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By *ecky124 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Middlewich

What’s the best bullshit excuse you’ve heard for somebody not turning up to a meet?

I’ll start you off I’m too d*unk to drive

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

I liked shoot me off better.

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By *pank the MonkeyCouple
over a year ago

Down the Rabbit Hole and Round the Corner

I'm dead, but I'm sure I'll feel better next week

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

My favourite is when they no show with no excuse or apology then try to invite themselves back over a couple of weeks later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was meant to meet a guy, he didn't turn up but later messaged to say his elderly neighbour needed help with moving a wardrobe....

Had a club meet arranged, he messaged me just as I was walking out of the door to say he was meeting someone else and taking them instead....

Ironic thing he messaged me an hour later to say she stood him up, was I still free? - Er 'fuck off' was my response

One guy saying he was about to leave but his mate had an epileptic fit and he couldn't leave him

People can be shit sometimes

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

Someone said they couldn’t meet me for a social because they were hungover.

I knew it was bollocks and this was confirmed when, later that day, I read the verification from the bloke she actually met.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"My favourite is when they no show with no excuse or apology then try to invite themselves back over a couple of weeks later "

This

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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago

Gleam Street


"My favourite is when they no show with no excuse or apology then try to invite themselves back over a couple of weeks later

This "

Always a favourite... but

"Sorry, was at my friends and didnt realise the traffic would be so bad" is my personal fave... from someone in the same city... who knew the rush hour traffic

Wondered why I wasnt willing to wait 40 mins for him

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By *ecky124 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Middlewich

I’m glad it’s not just me and I heard a few of them

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By *.T.Man
over a year ago

Belfast

"I've had a better offer"

Clearly bullshit coz I'm the best

But in all seriousness, got blown out as a "flatmate" were just popping in, then were staying. I was on their street too and messaging just after I parked up a street away, there was no one entering a flat anywhere!

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By *ecky124 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Middlewich

I drove all the way to Runcorn got to where they said there flat was the person was on the balcony watching as I turned up then went radio silent when I left they messaged again to come back fucked them off after that wild goose chase won’t meet anyone from Runcorn

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By *ecky124 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Middlewich

Just had one just now I’ve been called into work ffs lmao

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle


"Someone said they couldn’t meet me for a social because they were hungover.

I knew it was bollocks and this was confirmed when, later that day, I read the verification from the bloke she actually met."
Aww bless you! I think we all have experienced let downs on here, Or should i say gobshites. Haha

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle


"I drove all the way to Runcorn got to where they said there flat was the person was on the balcony watching as I turned up then went radio silent when I left they messaged again to come back fucked them off after that wild goose chase won’t meet anyone from Runcorn "
Aww bless goof for you! They sound a tad creepy. Lol x

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle


"I drove all the way to Runcorn got to where they said there flat was the person was on the balcony watching as I turned up then went radio silent when I left they messaged again to come back fucked them off after that wild goose chase won’t meet anyone from Runcorn Aww bless goof for you! They sound a tad creepy. Lol x "
*Good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Busy init

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By *ecky124 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Middlewich


"I drove all the way to Runcorn got to where they said there flat was the person was on the balcony watching as I turned up then went radio silent when I left they messaged again to come back fucked them off after that wild goose chase won’t meet anyone from Runcorn Aww bless goof for you! They sound a tad creepy. Lol x *Good"
was worried about getting jumped to be honest

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle


"I drove all the way to Runcorn got to where they said there flat was the person was on the balcony watching as I turned up then went radio silent when I left they messaged again to come back fucked them off after that wild goose chase won’t meet anyone from Runcorn Aww bless goof for you! They sound a tad creepy. Lol x *Good was worried about getting jumped to be honest "
Aww bless you hun! You have to be careful, Maybe meet in a public place.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

The old “I’ve been called into work”. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got hungry on the way

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I got the shits

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

A bloke actually went outside his house to get in his car to come and meet me, only to remember his car was in the garage.

Fair play to him though he just jumped on the train and came anyway...

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By *ecky124 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Middlewich


"The old “I’ve been called into work”. Lol. "
yes I had that an hour ago and then his profile disappeared lmao

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By *hisisntpofMan
over a year ago

bristol

Whats a meet ?

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By *ecky124 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Middlewich


"A bloke actually went outside his house to get in his car to come and meet me, only to remember his car was in the garage.

