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By *heKinkExplorer OP   Man
over a year ago

leicester

Why is that the majority of this site is full of men cheating on their other half? Would it not make sence to just end the relationship if you're unhappy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What does your spidey sense tell you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women do cheat too

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8


"Why is that the majority of this site is full of men cheating on their other half? Would it not make sence to just end the relationship if you're unhappy?"

It really is a web of deceit…

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"Why is that the majority of this site is full of men cheating on their other half? Would it not make sence to just end the relationship if you're unhappy?"

Maybe that is there not doing only just single only just meeting when end giving.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

both men and women cheat on here and others do it with consent, personally I believe in live and let live

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Is it the majority?

For those that are, maybe it is the thrill that they get from cheating. So if they ended the relationship, there would be no thrill. I expect that's a major reason why (lots, not all) people cheat since it is not limited to a single sex or gender.

Use logic, man!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Why are you bothered what other people do?

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By *unfunfun xMan
over a year ago

LONDON

I'm a single guy cheating on no one, don't believe in cheaters but hey what goes around comes around cheaters so beware lol.

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton


"Why is that the majority of this site is full of men cheating on their other half? Would it not make sence to just end the relationship if you're unhappy?

Maybe that is there not doing only just single only just meeting when end giving. "

Ya what?!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

And where did you get your stats from?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few women I've talked to revealed they have a partner to me.

Basic science of it is, happy in relationship but also love sex with hot people. Monogamy was socially constructed remember? Basic evolution. Spread your genitals.

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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago

Bath

Life isn’t as black and white s that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As Uncle Ben once said “With great power comes great infidelity”

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By *unfunfun xMan
over a year ago

LONDON

I've not come across any cheaters, all the couples approve as far as I'm aware no hiding anything,but I'm not a fan of lying hiding stuff from your married or partner, just my opinion. This place seems so open and everyone is happy all parties.

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London


"As Uncle Ben once said “With great power comes great infidelity”"

The rice guy???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As Uncle Ben once said “With great power comes great infidelity”

The rice guy??? "

He’s just Ben these days.

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever


"Why is that the majority of this site is full of men cheating on their other half? Would it not make sence to just end the relationship if you're unhappy?"

According to unwritten Fab rules, it’s easy to spot a cheater, apparently.

Very often they “cannot accommodate”.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"As Uncle Ben once said “With great power comes great infidelity”

The rice guy???

He’s just Ben these days.

"

Not a real uncle but a friend of the family. The man will always be uncle Ben!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As Uncle Ben once said “With great power comes great infidelity”

The rice guy???

He’s just Ben these days.

"

Definitely swingers Ben and May

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"Why is that the majority of this site is full of men cheating on their other half? Would it not make sence to just end the relationship if you're unhappy?

Maybe that is there not doing only just single only just meeting when end giving.

Ya what?! "

It makes perfect sense to a question like this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean, it's just sex right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As Uncle Ben once said “With great power comes great infidelity”

The rice guy???

He’s just Ben these days.

Definitely swingers Ben and May"

If it’s young Aunt May from the MCU Spiderman you can sign me up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As Uncle Ben once said “With great power comes great infidelity”

The rice guy???

He’s just Ben these days.

Definitely swingers Ben and May

If it’s young Aunt May from the MCU Spiderman you can sign me up."

Me fucking too..she's not actually younger than other aunt mays she's just fire like the damn 50 somethings on fab too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As Uncle Ben once said “With great power comes great infidelity”

The rice guy???

He’s just Ben these days.

Not a real uncle but a friend of the family. The man will always be uncle Ben! "

Aren’t they the Uncle’s we’re not supposed to talk about anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I mean, it's just sex right?

"

I'd have sex with you even if I was married to the lord and saviour Jesus Christ x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As Uncle Ben once said “With great power comes great infidelity”

The rice guy???

He’s just Ben these days.

Definitely swingers Ben and May

If it’s young Aunt May from the MCU Spiderman you can sign me up.

Me fucking too..she's not actually younger than other aunt mays she's just fire like the damn 50 somethings on fab too!"

Wait she’s the same age as the others? She must be a vampire or something.

