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"If it's someone I already know intimately, they can have at me Otherwise, no" How do you get intimate to allow touch? | |||
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"Yes very x" What makes you touchy-feely? Do people welcome it? | |||
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"Always touching and hugging lickerty x I gesticulate a lot as well, hands are very important to my body language
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"If it's someone I already know intimately, they can have at me Otherwise, no How do you get intimate to allow touch?" Time I guess | |||
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"Very touchy-feely in a sensual erotic way x" What about in general life? Do greet mates with a hug and a back slap or just a nod? | |||
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"Are you a touchy-feely person or a don't-touch person? Wnat makes you so?" Love hugs bigger hugger hug a tree in pvt | |||
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"No, I absolutely hate people touching me outside of sex. My attachment style is most definitely avoidant." Is this a long-held attachment style, from childhood, or a change in style? | |||
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"Are you a touchy-feely person or a don't-touch person? Wnat makes you so? Love hugs bigger hugger hug a tree in pvt " Is this welcomed by people around you? | |||
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"Yes " To being touchy-feely, I assume.
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"some ladies you can hug some not,," Do you always want to hug, or be hugged? | |||
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"Definitely touchy feely and love to explore while touching and feeling "How do your mates feel about your explorations? | |||
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"Massively tactile, love to touch/stroke/ hug and kiss and I love all of those done to me" How do you feel when others don't want this? | |||
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"Am very tactile by nature. So hugs or an arm round a shoulder when needed are part of who I am." How do you judge when it's needed? | |||
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"Always touching and hugging lickety x I gesticulate a lot as well, hands are very important to my body language
Have you always been handsy, or has it grown with age?"Always been handsy, has come from growing up with farm animals, which is extremely hands on constantly | |||
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"No, I absolutely hate people touching me outside of sex. My attachment style is most definitely avoidant. Is this a long-held attachment style, from childhood, or a change in style? " Bit of both really, but moreso from my teens when I was assaulted. | |||
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"No, I absolutely hate people touching me outside of sex. My attachment style is most definitely avoidant. Is this a long-held attachment style, from childhood, or a change in style? Bit of both really, but moreso from my teens when I was assaulted." Interesting that you are okay with it during sex though ? Would you say that it is because you miss intimacy and sex allows it to happen ? | |||
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"I’m all about the touching, teasing, stroking, squeezing … If you’re not then things are probably gonna get awkward. Mind you, awkward can be fun sometimes. Just occasionally." Where is the awkward boundary? | |||
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"No, I absolutely hate people touching me outside of sex. My attachment style is most definitely avoidant." This. Same applies to dance floor | |||
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"Personally a little rejected but I respect the boundaries. I'll put a caveat on though in that I'm touchy feely with a lover not with family or colleagues etc" Thank you for sharing your feelings of rejection. Why don't you feel touchy-feely with family? | |||
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"No, I absolutely hate people touching me outside of sex. My attachment style is most definitely avoidant. Is this a long-held attachment style, from childhood, or a change in style? Bit of both really, but moreso from my teens when I was assaulted. Interesting that you are okay with it during sex though ? Would you say that it is because you miss intimacy and sex allows it to happen ? " Nope, it's a way of 'reclaiming' the incident/sex in general apparently. Counselling taught me a lot about why I behave like I do, very interesting. Anyway this is a bit serious, so moving on  | |||
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"With my partner very touchy feely. Family and friends a little. Everyone else not at all! "I like a grading system. 
