FabSwingers.com forum: Change one thing about you

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If you could change one thing about you what would you change?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m practically perfect in every way

That being said, I would be slimmer

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I'd drop the inner saboteur

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

My popularity on fab

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

My age wish I was twenty years younger and know what I know .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you could change one thing about you what would you change? "

My socks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just one thing?...I'd like to change a few things please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely nothing

My flaws, my traits even my 'lumiere than they should be' lumps....

It makes me imperfectly perfect. And that's enough for me

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By *illloganMan
over a year ago

Essex

Was expecting penis size as the top answer when I clicked on this thread.

As we are being adults... Ill go with changing how introvert I am

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By *KG12Couple
over a year ago

Burnley

Probably make my right eye straight

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By *idlandiaMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Bank balance could do with a big improvement...

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

I could do with losing a bit of weight.

I'll rewrite that. I'm going to loose a bit of weight.

Gbat

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

Can I have 2?

To be thinner and to be able to tan as I’m lily white

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By *ttentiveRabbitMan
over a year ago

Lymington

The cycle of going to bed too late and waking up feeling shattered and promising myself to go to bed earlier.

Only to forget and repeat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My post c section belly

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By *empusMan
over a year ago

Poole

"The cycle of going to bed too late and waking up feeling shattered and promising myself to go to bed earlier.

Only to forget and repeat "

Time and time again. It’s okay though, I’ll get a early night tomorrow to make up for it

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

I'm going to need to convene a working group to prioritise the long shortlist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take a stone off me please

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By *ttentiveRabbitMan
over a year ago

Lymington

"The cycle of going to bed too late and waking up feeling shattered and promising myself to go to bed earlier.

Only to forget and repeat

Time and time again. It’s okay though, I’ll get a early night tomorrow to make up for it"

I keep telling myself I will do the wake up at 5am in thing..... Once.

Was good but oh God the bed is so hard to leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you could change one thing about you what would you change? "

Nothing I'm happy and comfortable in my own skin, and accept the whole of who I am, how I am and what I am

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

Nose and chin. Hate them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course, it would be to reduce my massively oversized penis!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

to be able to let my emotions out

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"to be able to let my emotions out"

I’m sure it will come in time lovely. Hugs xx

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By *weetkitten65Woman
over a year ago

Halifax

My neck...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nose and chin. Hate them "

Yowch! Everything else seems to be pretty perfect! x

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I would just love to have a little bit longer legs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would just love to have a little bit longer legs

The rack get on the rack

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"I would just love to have a little bit longer legs

But then you’d just be Bird.

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By *ttentiveRabbitMan
over a year ago

Lymington

"I would just love to have a little bit longer legs

But then you'll be bigbird

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By *ixieAndHerKingCouple
over a year ago

Debauchery

I'd like to have golden red ginger pubes

Yep, that's it I think

Cherry x

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By *mp411Man
over a year ago

chester

Stop being so bloody nice to idiots

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By *mperfectwomanWoman
over a year ago

Near Morley

I’d be more people friendly.

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

My body. I’d like to revert back to my 17 year old body please

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"I would just love to have a little bit longer legs

The rack get on the rack

My rack is big enough

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I lack confidence... If I could change one thing it would be that

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"I would just love to have a little bit longer legs

But then you’d just be Bird."

I still wouldn’t be Bird or Big Bird I can assure you both. I will still be incredibly little. Just perhaps I might make 5 feet tall

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"I'd like to have golden red ginger pubes

Yep, that's it I think

Cherry x

Can you let me know when you've got it sorted please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have more confidence! I hold myself back on a lot of things due to lacking confidence

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

Take me back in time... Make me younger you magician.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Just my height everything else is fine

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

My digestive system.

Sort that out and the rest will be easy.

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

Frankly, it's a bit late at this stage, but I would have changed my given name at birth; for reasons that I cannot disclose here, my given name caused me a lot of problems when I was very younger and I do not identify with my name.

In the FFL, French Foreign Legion, new recruits are given another name; that would have suited me.

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By *ove2lick27Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

I wish I was taller

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

"I wish I was taller"

Do you wish that you were a baller?

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By *ove2lick27Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

"My body. I’d like to revert back to my 17 year old body please "

Ooosh. There's nothing wrong with your body let me tell you

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

I’d change my health as this sucks and I can’t change it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My body. I’d like to revert back to my 17 year old body please "

Your body is perfect x

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By *elshcouple18Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

If you're happy, as we are, why change anything?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a huge fan of my nose so wouldn't mind if that was smaller

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d change my age, to got back to my early twenties knowing what I know now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing. My life defines me . The good and the bad.

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

"If you could change one thing about you what would you change? "

Bot having to wear cochlear implants

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By *otSoPetiteMortWoman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

I can learn to live with my physical insecurities, but I would like to bring back the person I used to be.

The fun, lively, care-free version who had dreams and saw everything in a positive light.

An abusive ex left me with PTSD and permanent mental health issues. I feel like I'm a shell of who I was and there is no light in my eyes any more and I don't think I could it would even be possible to feel and love the way I used to.

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

what a twat your ex,, be strong you can do this your nice looking lady feel confident you can do this x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just one

lol

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By *annaPlayABCCouple
over a year ago

Bacup

Definitely my penis size..hate being small

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everything..ha.. not even joking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to have ginger pubes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trauma has made me immediately assume the worst in people and be skeptical to trust, I wish I could change that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy with what I have and done.wouldnt change a thing .