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden


"As Uncle Ben once said “With great power comes great infidelity”

The rice guy???

He’s just Ben these days.

Definitely swingers Ben and May"

Their nephew definitely was.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Just have to weasel them out and give them a wide berth! Both men and women! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I mean, it's just sex right?

I'd have sex with you even if I was married to the lord and saviour Jesus Christ x"

You're going straight to hell you know that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is that the majority of this site is full of men cheating on their other half? Would it not make sence to just end the relationship if you're unhappy?"

It’s like they are living two lives like a super hero.

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By *ts the taking part thatMan
over a year ago

southampton


"Why is that the majority of this site is full of men cheating on their other half? Would it not make sence to just end the relationship if you're unhappy?"

Have you asked everyone their situation?

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Motherwell


"Why is that the majority of this site is full of men cheating on their other half? Would it not make sence to just end the relationship if you're unhappy?"

I aas a cheat, i did end the relationship. it isnt always easier to do so.

Mortgage, kids, joint bank accounts, other issues can all stop people from splitting when they should.

Also some people just get off on cheating.

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"Why is that the majority of this site is full of men cheating on their other half? Would it not make sence to just end the relationship if you're unhappy?

Have you asked everyone their situation?"

If they're willing to lie and cheat on their own partner then how do they expect strangers off here to believe what ever sob story they have?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

If only life was that simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single and ready to mingle here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is that the majority of this site is full of men cheating on their other half? Would it not make sence to just end the relationship if you're unhappy?

Have you asked everyone their situation?

If they're willing to lie and cheat on their own partner then how do they expect strangers off here to believe what ever sob story they have?"

true

Yet, everyone lies to some extent. I am pretty sure that you do to your partner too when it suits you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to be a funny TV show.

They would burst in with a full camera crew catching the cheater in the act

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"Why is that the majority of this site is full of men cheating on their other half? Would it not make sence to just end the relationship if you're unhappy?"

You ok, Hun?

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

Something else that I learned since joining fab. For some people they seriously get off on cheating, like it’s a fetish

Each to their own, although the trail of bad kharmic energy is something I wish to avoid.

It’s no better on the “dating” sites. I have a feeling that there’s a higher percentage on those, although it’s just my opinion based on just my own experience and feeling.

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By *heKinkExplorer OP   Man
over a year ago

leicester

Its just the majority that message me all say, must be discreet because of my partner etc and i just delete them straight the way, i wont be the reason for your relationship ending

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I only cheat at Monopoly. That’s allowed right?

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By *heKinkExplorer OP   Man
over a year ago

leicester

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Its just the majority that message me all say, must be discreet because of my partner etc and i just delete them straight the way, i wont be the reason for your relationship ending"

So they’re telling you they aren’t single so that you can decide if you want to meet them. Better than pretending they’re single no?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had that...a gut we met and asked repeatedly if was single. Found out he was not. This is the reason we have been on and off here for a few years.

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near


"Why is that the majority of this site is full of men cheating on their other half? Would it not make sence to just end the relationship if you're unhappy?"

Life is just ...

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

People are on here for a variety of reasons, ignore the ones you are not compatible with and hopefully find some that are.

On the other side, I'd love all in relationships to be honest about their situation on their profiles/first message. Deceptively drawing innocent people into another's drama is cuntish behaviour. Especially when they are the unknowing target for a angry partner

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

Having aex with someone lse isn't cheating

You go home and care, protect and love thy partner

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By *asmine xxxWoman
over a year ago

Cornwall, Bristol


"What does your spidey sense tell you?"

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

im a card cheat..

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

It isn't about making sense.

Each person has their reasons.

Avoid sexual chats with couples and you might not waste as much time chatting to a cheating man.

Are you ok with cheating women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is that the majority of this site is full of men cheating on their other half? Would it not make sence to just end the relationship if you're unhappy?"

Everyone has their reasons, never ever be judgemental, you don't have to fuck a person that's cheating if you don't want to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most men on here are cheating!

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"Most men on here are cheating! "

Cheating women out of orgasms or a half decent shag?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most men on here are cheating! "

Who do you think these are cheating their women with ?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just here for the willy, pre-owned welcome.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

There's a lot of men and women cheats on here, the block button is a handy tool if you don't like it.

