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By *oofy321 OP   Man
over a year ago

moon base zero

What do you think of people who brag?

I like to brag about my celebrity encounters and being loosely...very very loosely responsible for a song getting to no1 lol

Do you brag?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to brag about my celebrity encounters"

How is Mickey these days?

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By *oupleOfFilthyWeirdosCouple
over a year ago

Merthyr Tydfil

We'd be put right off by you!

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

knob heads,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you think of people who brag?

I like to brag about my celebrity encounters and being loosely...very very loosely responsible for a song getting to no1 lol

Do you brag?"

Depends what you define as bragging? I think talking about your achievements is a good thing. It’s something that a lot of people in the U.K. have a weird response to.

If someone’s done something they’re proud of, I want them to feel comfortable telling me about it. I want to hear.

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By *oofy321 OP   Man
over a year ago

moon base zero


"I like to brag about my celebrity encounters

How is Mickey these days?"

Still sexually demanding

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By *oofy321 OP   Man
over a year ago

moon base zero


"We'd be put right off by you!"

Oh I don't brag on here,I brag in real life lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you brag you gotta remember that most people are very similar to you and don’t give a shit about what you’re saying and they just want you to listen to them, right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do you like to brag about your celebrity encounters?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to brag about my celebrity encounters

How is Mickey these days?

Still sexually demanding "

Does Minnie know?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

There's a difference between bragging and sharing your achievements. I don't like people who talk about nothing but themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone tells me something in a conversation about something good they did, that would be ok.

If they told me it every week for the rest of my life it would do my head in.

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

I cannot *stand* arrogance. I HATE it! It’s my least favourite personality trait and I remove myself from situations/people when it’s being perpetuated.

I’m well aware that will be seen as intolerant and an overreaction but, for better or worse, it’s me.

It’s probably because I’m a very reserved and low-key (but unspeakably amazing) person. I find humility and modesty very attractive in people and I’m far more likely to be interested in what they have to say than an arrogant prick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah. Bragging gives me the creeps, very cringey

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

If they are bragging about actual achievement I just let them get on with it.

If they use it as their USP where it's always oneupmanship it really depends on my mood. Sometimes I'll walk away rather than have to listen to them but sometimes my dick will always be bigger than theirs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not one for bragging but a certain picture on our profile could be worth doing it for

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

I would, jokingly, to my friends but not to anyone else I don't really get it

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Unsolicited bragging or doing so out of context is rather unattractive and a rather narcissistic behaviour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what the brag is about tbf. People achievements and how hard they have worked for that. Amazing

But bragging about your possessions and how great you are then no, I switch off.

I do brag about my son's and I really don't care what people think,

My son's are both successful. Youngest struggled with his mental health and had a breakdown at University but he turned it around and used it to drive him not define him

Am I going to brag, damn straight I am

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By *londebiguyMan
over a year ago

Southport


"What do you think of people who brag?

I like to brag about my celebrity encounters and being loosely...very very loosely responsible for a song getting to no1 lol

Do you brag?"

had a life full of all that in London.

Cannot be arsed with any of it now.

Not interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends what the brag is about tbf. People achievements and how hard they have worked for that. Amazing

But bragging about your possessions and how great you are then no, I switch off.

I do brag about my son's and I really don't care what people think,

My son's are both successful. Youngest struggled with his mental health and had a breakdown at University but he turned it around and used it to drive him not define him

Am I going to brag, damn straight I am "
100% perfect reason to do so and fully justified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unsolicited bragging or doing so out of context is rather unattractive and a rather narcissistic behaviour"

Unsolicited bragging I agree. Like the people that make everything about them #shoo #goaway

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I am wondering if the "bragging" part that feels annoying is maybe more about ourselves? I mean if we are really not bothered about somebody's wealth and achievements... their bragging should not get to us?

Just a thought.

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By *onnie 90Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"What do you think of people who brag?

I like to brag about my celebrity encounters and being loosely...very very loosely responsible for a song getting to no1 lol

Do you brag?"

Ah yes. We all remember Joe Dolce "Shaddup You Face". So that was your fault then lol.

Do I brag? No. I just say it as it is. People like it or they don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am wondering if the "bragging" part that feels annoying is maybe more about ourselves? I mean if we are really not bothered about somebody's wealth and achievements... their bragging should not get to us?

