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By *usman 199 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stockport

Easy really first child being born . Happy Saturdays to you all .

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Yes. The birth of my son

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I think the first thing I'm conscious of changing my life is the birth of my brother when I was two.

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By *YDB75Man
over a year ago

easy yorkshire

When my both of my parents passed away.

I lost my hero and lost my safety net.

Sorry to drag the thread down.x

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By *usman 199 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stockport


"When my both of my parents passed away.

I lost my hero and lost my safety net.

Sorry to drag the thread down.x "
not at all . You are stating your feelings . Xx

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Definitely having my son

And then losing someone very close to me

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire


"When my both of my parents passed away.

I lost my hero and lost my safety net.

Sorry to drag the thread down.x "
,, your not dragging the thread down, my dad was my hero,, and still his

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By *YDB75Man
over a year ago

easy yorkshire


"When my both of my parents passed away.

I lost my hero and lost my safety net.

Sorry to drag the thread down.x not at all . You are stating your feelings . Xx "

Thanks

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

The day I stood up to my abuser and said "No".

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By *YDB75Man
over a year ago

easy yorkshire


"When my both of my parents passed away.

I lost my hero and lost my safety net.

Sorry to drag the thread down.x ,, your not dragging the thread down, my dad was my hero,, and still his"

My dad will always be my hero and he’s with me everyday. I believe he’s always on my shoulder

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By *YDB75Man
over a year ago

easy yorkshire


"The day I stood up to my abuser and said "No"."

The day you started living your life again. Well done and keep stepping stronger xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When my partner passed away …..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The day I stood up to my abuser and said "No"."

That's what you call strength x

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By *YDB75Man
over a year ago

easy yorkshire


"When my partner passed away ….. "

Sending man hugs xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My daughter completely changed my life for the better. My brother passing has changed everything too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When my both of my parents passed away.

I lost my hero and lost my safety net.

Sorry to drag the thread down.x "

Don't be sorry. It's good to talk and share. Sadly life isn't always rainbows and butterflies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. The birth of my son"

This.

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By *ohnjoehotTV/TS
over a year ago

reddirch

Wow now that’s brave

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire


"When my both of my parents passed away.

I lost my hero and lost my safety net.

Sorry to drag the thread down.x

Don't be sorry. It's good to talk and share. Sadly life isn't always rainbows and butterflies."
;; this,,

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By *eahxocallumCouple
over a year ago

studley

Losing my father and realizing that I need to be there for my mum.

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By *YDB75Man
over a year ago

easy yorkshire


"When my both of my parents passed away.

I lost my hero and lost my safety net.

Sorry to drag the thread down.x

Don't be sorry. It's good to talk and share. Sadly life isn't always rainbows and butterflies."

Ive been without my parents for 15 and 10 yrs respectively. Miss them every day but have learn to live with it but never get over it.

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By *OXO2018Couple
over a year ago

Norfolk

My mum dying at 44 and 17 years later my brother in law dying at the same age.

Made me realise how unhappy I was so I changed for the better.

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By *astandtheCurious2Couple
over a year ago

letchworth

My best friends mum took me to the doctors and said I needed help. It was a long road but she got me the help I needed for clinical depression. Forever thankful to her

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By *YDB75Man
over a year ago

easy yorkshire


"Losing my father and realizing that I need to be there for my mum."

You can be there for your mum but you need to let her live and breath if that makes sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When my both of my parents passed away.

I lost my hero and lost my safety net.

Sorry to drag the thread down.x

Don't be sorry. It's good to talk and share. Sadly life isn't always rainbows and butterflies.

Ive been without my parents for 15 and 10 yrs respectively. Miss them every day but have learn to live with it but never get over it. "

Yes I completely understand. I miss my parents too. I've been through so much loss and it changes you. All we can do is cherish the memories and remember them for as long as we live. Sending a virtual hug.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first sexual experience

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

The birth and death of our first child together we still think about her every single moment of every day and we are very thankful for the time we did get to spend with them and possibly also the birth of our twins and the joy of them arriving safely

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

The birth of my grandson very prematurely then his death just over three weeks later

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By *YDB75Man
over a year ago

easy yorkshire


"When my both of my parents passed away.

I lost my hero and lost my safety net.

Sorry to drag the thread down.x

Don't be sorry. It's good to talk and share. Sadly life isn't always rainbows and butterflies.

Ive been without my parents for 15 and 10 yrs respectively. Miss them every day but have learn to live with it but never get over it.

