yet

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

I like to have a sneaky perve at some of the sculpted torsos on here but in reality it would make me feel really self-conscious of my less than perfect bits.

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

"The person inside is far more relevant

Totally agree. But for many it's the initial visual that matters.

I don’t think that’s unusual though. I couldn’t have sex with someone I’m not physically attracted to. Is that not normal then?

I think it is normal. So in the context of the thread I'd say that there will be a tendency for women to go for the ripped bods rather than the dad bods.

I disagree. Having seen lots of these threads before. I think you’ll find they don’t

And I will disagree with you from a male perspective. The males who are fawned over the most are gym fit and ripped

Beard

I've been to a handful of group socials and some of the most popular guys there haven't been near a gym in years.

The comment above also about women judging by age rather than body type is so far off the mark too.

I've seen lots of forum comments about being ignored because of their age and yet I'm almost 60 and never once had a conversation on here about my age.

Age and body type are only issues if you continually highlight them yourself and make them an issue."

I was only really highlighting the fact that some peoples words and actions don’t align.

Obviously Nora is a wonderful exception to this

Beard

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"The person inside is far more relevant

Totally agree. But for many it's the initial visual that matters.

I don’t think that’s unusual though. I couldn’t have sex with someone I’m not physically attracted to. Is that not normal then?

I think it is normal. So in the context of the thread I'd say that there will be a tendency for women to go for the ripped bods rather than the dad bods.

I disagree. Having seen lots of these threads before. I think you’ll find they don’t

And I will disagree with you from a male perspective. The males who are fawned over the most are gym fit and ripped

Beard

I've been to a handful of group socials and some of the most popular guys there haven't been near a gym in years.

The comment above also about women judging by age rather than body type is so far off the mark too.

I've seen lots of forum comments about being ignored because of their age and yet I'm almost 60 and never once had a conversation on here about my age.

Age and body type are only issues if you continually highlight them yourself and make them an issue.

I was only really highlighting the fact that some peoples words and actions don’t align.

Obviously Nora is a wonderful exception to this

Beard"

Couldn't agree more about the discrepancy between words and actions on many topics on here

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"Couldn't agree more about the discrepancy between words and actions on many topics on here "

I find myself constantly thinking “I can’t believe what you say because I see what you do” when it comes to some!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Couldn't agree more about the discrepancy between words and actions on many topics on here

I find myself constantly thinking “I can’t believe what you say because I see what you do” when it comes to some!

The problem is so many are dazzled by the shiny things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel like these threads only really have two observations:

1. Allows those with dad bods to feel good about themselves knowing women women fancy their type (even if it isn't themselves women fancy)

2. It's more likely for women to comment that they prefer dad bods as it's seen to be less shallow that saying they prefer gym fit bods.

I've also noticed that it's very rarely gym fit men that start these threads... Ok, that's 3 observations.

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By *erry bull1Man
over a year ago

doncaster

Dads body here

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By *YDB75Man
over a year ago

East Yorkie

They may say ripped but secretly really want a hairy dad bod

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

"Couldn't agree more about the discrepancy between words and actions on many topics on here

I find myself constantly thinking “I can’t believe what you say because I see what you do” when it comes to some!

The problem is so many are dazzled by the shiny things. "

I prefer to make 'things' shiny myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I love a dad bod

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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)

Dadbods of course. When pegging in doggy the ladies need to hold on to some hips too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I feel like these threads only really have two observations:

1. Allows those with dad bods to feel good about themselves knowing women women fancy their type (even if it isn't themselves women fancy)

2. It's more likely for women to comment that they prefer dad bods as it's seen to be less shallow that saying they prefer gym fit bods.

I've also noticed that it's very rarely gym fit men that start these threads... Ok, that's 3 observations."
i keep saying,things really are way deeper than many will or care to admit so!

Most wording is coated it comes from the fore of the Brain, but the deeper part of the brain has other info's imbedded in there,that play and seep through in our actions!

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

"I feel like these threads only really have two observations:

1. Allows those with dad bods to feel good about themselves knowing women women fancy their type (even if it isn't themselves women fancy)

2. It's more likely for women to comment that they prefer dad bods as it's seen to be less shallow that saying they prefer gym fit bods.,,

I've also noticed that it's very rarely gym fit men that start these threads... Ok, that's 3 observations."
,, i agree,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really don’t mind. It’s how he makes me feel that counts!

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

I’m more partial to a dad bod, but I’m not gonna turn down a ripped one either.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I think it's essential for you to be happy within the body that you have. Your personality is important to partners and you'll be more comfortable if you're self-accepting and content within yourself and with your body.

The great thing about life is that it's not static. We can evolve under our own direction. Our physical selves are malleable.

What we often overlook until too late, is our potential loss of health. Cultivation of positive physical and psychological health is priceless. People like that in others.

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