FabSwingers.com forum: Private question, public answer

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It’s Sunday, I’m bored in the bath and chronically nosy.

1) Declare yourselves in

2) Choose someone from the thread to private message with a question

3) Don’t use this as an excuse to contact people who aren’t on the thread, you reprobates

I’m obviously in

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By *a_fun_30_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Ok we’re in for a while x

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I'll be in. It's been a minute.

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

Were in. Both here. X

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By *elaxing2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

In for now xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Coconut bubble bath

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wow what a good question!

I suppose on the surface of it for fab purposes there are pros. But then for someone I would like a deeper connection with, I suppose I might be concerned that that would be all they saw me as.

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

i am in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll drop filters and be in for a bit.

Go, go, go!

Miss S x

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Kinkiest is a deeply subjective thing and one I don't tend to consider, I just enjoy what I enjoy. I suppose being flogged on stage is probably up there on most people's kink scales.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Either way, there’s only enough room for one

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By *a_fun_30_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Durham

We tend to be a little further from home, mostly Leeds & Manchester but quite up for meeting wherever we are in the world.

We aren’t averse to meeting closer to home, have attempted to arrange a couple of meets in Durham but been let down. Haven’t ever looked at Club F but planning to go to Club shhhh

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

We've never really found anything that either of us doesn't like, so no not really. Sorry x

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By *JtheTomMan
over a year ago

London

I'm in

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By *a_fun_30_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Neither of us have any fantasies that we wouldn’t want to actually go through with so no, don’t think so. We’re just happily working our way through our fuckit list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm, I can't think of any fantasies that I think about that I wouldn't do as surley that's part of the fun wanting too and following through.

Miss S x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Only townhouse and only once but plan to go again soon

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Directly fab related would just be finding interesting club nights to get to. Related to people I've met through fab is more a crushing need to ch*ke on a certain dick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In xx

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By *rtyIanMan
over a year ago

Gateway to the Beacons

Bloody nosey gog

Don't forget to wash the webbed toes

Oh I'm in

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By *urbo TedMan
over a year ago

Stansted

I'm in

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By *mperfectwomanWoman
over a year ago

Near Morley

I am in

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Depends on the night and depends on the man. Currently I'd rather have an evening with one of my favourite people, but not every night, sometimes I like my space and tentacles more.

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By *Jones1983Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

I’ll partake in this activity

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’ve only got two webbed toes, all the others are normal

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By *a_fun_30_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Haven’t tried it yet but definitely not ruling it out x

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

I’ve now had dinner so will jump on this train!

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Love giving yoni massage.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Umm, that's a tough one.

Every time you orgasm you automatically shout out the Spurs 1981 FA Cup winning team.

I like kissing, a lot. And I probably already speak in tongues after a few orgasms so at least I'll know what I'm saying and not have to worry I've said something out of line in the moment.

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By *hy_guy89Man
over a year ago

birmingham

I’m in

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

I had TWO steak burgers in nice, big, baps. Smothered in Mr Heinz’s finest.

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

This was such fun last time! Definitely in.

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

I don't have ONE favourite book, just because my taste is so varied. But I would ALWAYS recommend Italo Calvino...in no particular order, Invisible Cities, The Castle of Crossed Destinies, If On A Winter's Night A Traveler, and Cosmicomics especially.

More recently, Piranesi and Milkman were brilliant, as was Shuggie Bain. And then everybody should read Homer and Dante. And Beowulf...and Piers Plowman..and Ursula Le Guin...and...

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

No, I've never wanted to volley a pupil out of the window! I like my pupils. Always have.

I did once drop-kick a Yorkshire terrier that bit me twice whilst I was working as a pizza delivery boy, but I did give it and its owner fair warning.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok. I know exactly who I would take. First, I’d buy a decent car to go on the road with as mine won’t get us far and it doesn’t really fit the dogs in. Then I’d load us all into the car, stop off at the shop for road trip snacks, off to a nice log cabin with a hot tub, flying lessons, indoor skydiving, night on the town with loads of money behind the bar.

Then spread whatever’s left on the bed and have sex on it before I have to give it back.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

In for a bit. Will drop the filters

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Not joine one of therefore a while, I'm in

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

"Ok. I know exactly who I would take. First, I’d buy a decent car to go on the road with as mine won’t get us far and it doesn’t really fit the dogs in. Then I’d load us all into the car, stop off at the shop for road trip snacks, off to a nice log cabin with a hot tub, flying lessons, indoor skydiving, night on the town with loads of money behind the bar.