Yes I completely understand. I miss my parents too. I've been through so much loss and it changes you. All we can do is cherish the memories and remember them for as long as we live. Sending a virtual hug. "

Virtual hug greatfully accepted and returned with gratitude x

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By *YDB75Man
over a year ago

easy yorkshire


"The birth of my grandson very prematurely then his death just over three weeks later "

No words xx Sending hugs.

Seeing a small casket being taken to its rest is a sight that can never be forgotten. Sorry for your loss xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When my partner passed away …..

Sending man hugs xx "

Bless brother

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

i was a young promising footballer, club scouts visiting my mum and dad,, man utd coventry and local to me crewe alex, then through accident was blinded in my left eye, i was heart broken it was all i ever wanted to do,, long time ago life goes on,

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By *YDB75Man
over a year ago

easy yorkshire


"The birth and death of our first child together we still think about her every single moment of every day and we are very thankful for the time we did get to spend with them and possibly also the birth of our twins and the joy of them arriving safely "

Sorry for your loss and rejoicing of the safe arrivals of your precious twins x

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By *YDB75Man
over a year ago

easy yorkshire


"When my partner passed away …..

Sending man hugs xx

Bless brother "

Stay strong brother xx Inbox always open for ya and any other brother or sister who needs a shoulder xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was aged 10 & our youngest sibling died, born prematurely halfway through the pregnancy.

Life as I knew it ended forever.

Saw my father cry for the first time.

My mother was just gone, just like that, lost to the grief.

And a hundred other nightmares that grew from it.

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart


"The birth and death of our first child together we still think about her every single moment of every day and we are very thankful for the time we did get to spend with them and possibly also the birth of our twins and the joy of them arriving safely

Sorry for your loss and rejoicing of the safe arrivals of your precious twins x "

Thanks you having to carry that small white coffin is something that noone should ever have to suffer the pain of doing I would quite gladly swap places so they were still here

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

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Watching my husband die. It changed me irrevocably

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By *YDB75Man
over a year ago

easy yorkshire


"The birth and death of our first child together we still think about her every single moment of every day and we are very thankful for the time we did get to spend with them and possibly also the birth of our twins and the joy of them arriving safely

Sorry for your loss and rejoicing of the safe arrivals of your precious twins x

Thanks you having to carry that small white coffin is something that noone should ever have to suffer the pain of doing I would quite gladly swap places so they were still here "

Ive experienced it once as me niece lost her child during childbirth. Its something etched on my brain. Hugs xx

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

when i hear of loved ones passing away and young children sons and daughters its heart breaking,, but we are talking thats the main thing,,

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By *YDB75Man
over a year ago

easy yorkshire


"Watching my husband die. It changed me irrevocably "

Bless you xx

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By *onda Coxor2Woman
over a year ago

nosey cunt.

Loosing someone who I loved deeply, more than anyone else in my lifetime. 2 years on & he's still a missing person

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By *YDB75Man
over a year ago

easy yorkshire


"When I was aged 10 & our youngest sibling died, born prematurely halfway through the pregnancy.

Life as I knew it ended forever.

Saw my father cry for the first time.

My mother was just gone, just like that, lost to the grief.

And a hundred other nightmares that grew from it."

I cant imagine the grief and everlasting effect that must have had. Does it still impact your life ?

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Going to the launderette at university to find it was broken. Went to one further away and stayed there to save walking back. Made a friend. Through him made other friends. Through them I met my husband. There's no way I would have met him otherwise.

Being too lazy to walk back from that other launderette certainly changed my life

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By *YDB75Man
over a year ago

easy yorkshire


"Loosing someone who I loved deeply, more than anyone else in my lifetime. 2 years on & he's still a missing person "

No words xx But hugs and prayers virtually sent xx

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By *ilfCrumpet9Man
over a year ago

Wirral

My first born my son and my daughters being born

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By *uby StarCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Meeting my husband. THE best thing to of happened to me, I'm exceptionally lucky.

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By *xhib12Man
over a year ago

Blyth

Walking away from a job that I probably would have had for life for the chance of earning silly money.

Initially it was only short term with no guarantees so was a big gamble. However, the initial period got extended and then the project grew arms and legs so I ended up being there for years and made a lot of money.

Set me and my wife up with a decent retirement and also gave my kids a big help on to the property ladder.

That spur of the moment decision didn't just change my life but changed my kid's, and my grandkid's too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I was aged 10 & our youngest sibling died, born prematurely halfway through the pregnancy.

Life as I knew it ended forever.

Saw my father cry for the first time.

My mother was just gone, just like that, lost to the grief.

And a hundred other nightmares that grew from it.

