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"I am single and have been for about 15 years but I'm not a swinger. I'm not afraid of commitment its just he hasn't jumped into the web yet. " Your latest pic is very spidery | |||
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"Not to get into numbers on Fab but I assume there’s a shed load of single people here that concider themselves as swingers. But why do you prefer to swing as a single, or what is the reason you stay single. Are you afraid of a commitment, or getting your heart broken? Do you not trust people, or do you like the privacy of single life? Why is single life more attractive than coupling up with a partner? *single swingers - were just fucking around aren’t we? " I was happy as a swingle til I met Fox. I don't think there's anything wrong at all with people being single on Fab or in clubs or doing as they wish. I also don't think there's anything wrong with people feeling they don't ever want to be in a relationship, whether they have previously or not. Sometimes the timing isn't right, personal circumstances or situations prevent it being a viable idea and it can also be the case that prior relationships have tarred the thought of entering another one. I would advise keeping an open mind of course. You never know what's around the corner. A | |||
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"I'm happy on my own. Relationships are more trouble than they're worth. " Why? | |||
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"I'm happy on my own. Relationships are more trouble than they're worth. Why?" Because everything becomes a compromise. | |||
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"I have been single for 4 years since ending an emotionally abusive 26 year relationship. I love being single and totally in control of my own destiny. There are moments when I think about what I am missing out on by not having a partner to share experiences with but not enough to make me want another relationship....and I am not sure I would want to inflict myself on someone either!! " Maybe when the time comes the time comes. I think relationships/ dating are just down to chance I have been single a long long time but hope at some point while I still look haif decent I’ll meet someone If not then oh well. | |||
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"Part of me loves being single and being able to do whatever I like when I want and being able to meet and talk to whoever I like. The other side of me misses having that connection and going to bed with someone and spending time together doing fun things. Life is simpler as a single and you don't have to worry about getting your heart broken. " Life is simpler? So is a relationship complicated then? | |||
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"I am single and have been for about 15 years but I'm not a swinger. I'm not afraid of commitment its just he hasn't jumped into the web yet. " I might have to become a fly and get into that web xx | |||
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"Part of me loves being single and being able to do whatever I like when I want and being able to meet and talk to whoever I like. The other side of me misses having that connection and going to bed with someone and spending time together doing fun things. Life is simpler as a single and you don't have to worry about getting your heart broken. Life is simpler? So is a relationship complicated then? " More often than not, yes | |||
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"I have been single for 4 years since ending an emotionally abusive 26 year relationship. I love being single and totally in control of my own destiny. There are moments when I think about what I am missing out on by not having a partner to share experiences with but not enough to make me want another relationship....and I am not sure I would want to inflict myself on someone either!! " Inflict yourself on my face - lips first baby!! - just saying xx | |||
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"Part of me loves being single and being able to do whatever I like when I want and being able to meet and talk to whoever I like. The other side of me misses having that connection and going to bed with someone and spending time together doing fun things. Life is simpler as a single and you don't have to worry about getting your heart broken. Life is simpler? So is a relationship complicated then? More often than not, yes " I'd second this... The disbenefits outweigh the benefits for me! | |||
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" Life is simpler as a single and you don't have to worry about getting your heart broken. " This | |||
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"I'm happy on my own. Relationships are more trouble than they're worth. Why? Because everything becomes a compromise. " Or becomes a partnership? That's how I like to see it | |||
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"I have been single for 4 years since ending an emotionally abusive 26 year relationship. I love being single and totally in control of my own destiny. There are moments when I think about what I am missing out on by not having a partner to share experiences with but not enough to make me want another relationship....and I am not sure I would want to inflict myself on someone either!! " I am looking forward to you inflicting your talents on me xxx | |||
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"I'm happy on my own. Relationships are more trouble than they're worth. Why? Because everything becomes a compromise. " I still don’t see that as a bad thing though?! | |||
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"You just picking the wrong ones! Just remember you got to try a few rough ones to know you found a good one!" Like cocktails? | |||
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"I'm happy on my own. Relationships are more trouble than they're worth. Why? Because everything becomes a compromise. I still don’t see that as a bad thing though?! " Sharing food? Ladies always say they don't want chips and then steal all the nice ones | |||
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"Not to get into numbers on Fab but I assume there’s a shed load of single people here that concider themselves as swingers. But why do you prefer to swing as a single, or what is the reason you stay single. Are you afraid of a commitment, or getting your heart broken? Do you not trust people, or do you like the privacy of single life? Why is single life more attractive than coupling up with a partner? *single swingers - were just fucking around aren’t we? " This post weirdly echoes my musings last night. I was wondering about genuine singles on fab who only look for other singles. And whether that was because they wanted to become a couple that swings or because it's a sex positive place to find someone else open-minded. J | |||
