FabSwingers.com forum: Sleeping with a work colleague

By *ddylix OP Man
over a year ago

SE London

Is it something u would? Have done? or off limits?

I personally wouldn't but I have worked with some1 i slept with *before* i knew they worked in the same place as me

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Mr N and I were colleagues. Nearly 43 years later he's still trying to shake me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m self employed…

So technically I do on a regular basis

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Did it once for a couple years. Would not do it again.

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

I don’t see why not, providing your workplace doesn’t have a policy which stipulates no fratinzing with colleagues.

I’m sure there will be plenty telling you not to though.

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By *ubbles88555Woman
over a year ago

Inverness

I have slept with someone at work and then worked with someone I had previously slept with, as long as everyone is adult about it then it's OK but if your unsure maybe give it a miss lol

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By *ddylix OP Man
over a year ago

SE London

"Mr N and I were colleagues. Nearly 43 years later he's still trying to shake me off"

Aww happy for you's! How did it happen? Did any of your work colleagues find out (at the time)? I feel like they always do

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

I have done in the past.I married one and had a son with another!

Mike

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same room? Nope I’ve always had my own room for out of office work

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

No never! Have been found on here from work people and asked to meet! Declined x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have, my ex-husband was a colleague and I've had other sexual partners whom I met at work.

Wouldn't do again, I like work and home kept separate, the fact that I don't currently work with any attractive men helps!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Mr N and I were colleagues. Nearly 43 years later he's still trying to shake me off

Aww happy for you's! How did it happen? Did any of your work colleagues find out (at the time)? I feel like they always do

We met at work, dated for a bit, moved in together and the rest is history. People knew eventually as we turned up in the same car every day

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By *ddylix OP Man
over a year ago

SE London

"Did it once for a couple years. Would not do it again."

Oh gosh. May i ask why u wouldn't?

I personally feel soo much can go wrong sleeping with a work colleague, especially if it goes sour. I would only do it if i felt the reward outweighed the risk i.e it would lead to something long-term

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By *ddylix OP Man
over a year ago

SE London

"I’m self employed…

So technically I do on a regular basis

LOL we love an independent woman!x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have done, it’s always something to be very careful about

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"Did it once for a couple years. Would not do it again.

Oh gosh. May i ask why u wouldn't?

When it's quiet and good it's great.

When it's good but gossip it's hassle.

When it end it's just all the wrong kind of chaos.

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

Never again!! I have been in a proper relationship with someone from work, and had a number of liaisons, and it made work an unpleasant atmosphere when one party got the arse.

I know for some it works out and that’s fantastic, but I won’t mix the two again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Not worth it

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"Mr N and I were colleagues. Nearly 43 years later he's still trying to shake me off

Aww happy for you's! How did it happen? Did any of your work colleagues find out (at the time)? I feel like they always do

We met at work, dated for a bit, moved in together and the rest is history. People knew eventually as we turned up in the same car every day

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Ah, the Ford Model T. How lovely and quaint it would now look entering the The Savoy Hotel driveway, counter-clockwise.

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

Have done in the last. We were in a relationship for a few years.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I slept with my boss and ended up living with him for 25years.

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull

More times than I care to remember. Luckily it's a big office.

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

ive done this wasnt a great idea,,,

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By *ddylix OP Man
over a year ago

SE London

"No never! Have been found on here from work people and asked to meet! Declined x"

I've found a work colleague on here that wanted a hookup too!

I personally think it's not worth the drama and change in work atmosphere if it's only a hookup but to each their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lost my v plates to a work colleague.

Then a couple of years later I started sleeping with another colleague, and we were together for almost 10 years.

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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire and London

I've snogged a work colleague, fortunately not on the occasion of one of those big awayweek conferences where we could easily have ended up in bed.

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By *rankie78Man
over a year ago

dundee

Started a relationship with someone who i line managed. Was only a 6 month contract and began with a month left on it. Just disappointed we could not sneak some fun in the office

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By *parhawk2Man
over a year ago

Erith

I shagged 5 girls I worked with, got a blowjob in the stationary cupboard off one of them lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Done it a few times. Works car park, pub cellar, in the office.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slept with a former team leader twice. Both at works night outs but we both knew it clear it was purely sex.

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By *ddylix OP Man
over a year ago

SE London

"I slept with my boss and ended up living with him for 25years."

Aww this was worth the risk since it led to something long-term

Sleeping with a senior in work would terrify me though - mostly due to the power dynamic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have. A few lol. I've worked at my company for a long time and it was before I met my hubby. More recently I told a good friend at work about us swinging and I ended up sleeping with him after another colleagues funeral

We have played a couple of times but he knows it's no strings and he's happy with that lol x

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham, North Yorkshire and can travel

I'm often sleeping with the boss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would, if I knew it wouldn't affect our friendship and working relationship at all. I wonder what she thinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't shit where you eat

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By *ophie199Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Have done and was great

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South

I say no. But then if i worked with someone who was a handsome and sexy bastard and he was giving me the eye, I could be tempted.