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"No, I absolutely hate people touching me outside of sex. My attachment style is most definitely avoidant. Is this a long-held attachment style, from childhood, or a change in style? Bit of both really, but moreso from my teens when I was assaulted." I'm sorry you experienced assault. I can see how that affects your adult attachment style. | |||
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"Personally a little rejected but I respect the boundaries. I'll put a caveat on though in that I'm touchy feely with a lover not with family or colleagues etc Thank you for sharing your feelings of rejection. Why don't you feel touchy-feely with family?" Feels odd, too intimate | |||
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"Touchy feely can get you trouble, only do this with permission " Thanks for raising consent. It is in my thoughts about my own touchy-feely style. | |||
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"Are you a touchy-feely person or a don't-touch person? Wnat makes you so?" Don't touch. I don't like it. I used to put up with hugs but I stopped a few years ago and now just say no if I don't want to. Some friends get huffy or take the piss but that says more about them than me. | |||
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"Am very tactile by nature. So hugs or an arm round a shoulder when needed are part of who I am. How do you judge when it's needed? " I would only do that with people I know well enough. The specific situation will determine whether it's needed. Obviously you respect people's boundaries. | |||
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"No, I absolutely hate people touching me outside of sex. My attachment style is most definitely avoidant. This. Same applies to dance floor " In that you can tolerate touch when dancing (and sex) but not otherwise? | |||
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"Very touchy-feely in a sensual erotic way x What about in general life? Do greet mates with a hug and a back slap or just a nod? " With a hug! | |||
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"Are you a touchy-feely person or a don't-touch person? Wnat makes you so?" depends I am a survivor of parental physical and emotional abuse, so not usually, however, with the right person, in the right context, the barriers sometimes come down  | |||
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"Hate being touchy felt. Keep your fucking hands to yourself unless you’re invited thank you please. " Is this H or S? Do you two have the same approach or is one more touchy-feely than the other? | |||
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"Touchy feely can get you trouble, only do this with permission Thanks for raising consent. It is in my thoughts about my own touchy-feely style. " Has someone said something to make you feel uncomfortable? | |||
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"I’m all about the touching, teasing, stroking, squeezing … If you’re not then things are probably gonna get awkward." "Where is the awkward boundary? " I was just talking in terms of meeting people from here. So there’s already a connection and intimacy established if we’ve got as far as meeting up. And if there’s an ‘awkwardness boundary’ then it’s going to spring from one of us being more tactile than the other. And that’s going to be a different vibe with every person (or couple) you meet, right? | |||
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"I’ve always been a very tactile guy. Even in a friendly way, I like to do little arm touches etc to communicate that I care. With guys I might do a cheeky mock punch on the arm if I’m rubbing them. Romantically it’s how I show I got the feels." That's very clear. Do you often rub guys and then give them a mock punch? | |||
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"No, I absolutely hate people touching me outside of sex. My attachment style is most definitely avoidant. Is this a long-held attachment style, from childhood, or a change in style? Bit of both really, but moreso from my teens when I was assaulted. Interesting that you are okay with it during sex though ? Would you say that it is because you miss intimacy and sex allows it to happen ? Nope, it's a way of 'reclaiming' the incident/sex in general apparently. Counselling taught me a lot about why I behave like I do, very interesting. Anyway this is a bit serious, so moving on "Thank you for sharing. I didn't anticipate it getting so serious and I should have. Keep looking after yourself. | |||
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"I hate being touched... Unless I'm okay with the person, then i cant get enough... "Do you feel the same about touching yourself? I don't mean masturbation, necessarily, but self-massage or soothing? | |||
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"No, I absolutely hate people touching me outside of sex. My attachment style is most definitely avoidant. This. Same applies to dance floor In that you can tolerate touch when dancing (and sex) but not otherwise? " Some folks don’t wash their hands or arse. Forgot to ad I love a massage | |||