Just a thought."

I think if someone mentions it once or twice, there's absolutely no issue. But, if the majority of their tales encompasses their wealth and you've shown initial indifference, they're definitely wanting some kind of reaction

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By *alking HeadMan
over a year ago

Bolton


"What do you think of people who brag?

I like to brag about my celebrity encounters and being loosely...very very loosely responsible for a song getting to no1 lol

Do you brag?"

In order to brag, I have to be impressed. I won't be impressed by you. So you haven't bragged to me. Come back when you win a Pulitzer or a Nobel prize.

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By *oofy321 OP   Man
over a year ago

moon base zero


"What do you think of people who brag?

I like to brag about my celebrity encounters and being loosely...very very loosely responsible for a song getting to no1 lol

Do you brag?

In order to brag, I have to be impressed. I won't be impressed by you. So you haven't bragged to me. Come back when you win a Pulitzer or a Nobel prize."

Lol, ive not bragged to anyone on here...the point is about braggers and not the actual brag x

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By *alking HeadMan
over a year ago

Bolton


"What do you think of people who brag?

I like to brag about my celebrity encounters and being loosely...very very loosely responsible for a song getting to no1 lol

Do you brag?

In order to brag, I have to be impressed. I won't be impressed by you. So you haven't bragged to me. Come back when you win a Pulitzer or a Nobel prize.

Lol, ive not bragged to anyone on here...the point is about braggers and not the actual brag x"

My point still stands, and I'm sure many others feel the same. Why do you want to brag? To feel acceptance? Have you thought you may be overcompensating for a latent lack of confidence? Try reading a pamphlet or something. There are many available. Dozens probably.

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis


"What do you think of people who brag?

I like to brag about my celebrity encounters and being loosely...very very loosely responsible for a song getting to no1 lol

Do you brag?"

I personally don't- in fact, I'm very self effacing & get uncomfortable if anyone heaps praise on me!

If anyone brags, I'm instantly turned off. It smacks of arrogance & self importance, however, my friends could gush for hours about

An achievement or something they're proud of & I'll gladly listen & encourage them to tell me everything!

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

They are proud and passionate about something so yes carry on.

I brag. I'm pretty damn proud of what I have achieved in my lifetime, and will happily share it, some will see it as bragging. Some will not.

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By *oofy321 OP   Man
over a year ago

moon base zero


"What do you think of people who brag?

I like to brag about my celebrity encounters and being loosely...very very loosely responsible for a song getting to no1 lol

Do you brag?

In order to brag, I have to be impressed. I won't be impressed by you. So you haven't bragged to me. Come back when you win a Pulitzer or a Nobel prize.

Lol, ive not bragged to anyone on here...the point is about braggers and not the actual brag x

My point still stands, and I'm sure many others feel the same. Why do you want to brag? To feel acceptance? Have you thought you may be overcompensating for a latent lack of confidence? Try reading a pamphlet or something. There are many available. Dozens probably."

Lol I might send you a lengthy message all about my brags....

Probably not though lol xxx

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I find people who brag tend to be less confident in themselves x

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By *oofy321 OP   Man
over a year ago

moon base zero

Is it bragging if I tell my stories to someone who starts with their stories?

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By *alking HeadMan
over a year ago

Bolton


"Is it bragging if I tell my stories to someone who starts with their stories?"

Strictly speaking that's one upmanship so slightly different rules apply. Feel free to embellish the truth under this scenario.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blowing your own trumpet, showing off, bragging just lacks class. It’s so much better for someone else to say “wow, look what you’ve done, thats amazing”.

The only exception to the rule is a job interview when you need to demonstrate your achievements.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Blowing your own trumpet, showing off, bragging just lacks class. It’s so much better for someone else to say “wow, look what you’ve done, thats amazing”.

The only exception to the rule is a job interview when you need to demonstrate your achievements. "

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"They are proud and passionate about something so yes carry on.

I brag. I'm pretty damn proud of what I have achieved in my lifetime, and will happily share it, some will see it as bragging. Some will not."

Agree and it should not matter what others think about you talking about your achievements!

