FabSwingers.com forum: Before the good stuff...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

People in demand - aka guys that look like Greek gods, most women let's face it, and sexy T girls...

Do you prefer to have normal chat with someone before talking dirty with them, or do you not mind going straight to the heat if you find them hot?

Reveal yourselves!

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

Prefer normal chat. Straight into dirty chat usually results in been added to my block list.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

It's very rare anyone approaching me with straight up filth is received well. If it is its because I've already seen them around and decided that I would.

I like to waffle and know about the person before I can decide if they interest me that way at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normal chat as I rarely rarely sexting and even when I do with ppl I have met, it is not really my thing

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I don’t talk filthy with people I haven’t met. There’s numbers they can dial for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t talk filthy with people I haven’t met. There’s numbers they can dial for that. "

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

"I don’t talk filthy with people I haven’t met. There’s numbers they can dial for that. "

0898 something something something

Wasn't that one of those annoying adverts?

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By *eniseStockingsTV/TS
over a year ago

Salisbury

Why don't you try and find out

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I don't do sex talk with anyone I haven't met, I find it a cringe and a total turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normal chat for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't do sex talk with anyone I haven't met, I find it a cringe and a total turn off."

Nice clothes you have! Terrible day isn't it?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I don't do sex talk with anyone I haven't met, I find it a cringe and a total turn off.

Nice clothes you have! Terrible day isn't it?

Rip them off me and fuck me like you mean it

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I like to talk about radiators and underfloor heating firstly. From here we may progress to general plumbing conversation

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I don't talk dirty. I find actions speak louder than words

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't do sex talk with anyone I haven't met, I find it a cringe and a total turn off.

Nice clothes you have! Terrible day isn't it?

Rip them off me and fuck me like you mean it "

Ok am I alone in wanting to get to know Nora now?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I don't do sex chat

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

I prefer normal chat, but almost to a fault. Although I may want to rip their clothes off, I want to make sure they feel the same which is why that initial chat is important for me.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"I don't do sex talk with anyone I haven't met, I find it a cringe and a total turn off.

Nice clothes you have! Terrible day isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t talk filthy with people I haven’t met. There’s numbers they can dial for that. "
m

If your into it Nora! Call me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like talking about sex and kinks, eg. likes and dislikes But actual dirty talk I hate in any circumstances. I also hate small talk with a passion.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I don't do all the dirty talk, it's so cringe, I mean the whole what you wearing while I'm sat in my fluffy PJ's, I find people that start with the dirty talk have their wank and rarely meet, those type conversations are very short lived.

Mrs

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I don’t talk filthy with people I haven’t met. There’s numbers they can dial for that. m

If your into it Nora! Call me.

I’m not paying you though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do and don’t list would be ideal. Imagine talking to someone for a week to find out not only does she neglect the balls she doesn’t suck cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normal chat that may turn flirty and ocassionally dirty but not with just anyone x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to talk about the weather before letting them know what I'll do to their bumhole.. basic manners really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to talk about the weather before letting them know what I'll do to their bumhole.. basic manners really."

If you look at my bum hole you’ll see the weather be like crap this week !

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

normal chat of course then who knows,,

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

Normal chat - I'm crap at sexy talk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Normal chat - I'm crap at sexy talk

Lucky you have a nice ass

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

Dont do insta sex chat. Its pretty cringe

Especially when you get the clearly copy and pasted porno

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Normal chat - I'm crap at sexy talk

Lucky you have a nice ass "

I concur

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Very much normal chat.

Going straight into filth and what’s they are going to do to C (in our experience it’s only guys who send such messages) shows someone who thinks sex is just physical and not mental, so is very much a filter.

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By *empest2KMan
over a year ago

Derby

I prefer to chat first and find out what someone's favourite cheese is, especially as it could be a potential deal-breaker to any sexy fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to talk about the weather before letting them know what I'll do to their bumhole.. basic manners really.