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Nothing I like the person I am and my experiences have taught me a lot.

The mr

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"I can learn to live with my physical insecurities, but I would like to bring back the person I used to be.

The fun, lively, care-free version who had dreams and saw everything in a positive light.

That must make for sad reading for your husband

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By *ibi692022Man
over a year ago

Mere

I would change being stupidly in love with someone I can never have.

And to get much fitter.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Banish the grey hairs permanently. Would save me loads on dying it every month

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

"I’m practically perfect in every way

That being said, I would be slimmer

You look fantastic ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My laziness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To stop wearing my heart on my sleeve and being so soft natured.

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

Being better organised I say

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

Make more self care time for me never do that though!

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By *hatBeardedChapMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Only one jeez that's a toughie

Physically probably damaged heart

Mentally probably confidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I have 2?

To be thinner and to be able to tan as I’m lily white "

Your fine as you are..

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

my shyness,,

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

My ass. A nice big fat round ass would be great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I say my face? Or is that classed as more than one thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The wife"

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Be less perfect to give the others a chance!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

After reading one particular thread yesterday, I hadn’t realised how important hair on a man’s head is to the majority of ladies, so I would ask for my receded hairline to be reversed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly, I wouldn't change any particular thing. This doesn't come from a conceited stance, more a "I am what I am", making the best of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I say my face? Or is that classed as more than one thing?

Your face is gorgeous and I personally wouldn't want you to change a thing about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmmm, probably straighter teeth, there not bad at all by any means but would love for them to be straighter.

Miss S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My hair,I would love thick luscious hair

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

"My hair,I would love thick luscious hair"

Good shout I would add that for myself more than a big bum as it goes. I forgot about my hair scalp issue as so used to living with human lace hair sewn In since I transition a decade ago

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

My health, I'd love to be fit and healthy again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tummy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My hair,I would love thick luscious hair

Good shout I would add that for myself more than a big bum as it goes. I forgot about my hair scalp issue as so used to living with human lace hair sewn In since I transition a decade ago

I've always had very thin hair ,nothing improves it sadly

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Height.

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

Right now I want the pain to stop but normally I'd want a bigger booty

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By *ivek68Man
over a year ago

york

To not cum too quickly lol

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By *otSoPetiteMortWoman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

"I can learn to live with my physical insecurities, but I would like to bring back the person I used to be.

The fun, lively, care-free version who had dreams and saw everything in a positive light.

That must make for sad reading for your husband "

Love was probably the wrong word as I don't mean in a romantic sense (although my Husband certainly had his work cut out for him!). I mean love of life, people, hobbies, interests, etc.

It is hard to find the kind of genuine enjoyment in things I used to love because I associate joy or excitement with something bad. I think they will come with consequences or I constantly question my worth or deserving of them and it sets off a war inside my head.

I have been with my Husband for 12 years and he has never hurt me, but I still flinch when he makes sudden movements. I disregard my own feelings or wants because I feel they aren't important, I can fly off the handle with any little criticism, any sort of raised voice will put me into flight mode, I struggle to make my own decisions, and I fight a lot of internal battles.

It is not intentional, it is just how I have been conditioned and although I am not as bad as I was, there are remnants that will probably always remain, no matter what.

I have learned how to cope with it but it doesn't mean it isn't there, and luckily for me, my Husband understands me enough to know it isn't personal, and he does not expect me to "baby" him by putting on an act.

I am happy, but I will probably never be the person I was before the abuse.

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By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester

Would want a big or average size cock and not be a woman's pay pig like I have been

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By *ip2Man
over a year ago

Near Maidenhead

I wish I had better hearing. But then, I can hear the birds sing. I can be grateful.

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"I can learn to live with my physical insecurities, but I would like to bring back the person I used to be.

The fun, lively, care-free version who had dreams and saw everything in a positive light.

That must make for sad reading for your husband

Love was probably the wrong word as I don't mean in a romantic sense (although my Husband certainly had his work cut out for him!). I mean love of life, people, hobbies, interests, etc.

It is not intentional, it is just how I have been conditioned and although I am not as bad as I was, there are remnants that will probably always remain, no matter what.

I am happy, but I will probably never be the person I was before the abuse."

One of most genuine heartfelt posts. I am sorry that you still struggle from what happened in the past to you. I felt really sad reading it and I normally don't comment much unless it's a cake or dinner thread but wanted to wish you all the best.I hope you find ways to feel even better in the future and keep making progress and as you say bring back the person you used to be. That would be the best way to show those that hurt you before that you are strong and better than them.

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By *ip2Man
over a year ago

Near Maidenhead

"...I associate joy or excitement with something bad...

Gosh, that was a heck of a story. It must have taken courage to write that. I'm glad to hear you've improved and feel happy, if never the same as before.

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By *hGlobbitsMan
over a year ago

Leeds

The person, probably.

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By *ensual mMan
over a year ago

conwy

Id rather be a shower than a grower but other than that my body is better than it should be for my age.

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By *andyrod1Man
over a year ago

St Margaret's at Cliffe

Know not to marry my narcissist ex wife, mind you, l knew it was a mistake back then so maybe change it to always listen to the sensible voice in the back of my head.

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Get rid of my anxiety and crippling self doubt and actually be confident

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