FabSwingers.com forum: Meetting after 2 years of messaging on here

By *lder A Wiser Passion OP Woman
over a year ago

morecambe

Yes was talking to a guy on here for two years. Couldn't meet for reason or another. For the most life styles don't match. There no time scale to this you cant assume anything

Its has to find it self for most of the time

A good 50% of the time it don't happen

Not everyone one here you message and talk to will lead to sex

This isn't porn we not sex workers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

True

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

- I've also chatted on here with people where it'll only ever be chat, it's all good

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Yes, there's something refreshing about being able to enjoy talking to someone and there being no pressure to meet. Sometimes things align and you do, other times you don't.

I can understand why some choose to meet quickly, that's fair enough. I'm not always against it. It doesn't mean either party views you as a sex worker. But I like talking to people. As a person. Not a sexual object for my gratification.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

It's rare I meet anyone off here in less than 6 months. Usually longer.

It's happened a lot faster than that on occasion, someone I met within 24 hours of the first message years ago is still one of my favourite people. But I'm generally happy to get to know a little more about someone before meeting in the flesh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, there's something refreshing about being able to enjoy talking to someone and there being no pressure to meet. Sometimes things align and you do, other times you don't.

Still on for Coffee? Weekend?

After 5yrs (approx) of exchanging the odd comments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. Ive messaged a guy on and off for 3 years. We have each others phone numbers but just not in any rush to meet, even though we keep saying we need to get filthy together. I'm sure it will happen eventually, maybe, someday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens as life gets in the way but the good people worth meeting have no problem waiting until the time is right.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

100% agree re time OP.

I have finally met up with a guy after 5 years of chatting on here.

Mrs Mx

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

No, I just wouldn't waste all that time chatting. Imagine meeting and it being a disappointment?

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

If I was chatting with someone and we'd both indicated that we'd like to meet each other, I'd assume he was talking shite if it took 2 years to actually arrange

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By *ldFashionedGentMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

"It happens as life gets in the way but the good people worth meeting have no problem waiting until the time is right."

This! If what you’re looking for is that truly memorable experience and someone you’re going to have a great time with, then why rush it. It’ll happen when it happens and it is fantastic to be able to develop a ‘relationship’ with someone here without the pressure of ‘when are we meeting’

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