Fair play to him though he just jumped on the train and came anyway..."
fantastic at least he made the effort

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I didn't think you would turn up

So I rubbed it in by saying I'd booked a hotel as you wanted to meet now that has gone to waste plus cost

I never booked but did turn up I'm not that gullible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After I arrived She said on the phone.. umm which one are you now ?

She forgot

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By *ecky124 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Middlewich


"After I arrived She said on the phone.. umm which one are you now ?

She forgot "
oh dear god lol what did you do ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've hurt my finger!

My dog needs the vet

I have to take my mum to hospital

A brick has just been thrown through my window.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After I arrived She said on the phone.. umm which one are you now ?

She forgot oh dear god lol what did you do ?"

I tried to jog her memory but I felt she wasn't into me, so I left.

It was her suggestion to meet and we had spoken about it the night before and early on in the morning. I guess she must of been chatting with a lot of guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bet there are more from men to women. Why isn’t “I changed my mind” good enough three days.

Such drama.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

At least 2 different pet types had deaths . Plus a relative's death

1 guy forgot his car MOT had expired

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone said they couldn’t meet me for a social because they were hungover.

I knew it was bollocks and this was confirmed when, later that day, I read the verification from the bloke she actually met."

Dark behaviours really. We most overlook many give way signs. Texting and apps have nose dived many things. Look carefully many tell on themselves.

Dont buy their looks. Always see the brazen actions.

Many are blinded by the shite covered in glitter!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My favourite is when they no show with no excuse or apology then try to invite themselves back over a couple of weeks later

This "

Turn up on Valentines,their birthday. Or when they been dumped,or bored.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish mine were more inventive, I either get car trouble or simply 'they forgot'

If someone truely wants to be there they will.

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Found someone better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish mine were more inventive, I either get car trouble or simply 'they forgot'

If someone truely wants to be there they will."

Yeah they will. Or they wont.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I drove all the way to Runcorn got to where they said there flat was the person was on the balcony watching as I turned up then went radio silent when I left they messaged again to come back fucked them off after that wild goose chase won’t meet anyone from Runcorn Aww bless goof for you! They sound a tad creepy. Lol x *Good was worried about getting jumped to be honest "

They take the mick. Only if you let them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The old “I’ve been called into work”. Lol. "

Only 1 chance. I dont mind whom they are. Or think they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had one just now I’ve been called into work ffs lmao"
did you buy it?? Bet you did an all. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got the shits"
had the runnys before the meet date!!

Flush em down the bogg i do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whats a meet ? "

Yeah! On here esp. Lol.

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By *evonrobMan
over a year ago

Kingsbridge

I’m looking forward to getting as far as bs excuses!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I didn't think you would turn up

So I rubbed it in by saying I'd booked a hotel as you wanted to meet now that has gone to waste plus cost

I never booked but did turn up I'm not that gullible "

Meet them halfway. Without investment ,you will get shafted .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I didn't think you would turn up

So I rubbed it in by saying I'd booked a hotel as you wanted to meet now that has gone to waste plus cost

I never booked but did turn up I'm not that gullible "

I told my meet to book the hotel. She did. Met ect. Had good time. I even got hotel money refunded for her.

That was in 2010. People have changed,reality.

From london to buxton.

All my meets been out in the real world. Non off fabb.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t fancy you Woody! Pfft, sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After I arrived She said on the phone.. umm which one are you now ?

She forgot oh dear god lol what did you do ?

I tried to jog her memory but I felt she wasn't into me, so I left.

It was her suggestion to meet and we had spoken about it the night before and early on in the morning. I guess she must of been chatting with a lot of guys.

"

Options is always and has been.

Gùys up the game!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I bet there are more from men to women. Why isn’t “I changed my mind” good enough three days.

Such drama. "

Brits dont do honesty! Fact.

2faced mostly. Fast city pace doggie eat doggie vibes etc.

Watch wats comeing! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At least 2 different pet types had deaths . Plus a relative's death

1 guy forgot his car MOT had expired "
bet he died and you kissed him alive via fabb

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By *ixey and CopperCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We own a pub and have had to cancel lots of meets due to work issues, normally staffing.

We only go to clubs now so we don't muck anyone around.

We've had to give some weird excuses for cancelling, but have always been genuine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wwhen Men/women really want to see you,they make it easy for you.

When they dont. They make excuses.

You will never knows peoples " mental state " online or otherwise.

The world is going through massive turbulant times. Its spirutual battle

Many say i dont kiss. But il fuck. Fuckng is deeper than a kiss. Lol.

