FabSwingers.com forum: How long without sex

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's been 16 days for me and counting.

I don't know WTF has gone wrong had great kinky sexy fun time but all of a sudden

Nothing

Like a fucking dessert.

She won't even discuss it.

How long do you go without sex ?

This is doing fucking head in

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

"It's been 16 days for me and counting.

I don't know WTF has gone wrong had great kinky sexy fun time but all of a sudden

Nothing

Like a fucking dessert.

She won't even discuss it.

How long do you go without sex ?

This is doing fucking head in "
I can go for months no bother...

I'm pretty good with my hands.lol

Now...how long would I survive without playing?!I would be dead second day I'd say

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

You should be more concerned that she won't discuss it. Good, open communication is key.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Bit over three months at the moment. I'm all good.

Longest was years.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Not longer than a week currently.

Op... maybe there's something more serious going on with her? Or her libido has dropped. These things happen sadly. Can you find ways to be intimate/enjoy being around her without bringing it back to sex? It's more likely to happen if there are less bad feelings surrounding it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have gone 6 months no sex hands where so bad had to use hand cream to sort out , but HRT tablets now on getting there slowly never demanded or forced her in her own time xx all

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

It's been a few months for various reasons but even that is a blip.

I've gone for 10 years without any form of sexual contact or touch.

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By *ing-louisMan
over a year ago

Merthyr Tydfil

November. My hand hurts

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By *igg262Man
over a year ago

Southampton

3 yrs

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By *aturebarneyMan
over a year ago

Sale

Must be at least 25 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A year.

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By *rettyflamingoCouple
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

Yesterday afternoon

But that’s probably it now until next Friday as off to Chams

I can never go too long without it as I end up miserable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Longest I've gone is probably around 6 months. Much more active these days

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm sulking after a few days

Mrs

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Maybe she's found out about your single man's profile on here ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You should be more concerned that she won't discuss it. Good, open communication is key. "

I am very concerned as I have brought it up and she just says that makes it worse?

I have said that something is wrong and she said she doesn't want to discuss it.

I just said sorry and won't mention it again.

But it's a big change and IDK WTF I have done

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not longer than a week currently.

Part of the discussion was

She doesn't want to kiss me

No cuddles in bed (not linked to wanting sex)

Doesn't want to talk to me watching TV.

So yes communication Is open from me (very open) but closed her side

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe she's found out about your single man's profile on here ?

Have her blessing already

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By *rettyflamingoCouple
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

"Not longer than a week currently.

Part of the discussion was

She doesn't want to kiss me

No cuddles in bed (not linked to wanting sex)

Doesn't want to talk to me watching TV.

So yes communication Is open from me (very open) but closed her side "

This is so sad , sorry to read this x

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By *weetkitten65Woman
over a year ago

Halifax

2 weeks & 2 days...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not longer than a week currently.

Part of the discussion was

She doesn't want to kiss me

No cuddles in bed (not linked to wanting sex)

Doesn't want to talk to me watching TV.

So yes communication Is open from me (very open) but closed her side

This is so sad , sorry to read this x"

Thank you x

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

I’ve not met anyone from fab since pre-covid.

I’ve not had sex since September 2022

I’m not sure I care anymore (although I must because I’m on fab).

Gosh

. TMI DD, TMI

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went for run with flip flops on just to remember what it sounded like

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

"Not longer than a week currently.

Part of the discussion was

She doesn't want to kiss me

No cuddles in bed (not linked to wanting sex)

Doesn't want to talk to me watching TV.

So yes communication Is open from me (very open) but closed her side

This is so sad , sorry to read this x"

Sorry indeed OP. Not wanting sex is one thing but not wanting intimacy is a sure sign that something is wrong. I hope you get things back on track OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

16 days? What is this, amateur hour? Try months!! Many many months.

but it only frustrated me because the way I saw it was a had wasted a lot of time sulking when I should have been enjoying life. Yolo and all that.

I don’t crave sex, I only want sex when I feel sexy and it’s rare nowadays.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Port talbot

I don't really want to talk about it, been too long though

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By *uby StarCouple
over a year ago

Durham

A couple of weeks I think. Life is really getting in the way right now

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

The longest for me was 6 years after my separation and divorce.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I went for run with flip flops on just to remember what it sounded like "

Soz OP but this is funny

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By *ldFashionedGentMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Since early November at the moment. My body decided it would be a good idea to tear my Achilles tendon (not during naughty time i hasten to add) and was operated on in early January.

Currently learning to walk again. Was invited to my first party but couldn’t attend, it’s like the Universes way of tormenting me haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not had sex with my wife for well over 9 years and that was a one off. Twice in 14 years.

She just didn't want it anymore. I tried but then felt guilty. People say we should talk about it. Why

She doesn't want sex, makes her uncomfortable. Not her fault

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Almost 35 years now.

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By *utlongjohnMan
over a year ago

"I'm sulking after a few days

Mrs "

Me too haha

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

2 months nothing fab related was night out over Christmas clubbing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I went for run with flip flops on just to remember what it sounded like

Soz OP but this is funny

!!"