If you look at my bum hole you’ll see the weather be like crap this week ! "

I'd pay to see that forecast.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to talk about the weather before letting them know what I'll do to their bumhole.. basic manners really.

If you look at my bum hole you’ll see the weather be like crap this week !

I'd pay to see that forecast."

How much as I need to buy new shoes ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to talk about the weather before letting them know what I'll do to their bumhole.. basic manners really."

You always make things about sex

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

No sex talk with anyone I've never met and only rarely with those I have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t talk filthy with people I haven’t met. There’s numbers they can dial for that. m

If your into it Nora! Call me.

I’m not paying you though

You can owe me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to talk about the weather before letting them know what I'll do to their bumhole.. basic manners really.

You always make things about sex

Oh my bad, so talking dirty means how many skids are in your laundry basket? Cool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to talk about the weather before letting them know what I'll do to their bumhole.. basic manners really.

If you look at my bum hole you’ll see the weather be like crap this week !

I'd pay to see that forecast.

How much as I need to buy new shoes ? "

Just enough for the left shoe, cost of living and all that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to talk about the weather before letting them know what I'll do to their bumhole.. basic manners really.

You always make things about sex

Oh my bad, so talking dirty means how many skids are in your laundry basket? Cool

I’m shower fresh come have a nosy. If washing my arse make me high maintenance so be it

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By *heGigglersCouple
over a year ago

Stourbridge

Normal chat every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talking dirty is a major turn off for me

If you can't get someone into bed without the need for dirty talk, you're not doing it right

Or, of course, you're chasing someone who is looking for different triggers

There is always that option

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normal chat with some flirting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I like a little filthy chat depending on who I’m chatting with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Says on my status right here and now.

Decent chat,natter,convo to keep many kn their toes!

No sex talk!

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

I prefer chat, long and engaging with cerebral-stimulating competencies before taking things to the next stage.

I have no desire to make love to a good-lôôking dullard.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Yes normal chat first. Get to know someone and find out if they are "into" me.

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

I find mind stimulating and intense, engaging conversation extremely hot.

Sexting is overrated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talk to me as if you’d like to date me. Straight off filthy talk will get my wrath & a blocking.

I might not be in the market for a relationship, but I’m still a human being.

I like to flirt etc, but I like a build up.

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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago

Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’

Definitely! Chat first. I like to know whether the lights are on or not.

Everything will follow if its meant to. Its kismet in my book. If it happens it happens. A life experience kinda thang.

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By *hortarseWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk

I go straight in with the dirty talk. I need to know they do the dirty jobs for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can straight to naughty talk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not much of a dirty talk kind of woman. I don't mind a bit of banter and flirting, but it's extremely rare I'd be talking filth and sending pictures and videos of how they are making me feel. It's like one in a million who can do that to me through a screen. But when you find that person who can drive you wild, it's incredible. But you can't beat making it happen for real.

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

I prefer any type of chat to sex chat. I have heard it all before… ad infinitum. If I haven’t already heard it, you’re probably quite out there extreme and therefore not for me.

I prefer to meet in real life and after an initial social then sex chat is acceptable. Or not and I won’t be meeting that person again.

Fab is brutal.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

From many years experience on here, the people that go straight into sex chat* tend to be the fantasists that just want to have a wank at home and have no intention of meeting.

Besides that, I find sexting absurd, it makes my insides shrivel up a bit, and I do a half laugh, half cringe when someone does it.

*note, there is a distinct difference between sexting and discussing likes/dislikes and boundaries. I'm all for the latter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't do sex talk with anyone I haven't met, I find it a cringe and a total turn off."

Fully agree. The allure and Mistrys far greater ,when the ones who control thier mouths!

Many cant cant,can they!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't do sex talk with anyone I haven't met, I find it a cringe and a total turn off.

Nice clothes you have! Terrible day isn't it?