Many say my posts are too much n deep!

Understand what you wish?

Your choice is you. No right nor wrong.

Steal food,steal affection,steal sex.

Oh i wont kiss lol.

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By *ommyTighMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Met at the planned hotel (lobby), said hi, they disappeared to the toilet and came saying family drama at home I need to go.

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

Wish I got exscuses I just got as if I would meet you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t fancy you Woody! Pfft, sure "

Your ok. Woody harlson. Can you jump? Lol

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

We love the no shows and no excuses ! and non meet related excuse was the hamster had ate their camera so they couldn't go on cam ??.....but as already said we do laugh when they try to meet up again ?? normally under a different name but same pictures ??

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

One guy messaged to say that he had been to a wake and was too pissed to meet.Another guy couldn't meet because it was too icy to ride his bike!

M and M

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

BUT what is a "Meet" anyway ?? we've heard of them but suggest meeting outside of a club in Plymouth you are considered well weird...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Met at the planned hotel (lobby), said hi, they disappeared to the toilet and came saying family drama at home I need to go.

"

Geee thats COLD. What did you really do??

Many post on here saying guys were ugly.

Seen the state of some Mutton dressed as Chicken n chips lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wwhen Men/women really want to see you,they make it easy for you.

When they dont. They make excuses.

……

"

This is absolutely true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" BUT what is a "Meet" anyway ?? we've heard of them but suggest meeting outside of a club in Plymouth you are considered well weird... "
.. least you can fuck. Not them. They had no intention of meeting you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wwhen Men/women really want to see you,they make it easy for you.

When they dont. They make excuses.

……

This is absolutely true. "

Bare facts

Go by this code. Its bullet proof!

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By *D of funCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Forgot the football was on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was told after being stood up that I looked like her ex, it then changed to her brother then I realised I hadn't shared a face pic!

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By *rhugesMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

My worst one was I paid for a hotel after a women who I had met before said she was coming 100% but an hour before she was due said her daughter had popped over and do couldn't make it, but would split the bill with me

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By *ommyTighMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"My worst one was I paid for a hotel after a women who I had met before said she was coming 100% but an hour before she was due said her daughter had popped over and do couldn't make it, but would split the bill with me"

Chatted since or been ghosted?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My worst one was I paid for a hotel after a women who I had met before said she was coming 100% but an hour before she was due said her daughter had popped over and do couldn't make it, but would split the bill with me

Chatted since or been ghosted?"

Bill splitted? Any further meets? After the surprise drop in from Daughter, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was told after being stood up that I looked like her ex, it then changed to her brother then I realised I hadn't shared a face pic!"

Omg. Would you still want to mwet up,after all that,back n forth?

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Years ago a I'd arranged a a social meet ,he messages the day before saying he can't make it as

he is having his son.

Fair enough ,things happen

However new graphic verification appeared for that night!.

He still winks ,but won't get anywhere after that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something important came up, can't meet today.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“Iam at work” , so lame. They are signed in all day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to feed the cat/dog, neighbours or both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"“Iam at work” , so lame. They are signed in all day. "

Im intrigued by this one.

I never sign out. So does it show me permanently online??

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"“Iam at work” , so lame. They are signed in all day.

Im intrigued by this one.

I never sign out. So does it show me permanently online??"

I'm not sure ,you're online now ,that blue dot shows it.

I've left myself logged in all night before by accident & I didn't have views etc ,maybe because I wasn't interacting anywhere .

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

The train she was on ran over a cow!

It was actually true, but it sounds like a very inventive made up excuse, and it still makes me chuckle

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"The train she was on ran over a cow!

It was actually true, but it sounds like a very inventive made up excuse, and it still makes me chuckle "

What breed and colour was the cow?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had to collect too good to go

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By *d4fun73Man
over a year ago

Shipley

Someone's insta account was hacked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dry cleaning to collect

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By *ssexlad0Man
over a year ago

Essex


"My favourite is when they no show with no excuse or apology then try to invite themselves back over a couple of weeks later "

Lol what. People do this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The train she was on ran over a cow!

It was actually true, but it sounds like a very inventive made up excuse, and it still makes me chuckle "

Moooooop all Udders and no milk!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep saying openly

When people want to meet you. Men/women they make it easy for you.

When they dont want to or never had any intentions to do so. The excuses come out,

Always look at their actions! Not lame words.

I just had a couple contact me on kik

Hi etc. Now gone awol

But still online here on fab

Its all a shitty childs play game.