Then spread whatever’s left on the bed and have sex on it before I have to give it back. "

That. Sounds. Epic. A perfect adventure.

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

Ha!

I may, on occasion, have wanted to volley a teacher out of the window. Mostly when I was a pupil. I HATED (almost all) my teachers.

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By *ixieAndHerKingCouple
over a year ago

Debauchery

We’re in..

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

I'm in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in for a bit

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By *elaxing2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Ask away

Lucy x

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By *mperfectwomanWoman
over a year ago

Near Morley

April last year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The summarised answer is that I’m yet to choose my next one, the ones I have got left are not as good as his. I think when we’re done we should play again and swap.

Also tell me next time that it was meant for the thread, you know I’m oblivious. Most of our conversations revolve around that fact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In for a bit

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ahhhh what a good memory you’ve got there!!! No it’s not, I only got one picture in that dress and I haven’t worn it since, this is a new one I haven’t had a chance to wear out and about yet.

I’ll send you the picture of the famous dress now

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By *mperfectwomanWoman
over a year ago

Near Morley

At Quest, MMF, before Covid. I remember it like it was yesterday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lovely Italian restaurant in Newcastle

We could gaze into each others eyes while enjoying our meal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last night

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By *ixieAndHerKingCouple
over a year ago

Debauchery

Being a little kinky

we'd head to the dungeon for a little discipline and impact play, then off to the hot tub for a flirty giggle. Ending the evening on a nice big bed with a viewing window getting completely fucked by gorgeous hung men chosen by Hades

Cherry x

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

My perfect date would be Bellinis at the Rivoli Bar, followed by shopping at Liberty, then Jermyn Street. Have the shopping sent to Blake's Hotel, where we have the Library Suite, before dinner at Wilton's, with vintage Champagne. A taxi to the Candlelight Club for more cocktails and dancing by candlelight, then a stroll back to the hotel, stopping many times on the way to kiss in doorways. Ordering a lavish breakfast in bed at Reception for no earlier than 11 the next morning, then slowly taking every item of her clothes off, and then ravishing each other tirelessly, hungrily, lovingly, until the lightest touch of my fingers on the back of her hand sets her whole body ringing like Waterford crystal.

Since you ask.

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

I'm sure I would still, yes!

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By *pentoall555Man
over a year ago

benfleet

I’m in

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

My favourite journey sweet is probably haribo tangfastics. They don’t melt in summer like choccy choccy does and I love the sourness.

My least favourite is the old tins of barley sugar sweets my mum used to dish out during those intolerable journeys of my childhood. Urgh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

Such a great question!

I think I'd rather be able to speak with animals, though I think the conceptual barriers would be deeper, and less soluble, than the linguistic ones.

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By *mperfectwomanWoman
over a year ago

Near Morley

It wasn’t the best experience I had though. It was great don’t get me wrong but it was sex. I’ve had so much more fun in a car, dressed, with a guy who put his hand on my throat and was looking deep in my eyes. That was so powerful. I remember having no control of myself at all.

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By *rtyIanMan
over a year ago

Gateway to the Beacons

Either the Brecon Beacons or the Welsh coastal path

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My perfect date would be Bellinis at the Rivoli Bar, followed by shopping at Liberty, then Jermyn Street. Have the shopping sent to Blake's Hotel, where we have the Library Suite, before dinner at Wilton's, with vintage Champagne. A taxi to the Candlelight Club for more cocktails and dancing by candlelight, then a stroll back to the hotel, stopping many times on the way to kiss in doorways. Ordering a lavish breakfast in bed at Reception for no earlier than 11 the next morning, then slowly taking every item of her clothes off, and then ravishing each other tirelessly, hungrily, lovingly, until the lightest touch of my fingers on the back of her hand sets her whole body ringing like Waterford crystal.

Since you ask.

I’m still only taking you to Aldi

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By *avidiotMan
over a year ago

fife

I'll join in

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

I’m going to risk it

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

I've occasionally applied for jobs in the North of England, but there are so very few in my area of work. So almost certainly not, I'm afraid.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

My favourite one that I've done - driving in a classic MG from Lake Geneva to Monte Carlo with an overnight stop at Lake Como. I'd love to try a fancy overnight train though. The sort with cocktails and a dining carriage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok I’m in now for a while xx

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

I’m still only taking you to Aldi"

I have always loved what MacNeice called 'the d*unkenness of things being various'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He was actually 30 years younger than me

And oh yes it was worth it

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

"My favourite one that I've done - driving in a classic MG from Lake Geneva to Monte Carlo with an overnight stop at Lake Como. I'd love to try a fancy overnight train though. The sort with cocktails and a dining carriage.

