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By *ust Henry OP   Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

i ave met quiet a few straight guys in last week since i joined all wanting one thing so i thought and that was for deepthroat i perform cos i dont gag but the puzzel is this they all ask for verigications once done so i do but they dont do one back and they dont publish and they dont do one back this tells me their users cos they have no verifications or the ladiez or couples are not playing lol whats uour opinions guys and do you get many time wasters it seems the sites full off em i wish i cud name and shame them on here so everyone can see . :

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Don't give them..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you don't seem short of people willing to verify your skills

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

You don't have to verify them just because they ask. If they have met you I don't understand why they would be classed as timewasters. If they have agreed to give you pleasure, over and above that you get from deep-throating them, and don't you can't force them but they may be using you. Enjoy what you do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't give them.. "

No blowjobs.... And no veri's.

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By *indylou47Woman
over a year ago

BOLTON

You've only been on the site for a week & you have 5 verifications already. If they choose not to display verifications you have left, that's their perogative. Can't see what the problem is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

don't meet straight guys. if their profile says they're straight they'll be no veris exchanged on their part.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had similar experiences. Most guys on here as "straight" (usually the guys that contact me, mostly married) like to pretend they are straight. Your verification simply gives them the tick they need to show they are genuine but allows them to deny they were ever with another male or a Tgirl. Apparently a lot of couples won't meet bi-males either. An option to unverify someone might be helpful, especially when they turn out to be real creeps.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"i ave met quiet a few straight guys in last week since i joined all wanting one thing so i thought and that was for deepthroat i perform cos i dont gag but the puzzel is this they all ask for verigications once done so i do but they dont do one back and they dont publish and they dont do one back this tells me their users cos they have no verifications or the ladiez or couples are not playing lol whats uour opinions guys and do you get many time wasters it seems the sites full off em i wish i cud name and shame them on here so everyone can see . : "

That's an interesting use of the word 'users'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you thought they may not want to verify you as they are being discreet?

It is unlikely I know, however, If I meet with someone and they show 100 veri's I do wonder if I want to add my name to that list.

Also I do get emails from people who came across a veri I left on someone's profile, mine arnt shown, however those I put out there are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you thought they may not want to verify you as they are being discreet?

It is unlikely I know, however, If I meet with someone and they show 100 veri's I do wonder if I want to add my name to that list.

Also I do get emails from people who came across a veri I left on someone's profile, mine arnt shown, however those I put out there are. "

We keep our veri's off our profile out of discretion too.

Made one exception today though, as I thought the veri was amusing

OP, make your own mind up.as to your situation, but there has been some good advice given by others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i ave met quiet a few straight guys in last week since i joined all wanting one thing so i thought and that was for deepthroat i perform cos i dont gag but the puzzel is this they all ask for verigications once done so i do but they dont do one back and they dont publish and they dont do one back this tells me their users cos they have no verifications or the ladiez or couples are not playing lol whats uour opinions guys and do you get many time wasters it seems the sites full off em i wish i cud name and shame them on here so everyone can see . : "

Did you enjoy the meet? Did you get what you wanted sexually? Surely that's more important than whether they leave a verification or publish yours?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i ave met quiet a few straight guys in last week since i joined all wanting one thing so i thought and that was for deepthroat i perform cos i dont gag but the puzzel is this they all ask for verigications once done so i do but they dont do one back and they dont publish and they dont do one back this tells me their users cos they have no verifications or the ladiez or couples are not playing lol whats uour opinions guys and do you get many time wasters it seems the sites full off em i wish i cud name and shame them on here so everyone can see . : "

If they already have the green tick, dont verify them until they verify you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i ave met quiet a few straight guys in last week since i joined all wanting one thing so i thought and that was for deepthroat i perform cos i dont gag but the puzzel is this they all ask for verigications once done so i do but they dont do one back and they dont publish and they dont do one back this tells me their users cos they have no verifications or the ladiez or couples are not playing lol whats uour opinions guys and do you get many time wasters it seems the sites full off em i wish i cud name and shame them on here so everyone can see . :

Did you enjoy the meet? Did you get what you wanted sexually? Surely that's more important than whether they leave a verification or publish yours?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" If they have met you I don't understand why they would be classed as timewasters. "

That's what I thought too...feck... so even if ya meet these days yer still a timewaster?

I'll have to change my profile to say 'Timewaster Welcome'

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