I’d have to stay away from the rum on a works night out, otherwise he would get it for sure.

So to summarise : no, don’t do it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who’s hiring?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Done it its awesome. Would do it again

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Not something I'd ever consider or do.

I've seen the enormous fallout when others have done it and there has always been collateral damage with third and fourth parties getting dragged into their drama.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really feel it best to keep work and play separate, but each to their own.

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

Yep plenty of times, no drama involved and lots and lots of fun

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By *raveller_87Man
over a year ago

Rossendale

Had fun with a colleague for over a year or so. Was fun. Respected boundaries. I think it helped we worked on different levels of the building.

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By *ddylix OP Man
over a year ago

SE London

"I have. A few lol. I've worked at my company for a long time and it was before I met my hubby. More recently I told a good friend at work about us swinging and I ended up sleeping with him after another colleagues funeral

We have played a couple of times but he knows it's no strings and he's happy with that lol x"

Did your colleagues ever find out? I feel like (dependent on your work environment) there's always gossip on who's got with who at the workplace

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Not something I would do, “don’t screw the crew” is a motto I can definitely adhere to

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By *hocohung8Man
over a year ago

Norrh East & East midlands

Co-worker, something special, never tried it but always thinking about

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By *ang bang bangity bangCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

Hard no from us.

I've worked a few places where everyone was sleeping with each other and it gets real messy. For instance I know someone who had to make a person they were having an affair with redundant.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Does it benefit me in anyway?

Pay rise. Lighter duties. Leaving early. If not then why would I?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does it benefit me in anyway?

Pay rise. Lighter duties. Leaving early. If not then why would I?"

Their local

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By *egoMan
over a year ago

Preston

Can of worms potential is high, but I wouldn’t rule it out.

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By *hocohung8Man
over a year ago

Norrh East & East midlands

"Does it benefit me in anyway?

Pay rise. Lighter duties. Leaving early. If not then why would I?"

That’s need a big boss, not a coworker

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"Does it benefit me in anyway?

Pay rise. Lighter duties. Leaving early. If not then why would I?

Their local "

Not always a benefit!

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"Does it benefit me in anyway?

Pay rise. Lighter duties. Leaving early. If not then why would I?

That’s need a big boss, not a coworker "

Think big or go home imo!

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By *uestionMan
over a year ago

Done it loads of times all sober too was great fun

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By *ddylix OP Man
over a year ago

SE London

"Not something I would do, “don’t screw the crew” is a motto I can definitely adhere to

Hahahaha that's hilarious

I agreee but based on the responses it works out long-term for some so to those lucky people i tots get it

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By *ddylix OP Man
over a year ago

SE London

"Hard no from us.

I've worked a few places where everyone was sleeping with each other and it gets real messy. For instance I know someone who had to make a person they were having an affair with redundant. "

Omg!!!! That must have been awks... did they escalate or leave silently??

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By *assycitygirlWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I had a fuck buddy in work. He thought it was appropriate to show other colleagues, without my permission, some videos we had made when they didn't believe him when he told them we were seeing each other.

Amazingly, I was the one that nearly lost my job over it.

So in short, a nope from me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have played a couple of times but he knows it's no strings and he's happy with that lol x

Did your colleagues ever find out? I feel like (dependent on your work environment) there's always gossip on who's got with who at the workplace "

When I was a young 20 something then yes. The one more recently nope! We are very careful and everyone laughs saying it's like he's my work husband but we are just really good friends and have good office banter x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a fuck buddy in work. He thought it was appropriate to show other colleagues, without my permission, some videos we had made when they didn't believe him when he told them we were seeing each other.

Amazingly, I was the one that nearly lost my job over it.

So in short, a nope from me. "

Do you have the videos?

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By *ddylix OP Man
over a year ago

SE London

Amazingly, I was the one that nearly lost my job over it.

So in short, a nope from me. "

Omg wtf?

so sorry that happened to u, that's awful.

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

It's something I have done in the past and did recently

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

Hasn't happened but I think I would assuming we both don't let it bleed into our work lives and they were mature enough to be ok with that.

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By *younaughty2Man
over a year ago

preston

"Did it once for a couple years. Would not do it again."

