FabSwingers.com forum: Uptight women!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A male pal posted a pic of a woman in a superwoman outfit on facebook. I commented asking who she was. His wife then posted a comment aimed at my pal basically saying he shouldn't be posting pics of women.

What the heck?! She was clearly irritated that he found the woman in the pic attractive. The woman wasn't scantily clad, there wasn't even a hint of cleavage! I went back a few minutes later and he'd deleted the pic.

Why are some women so uptight? They won't let their blokes look at other women, certainly don't like to even imagine their blokes look at page 3 let alone porn.

I've even heard tales of women at swingers clubs getting all huffy when their man looks at another woman. In a swingers club for goodness sakes!!

They lie back and think of England on birthdays (and xmas if their blokes are really lucky!) and then wonder why their men start to look elsewhere......

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

True colours.

'nice'

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"True colours.

'nice'"

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Low self esteem

Been hurt before and now paranoid

Bitterness

Genuine dislike for the other lady

Jealousy

And also seen in some men

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"True colours.

'nice'"

Unfortunately we aren't all sisters in this world.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

They may be having an on-going row and he posted to make his point. He may have posted it in error. I don't get why you are so worked up about it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm not worked up about anything, it was just an example. I see/ hear of similar examples all the time and I just don't understand why some women get so uptight about their men looking at other women.

I am not talking about them chatting up other women, that's not acceptable.

But just looking.... I don't understand why they make it a big deal.

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

My guess is she has very low self esteem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the green eyed monster !

Love the bit about only having sex once or twice a year then wonder why they stray......your so close to the truth it hurts lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've a male friend who gets really ratty with his wife if she looks or talks to another man.

She is hot to .And she loves him to death.

But if I go on a lads night out he's chatting every woman up in the room.

Jealousy is a very destructive force.

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By *uncouple981Couple
over a year ago

ayrshire

"I'm not worked up about anything, it was just an example. I see/ hear of similar examples all the time and I just don't understand why some women get so uptight about their men looking at other women.

I am not talking about them chatting up other women, that's not acceptable.

But just looking.... I don't understand why they make it a big deal."

Maybe they are fed up with their men looking at other women and never bothering to look at them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am not talking about them chatting up other women, that's not acceptable.

But just looking.... I don't understand why they make it a big deal.

Maybe they are fed up with their men looking at other women and never bothering to look at them.

Very good point, thank you. I'd never thought of that.

And also the poster above that commented about uptight men. My apologies for only commenting on women being uptight. Men can be jealous types too.

It was because I mostly see it from women.

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By *uncouple981Couple
over a year ago

ayrshire

I do agree with you. I find it hard to understand as well but I think that's because I'm in a secure relationship. But if I wasn't completely secure I would prob be one of those crazy nagging wife's that don't let their husbands even look at page 3 never mind anything else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't really know the dynamics of someones relationship and what's happening behind the scenes etc, so it isn't that black and white really.

And I have to say OP that your statement about these women just lying there thinking of England and perhaps only having sex irregularly is copmplete fabrication because you can't possibly knows the personal details of other peoples relationship, that is just assumption, which most of us make when we're told of things.

Yes jealousy can be an aspect of it all, men acting with a bit of sensitivity wouldn't go amiss either though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we're talking stereotypes, I'd say men are more known for petty jealousy than women are. In reality both sexes are very much capable of it. Doesn't make a lot of sense to me, either.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You don't really know the dynamics of someones relationship and what's happening behind the scenes etc, so it isn't that black and white really.

Yes jealousy can be an aspect of it all, men acting with a bit of sensitivity wouldn't go amiss either though

Men.... Sensitivity........ As if?!

The lie back and think of England comment wasn't fabrication, it was based on fact. I was thinking of a few people I know. Fair point.... Possibly not 'fact' as you say. I don't sit in people's bedrooms making notes.

I based it on what I have been told though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i bet they are still going on at each other now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex husbands jealously was worse than my ex girlfriends jealousy

I think it is very hard to make a successful relationship work, and then it cant be great all the time.

Swinging is for me a mindset, I'll point out a hottie to friends, to someone I was seeing... because its my mindset.

I like to share, I like diversity.

Not everyone thinks that sex is for sharing or should be diverse to the point of others being involved.

Each to their own but I do feel sorry for someone when I see the arguing

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

It got that bad with my now ex wife that my female roster clerk ringing to arrange my shifts/ overtime would lead to physical attacks on my self !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been in a relationship before where i would get grief for any type of contact with women, real or imagined, and had a full blown row one day because apparently i cheated on her, in her dream. I shit you not.

The OP is bang on with her assumptions too. Lived with that for 11 years, but barring a bit of PTSD its all over now :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been in a relationship before where i would get grief for any type of contact with women, real or imagined, and had a full blown row one day because apparently i cheated on her, in her dream. I shit you not.

The OP is bang on with her assumptions too. Lived with that for 11 years, but barring a bit of PTSD its all over now :D"

I've had that from my ex girlfriend before to she even threw a brick ( yes a real house brick) at me once because a woman smiled at me and if I was watching maybe the weather and it was a weather girl she would shout at me because I obveously fancied her ( honestly not making this up and if bay watch came on I had to switch it over really really quickly)

Paul

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had the 'you cheated on me in my dream' accusation before from an ex/gf. Si I said, "Yeah, ok, I admit it, I did." She flipped at that. I thought it was hilarious.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"I've had the 'you cheated on me in my dream' accusation before from an ex/gf. Si I said, "Yeah, ok, I admit it, I did." She flipped at that. I thought it was hilarious.

Funny she never checked to see how often you cheated in your dreams...

I don't understand jealousy, if someone is causing me heartache like that I'd rather be alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't do jealousy either. If someone has such anxiety issues they shouldn't be in a relationship until they've addressed the problem. I'll walk away every time.

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