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"Are you a touchy-feely person or a don't-touch person? Wnat makes you so? Don't touch. I don't like it. I used to put up with hugs but I stopped a few years ago and now just say no if I don't want to. Some friends get huffy or take the piss but that says more about them than me. "I can see this with you. A nod for a greeting is ample. | |||
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"I’ve always been a very tactile guy. Even in a friendly way, I like to do little arm touches etc to communicate that I care. With guys I might do a cheeky mock punch on the arm if I’m rubbing them. Romantically it’s how I show I got the feels. That's very clear. Do you often rub guys and then give them a mock punch?" Oh FFS!!! Haha *mental note to proof read my posts
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"Are you a touchy-feely person or a don't-touch person? Wnat makes you so? depends I am a survivor of parental physical and emotional abuse, so not usually, however, with the right person, in the right context, the barriers sometimes come down "I'm sorry you experienced abuse from those who were supposed to provide love and care. It's great that you have found people with whom you can lower your barriers. | |||
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"I'm tactile with those I think will appreciate it" I can see that with you. You are very warm in anycase. | |||
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"Touchy feely can get you trouble, only do this with permission Thanks for raising consent. It is in my thoughts about my own touchy-feely style. Has someone said something to make you feel uncomfortable? " No, but I have been thinking about entitlement and whether my natural huggy style is appropriate or makes people feel uncomfortable. | |||
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"I’m all about the touching, teasing, stroking, squeezing … If you’re not then things are probably gonna get awkward. Where is the awkward boundary? I was just talking in terms of meeting people from here. So there’s already a connection and intimacy established if we’ve got as far as meeting up. And if there’s an ‘awkwardness boundary’ then it’s going to spring from one of us being more tactile than the other. And that’s going to be a different vibe with every person (or couple) you meet, right?"  | |||
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"Yep touchy feely adds to the sensuality " Are you emotionally touchy-feeling outside of sexual intimacy, do you think? | |||
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"Touchy feely can get you trouble, only do this with permission Thanks for raising consent. It is in my thoughts about my own touchy-feely style. Has someone said something to make you feel uncomfortable? No, but I have been thinking about entitlement and whether my natural huggy style is appropriate or makes people feel uncomfortable. " I think about this, too, and only ever touch people I know won’t feel uncomfortable ie good friends, long term fab friends, partners etc | |||
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"Are you a touchy-feely person or a don't-touch person? Wnat makes you so? Love hugs bigger hugger hug a tree in pvt Is this welcomed by people around you?" In 12 step it's positively encouraged, so now I tend to hug ppl, do say giz a squeeze | |||
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"Not at all I think a hug is a re-assuring and friendly greeting, but recognise it's too much for some As for touchy hands or constant need to be touching / against someone just isn't me Others doing it to me can bring on little stifled spikes of anxiety" I suppose the judgement of when it's reassuring and welcome and when it will induce anxiety is a very fine line. | |||
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"No, I absolutely hate people touching me outside of sex. My attachment style is most definitely avoidant. This. Same applies to dance floor In that you can tolerate touch when dancing (and sex) but not otherwise? Some folks don’t wash their hands or arse. Forgot to ad I love a massage " I enjoy a massage too. Paying for touch is the only touch I experience these days. | |||
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"I’ve always been a very tactile guy. Even in a friendly way, I like to do little arm touches etc to communicate that I care. With guys I might do a cheeky mock punch on the arm if I’m rubbing them. Romantically it’s how I show I got the feels. That's very clear. Do you often rub guys and then give them a mock punch? Oh FFS!!! Haha *mental note to proof read my posts
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"No, I absolutely hate people touching me outside of sex. My attachment style is most definitely avoidant. This. Same applies to dance floor In that you can tolerate touch when dancing (and sex) but not otherwise? Some folks don’t wash their hands or arse. Forgot to ad I love a massage I enjoy a massage too. Paying for touch is the only touch I experience these days. " More for Thai and deep tissue not hanky pankie | |||
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"Are you a touchy-feely person or a don't-touch person? Wnat makes you so? Love hugs bigger hugger hug a tree in pvt Is this welcomed by people around you? In 12 step it's positively encouraged, so now I tend to hug ppl, do say giz a squeeze "I know 12-step has not worked for some because of this encouragement to hug. If it works for you, that's a good thing. | |||