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"You just picking the wrong ones! Just remember you got to try a few rough ones to know you found a good one!" That’s just patronising, maybe some of us are happy single and don’t see the need to be part of a relationship… I wouldn’t swap my life for anyone’s, seriously | |||
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"Part of me loves being single and being able to do whatever I like when I want and being able to meet and talk to whoever I like. The other side of me misses having that connection and going to bed with someone and spending time together doing fun things. Life is simpler as a single and you don't have to worry about getting your heart broken. " Exactly this. I have been incredibly hurt and betrayed and not sure I will ever trust anyone ever again | |||
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"Not to get into numbers on Fab but I assume there’s a shed load of single people here that concider themselves as swingers. But why do you prefer to swing as a single, or what is the reason you stay single. Are you afraid of a commitment, or getting your heart broken? Do you not trust people, or do you like the privacy of single life? Why is single life more attractive than coupling up with a partner? *single swingers - were just fucking around aren’t we? This post weirdly echoes my musings last night. I was wondering about genuine singles on fab who only look for other singles. And whether that was because they wanted to become a couple that swings or because it's a sex positive place to find someone else open-minded. J" I think about this a lot. I get my head around swinging for couples. There’s a wild world of sex out there, and a lot can’t be done just between the 2 of you. But for a single, who only hooks up with singles. Do they just use fab and the phrase “swinging” as a hook up/sex site and a way to get out rocks off? I dunno, just pondering a few things lately. | |||
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" it's a sex positive place to find someone else open-minded. " That's it for me. I know what I enjoy sexually, and the sorts of things I might like to try (which includes to things common on Fab). Those are not things I can filter for easily elsewhere. Life's too short for dull sex. | |||
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"Part of me loves being single and being able to do whatever I like when I want and being able to meet and talk to whoever I like. The other side of me misses having that connection and going to bed with someone and spending time together doing fun things. Life is simpler as a single and you don't have to worry about getting your heart broken. " Absolutely spot on | |||
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"Part of me loves being single and being able to do whatever I like when I want and being able to meet and talk to whoever I like. The other side of me misses having that connection and going to bed with someone and spending time together doing fun things. Life is simpler as a single and you don't have to worry about getting your heart broken. Exactly this. I have been incredibly hurt and betrayed and not sure I will ever trust anyone ever again" Totally agree | |||
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"I'm happy on my own. Relationships are more trouble than they're worth. Why? Because everything becomes a compromise. I still don’t see that as a bad thing though?! Sharing food? Ladies always say they don't want chips and then steal all the nice ones " I like sharing food. I hate waste so it’s nice when I go out with a man who eats a lot. I don’t finish my meal and then I can force feed them so I don’t feel guilty about the waste | |||
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"Not to get into numbers on Fab but I assume there’s a shed load of single people here that concider themselves as swingers. But why do you prefer to swing as a single, or what is the reason you stay single. Are you afraid of a commitment, or getting your heart broken? Do you not trust people, or do you like the privacy of single life? Why is single life more attractive than coupling up with a partner? *single swingers - were just fucking around aren’t we? This post weirdly echoes my musings last night. I was wondering about genuine singles on fab who only look for other singles. And whether that was because they wanted to become a couple that swings or because it's a sex positive place to find someone else open-minded. J" I think this is why I like it here, I am a single pretty much hoping to find another single that would be this sex positive open minded person. Its nice to know you can start from a kinky base, as it were and build from there. I dont think I will ever be a swinger but like kinky stuff enough. | |||
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"Not to get into numbers on Fab but I assume there’s a shed load of single people here that concider themselves as swingers. But why do you prefer to swing as a single, or what is the reason you stay single. Are you afraid of a commitment, or getting your heart broken? Do you not trust people, or do you like the privacy of single life? Why is single life more attractive than coupling up with a partner? *single swingers - were just fucking around aren’t we? " I'm looking for a wife have i come to the wrong place damnit | |||
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"Part of me loves being single and being able to do whatever I like when I want and being able to meet and talk to whoever I like. The other side of me misses having that connection and going to bed with someone and spending time together doing fun things. Life is simpler as a single and you don't have to worry about getting your heart broken. " Perfectly said! I can understand and relate to that too. | |||
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"I want to find someone to compliment me not someone I 'need' for whatever reasons of emotion/finance/support/pure loneliness etc. " This is beautiful Maren. I think that's what we all want really. Whether it's through friendships or relationships. People who compliment you, who lift you and challenge you gently are worth their weight in gold. I'm not single. Very much not single. But that desire to find people who compliment me, to only want those and to work on my own happiness without them is strong. | |||