The Orient Express to Istanbul is one of my dreams.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’m still only taking you to Aldi

I have always loved what MacNeice called 'the d*unkenness of things being various'."

I’ll get you d*unk first if you like, when in Rome…

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

I’m still only taking you to Aldi

I have always loved what MacNeice called 'the d*unkenness of things being various'.

I’ll get you d*unk first if you like, when in Rome…"

There's an Aldi in Rome?

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By *olly SwallowsTV/TS
over a year ago

Sexville

I’m in x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’m still only taking you to Aldi

I have always loved what MacNeice called 'the d*unkenness of things being various'.

I’ll get you d*unk first if you like, when in Rome…

There's an Aldi in Rome?"

Probably. I saw a Tesco in Japan.

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

That is a brilliant question.

Not only would I like her, I think I’m reverting back. Just with more knowledge & style behind me

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By *avidiotMan
over a year ago

fife

Aye, that's my doggy in my pic. She's my wee honey bee, always there to lend a fully body cuddle/press when you're anxious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

Crete or Olympia. I love the mythology, and the temperature. And olives

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

Go on then...

Tinder

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By *iggy5Man
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

Consider me in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to be a bottle of Moët

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh my.... Well clearly I'd have to conduct a VERY thorough search of every nook and cranny... Every cock and fanny

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I'm in!

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By *igsteve101Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

I’m in

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Go on then. My work is finished. I’m in for a bit

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

Out again x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in x

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Oh that's a good question!

Probably just reassure her things get better - she survives and eventually thrives. That plus a big hug, poor cow is going through some stuff.

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

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By *rivateBiDancerMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I'm in

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

This isn't a great answer but I prefer people not to know too much about me, I'd rather they come to their own opinions.

Also it varies from person to person depending on our relationship.

I suppose generally it would be that I can't do everything for everyone everytime.

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple
over a year ago

Epsom

Why not we're in

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Myself!

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By *rivateBiDancerMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Two hour threesome with bi Argentinian couple

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

My all time favourite gig was of course Prince

1991 Earls Court. Diamonds and Pearls. It was my first proper gig and I saved all year to go to it. He played a 3 and a half hour set with no support band. It was Absofuckinglutely Awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My nipples /boobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in, first time in x

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

The Orient Express to Istanbul is one of my dreams."

Definitely.

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By *andk4fCouple
over a year ago

North cotswolds

We're in x

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Shallowly, I'd love to have glossy shiny hair that's easy to style.

On a deeper level I'd like to be more resilient, particularly at work. When I run into managerial bullshit my instinct is to bolt and go somewhere else, rather than putting the work in to resolve the issues.

As I approach retirement I won't find it so easy to walk into a job I want, so I really need to start developing the skills I will need.

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By *andk4fCouple
over a year ago

North cotswolds

Either would be okay, though would say the bar has been more successful for us in the past at clubs.

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By *andk4fCouple
over a year ago

North cotswolds

Happy with either, maybe a little more daring private. But like to put on a show for the rest to enjoy/see what they are missing out on x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A face one

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By *andk4fCouple
over a year ago

North cotswolds

We guess the more awkward getting into position ones. For DP with another woman etc

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

I suppose a meet with mutual attraction, great chemistry and communication. Be able to express what we both want and be open to new experiences and experiment without judgement

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By *elaxing2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Lucy here ask me anything x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in

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By *oppabear82Man
over a year ago

near you

I'm in.

Go for it!!

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By *annyldn2Man
over a year ago

Catford

I’m in for this.. ask away x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only just seen this message -

Ideal date night would be, a nice meal somewhere or home-made one in, a few cocktails and a naughty night just the two of us

Miss S x

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By *elaxing2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Ask me anything

Lucy xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Morning all,I'm in

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

In, whilst sat in my office & trying to get motivated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This really made me laugh

And to be honest it's just a saying

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By *Mr-Man
over a year ago

Nearby

I’m in, why not

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Sex in a biscuit factory (oh & of course world peace).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In if people are still playing!

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

In for those I can message !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To get down and dirty with Gérard Butler,hot kinky mind blowing sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Melissa Mccarthy,

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By *ixieAndHerKingCouple
over a year ago

Debauchery

100k? Easy! A holiday, a dog and a drone. The rest would be invested

Cherry x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll play

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