Depends really, some can be discrete About it while others don’t know what private means lol

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Completed it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Done it many years ago.. was fantastic

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By *ogerroger69Man
over a year ago

West Yorks

Same it was brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's an Absolutely no from me , could you imagine meeting or seeing that person everyday if it didn't turn out the way either had thought it would ? I think , and it's only my opinion , that such a scenario is best left untouched as a person certainly doesn't know how things end up , as they saying goes there's plenty of fish in the sea that a guy or girl can meet without placing themselves or others in a very awkward situation, there's jealousy..and from others too .. rejection..that might have to be dealt with so for me it's best if scenario's like that are avoided as believe it or not you do spend a lot of your time at work to be avoiding or being avoided and that alone isn't worth it , as the old saying goes the ride isn't worth the fall.

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By *ogerroger69Man
over a year ago

West Yorks

You’re over thinking it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You’re over thinking it x"

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By *ddylix OP Man
over a year ago

SE London

"It's an Absolutely no from me , could you imagine meeting or seeing that person everyday if it didn't turn out the way either had thought it would ? I think , and it's only my opinion , that such a scenario is best left untouched as a person certainly doesn't know how things end up , as they saying goes there's plenty of fish in the sea that a guy or girl can meet without placing themselves or others in a very awkward situation, there's jealousy..and from others too .. rejection..that might have to be dealt with so for me it's best if scenario's like that are avoided as believe it or not you do spend a lot of your time at work to be avoiding or being avoided and that alone isn't worth it , as the old saying goes the ride isn't worth the fall."

Tbh there's def some truth in thiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ndiiiMan
over a year ago

Paisley Scotland

First job i did.

Lasted a few weeks,then i got moved.

A few years later back in the same office, frosty to start then ice melted, had lots of fun.

Again moved to other office and since then nothing

Wouldnt do it again though.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Wouldn't recommend it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I passed on a number of opportunities because I was a good boy. Now I can't help but wonder......?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I work with 4 blokes. What do you think?

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Colleagues, no.

Customers, however…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Done in the past probably wouldn't risk it now but there's a couple I'd love to

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By *idcot58Man
over a year ago

Didcot

I did I was 20 she was 45

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it something u would? Have done? or off limits?

I personally wouldn't but I have worked with some1 i slept with *before* i knew they worked in the same place as me

I've done it and regretted it. Not necessarily because we work together, mostly because it was terrible sex haha

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Yes. Have done.

Depends on the person though. Because of how awkward things could end up, I'd be extremely selective and I'd avoid a one time random fling as much as possible.

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By *andyL28TV/TS
over a year ago

Aberdeen area

Yep few times in previous work places at work, out of work, ect.

Always better at work heheh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m self employed…

So technically I do on a regular basis

You hiring?.... asking for a friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did it.

Regretted it.

Long time ago.

Would not recommend!

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By *idcot58Man
over a year ago

Didcot

I was 20 she was 45

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

Have done twice. It didn’t work out bad in the end as I moved on from those roles so it fizzled out but if I intended to stay there’s no chance

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By *ickey73Man
over a year ago

cardiff

Have done it. Lasted two years, fell for each other big time. Distance killed us off in the end. We are still the best of friends and nobody found out about us

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By *eadchefski1970Man
over a year ago

Milton keynes

I slept with a colleague after a work night out, we were all staying in a hotel.

We did it one more time after that but then we just stopped.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Never did. When I worked in an office all the women would know the details from her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a younger man i crossed that line way to often. Neatly got me in trouble.

Wouldn't dream of it now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn’t even contemplate it

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over a year ago

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By *nonymous95-2Woman
over a year ago

Northwich

I ended up sleeping with 2 of the managers at an old work place and learnt that it was probably not the best thing to do. I was young and didn't think.

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By *ike both76Man
over a year ago

Kettering

i was young at the time and slept with the bosses wife great idea at the time regretted it next day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had another single colleague after works night out. No issues. Then had a short sexual affair with my team leader. That wasn’t wise

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

If anyone has any work colleagues they need to shift, send them my way

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Off limits. The drama I have seen caused by this is horrible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would like to with a couple, but I probably wouldn’t as it might make things awkward and I like my job lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've slept with 4

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By *9 kisses.Man
over a year ago

clacton on sea

Most of the jobs I've had I've been intimate with a work colleague,

Not regretted one,

I've had missed opportunities that I have regretted though

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By *ddylix OP Man
over a year ago

SE London

"Off limits. The drama I have seen caused by this is horrible."

Same!! Also it can just make the work environment so awkward if enough of your colleagues find out. Not to mention the risks to your worklife if u sleep with a senior ):

On the flip side it can be worth the risk if it leads to something long-term

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I've only done it when I've sex started before the work familiarity. And I then tailed it off.

I'd not do it now. Though I do get shagged by a few horny fellow students

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By *hGlobbitsMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Three times. One was a fun one-off, one was a couple of months of excellent (if boozy) shagging that eventually imploded due to mismatched expectatons and poor communication, and one turned into a fairly tumultuous long-term relationship. Would I do it again? Probably, given the opportunity

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