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"I'm single because I enjoy my house being my sanctuary and not somewhere where I have to feel on edge all the time. I'm a swingle because I love sex" you’re now a swingle get you ! I echo this answer, when I was in my marriage I seemed to spend more time worrying over my wife and her moods to realise I was unhappy in the marriage as well. So my own place and single life means I’m in control of everything. It’s liberating and only if I met someone who was on my complete wavelength would I consider giving up this freedom. | |||
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"I am single because I like being it and I like my own company. I can do what I want when I want. I am also very busy so couldnt have time for another one " Too busy eating Haribos more like. Haha Do agree your own company can be nice and healthy too! | |||
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"How about you, Woody? I know you’ve been dealing with lingering feelings in the past few months, but do you prefer being single? Does fab ‘fill a gap’ for you? Do you think you’ll want to date again?" Date? Yeh sure, why not. I’ve met someone here from fab and we annoyed a day together. It felt like a date, but I or her definitely weren’t looking for anything more than company. But I like people, and sex. And sexy people. so fab and single life is going to be me for a while, I don’t prefer it, it pales in comparison to when I was happiest. one true love and a marriage in my lifetime shown I was once a lucky man. Twice is unlikely. swingle_ haha. Great name for it. | |||
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"How about you, Woody? I know you’ve been dealing with lingering feelings in the past few months, but do you prefer being single? Does fab ‘fill a gap’ for you? Do you think you’ll want to date again? Date? Yeh sure, why not. I’ve met someone here from fab and we annoyed a day together. It felt like a date, but I or her definitely weren’t looking for anything more than company. But I like people, and sex. And sexy people. so fab and single life is going to be me for a while, I don’t prefer it, it pales in comparison to when I was happiest. one true love and a marriage in my lifetime shown I was once a lucky man. Twice is unlikely. swingle_ haha. Great name for it. " Can you just keep having friends dates? Sex and/ or relationships aren't mandatory. I found that a similar arrangement with a friend gave him more confidence/ lessened his desperation (I'm not saying either of you are desperate!!), and he always found new women to date after we had hooked up. | |||
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"How about you, Woody? I know you’ve been dealing with lingering feelings in the past few months, but do you prefer being single? Does fab ‘fill a gap’ for you? Do you think you’ll want to date again? Date? Yeh sure, why not. I’ve met someone here from fab and we annoyed a day together. It felt like a date, but I or her definitely weren’t looking for anything more than company. But I like people, and sex. And sexy people. so fab and single life is going to be me for a while, I don’t prefer it, it pales in comparison to when I was happiest. one true love and a marriage in my lifetime shown I was once a lucky man. Twice is unlikely. swingle_ haha. Great name for it. Can you just keep having friends dates? Sex and/ or relationships aren't mandatory. ……. " Of course you can, that what a friend is isn’t it? | |||
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"How about you, Woody? I know you’ve been dealing with lingering feelings in the past few months, but do you prefer being single? Does fab ‘fill a gap’ for you? Do you think you’ll want to date again? Date? Yeh sure, why not. I’ve met someone here from fab and we annoyed a day together. It felt like a date, but I or her definitely weren’t looking for anything more than company. But I like people, and sex. And sexy people. so fab and single life is going to be me for a while, I don’t prefer it, it pales in comparison to when I was happiest. one true love and a marriage in my lifetime shown I was once a lucky man. Twice is unlikely. swingle_ haha. Great name for it. Can you just keep having friends dates? Sex and/ or relationships aren't mandatory. ……. Of course you can, that what a friend is isn’t it? " That's not what I said. | |||
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"How about you, Woody? I know you’ve been dealing with lingering feelings in the past few months, but do you prefer being single? Does fab ‘fill a gap’ for you? Do you think you’ll want to date again? Date? Yeh sure, why not. I’ve met someone here from fab and we annoyed a day together. It felt like a date, but I or her definitely weren’t looking for anything more than company. But I like people, and sex. And sexy people. so fab and single life is going to be me for a while, I don’t prefer it, it pales in comparison to when I was happiest. one true love and a marriage in my lifetime shown I was once a lucky man. Twice is unlikely. swingle_ haha. Great name for it. Can you just keep having friends dates? Sex and/ or relationships aren't mandatory. ……. Of course you can, that what a friend is isn’t it? That's not what I said." What did you say? Because that’s how I read it. Have I miss understood? | |||
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"How about you, Woody? I know you’ve been dealing with lingering feelings in the past few months, but do you prefer being single? Does fab ‘fill a gap’ for you? Do you think you’ll want to date again? Date? Yeh sure, why not. I’ve met someone here from fab and we annoyed a day together. It felt like a date, but I or her definitely weren’t looking for anything more than company. But I like people, and sex. And sexy people. so fab and single life is going to be me for a while, I don’t prefer it, it pales in comparison to when I was happiest. one true love and a marriage in my lifetime shown I was once a lucky man. Twice is unlikely. swingle_ haha. Great name for it. Can you just keep having friends dates? Sex and/ or relationships aren't mandatory. ……. Of course you can, that what a friend is isn’t it? That's not what I said. What did you say? Because that’s how I read it. Have I miss understood? " It's Friday, I was probably talking shite. | |||
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