Laughter is the best medicine

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm sulking after a few days

Mrs

Me too haha"

I don't sulk, just feel very sorry for myself

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By *otwifeSizeQueenWoman
over a year ago

city centre

with hubby or someone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

14 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once went 7 years after having my son and never going out to meet anyone... then i found fab lol.. just now its been a good few months

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By *ylonfan73Man
over a year ago

west yorkshire

A menopausal Mrs is playing havoc with our sex life… it’s probably easier to walk across a field of land mines ..:-/

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

11 hours

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

3/4 years

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

It will be a week tomorrow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

16 days without sex and its doing ya head in already

And here's me going a few years without sex

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By *red333Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"It's been 16 days for me and counting.

I don't know WTF has gone wrong had great kinky sexy fun time but all of a sudden

Nothing

Like a fucking dessert.

She won't even discuss it.

How long do you go without sex ?

This is doing fucking head in "
16 days ffs

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By *ittleMyWoman
over a year ago

Stockport

6 months. Has been a few years previously.

Yikes!

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I went without sex for two years and I was married.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’m now divorced.

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

"It's been 16 days for me and counting.

I don't know WTF has gone wrong had great kinky sexy fun time but all of a sudden

Nothing

Like a fucking dessert.

She won't even discuss it.

How long do you go without sex ?

This is doing fucking head in "

Jeez, 16 days?? That's nothing!!

If you are both usually more active (I mean with each other...) I might be inclined to think that there's something wrong that she doesn't want to talk about yet. Maybe it's health or menopause related,maybe she's not as ok about you being on here as you think...whatever it is, if you love her, you're going to have to give her time & space until she's ready to talk.

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By *orksguy1965Man
over a year ago

Howden

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

Can't even remember how long my 'dry spell' was..

But then got divorced and had more sex in the following year than the 8 prior..

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By *oots11Couple
over a year ago

wirral

2 minutes xx

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By *inkycoupleABCCouple
over a year ago

yateley

For me hours lol but my husband has been in a cage for weeks

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By *lint-EverhardMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

16 years!

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

It was 6 years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It was 6 years ago

you should change your name to SleepTonight shags!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It was 6 years ago

you should change your name to SleepTonight shags!

ShaggedYearsAgo

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

I went about 8 weeks last year. Alice was out of action and I didn't feel right playing without her.

When there are more important things going on, I can live without it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It was 6 years ago

you should change your name to SleepTonight shags!

ShaggedYearsAgo"

Aww

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

A long 48 hrs

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By *red333Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"I’m now divorced. "
sex can resume now

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By *weetkitten65Woman
over a year ago

Halifax

I went 6 years a few years back...then had an epiphany when hit 50..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You should be more concerned that she won't discuss it. Good, open communication is key.

I am very concerned as I have brought it up and she just says that makes it worse?

I have said that something is wrong and she said she doesn't want to discuss it.

I just said sorry and won't mention it again.

But it's a big change and IDK WTF I have done

How often have you been asking her for sex in the last 16 days?

Who suggested sex before? Was it always you?

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

"It was 6 years ago

you should change your name to SleepTonight shags!

ShaggedYearsAgo

Aww

"
No, its fine, mine are ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It was 6 years ago

you should change your name to SleepTonight shags!

ShaggedYearsAgo

Aww

No, its fine, mine are ok

They must be like watermelons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It was 6 years ago

you should change your name to SleepTonight shags!

ShaggedYearsAgo

Aww

No, its fine, mine are ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just over 3 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It was 6 years ago

you should change your name to SleepTonight shags!

ShaggedYearsAgo

Aww

No, its fine, mine are ok

They must be like watermelons

He's happy, we all do our own thing Col

he's not missing out on much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's been 16 days for me and counting.

I don't know WTF has gone wrong had great kinky sexy fun time but all of a sudden

Nothing

Like a fucking dessert.

She won't even discuss it.

How long do you go without sex ?

This is doing fucking head in "

Abundance is the way to go! If the tap gets shut, walk and do your own thing!'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's been 16 days for me and counting.

I don't know WTF has gone wrong had great kinky sexy fun time but all of a sudden

Nothing

Like a fucking dessert.

She won't even discuss it.

How long do you go without sex ?

This is doing fucking head in I can go for months no bother...

I'm pretty good with my hands.lol

Now...how long would I survive without playing?!I would be dead second day I'd say

Best hand in the world,no aggro,no drama, dont even have to wash them fingers and they still will work!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bit over three months at the moment. I'm all good.

Longest was years."

State of mind!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You should be more concerned that she won't discuss it. Good, open communication is key.

I am very concerned as I have brought it up and she just says that makes it worse?

I have said that something is wrong and she said she doesn't want to discuss it.

I just said sorry and won't mention it again.

But it's a big change and IDK WTF I have done

"
..silent treatment.

Youtube the behaviours. And line up your actual situation from there.

On here it will confuse you further more.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A menopausal Mrs is playing havoc with our sex life… it’s probably easier to walk across a field of land mines ..:-/

Duck n jump. Sametime! Total nitemare!

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By *illybeachboyMan
over a year ago

Guernsey

It's been a long time for me. My last session was at the end of November!!!

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

"How long without sex?"

About six inches, but nearly nine during it!

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By *agnar1980Man
over a year ago

Poole

A year & 9 days but who’s counting!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With a woman nearly 15 months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A year & 9 days but who’s counting!!

You apparently

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By *axim3840Man
over a year ago

Hackney

About 3 weeks - To long

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