Rip them off me and fuck me like you mean it

Ok am I alone in wanting to get to know Nora now?"
filthy gobb that,all for keeping up appearances, the true colours have shown fully,just could not resist it any longer!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to talk about radiators and underfloor heating firstly. From here we may progress to general plumbing conversation

Get to the Plunnger and Dyno-rod lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't talk dirty. I find actions speak louder than words

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in every aspect really!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do and don’t list would be ideal. Imagine talking to someone for a week to find out not only does she neglect the balls she doesn’t suck cock "
many out there like that testing the guys depth!

Had one do that, i pulled pants up and walked off, when she was all hot n bothered!!

Had her calling out, its ok ive gone off the boil now!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to talk about the weather before letting them know what I'll do to their bumhole..basic manners really."

wett wild n windy storms are brewing from the very west southernly side!

Michael fish..

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

Personally we aren't a fan of dirty talk (unless already in bedroom) little tasteful teasing pics on the other hand are definitely more our style

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Normal chat - I'm crap at sexy talk

"
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Need practise, and a good teacher! Get the " L " plates on and 1st lesson free, block lessons after!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer to chat first and find out what someone's favourite cheese is, especially as it could be a potential deal-breaker to any sexy fun

Gratted or Edam.?

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"I don’t talk filthy with people I haven’t met. There’s numbers they can dial for that. "

Absolutely this... no interest in sex related talk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to talk about the weather before letting them know what I'll do to their bumhole.. basic manners really.

If you look at my bum hole you’ll see the weather be like crap this week !

I'd pay to see that forecast."

Shite show!! Boom boom!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No sex talk with anyone I've never met and only rarely with those I have. "
saftys better, preventions better than cure heh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer chat, long and engaging with cerebral-stimulating competencies before taking things to the next stage.

I have no desire to make love to a good-lôôking dullard.

Blonde brawn no brains!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Talk to me as if you’d like to date me. Straight off filthy talk will get my wrath & a blocking.

I might not be in the market for a relationship, but I’m still a human being.

I like to flirt etc, but I like a build up."

Any relationship humams in here by any chance??

Seen any hanging about, in that very far corner? Over there!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely! Chat first. I like to know whether the lights are on or not.

Everything will follow if its meant to. Its kismet in my book. If it happens it happens. A life experience kinda thang.

Lights could be on?? "Elvis left the Building!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I go straight in with the dirty talk. I need to know they do the dirty jobs for me."

Dark black Marrigolds on,full gas mask,and back up of 100 strong! When your around! Oh dont forget the "soap to wash your mouth out "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer any type of chat to sex chat. I have heard it all before… ad infinitum. If I haven’t already heard it, you’re probably quite out there extreme and therefore not for me.

I prefer to meet in real life and after an initial social then sex chat is acceptable. Or not and I won’t be meeting that person again.

Fab is brutal."

Life is really Brutal! Fab is a mere spec really!! Lol .

After how many meets for you sex talk is okish??

Within confinde limits..

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

Normal chat first. Barrelling into sex chat after a couple of messages makes me think that person will be just as rushed in bed.

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By *empest2KMan
over a year ago

Derby

"I prefer to chat first and find out what someone's favourite cheese is, especially as it could be a potential deal-breaker to any sexy fun

Gratted or Edam.? "

To be honest, I'm quite partial to three varieties of cheese: a (herby) Sage Derby, an oak smoked cheddar (similar to Applewoods), and some Danish Havarti.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I had amazing sex with someone after chatting to him about sewage plants and a zombie apocalypse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had amazing sex with someone after chatting to him about sewage plants and a zombie apocalypse.

Before anyone asks. It wasn’t me. I am rubbish at sex but enthusiastic about pretending to know what I am doing

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"I had amazing sex with someone after chatting to him about sewage plants and a zombie apocalypse.

To be fair, both sound pretty dirty/dark. What could be dirtier talk than that about sewerage?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had amazing sex with someone after chatting to him about sewage plants and a zombie apocalypse.

I would trust someone with my holes is they told me their zombie apocalypse plan

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By *ubbles88555Woman
over a year ago

Inverness

I prefer chat and a laugh some dirty talk. Not dirty talk straight of the bat

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