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"Tactile during coitus; hands off at other times. I would probably run my hands through the hair of a man who had his head in my lap. I love cuddling my great-grandchildren. " You are not someone I would hug without asking. If I have, I apologise - I must have been caught up in the moment of all the other huggers. | |||
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"Not at all I think a hug is a re-assuring and friendly greeting, but recognise it's too much for some As for touchy hands or constant need to be touching / against someone just isn't me Others doing it to me can bring on little stifled spikes of anxiety I suppose the judgement of when it's reassuring and welcome and when it will induce anxiety is a very fine line. " It's to do with regularity of touch, and where I think you need to read the room too - I wouldn't just hug anyone I'd think if they were meeting me socially, we'd have read enough into each other pre-meet to know if it was safe ground or not A hug, to me, is a relatively quick a fleeting affair, with no wandering hands Having someone consitently touch my leg or hands or face in a social situation would be too personal I find those areas too intimate with someone you barely know Obviously, if the meet is going well, one would start to accept such touches but not from the get go | |||
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"With close friends I can be touchy feely but not with random sexual encounters. I do the touching and don't want touching in return. Quite avoidant and very conscious of it" You have reminded me of seeing you at play with a small group of men. I can see that control. | |||
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"No, I absolutely hate people touching me outside of sex. My attachment style is most definitely avoidant. This. Same applies to dance floor In that you can tolerate touch when dancing (and sex) but not otherwise? Some folks don’t wash their hands or arse. Forgot to ad I love a massage I enjoy a massage too. Paying for touch is the only touch I experience these days. More for Thai and deep tissue not hanky pankie "I do like a deep tissue massage. | |||
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"Touchy-feely especially with the right people 
Miss S x"Is it clear to people when they are right or not? | |||
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"Tactile during coitus; hands off at other times. I would probably run my hands through the hair of a man who had his head in my lap. I love cuddling my great-grandchildren. You are not someone I would hug without asking. If I have, I apologise - I must have been caught up in the moment of all the other huggers. " I'm fine with people I know hugging me. I understand that some people are huggers. None of us are particularly huggy in my family but my sister in law and some of my nieces are. Some of my inlaws hug goodbye, some don't. It doesn't offend me, it's just something we didn't do growing up. I only hugged my friend of 50 years once, when she told me her mum had passed away. We're a "See ya later" kind of friendship. | |||
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"Are you a touchy-feely person or a don't-touch person? Wnat makes you so? Love hugs bigger hugger hug a tree in pvt Is this welcomed by people around you? In 12 step it's positively encouraged, so now I tend to hug ppl, do say giz a squeeze
I know 12-step has not worked for some because of this encouragement to hug. If it works for you, that's a good thing.
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"Touchy-feely especially with the right people
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"Not into hugging strangers of doung that pretend kissing on the cheek nosence .when you meet .but those I'm it mate with I'm very hand on and allow equal access ." The air kiss is a odd, isn't it? I do with some as there is a sort of stiffness to it that stops a hug. | |||
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"I'm a very tactile, romantic and passionate person,and like woman to be the same " It's good to know what you want of others. | |||
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"The power of healing in a hug is vastly underrated, I believe. I've never had an adult I can hold close, to make me empty my emotions into. " Appropriate touch/hugs release oxytocin, there is a lot of healing potentially available with a hug. I wonder how much physical and mental pain has been stored up because of that long period of not being able to touch people during the pandemic? | |||
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"It depends who is being touchy - feely…… "And sometimes we want touchy with the feelies?  | |||
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"No, I absolutely hate people touching me outside of sex. My attachment style is most definitely avoidant. Is this a long-held attachment style, from childhood, or a change in style? Bit of both really, but moreso from my teens when I was assaulted. Interesting that you are okay with it during sex though ? Would you say that it is because you miss intimacy and sex allows it to happen ? Nope, it's a way of 'reclaiming' the incident/sex in general apparently. Counselling taught me a lot about why I behave like I do, very interesting. Anyway this is a bit serious, so moving on "Sorry. Won’t mention again | |||