I dont do 2nd chances my times far to valuable to waste.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

social meet in a pub! "just waiting to see if it stops raining" (he was driving not walking to the pub)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"social meet in a pub! "just waiting to see if it stops raining" (he was driving not walking to the pub) "

Horse back maybe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He dropped his phone in the petrol station so couldn't use his sat nav anymore due to a chipped screen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got hit by tumble

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

I've been admitted to hospital with suspected sex addiction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was trying to arrange a meet and suggested a time and a place a lot closer to her than me. Her response was it's dark and I don't know the place very well.

I thought to myself does you car not have lights and do you not have sat nav?

I do feel people look for any excuse sometimes. Just be honest, it's not that difficult.

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"I was trying to arrange a meet and suggested a time and a place a lot closer to her than me. Her response was it's dark and I don't know the place very well.

I thought to myself does you car not have lights and do you not have sat nav?

I do feel people look for any excuse sometimes. Just be honest, it's not that difficult."
she was stupid and blind

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"I didn't think you would turn up

So I rubbed it in by saying I'd booked a hotel as you wanted to meet now that has gone to waste plus cost

I never booked but did turn up I'm not that gullible

Meet them halfway. Without investment ,you will get shafted . "

I'm not stupid enough to book a hotel until the actual meet last minute booking once met just adds to the excitement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was trying to arrange a meet and suggested a time and a place a lot closer to her than me. Her response was it's dark and I don't know the place very well.

I thought to myself does you car not have lights and do you not have sat nav?

I do feel people look for any excuse sometimes. Just be honest, it's not that difficult.she was stupid and blind "

Piss takers. I fuck them types off. Dont care hott they think they are. Lol

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By *rlandoMan
over a year ago

Yorks/Lincs

I had to pick my uncle up from the airport ! he s got one arm but two suitcases ....

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

NG 21


"I was meant to meet a guy, he didn't turn up but later messaged to say his elderly neighbour needed help with moving a wardrobe....

Had a club meet arranged, he messaged me just as I was walking out of the door to say he was meeting someone else and taking them instead....

Ironic thing he messaged me an hour later to say she stood him up, was I still free? - Er 'fuck off' was my response

One guy saying he was about to leave but his mate had an epileptic fit and he couldn't leave him

People can be shit sometimes "

Who the f##k in thier right mind would stand you up.

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

I'd arranged a meeting with a guy at a club, this club has rooms to sleep for a night. Guy says he's booked a room and I could stay with him.

Messaging went back and forth for a week, packed an overnight bag etc and drove an hour and a half to the club, the guy tells me he's on his way.

Pulled up outside the club, guy says his car has broken down and he's waiting for the AA. I went into the club, had some fun then saw a message to say his alternator had packed in and was being towed home.

So I think, I'll have the room he booked, unfortunately for him the staff told me everyone who'd booked a room had arrived! Luckily I hadn't had a drink so I stayed to the end, had a great night and drove home again.

When I raised the thing about the rooms being full, he didn't reply but asked if I would meet him there in a couple of weeks???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone stole my overnight bag

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
over a year ago

South West London

On the day I was meant to meet a woman, she made me call her just to tell me she was too tired to meet up again but despite that stayed on the phone for an hour before finishing talking to her

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By *urious4Woman
over a year ago

bristol

Not had a no show but had plenty of provision plans. On the day the person ghosts. I’ve learned not to wait around because they always message again……forgetting that you’ve spoken before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was meant to meet a guy, he didn't turn up but later messaged to say his elderly neighbour needed help with moving a wardrobe....

Had a club meet arranged, he messaged me just as I was walking out of the door to say he was meeting someone else and taking them instead....

Ironic thing he messaged me an hour later to say she stood him up, was I still free? - Er 'fuck off' was my response

One guy saying he was about to leave but his mate had an epileptic fit and he couldn't leave him

People can be shit sometimes

Who the f##k in thier right mind would stand you up. "

That bunch of heckers that's who

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By *urve_your_enthusiasmWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

What about a guy that turns up to a meet to a club, sees you, says hello and then says he's going for a fag. Never saw him again. He messaged me later to say he was overwhelmed. There was no pressure to play obviously!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about a guy that turns up to a meet to a club, sees you, says hello and then says he's going for a fag. Never saw him again. He messaged me later to say he was overwhelmed. There was no pressure to play obviously!!"