I cant imagine the grief and everlasting effect that must have had. Does it still impact your life ? "

Yep.

Some awful ways and some good.

I sought help and found ways to process and resolve it all after I myself became a parent and had a new perspective.

But the damage was done.

Parentification and other things that happened over a period of 20 years changed me.

I had to learn to believe the words of those who I decided to trust and take counsel from. To learn to understand what was reasonable and acceptable and reassign responsibility and ownership of things that I had wrongly shouldered.

I had to start to learn to grieve.

For that sibling and others who died in the years after.

For the version of myself who died that day.

For the person I might have become and the future that I might have lived.

And I had to make peace with never having others accept their part in it all.

It's done, resolved as far as it will ever be. That which was lost will stay lost. Have to look forward to better things and better times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First flight

First kill

First love

First born

First loss

I'm used to change..

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By *rettyflamingoCouple
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

The birth of my daughter was a turning point in my life for sure. She arrived 12 weeks wristlet weighing only 2lb 4oz. She is now 31 years old and the strongest person I know and my best friend.

The second was putting down on paper letters to my both my step father who sexually abused me as a child and my own father who I had an estranged relationship with. I wrote to them both posthumously and it was the most cathartic thing I have ever done x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Joining the US Army and Visiting other countries. Made me appreciate things.

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By *rtyIanMan
over a year ago

Gateway to the Beacons


"The birth of my daughter was a turning point in my life for sure. She arrived 12 weeks wristlet weighing only 2lb 4oz. She is now 31 years old and the strongest person I know and my best friend.

The second was putting down on paper letters to my both my step father who sexually abused me as a child and my own father who I had an estranged relationship with. I wrote to them both posthumously and it was the most cathartic thing I have ever done x"

I've replied privately xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The day my Mum walked out on us. Literally walked out. Went to School and she was there, came home and a note left on the table saying she had gone and not coming back. Certainly I had to mature, and quickly....

My Son being born, wow, overwhelmed with this little person completely dependent on me!

My Parents dying. Losing them knocked the stuffing out of me

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

My Mother passing away, and moving back home to look after my Father.

XX

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By *YDB75Man
over a year ago

easy yorkshire


"When I was aged 10 & our youngest sibling died, born prematurely halfway through the pregnancy.

Life as I knew it ended forever.

Saw my father cry for the first time.

My mother was just gone, just like that, lost to the grief.

And a hundred other nightmares that grew from it.

I cant imagine the grief and everlasting effect that must have had. Does it still impact your life ?

Yep.

Some awful ways and some good.

I sought help and found ways to process and resolve it all after I myself became a parent and had a new perspective.

But the damage was done.

Parentification and other things that happened over a period of 20 years changed me.

I had to learn to believe the words of those who I decided to trust and take counsel from. To learn to understand what was reasonable and acceptable and reassign responsibility and ownership of things that I had wrongly shouldered.

I had to start to learn to grieve.

For that sibling and others who died in the years after.

For the version of myself who died that day.

For the person I might have become and the future that I might have lived.

And I had to make peace with never having others accept their part in it all.

It's done, resolved as far as it will ever be. That which was lost will stay lost. Have to look forward to better things and better times. "

Bless you and wish you nothing but the best for the future and prey your demons stay sleeping within the past only to emerge and realise they have part in your future xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would have hoped it was 4 yrs ago as still here to talk about it but only time will tell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Bless you and wish you nothing but the best for the future and prey your demons stay sleeping within the past only to emerge and realise they have part in your future xx "

Thank you xx

We all carry scars, no?

Some you see, some you don't.

Standing on the other side of it all I can say there has been a positive takeaway from it. I'm definitely stronger for it all. Because I have hit my absolute rock bottom. I have stared in to my own personal, hopeless, black hole and I let it swallow me for a time.

But I climbed out and there is one thing that I will never ever do and that is let it swallow me ever again.

That is a hard no.

Nothing is worth that level of despair.

Nothing will best me.

Lessons learned, limits hard-coded.

I'll bend but never break.

There is always a better day to wait for. Today's stress & strife is tomorrow's life lesson and a level up.

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By *XXDREAMMan
over a year ago

sudbury

I put a fab in the fridge once, a sad end you can all imagine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Day I stood up to my dad after his abuse of my mum, brother and me.

Never forget the look on his face.

He left not long after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Came through being on life support machine! Very few surely will ever understand, the pain and anguish!

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By *uby StarCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Oh crikey, Fab bringing tears to my eyes. There are some heart wrenching posts on this thread. Many of you are very brave and battling through with heartache. I hope you can all go on with some happiness in your hearts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got into the wrong crowd at college - drinking, various drugs, and ended up getting arrested for possession when I was 18.

