FabSwingers.com forum: Do you find it easier to love or hate

By *usman 199 OP Man
over a year ago

Stockport

Good afternoon everyone. Can honestly say I don't hate anybody. It is a strong statement . So for me easier to love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love hating people. It just comes naturally

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Hate takes less work than love imo

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a lover

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

Hate of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hate takes less work than love imo

Mrs "

I think it dsepends on the person. But true in my case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's so easy to laugh, it's so easy to hate. It takes guts to be gentle and kind

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Good afternoon everyone. Can honestly say I don't hate anybody. It is a strong statement . So for me easier to love

Same. There’s no one I hate , even people that have been complete dicks to me in the past I’m just like whatever , barely give them a thought

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Hate means to extremely dislike and yeah I do extremely dislike some things and some people. As for which is easier, I don’t give it anymore thought than I like you or I don’t so I’ve no idea. I’m not really an overthinker

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

"I’m a lover

x"
,, me too,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love I would say is harder as it would take so much commitment ?

To hate someone can be done from their action…so little ‘work’ on your part….

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

My default is being nice and to like.

People tend to push me either way from there. Some make me love them, some not so much!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if I told you it takes 11 muscles to frown?

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Lovin you is easy cause you're beautiful

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I love several people, and that never goes away.

I have felt hate for people, but it fades quickly, and they no longer mean enough to me for me to feel any way about them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm indifferent.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I dont have time for hate in my life. It takes up to much useless energy in my head. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a thin line between the two apparently

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

I don’t think I truly hate anyone in real life. Im not counting people I’ve never interacted with like Hitler etc. I hate some behaviours & events.

I tend towards accepting and I suppose loving people for what they are.

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

One isn’t easier than the other. They’re just emotions. Most of which are fleeting.

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By *weetkitten65Woman
over a year ago

Halifax

Love & hate are very close.

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By *weetkitten65Woman
over a year ago

Halifax

"There is a thin line between the two apparently "

Agree

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

I don't waste energy hating people, they're not worth it.

I don't love particularly easily either, few people manage to thaw my icy cold heart.

They're both extreme emotions though - I like people easily.

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By *iking67Man
over a year ago

BP Auckland

I love who I love and hate who I hate. 1st list seems to be full the second is ever expanding

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By *iking67Man
over a year ago

BP Auckland

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No contest, love.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I'd never let anyone rent space in my head for me to hate them

all the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love.

Hate is just a waste of time and energy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both words are thrown around too easily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate takes too much effort. Love is for the kids.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Balanced to both.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I love easily. Not in the "wuv, twoo wuv" sense, but in the way that I love my fellow man, my family, friends and acquaintances.

I don't think I truly hate anyone. I dislike some people and would rather not spend time in their company, but I don't think I could maintain true hatred as it feels a lot of effort for no benefit.

For me love is easy, hatred is difficult.

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By *usman 199 OP Man
over a year ago

Stockport

"I love easily. Not in the "wuv, twoo wuv" sense, but in the way that I love my fellow man, my family, friends and acquaintances.

I don't think I truly hate anyone. I dislike some people and would rather not spend time in their company, but I don't think I could maintain true hatred as it feels a lot of effort for no benefit.

For me love is easy, hatred is difficult."
my sentiments exactly xx

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"Love hating people. It just comes naturally"

You have a bit of Henry Cavill about you

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By *eartsmanMan
over a year ago

southeast , midlands, southern France

I prefer to love and be loved,

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I don’t hate but can intensely dislike

I much prefer loving …

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love hating people. It just comes naturally

You have a bit of Henry Cavill about you

He so does, doesn’t he ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find hate very hard as I'm always trying to understand others behaviours.

That being said I've a blanket hatred towards abusers of any kind, that I will never understand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love.

Hate is just a waste of time and energy "

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Much easier to love for sure! I have just one person I can honestly say I hate! X

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

I'm a lover not a hater

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's far easier and far more pleasant to love.

I've only ever hated 2 people and they were both people I formerly loved, a partner and my step-father. Both hurt me astronomically and the hate was an all-consuming, anguish filled experience. Fortunately, I worked through it and the emotion faded. I don't want to waste that much energy on such negativity again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's so easy to love! But it takes a lot for me to hate someone. I'm always loving people, even if it's only on the surface.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good afternoon everyone. Can honestly say I don't hate anybody. It is a strong statement . So for me easier to love

Oooh good question this...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love my people

Miss S x

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Both have the potential to hurt me and in the past both have done exactly that so I don't find it easy to do either.

I am comfortable saying that I love people as my friends and family and I like to think I show that in my actions rather than having to verbalise it.

I would have said I don't have the capacity for hate.

Even with everything I've gone through in life and growing up in what was literally a warzone I came through all that without resorting to hate.

There have been lots of people I dislike because of their words and actions and how they have treated others.

There are others I really dislike because of their lack of humanity and humility and there is no going back because of that but hate is too strong a word.

For me to hate someone would involve validation and I prefer to view them as insignificant and unimportant and don't waste my time on them.

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

i can dislike someone but not hate,,

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

Not an expressive person, however, my old self I would guess easy to hate or anger, but now easier to understand, be patient and love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love

I just wouldn't waste energy on hating anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love very few people, but it comes easy with them. I can't say I have ever truly hated anyone, and I have known some evil buggers who the planet would not miss.

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