Before anyone asks it wasn’t me

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield


"I got the shits"

To be fair, on quite a long car ride to a meet, I became unwell and had to stop off somewhere. . Fortunately after composing myself, I eventually arrived. About 45 mins late.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whats a meet ? "

I was wondering that too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry we can't meet as arranged, the babysitter's fallen sick."

Or sometimes the worst excuse is literally no excuse given at all. Just build you up to the meet, then ghost on you the day you're supposed to meet them.

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By *ldFashionedGentMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"I wish mine were more inventive, I either get car trouble or simply 'they forgot'

If someone truely wants to be there they will."

Forgot! Honestly some people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry I ate my mother's cooking....( my excuse btw)

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By *ldFashionedGentMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"I was meant to meet a guy, he didn't turn up but later messaged to say his elderly neighbour needed help with moving a wardrobe....

Had a club meet arranged, he messaged me just as I was walking out of the door to say he was meeting someone else and taking them instead....

Ironic thing he messaged me an hour later to say she stood him up, was I still free? - Er 'fuck off' was my response

One guy saying he was about to leave but his mate had an epileptic fit and he couldn't leave him

People can be shit sometimes

Who the f##k in thier right mind would stand you up. "

I’m glad you said it I was about to

Honestly some people are evidently mad

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

my car broke down (then a new veri for that night on the profile)

my dog died (not true, saw pictures of the dog alive afterwards)

my daughter gave birth (not till a week after the meet was planned)

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

Sorry can't make it because:

1. The Mrs wants me to take her to Asda

2. I have to wait in because my mate has broken down and he needs to stop by to borrow my AA membership card

3. I'm tied up at Coutts

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By *ldFashionedGentMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"Sorry can't make it because:

1. The Mrs wants me to take her to Asda

2. I have to wait in because my mate has broken down and he needs to stop by to borrow my AA membership card

3. I'm tied up at Coutts

"

Well at least he got a first rate banking experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry can't make it because:

1. The Mrs wants me to take her to Asda

2. I have to wait in because my mate has broken down and he needs to stop by to borrow my AA membership card

3. I'm tied up at Coutts

"

What’s Coutts? Might have to use that one

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat


"Sorry can't make it because:

1. The Mrs wants me to take her to Asda

2. I have to wait in because my mate has broken down and he needs to stop by to borrow my AA membership card

3. I'm tied up at Coutts

What’s Coutts? Might have to use that one "

The bank for over-privileged wankers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Years ago I was travelling by train to meet someone and the train stopped. The guy on the train said we couldn't travel any further because of fallen leaves on the track.

I thought my meet is never going to believe me when I tell her this. and I don't think she did.

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
over a year ago

South West London

Oh another lame excuse - I was suppose to meet a girl for New Years but the day before we were meant too meet up she tells me her sister come from abroad and staying over for a month or whatever so couldn't meet again that day. So haven't arrange another meeting with her but for some reason she likes to send me naked pictures and videos of herself although it doesn't show her face without me actually me asking for them

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"Not had a no show but had plenty of provision plans. On the day the person ghosts. I’ve learned not to wait around because they always message again……forgetting that you’ve spoken before."

hell yep, and also forgot when you have said "thanks but no thanks" lol thank goodness for the block button

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By *haron StonerTV/TS
over a year ago

Haywards Heath

Sometimes they are full of shit and it's best not to fuck them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh another lame excuse - I was suppose to meet a girl for New Years but the day before we were meant too meet up she tells me her sister come from abroad and staying over for a month or whatever so couldn't meet again that day. So haven't arrange another meeting with her but for some reason she likes to send me naked pictures and videos of herself although it doesn't show her face without me actually me asking for them"

Honeytrap! Mindgames. Dont fall for any of it tbh

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle


"I drove all the way to Runcorn got to where they said there flat was the person was on the balcony watching as I turned up then went radio silent when I left they messaged again to come back fucked them off after that wild goose chase won’t meet anyone from Runcorn Aww bless goof for you! They sound a tad creepy. Lol x *Good was worried about getting jumped to be honest

They take the mick. Only if you let them. "

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
over a year ago

South West London


"Oh another lame excuse - I was suppose to meet a girl for New Years but the day before we were meant too meet up she tells me her sister come from abroad and staying over for a month or whatever so couldn't meet again that day. So haven't arrange another meeting with her but for some reason she likes to send me naked pictures and videos of herself although it doesn't show her face without me actually me asking for them

Honeytrap! Mindgames. Dont fall for any of it tbh"
Yeah you're right and too be honest when she does message me, I limit my responses to her