Scared the shit out of me. I haven't touched a single illegal drug since that night

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

When I got shot in the eye with an air pistol, realising I would be partially sighted at 14.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When my both of my parents passed away.

I lost my hero and lost my safety net.

Sorry to drag the thread down.x "

Can very deeply relate on many many levels!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The day I stood up to my abuser and said "No"."

Powerful,relate in ways but not for abuse! Stay stronger day by day

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By *inkycatWoman
over a year ago

High Wycombe

My partner getting on a plane and messaging saying he’d FaceTime me later. He got off the plane and had a brain aneurysm; we never did get that FaceTime…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The moment I realised it's all a *game*. Made things a whole lot simpler

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By *asygoingcouple2022Couple
over a year ago

The moon

The day I first kissed my now husband x

Must have been good as I moved in the next day x

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By *YDB75Man
over a year ago

easy yorkshire


"When my both of my parents passed away.

I lost my hero and lost my safety net.

Sorry to drag the thread down.x

Can very deeply relate on many many levels!

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Hugs brother

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By *empusMan
over a year ago

Poole

Quit my office based career, got dreads to celebrate that and started a new career in outdoor ed. Best thing I’ve ever done but worst timing imaginable...

Quit my secure, well paid job in Jan 2020!!

That was fun

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By *YDB75Man
over a year ago

easy yorkshire


"

Bless you and wish you nothing but the best for the future and prey your demons stay sleeping within the past only to emerge and realise they have part in your future xx

Thank you xx

We all carry scars, no?

Some you see, some you don't.

Standing on the other side of it all I can say there has been a positive takeaway from it. I'm definitely stronger for it all. Because I have hit my absolute rock bottom. I have stared in to my own personal, hopeless, black hole and I let it swallow me for a time.

But I climbed out and there is one thing that I will never ever do and that is let it swallow me ever again.

That is a hard no.

Nothing is worth that level of despair.

Nothing will best me.

Lessons learned, limits hard-coded.

I'll bend but never break.

There is always a better day to wait for. Today's stress & strife is tomorrow's life lesson and a level up."

A fighter all the way xx Respect to ya

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

I've never had kids and my parents are still very much alive.

The biggest thing to happen to me to change my life is being unexpectedly made redundant. I was so upset and didn't know what to do, so I started my own business.

Almost 30 years later I'm still at it and have had some amazing experiences, met lots of people and also had bad down times. None of which wouldn't have happened otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose it would be the moment I met my wife. We were both 15 she was my first proper girlfriend as I was a very self conscious shy guy. We are still together after 40 plus years. She gave me self confidence and two great daughters so can def say she changed my life.

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis


"When my partner passed away ….. "

Sending you a big hug x

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By *ldFashionedGentMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"I think the first thing I'm conscious of changing my life is the birth of my brother when I was two. "

Mines a pain too. But in a very good way. And the nieces and nephews have been a joy so it turns out he wasn’t bad after all

And the beauty is, at the end of the day, I get to give the kids back

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

Negative; in my early 20s being disowned from my entire family & 'friends' group for going against the religion I'd had pushed on me since childhood

Positive; having the most amazing son, who is almost the age I was when the above happened & I feel very proud for giving him a much happier life than I had

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By *ldFashionedGentMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"I think the first thing I'm conscious of changing my life is the birth of my brother when I was two.

Mines a pain too. But in a very good way. And the nieces and nephews have been a joy so it turns out he wasn’t bad after all

And the beauty is, at the end of the day, I get to give the kids back "

This is what happens when you comment on a forum without reading through fully, tell a silly joke, and then read through some of the posts which just take your breath away.

A great many of you are incredibly strong for having been able to deal with some of those events. And thanks for sharing

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

The decision to go to a house party back in Feb 2004 - Mr KC and I got together and haven't been apart since.

The birth of my son, because I was 16.

The birth of our daughter - bittersweet because I couldn't walk.

The realisation that the walking issue is probably permanent and that I should get used to disability. I'm still processing that over 6yrs later.

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

My children being born obviously. But also the day I walked out of a career that was damaging my health mentally and physically, I’ve walked so much lighter since

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Meeting my wife. Definitely calmed my self-destructive nature.

The mr

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By *ainbows_can_be_metal_tooCouple
over a year ago

Darlington

When my (mr) grandad died and we suffered a misscarridge on the same weekend, bottled up feelings didn't work anymore and it broke me. Led to depression then down the lines anxiety and panic attacks to the point that I couldn't work anymore, quit my job and got help for my mental health.