Maybe we have been brought up to be too modest at times. In the natural world the alpha male displays his wealth, power, achievements, ability to provide a superbly constructed nest to win over the female. So maybe some of that comes across as bragging when originally it was more about survival - just a thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a message from a young guy who proceeded to tell me in graphic detail what he had done to a certain famous Irish rock stars wife …. Very distasteful , zero discretion . I wrote him off as a cockwomble idiot

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

Nope, makes you come across as a knobhead

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By *oofy321 OP   Man
over a year ago

moon base zero


"Nope, makes you come across as a knobhead "

Dont need to brag for that lol

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire


"They are proud and passionate about something so yes carry on.

I brag. I'm pretty damn proud of what I have achieved in my lifetime, and will happily share it, some will see it as bragging. Some will not.

Agree and it should not matter what others think about you talking about your achievements!

Maybe we have been brought up to be too modest at times. In the natural world the alpha male displays his wealth, power, achievements, ability to provide a superbly constructed nest to win over the female. So maybe some of that comes across as bragging when originally it was more about survival - just a thought. "
,, its how you put it across x

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By *alking HeadMan
over a year ago

Bolton


"They are proud and passionate about something so yes carry on.

I brag. I'm pretty damn proud of what I have achieved in my lifetime, and will happily share it, some will see it as bragging. Some will not.

Agree and it should not matter what others think about you talking about your achievements!

Maybe we have been brought up to be too modest at times. In the natural world the alpha male displays his wealth, power, achievements, ability to provide a superbly constructed nest to win over the female. So maybe some of that comes across as bragging when originally it was more about survival - just a thought. "

The alpha male idea has been shown to be nonsense. Humans are far too complex to be reduced to such a binary system. Whereas bragging just screams "please be impressed by my achievements/car/friends". Deep seated reasons for that neediness? Quiet confidence is much more attractive.

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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago

london stratford

I am not a bragger as such.

BUT

I have been in situations where Men have tried to be the Alpha and slag me off for my height or cock size. All I do is show them a photograph of me getting my cock sucked by three women and that usually shuts them up.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I brag about my blowjob skills.

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By *alking HeadMan
over a year ago

Bolton


"I am not a bragger as such.

BUT

I have been in situations where Men have tried to be the Alpha and slag me off for my height or cock size. All I do is show them a photograph of me getting my cock sucked by three women and that usually shuts them up."

Thing is, they never expect you to just say "Just shut your cakehole you bellend". The shock tactic stops them in their tracks. You do have to be prepared for it getting ugly though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am not a bragger as such.

BUT

I have been in situations where Men have tried to be the Alpha and slag me off for my height or cock size. All I do is show them a photograph of me getting my cock sucked by three women and that usually shuts them up.

Thing is, they never expect you to just say "Just shut your cakehole you bellend". The shock tactic stops them in their tracks. You do have to be prepared for it getting ugly though. "

On the contrary, that's exactly the reaction that they're expecting and trying to get.

Nothing screams big dick energy louder than simply proving through actions or pictures documenting past actions to T-pose with superiority over haters. Men who have to publicly slag off other men for their height or cock sizes are often projecting their own worst insecurities about the exact same thing they're dissing other men about, and most certainly not getting laid as much if at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I cannot *stand* arrogance. I HATE it! It’s my least favourite personality trait and I remove myself from situations/people when it’s being perpetuated.

I’m well aware that will be seen as intolerant and an overreaction but, for better or worse, it’s me.

It’s probably because I’m a very reserved and low-key (but unspeakably amazing) person. I find humility and modesty very attractive in people and I’m far more likely to be interested in what they have to say than an arrogant prick."

Where do you draw the line between arrogance and confidence? Is it a bad thing for someone to be confident about himself/something he's done/someone he has, and not be shy about showing it publicly?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of the time it's people over compensating for their insecurities. Other times, it's just genuinely being proud of what they have achieved. Whatever the reason, people will react to it in a way that reflects their insecurities.

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By *haron StonerTV/TS
over a year ago

Haywards Heath

I used to work at a place, where keeping your mouth shut about who came and went was a very good idea.

Other lads, were gone like the next day for opening their yaps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For people who say there is a “right” and “wrong” time to brag. What are those times?

A friend of mine asked what I’d done at the weekend, and when I replied to that he got pissed off and said stop bragging (I was 100% NOT bragging. I was answering his question).

Ever since then I’ve taken the whole concept of “bragging” with a pinch of salt. I think it mainly offends people with insecurities who misinterpret things.

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