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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Women only please x

Just got onto here recently and see so much fun all around aha

Any advice for a first time meet, feel like

it’s my first time aha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have no expectations, relax and when the time comes hopefully your penis will cooperate.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aha."

Can you take on me? Can you take me home! I'll be gone though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wise words haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have no expectations, relax and when the time comes hopefully your penis will cooperate.

Good luck! "

Really helpful x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Women only please x

Just got onto here recently and see so much fun all around aha

Any advice for a first time meet, feel like

it’s my first time aha"

Welcome to the forums .

Have you arranged a meet and you want advice or are you asking for advice on getting that elusive first meet?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

On getting the meet x

Feel like I want to get verified but can’t because my acc seems dodgy

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Think about your profile. What is it that you have to offer someone you meet, and why would they want to meet you? Show that in your profile text and pictures. Many people look at that before they look at your messages.

Think about your approach when you message women - what tends to elicit a response, if anything? What doesn't?

Consider clubs and socials - if you're polite you're likely to get a meet verification (which is something many people consider a minimum requirement) from someone in those contexts, even if you don't get any action from it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"On getting the meet x

Feel like I want to get verified but can’t because my acc seems dodgy"

Ok.

You're one among many and meets can be difficult to come by. Obviously I'm not your target audience but you might consider how many women of any age are attracted to a penis entering a vagina.

Otherwise the advice above is useful too

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

You're interests say safe sex... Your photo says different.

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London


"Aha.

Can you take on me? Can you take me home! I'll be gone though."

But for you I'll be hunting high and low

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You're interests say safe sex... Your photo says different.

"

Aha it was a person I knew long term, so we’re both a bit more open with eachother

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"You're interests say safe sex... Your photo says different.

Aha it was a person I knew long term, so we’re both a bit more open with eachother "

That kind of thing can be seen as a contradiction and it's worth thinking about

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"You're interests say safe sex... Your photo says different.

Aha it was a person I knew long term, so we’re both a bit more open with eachother

That kind of thing can be seen as a contradiction and it's worth thinking about "

Especially if its your only public photo.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"You're interests say safe sex... Your photo says different.

Aha it was a person I knew long term, so we’re both a bit more open with eachother "

Obviously you don't have to take the advice offered if you don't agree with it but has any of this helped you at all?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On getting the meet x

Feel like I want to get verified but can’t because my acc seems dodgy"

We wouldn't even look at you with just a silhouette, some guys put days and weeks worth of effort into their profiles, some build them over years. These are you competitors and fab is heavily weighted in allowing single females and couples to be very selective.

If you want to be verified then best bet is a club, you have loads locally but we respect they aren't for everybody. Good luck

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