For the better the day my life changed was when I met Mrs. Not only did I hit the jackpot by hooking up with the exact looking woman I would fantises over but she's also a genuinely amazing and kind human being.

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

When a turkish gentleman messaged me on my first night of joining fab.

I was stunned he was just as good looking on camera as in his photos, he got me an uber to his, we had a chat first before play his big dick shocked me too and we met up again few weeks after where again he got me a cab and money to get the train

I miss him and can't remember his name his number has to be in my old old phone need a charger for it or that he finds me on fab. I was away for a year unexpectedly so my fingers are crossed

I have a new number so here is where we should reconnect again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s hard to think of just one. I’ve had a difficult couple of years, to the point where last year a friend in work kept saying “I don’t know how you’re still here”

I’m on the other side of it now, but a different person

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By *ennylewis2016Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Being knocked over, breaking my leg in 2 then finding I’d cracked my skull almost 2 weeks later.

Then of course, meeting Jenny.

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By *evonrobMan
over a year ago

Kingsbridge

Thinking back my dad dying when I was 16 had a profound effect on me. My mum didn’t react well and as the oldest of 3 boys I picked up the reins. In hindsight I should have had counselling. My schoolwork really suffered at a crucial time. Have to say I came through it all and have had a fantastic life, still am! Wish my dad had been around a bit longer to see it though….

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By *iceButtSlimMan
over a year ago

Ipswich

Meeting the future Mrs at a music festival so many years ago, which was the trigger for so many other life changing events like the birth of our son.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Moving to Sussex with parents and brothers. It was rare to move outside the county from birth place at that time. Never looked back.

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over a year ago


"It’s hard to think of just one. I’ve had a difficult couple of years, to the point where last year a friend in work kept saying “I don’t know how you’re still here”

I’m on the other side of it now, but a different person"

We most take the piss out of this life and out of others!!

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over a year ago


"When a turkish gentleman messaged me on my first night of joining fab.

I was stunned he was just as good looking on camera as in his photos, he got me an uber to his, we had a chat first before play his big dick shocked me too and we met up again few weeks after where again he got me a cab and money to get the train

I miss him and can't remember his name his number has to be in my old old phone need a charger for it or that he finds me on fab. I was away for a year unexpectedly so my fingers are crossed

I have a new number so here is where we should reconnect again "

Dm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all are a book.

Some see the cover.

Some read the intro.

Many will believe the critics.

None will read the whole story!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love what you have,before life teaches you to love what you lost.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love what you have,before life teaches you to love what you lost. "

Very spiritual this morning

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Getting married.....then 16 years later when went loco

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I remember scouring a job board as a student thinking I need to make some money but everything was hourly paid and rubbish when I needed to make 2-3 grand fast I had a kid on the way, 2 mortgages and no income.

Then I spotted this advert for a local car company wanting an application building to manage car sales. I didn’t have a clue how to do it but went to see them and offered to do it and a year later was running my own software company whilst at uni

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By *andy 1Couple
over a year ago

northeast

getting married 52 years ago

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By *inkycoupleABCCouple
over a year ago

yateley

Prob when I was 19 me an older lady got to hers met her husband thought I was going to fuck her infront of him. But I had it all wrong. Next thing I knew I was on my knees with his cock sliding in my mouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I remember scouring a job board as a student thinking I need to make some money but everything was hourly paid and rubbish when I needed to make 2-3 grand fast I had a kid on the way, 2 mortgages and no income.

Then I spotted this advert for a local car company wanting an application building to manage car sales. I didn’t have a clue how to do it but went to see them and offered to do it and a year later was running my own software company whilst at uni "

Real Gains fella!! Only some step up, 1/10 on here if lucky lol

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By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester

When she put a padlock on my cock

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By *bonybucksMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

My late mums terminal cancer diagnosis. Was never the same again and that was 2015!

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts

When I arrived at work last year and the boss told me I didn’t look well. I’m fine I slurred back. He phoned an ambulance immediately. Turns out I was having a stroke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when i dodged a ied explosion whilst on ops

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling

Actually three major points that changed my life drastically:

- my first son born

- moved to another country, no friends, no relatives, started life from scratch.

- got divorced. Rediscovering my sexuality, learning what freedom means, learning myself new…. Still ongoing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Other than my first being born, meeting my husband

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By *onda Coxor2Woman
over a year ago

nosey cunt.


"Loosing someone who I loved deeply, more than anyone else in my lifetime. 2 years on & he's still a missing person

No words xx But hugs and prayers virtually sent xx"

Thank you x

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