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Kink… natural or nurtured?

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By *undayGirl 69 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Coalville

I often ponder this when I should be sleeping…

Are our kinks and our turn ons automatically a part of our genetic make up or are they caused by something we’ve seen/felt (smelt… whatever) in early years?

I know, with something I’m into it was there early… I just didn’t know it was kink til an adult.

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By *ubcdverykinkyMan
over a year ago

Bourne lincs

I ve always been very very kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, I’m led by an image, a story or something visual. But it’s not always like that. I use the expression that I improvise, so it is also a moment when I get all sexy and go with the flow too.

Just giving my thoughts to your thoughts.

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By *undayGirl 69 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Coalville


"For me, I’m led by an image, a story or something visual. But it’s not always like that. I use the expression that I improvise, so it is also a moment when I get all sexy and go with the flow too.

Just giving my thoughts to your thoughts. "

So do yours change? Based on what you are doing?

There’s not a go to porn or fantasy that returns?

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By *ubcdverykinkyMan
over a year ago

Bourne lincs

I just love anything kinky maybe am 2 kinky for people on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me, I’m led by an image, a story or something visual. But it’s not always like that. I use the expression that I improvise, so it is also a moment when I get all sexy and go with the flow too.

Just giving my thoughts to your thoughts.

So do yours change? Based on what you are doing?

There’s not a go to porn or fantasy that returns? "

I don’t do much porn. That would just normaly be a ffm video.

Yes, mine does change, my mood but more to do with who I’m vibing with. I suppose it a person that can and would put me in a certain mood.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like most things kinky & naughty..

Got worse as I get older..

Not sure if it stems from when I was a kid.. 10/11/12

but my stepmom use to walk round the house naked amongst other things..

from what I can remember she was a good looking woman..

in today’s world she would get it..

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

My sexual kinks have been there since exploring in a first relationship.

But in themselves they are pretty vanilla. In being lingerie and outdoor sex.

My bdsm is a different matter. That is non sexual and definitely nutured from past experiences in life.

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By *weetkitten65Woman
over a year ago

Halifax

I just do what feels right at the time....

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"I often ponder this when I should be sleeping…

Are our kinks and our turn ons automatically a part of our genetic make up or are they caused by something we’ve seen/felt (smelt… whatever) in early years?

I know, with something I’m into it was there early… I just didn’t know it was kink til an adult. "

I would say it depends on the kink.

Some are nurtured through life experiences, porn, erotica etc. others are natural and part of who you are.

No one is born with a desire to be fucked in the arse while having their head flushed down the toilet!!

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By *haron StonerTV/TS
over a year ago

Haywards Heath

OP...

I think that's actually quite true!

As a young lad in the days when all women wore stockings and skirts with black patent stilettos... to church, I was enamoured by them.

I'm pretty sure that's why I was a bit more curious and was trying on things at an early age.

After that it was all onwards and upwards.

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By *undayGirl 69 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Coalville


"I often ponder this when I should be sleeping…

Are our kinks and our turn ons automatically a part of our genetic make up or are they caused by something we’ve seen/felt (smelt… whatever) in early years?

I know, with something I’m into it was there early… I just didn’t know it was kink til an adult.

I would say it depends on the kink.

Some are nurtured through life experiences, porn, erotica etc. others are natural and part of who you are.

No one is born with a desire to be fucked in the arse while having their head flushed down the toilet!! "

Made me proper giggle… but, how do u know!!! Lol

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By *haron StonerTV/TS
over a year ago

Haywards Heath

... and thanks to my uncles

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By *undayGirl 69 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Coalville

Thanks to those that pm’d it’s been interesting

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