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"Oh another lame excuse - I was suppose to meet a girl for New Years but the day before we were meant too meet up she tells me her sister come from abroad and staying over for a month or whatever so couldn't meet again that day. So haven't arrange another meeting with her but for some reason she likes to send me naked pictures and videos of herself although it doesn't show her face without me actually me asking for them

Honeytrap! Mindgames. Dont fall for any of it tbh"

Thats a man baby!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only ever had a whole one meet set up on here, many years ago on an old old old old old account. Supposed to meet up in town centre. So I went. Waited a couple of hours. Went home. Messaged her, finally got a reply hours later saying she was asleep. Asked if we could rearrange the meet and she blocked me. Could have just told me she didn't want to meet instead of having me piss about going into town lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh another lame excuse - I was suppose to meet a girl for New Years but the day before we were meant too meet up she tells me her sister come from abroad and staying over for a month or whatever so couldn't meet again that day. So haven't arrange another meeting with her but for some reason she likes to send me naked pictures and videos of herself although it doesn't show her face without me actually me asking for them

Honeytrap! Mindgames. Dont fall for any of it tbh Yeah you're right and too be honest when she does message me, I limit my responses to her "

Too good to be true, it normally is too good to be true.

Research Grey rock method!

Your basic replys are still fuel for control!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only ever had a whole one meet set up on here, many years ago on an old old old old old account. Supposed to meet up in town centre. So I went. Waited a couple of hours. Went home. Messaged her, finally got a reply hours later saying she was asleep. Asked if we could rearrange the meet and she blocked me. Could have just told me she didn't want to meet instead of having me piss about going into town lol."
you confirmed you there!'

Yet again, mind control is being played out here,

Some are men, with profiles,some hate men outright.

Some very otherwise dislike society at large. The whole net is a deep web and all tangled within it all.

It was meant to be a simple tool to use, but has become uncontrolable to massive proportions beyond reverse or repair!

Safe thing unplug!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh another lame excuse - I was suppose to meet a girl for New Years but the day before we were meant too meet up she tells me her sister come from abroad and staying over for a month or whatever so couldn't meet again that day. So haven't arrange another meeting with her but for some reason she likes to send me naked pictures and videos of herself although it doesn't show her face without me actually me asking for them

Honeytrap! Mindgames. Dont fall for any of it tbh

Thats a man baby! "

Chickie with a Dickie! Lol

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By *oubleTrouble666Couple
over a year ago

Hampshire


"

Brits dont do honesty! Fact.

2faced mostly."

Just a bit RACIST!

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Brits dont do honesty! Fact.

2faced mostly.

Just a bit RACIST!"

Naaaaah none whatsoever, onservation and trend the norm really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about a guy that turns up to a meet to a club, sees you, says hello and then says he's going for a fag. Never saw him again. He messaged me later to say he was overwhelmed. There was no pressure to play obviously!!"

Should ave rang a Friend!! Lol pep talk etc.

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

Is... "my fanny fell off" a valid excuse?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is... "my fanny fell off" a valid excuse? "

More got Blocked up well!!

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By *ane DTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

I had someone call off as they "slipped on dog shite" on the way to the car...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had someone call off as they "slipped on dog shite" on the way to the car..."
smells n stinks of Shite here now! Pheeèeeew.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a guy cancel because I wasn't replying to his messages asking where I was.

I was driving, on the motorway to his place at the time.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Not me but there was a post once about a guy who got locked in the fridge while getting some ham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get why people can't just say they've changed their mind or they've got cold feet. Instead of insulting us with shitty excuses. It's so frustrating. X

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By *ultured Gent16Man
over a year ago

close.

I actually did get a flat tyre on my way to meet someone.

Looked in the boot, spare was flat.

Had to get a mate to come and pick me up from the roads side.

It wouldn’t have been so bad if I was travelling 2-3 hours to wales….

So I did the decent thing, Called and booked it for the next weekend.

Us guys aren’t all full of excrement.

Some times genuine things crop up.

It would take a lot for me to call a meeting off like one of my kids being seriously ill or something a similar gravitation occurrence.

Rude, selfish and ignorant people make others so paranoid to even arrange meet-ups and spoil it for the genuine ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get why people can't just say they've changed their mind or they've got cold feet. Instead of insulting us with shitty excuses. It's so frustrating. X"
could be a uk trend maybe? .deep reasons why people do things good or bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From a tv's pov, I've had them all, too many to mention, they want us and then get scared

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