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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Which word do you find personally offensive and why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None, swear words aren't offensive. The person saying it is.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Pretty much all words are fine, it's the intent with which they're said that can cause offence

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I really hate the word, c**t to the extent that I can't even type of .

I don't take offence at much though

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By *rtyIanMan
over a year ago

Gateway to the Beacons

They are just words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't say there is one tbh, there all the same to me.

I think the problem is people choose for one to be worse than the others then people follow and be like yeah that's definitely the worst one like c*nt for example.

Miss S x

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By *ont you just loveCouple
over a year ago

Banbury


"I really hate the word, c**t to the extent that I can't even type of .

I don't take offence at much though "

That's the one word I hate too!!

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

None. I can understand a dislike to words, but offended... Nah. Just words. Intent and context used behind the words is what gives them power.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's largely context that makes words offensive. Although that includes cultural context - so it's probably good to be mindful of how words might land before using them.

For example, I got into an almighty flame war on another forum several years ago. Along with some other Australians and Brits, I argued that "bastard" isn't necessarily offensive - in my dialect it can mean "person" or even "friend". The Americans got pretty upset because obviously it's stigmatising unwed mothers and their children and the word should never be considered benign.

I went a bit but was more mindful going forward.

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

Any reference to ‘soft cheese’, I find offensive , if you were to put the word French in front of it then it would be a conversation stopper for me. These are the ultimate swear word in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

none Px

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the word that offends, its the meaning with how its used, the intonation, the tone and who uses it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Non !

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Which word do you find personally offensive and why?

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all swear words are offensive and generally said in anger

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

None.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Numpty

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Which word do you find personally offensive and why?

all swear words are offensive and generally said in anger "

Are they? I don't get offended by them. I call my friend fuck features as a term of endearment, she calls me other things. No offense from either of us and not a single hint of anger.

What you mean is "I find all swear words offensive". As you can clearly see there are many that don't take offense to them in the slightest, thus the word has lost power when used in their direction.

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By *iking67Man
over a year ago

BP Auckland


"Which word do you find personally offensive and why?

all swear words are offensive and generally said in anger "

Are they bollocks.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People choose to find offence within everything these days haha.

Makes me chuckle ,personally I don’t care if you’re offended.

It’s your choice haha

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I really hate the word, c**t to the extent that I can't even type of .

I don't take offence at much though "

In certain parts of the country it's almost a term of endearment.

XX

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

The threat title and the first post are asking two different questions that require two different answers.

I can't think of a single "swear word" that bothers me, except maybe through excessive repetition. I'm terrible for accidentally dropping F-bombs in "polite" company.

All the words I find offensive aren't swearing. Slurs and hate speech, generally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I was offended once….

No wait. I wasn’t. Ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're offended by anything it's your problem alone. It doesn't actually mean anything. The word should be removed from the English language

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Which word do you find personally offensive and why?

all swear words are offensive and generally said in anger

Are they? I don't get offended by them. I call my friend fuck features as a term of endearment, she calls me other things. No offense from either of us and not a single hint of anger.

What you mean is "I find all swear words offensive". As you can clearly see there are many that don't take offense to them in the slightest, thus the word has lost power when used in their direction. "
I find swear words offensive i don’t use them, they are pointless, so sorry to disagree with you

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

None offend but I bloody hate when people use the word retard as an insult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"None, swear words aren't offensive. The person saying it is."

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Which word do you find personally offensive and why?

all swear words are offensive and generally said in anger

Are they? I don't get offended by them. I call my friend fuck features as a term of endearment, she calls me other things. No offense from either of us and not a single hint of anger.

What you mean is "I find all swear words offensive". As you can clearly see there are many that don't take offense to them in the slightest, thus the word has lost power when used in their direction. I find swear words offensive i don’t use them, they are pointless, so sorry to disagree with you "

Where is the disagreement? You just corrected what you originally said based upon what I pointed out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"None offend but I bloody hate when people use the word retard as an insult. "

I use it ,quite a dated word now !

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"None offend but I bloody hate when people use the word retard as an insult.

I use it ,quite a dated word now ! "

A lot use it. I just don’t like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cu-- word and Bas ---d i find horrible n vile to use. Whatever the context, should find somat better than them imo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cu-- word and Bas ---d i find horrible n vile to use. Whatever the context, should find somat better than them imo."
Somat and imo are a lot worse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cu-- word and Bas ---d i find horrible n vile to use. Whatever the context, should find somat better than them imo.Somat and imo are a lot worse"

Innit lol

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

Cotton-headed ninny-muggins is pretty much the only one. Rest are fine.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Cotton-headed ninny-muggins is pretty much the only one. Rest are fine."

Woah! No need for that kind of language in here. Keep it civil please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"None."

In what context is it used that makes it offensive?

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters


"Cotton-headed ninny-muggins is pretty much the only one. Rest are fine.

Woah! No need for that kind of language in here. Keep it civil please."

I know, I know! Sorry! Please don't mod me I was just answering the topic!!

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By *ense and sensualityCouple
over a year ago

Hull

I love the word c@unt.

Trying to reclaim it as an accurate word for female genitals, without the sweary contexts.

I cannot abide the word pussy! Vulva or c@nt please.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

The c word.

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By *iggingMan
over a year ago

Oldham

Not swearing obviously but I hate the N word...along with c**n. Hateful words.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cotton-headed ninny-muggins is pretty much the only one. Rest are fine."

Always one to lower the tone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love the word c@unt.

Trying to reclaim it as an accurate word for female genitals, without the sweary contexts.

I cannot abide the word pussy! Vulva or c@nt please."

Always drop the cunt bomb !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the context. I can be offensive without using a single expletive. You may not even realise until later..

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By *eartsmanMan
over a year ago

southeast , midlands, southern France

With live in a society now that something is going to offend someone, so I don't give a shit if I offend someone because of what I say or believe in. That's their problem not mine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With live in a society now that something is going to offend someone, so I don't give a shit if I offend someone because of what I say or believe in. That's their problem not mine! "

Exactly!

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"With live in a society now that something is going to offend someone, so I don't give a shit if I offend someone because of what I say or believe in. That's their problem not mine! "

I give a shit, I don't intentially want to offend anyone, if I know something will offend I will adjust (to a point) slightly to not offend. I won't however walk around on eggshells or put additional effort in on the off chance that somebody may find it offensive.

I'm considerate but I'am not responsible for "your" feelings.

There is a difference between being yourself and intentionally being an inconsiderate cunt just because - granted for some people the two overlap fully.

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By *iking67Man
over a year ago

BP Auckland

I noticed its mostly men that find swear words offensive lol I suspect some think they are being chivalrous.......

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By *ryan...Man
over a year ago

1950's Original

The word ***

The word ****

The word *****

The word ******

The word *******

The word ********

The word *********

The a word

The b word

The c word

The d word

The e word

Etc etc etc...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No words really

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

Any term of abuse that implies that one (ethnic, religious or sundry) group in society is inferior to another!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few, well, a well few yrs ago I was called an effng foreign cnt... That hurt and it still does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No accounting for taste i guess

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

I have a right potty mouth. My ex would regularly call me a c*nt so I hate it when I hear anyone called that as it just stirs up emotions for me... but I will use the word when fucking

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