Wouldn't meet anyone without partners knowledge myself.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is that the majority of this site is full of men cheating on their other half? Would it not make sence to just end the relationship if you're unhappy?"

But then who would do their laundry?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You tell 'em tiger, those cheating motherheckers cheating about all over the place.

Do what I do and send out a 10 page questionnaire with feedback form to anyone who wants to meet you.

That'll learn 'em

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

cheating swines its a bloody disgrace,,

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By *ossman0168Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

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By *ubytuesdaysTV/TS
over a year ago

birmingham

It isn't cheating if its in the bum. Otherwise it would be in the narriage vows.

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By *ossman0168Man
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I'm just here for the willy, pre-owned welcome."

That’s a great outlook

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Why does it bother you what others do if you don't want to meet them then don't.And I don't know why the finger is always pointed at men when there is plenty of women on here without their partners knowledge as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Its just the majority that message me all say, must be discreet because of my partner etc and i just delete them straight the way, i wont be the reason for your relationship ending"

Best bet! Agree would never do that to another! Cheat all u like I say but don't involve me in your deceit! X

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Everyone has their reasons.

If you don't want to meet them them don't.

As long as they are upfront about it then the people they meet can make their own decisions.

You don't need to judge or pass comment. Let others lead their lives how they choose to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought by the thread title and OP username. The thread was about gamers who use cheat codes.

How disappointing its this well worn out topic.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean


"Why is that the majority of this site is full of men cheating on their other half? Would it not make sence to just end the relationship if you're unhappy?"

Is it ? No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you think denouncing men that cheat, sets you apart from the rest, think again

Whether you like it or not, you're in the same fish barrel, as am I

Bringing others down to raise yourself is a cheap move

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

There’s definitely a lot of bias going on. My default reaction to men cheating is they are cowards and disloyal, I don’t really want to know why, it’s just wrong. With women I’m happy to listen and often feel sorry for them

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’ve heard many a story about the lengths men on here go to cover up being in a relationship. One guy used to bring his own shower gel, as not to alert his unsuspecting wife with a change of fragrance on his return home. Lol.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"I’ve heard many a story about the lengths men on here go to cover up being in a relationship. One guy used to bring his own shower gel, as not to alert his unsuspecting wife with a change of fragrance on his return home. Lol. "

Is it really worth all that effort

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

The site is full of cheats of both sexes ,some couples are also cheating on their partners.

I'm guessing they have their reasons ,it's not my thing or my business & I pass them by .

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"Its just the majority that message me all say, must be discreet because of my partner etc and i just delete them straight the way, i wont be the reason for your relationship ending

So they’re telling you they aren’t single so that you can decide if you want to meet them. Better than pretending they’re single no?"

Agree ,it's the ones who lie and cover it up I can't stand .

They take away the other person's choice and disregard their preferences.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Its just the majority that message me all say, must be discreet because of my partner etc and i just delete them straight the way, i wont be the reason for your relationship ending

So they’re telling you they aren’t single so that you can decide if you want to meet them. Better than pretending they’re single no?

Agree ,it's the ones who lie and cover it up I can't stand .

They take away the other person's choice and disregard their preferences."

Exactly. I’ve no issue with married people being on here. I don’t believe everything is black or white. But if you’re meeting someone tell them. Other than that it’s nobody else’s business.

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By *andC1000Couple
over a year ago

Ashford

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By *andC1000Couple
over a year ago

Ashford


"I mean, it's just sex right?

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It may be to the cheater but not the one being cheated on. It hurts like hell and it not necessarily the act but the lies and deceit that go with it even when caught. everyone has their reasons for doing so but whatever the reason it’s still a choice they make and on doing so it’s their choice to hurt those they supposedly love and love them and potentially put a partners health at risk for a quick fix.

In a lot of situations Life would be much simpler if people spoke more instead of hiding secrets away

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By *ucks Couple UKCouple
over a year ago

Bucks


"Why is that the majority of this site is full of men cheating on their other half? Would it not make sence to just end the relationship if you're unhappy?

Maybe that is there not doing only just single only just meeting when end giving. "

Gerald? Shouldn’t you be on the farm?

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