FabSwingers.com forum: Cold and impersonal..

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

... with men not getting any replies and women getting meet now messages it can sometimes feel a bit cold and impersonal.

So, this thread is for sharing some connectivity and feelings.

I'll start, I'm interested in people, what they care about, their passions...some of my passions are cats, helping others and coffee.

Current feelings are mixed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"... with men not getting any replies and women getting meet now messages it can sometimes feel a bit cold and impersonal.

So, this thread is for sharing some connectivity and feelings.

I'll start, I'm interested in people, what they care about, their passions...some of my passions are cats, helping others and coffee.

Current feelings are mixed

I’m happy to chat to anyone. About anything as long as honest and nice

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By *hinstrapMan
over a year ago

Barnsley

Likewise. Chatting being polite n friendly is always a great feeling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dogs, Chinese Food and Penis are my passions.

Anything else anyone wants to know they can ask when balls deep

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

I'm passionate about my Brazilian blend and currently ruminating about getting tactile with my Cafetière.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

I err toward seagulls, mainly avoiding them, watching quizzes, playing marjon and solitaire and drinking Guinness

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

"Dogs, Chinese Food and Penis are my passions.

Anything else anyone wants to know they can ask when balls deep

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,,, made me laugh,, x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You had me at coffee.

It’s good to talk isn’t it?… I like warm people, they keep my feet warm when we play footsie under the table.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Astrology, books, wildlife, spirituality, the cosmos are just a few of my passions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I care about my kids (all grown up) and family, football team I support. Love being outdoors feeling the sun on my face. And the smell of fresh coffee.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I err toward seagulls, mainly avoiding them, watching quizzes, playing marjon and solitaire and drinking Guinness

What's marjon? X

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

What a lovely thread OP

I am just an old friendly lady, the one you see in your local Aldi, buying cheese and strawberries.

I like to get to know people and will listen without judgement when you feel like talking.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You had me at coffee.

It’s good to talk isn’t it?… I like warm people, they keep my feet warm when we play footsie under the table.

It is good to talk. Sometimes deep and meaningful, sometimes frivolous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great thread OP, hope you are feeling ok?

I love being outside, love a long roadtrip, tunes blaring and just me. Love the beach and mountains and watching the sun set. I love nature and all it has to offer, I truly don't think we spend enough time appreciating our beautiful planet

I appreciate good food, good company.

Family time is everything to me. My kids are my world

Today I feel 'meh' I have to remember to be kind to myself today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You had me at coffee.

It’s good to talk isn’t it?… I like warm people, they keep my feet warm when we play footsie under the table.

It is good to talk. Sometimes deep and meaningful, sometimes frivolous. "

I do all 3 of these.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Astrology, books, wildlife, spirituality, the cosmos are just a few of my passions

Astro physics is something that interests me too. Curious about space and what's there.

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By *evonrobMan
over a year ago

Kingsbridge

I think empathy always works well on a chat site. I treat it as just another way of meeting people. You wouldn’t just demand someone got their kit off if you met them in a pub so I think the same goes for this media. It’s far more fulfilling to develop a chat relationship leading to a meet….but even more frustrating when all that typing gets tossed next morning in a new chat!

Keep it warm, don’t be cold!

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By *rtyIanMan
over a year ago

Gateway to the Beacons

Cooking, especially for others

Photography and art, conversation. The outdoors being in or on water all year.

Books, the universe, being a friend whatever the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not into endless messages because I'm not here to make friends, but there has to be a connection of some sort, even if basic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My passion is travelling and photography it’s also my job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I err toward seagulls, mainly avoiding them, watching quizzes, playing marjon and solitaire and drinking Guinness

What's marjon? X"

If memory serves me right.. it’s a game..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Passions... Mostly the simple things in life that bring me a little joy. Going for a walk as the sunsets, feeding the squirrels and birds in the gardens, talking to all the dogs I see down the street, coffee and cake, my cats with they get a new toy, the first hug from someone when you haven't seen them in a while.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Films/TV, music, football, photography, food, writing.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I err toward seagulls, mainly avoiding them, watching quizzes, playing marjon and solitaire and drinking Guinness

What's marjon? X"

I think they mean mahjong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a great thread!

Love meeting new people, though have been known to be shy.. love country walks and country pubs and winters beaches.

Good coffee, good food, good beer and good sex.

Love curves too:D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nature and wildlife, occasional astrology, spiritualism, but also science and technology, life experiences..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You had me at coffee.

It’s good to talk isn’t it?… I like warm people, they keep my feet warm when we play footsie under the table.

It is good to talk. Sometimes deep and meaningful, sometimes frivolous. "

It is good to talk, although the internet is a clumsy medium. One of the things that I don't understand on here is that people won't meet just to chat face to face, when you've already connected online. It doesn't have to be about sex.

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By *KG12Couple
over a year ago

Burnley

The normal kids, partner and family.

Football (watching)

Socialising. I'm better around people

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

I like this thread, OP. Nice idea.

I enjoy spending time seeing and chatting to people I like. Whether that’s friends or sexual/romantic interests it matters not. Long walks and brunches are my favourite way to do this but the forum has been a beacon of light for me lately.

I am single and work from home and my hobby is running, so I see precious few people.

Whatever you’re all doing out there, have a great day

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By *GermanInLondonMan
over a year ago

London

Great uplifting thread!

My passions music, photography. And lately fab it seems, considering the time I spend on here.

Love the diversity on here. Look forwards to my first social eventually (read in Manuel voice of Fawlty towers).

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Is this like the equivalent to the Miss World speech?

But seriously I don't like discrimination and injustice of any kind, arrongance and sense of superiority. I strive to be level headed at all times and sensitive to other people's issues, love food and cooking and I am a big animal lover, especially dogs as are there for you when the chips are down

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I'm a musician and producer, passionate about nature and the outdoors.

I love animals (you'll never see me so happy as when I have a happy dog to play with).

I am also an avid climber, mostly indoors though.

Perfectly filthy in the bedroom x

Don't all message me at once now, oh okay you can... please

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By *d4fun73Man
over a year ago

Shipley

"Astrology, books, wildlife, spirituality, the cosmos are just a few of my passions

Astro physics is something that interests me too. Curious about space and what's there. "

There's a big difference between astrology and astrophysics!!!!

My interests not that anyone is interested is art, drawing and music.

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By *d4fun73Man
over a year ago

Shipley

"Astrology, books, wildlife, spirituality, the cosmos are just a few of my passions

Astro physics is something that interests me too. Curious about space and what's there.

There's a big difference between astrology and astrophysics!!!!

My interests not that anyone is interested is art, drawing and music.

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and turning women into a hot wet moaning mess lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Books cooking travel when feeling better

Cake

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