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"Touchy feely can get you trouble, only do this with permission Thanks for raising consent. It is in my thoughts about my own touchy-feely style. Has someone said something to make you feel uncomfortable? No, but I have been thinking about entitlement and whether my natural huggy style is appropriate or makes people feel uncomfortable. I think about this, too, and only ever touch people I know won’t feel uncomfortable ie good friends, long term fab friends, partners etc" This is why I do an open armed, from a personal space distance, question for a hug first, and we can move in together. If they give me don't approach me body language, then we can both skip contact happily without awkwardness | |||
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"Not at all I think a hug is a re-assuring and friendly greeting, but recognise it's too much for some As for touchy hands or constant need to be touching / against someone just isn't me Others doing it to me can bring on little stifled spikes of anxiety I suppose the judgement of when it's reassuring and welcome and when it will induce anxiety is a very fine line. It's to do with regularity of touch, and where I think you need to read the room too - I wouldn't just hug anyone I'd think if they were meeting me socially, we'd have read enough into each other pre-meet to know if it was safe ground or not A hug, to me, is a relatively quick a fleeting affair, with no wandering hands Having someone consitently touch my leg or hands or face in a social situation would be too personal I find those areas too intimate with someone you barely know Obviously, if the meet is going well, one would start to accept such touches but not from the get go" Neither of you have made me feel uncomfortable. You must both assess the situation correctly without realising. | |||
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"Polar opposites. Badger can’t stand being touched, Pumpkin is very tactile x" You make it work between you? | |||
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"I prefer others to be tactile as its not natural for me to keep my hands to myself especially the more relaxed I am with that person. But you just know some people arnt comfortable with it and I have to make a conscious effort to keep my hands to myself which makes it hard for me to relax with them" I think we can only offer our true selves when we are relaxed. | |||
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"Not at all I think a hug is a re-assuring and friendly greeting, but recognise it's too much for some As for touchy hands or constant need to be touching / against someone just isn't me Others doing it to me can bring on little stifled spikes of anxiety I suppose the judgement of when it's reassuring and welcome and when it will induce anxiety is a very fine line. It's to do with regularity of touch, and where I think you need to read the room too - I wouldn't just hug anyone I'd think if they were meeting me socially, we'd have read enough into each other pre-meet to know if it was safe ground or not A hug, to me, is a relatively quick a fleeting affair, with no wandering hands Having someone consitently touch my leg or hands or face in a social situation would be too personal I find those areas too intimate with someone you barely know Obviously, if the meet is going well, one would start to accept such touches but not from the get go Neither of you have made me feel uncomfortable. You must both assess the situation correctly without realising. "Thank heavens for that Cos I'm sure both yourself and Lickety got hugs from the get go | |||
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"Are you a touchy-feely person or a don't-touch person? Wnat makes you so?" I'm a very affectionate and touchy-feely person with people I am very close to. I just enjoy the human contact. With people I don't know, I don't want them in my personal space lol Mrs | |||
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"I am a tactile person and I give great hugs. However, woe betide anyone that enters my personal bubble without permission!!" This! Mrs | |||
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"I'm definitely an affectionate type of girl. I will hug friends, put my hand on an arm or shoulder, if I'm feeling flirty I will do slight touches to let the person know." Think that's pretty much how I am | |||
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"Are you a touchy-feely person or a don't-touch person? Wnat makes you so?" Very touchy feely | |||
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"Are you a touchy-feely person or a don't-touch person? Wnat makes you so?" Very touchy-feely. Touching and kissing each other’s bodies creates a deeper level of intimacy. | |||
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"I am touchy feely generally , hello and goodbyes comes with 4 kisses , 2 on each cheeks and/or a hug, it’s a cultural “inbred” thingy. My friends are used to it and my family were raised the same. I don’t kiss every work colleagues or no work would ever get done but it is common custom where I am originally from. I also hug for reasons like showing support, comfort, empathy, reassurance, congratulations, good wishes etc… " A lot Of touching and feeling required | |||
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