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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How long are you prepared to have 'fabbers' on your 'friends' list.

For example, if they hardly ever message you back to you from your messages that you have sent them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m stuck with all the friends I have because I can’t seem to delete any

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Literally going through this myself now, got off to a great start, added as friends, haven't heard from them in a long time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep my friends to single figures and I speak to them all now and again.

If that stopped then I'd stop being friends with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I deleted a few off my list the other day. I figured that if we never send a message saying hello then what's the point.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m stuck with all the friends I have because I can’t seem to delete any"

Strange.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep all of mine as I find them all attractive and I've told them so they know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I deleted a few off my list the other day. I figured that if we never send a message saying hello then what's the point."

Well they're obviously missing our with you then!

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

My friends list Isn't too long and I speak to most regularly. My hotlist on the other hand is getting out of control.

XX

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My friends list Isn't too long and I speak to most regularly. My hotlist on the other hand is getting out of control.

XX"

I do not have a 'hotlist' lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't look through our friends list often.

I was looking through yesterday, to find certain ones to contact.

I noticed some there that I couldn't remember and one that we last messaged 2 years ago, so I deleted a few.

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

I’m going to have a cull soon! It will be brutal

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

He's Vidal Cullsoon. ^

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

We usually have a cut off of a month. We know people can be busy with irl stuff which is why it's set at a month as they bound to get 5 mins to message us that there still around just dealing with stuff

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

There’s at least 2 on this thread going

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

My friends list isn't very long. They're people that I chat to often, only on here,or new guys I'm planning to meet.

Good friends from here have my private number.

If we no longer speak, I delete

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London


"He's Vidal Cullsoon. ^"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they haven't hung out the back of me or aren't likely too in the future, I don't keep them as friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they haven't hung out the back of me or aren't likely too in the future, I don't keep them as friends. "

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Can’t say we chat regularly to anyone on our friends list. Don’t get me wrong there has been conversations in the past that’s why they are there. But a constant conversation is not required to stay there. If I’m totally honest most people get taking off because they post a ghastly photo/video that puts the mrs off her morning coffee.

The mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a more intimate and private hotlist. it’s where the nude photos are isn’t it?

If I’d have them as a proper friend, I give my number and we would talk often.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

My friends list is in single numbers.I deleted a few off a while back because we never kept in touch so don't see the point of having them on there. It's usually reserved for people I've met anyhow or chat to regularly.

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By *ayna20Couple
over a year ago

Kent

Friends list for us serves two purposes

Keeping in touch with people we’ve met

Or

Getting to know people we’ve started chatting to

People we’ve met stay

New people go on the list but if the chat stops we remove if no chat for a two week period

People who send a request without a conversation generally won’t get accepted - unless we’re feeling really nosey in which case we accept, have a look then remove

That’s just how we choose to manage it

As such our list is generally single figures

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've got less than 10 on my friends list and only chat to one on a regular basis but if I was messaging and not getting replies they would be removed.

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames

We are less dictatorial about this - friends list is a erotic community to engage with (and all of our play friends have stayed with us as Fab friends) ...

x G &A

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

. (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

My friends list are those I chat to off line, so as long we are still chatting then we are still Fab friends

...but the hotlist is a whole other minefield primed for debauchery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they do not reply to your messages then they aren’t your friends.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I clear mine out monthly and delete any unspoken profiles. As I speak to my friends on other platforms

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire


"If they do not reply to your messages then they aren’t your friends. "

What if they are lazy and take a day or so to reply?

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By *ustincamebridgeCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Billie and bobbie no mates

We have none

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We’ve started trimming our profile down and have moved most of our pics to friends now so we are trimming our friends list down to actually people we chat to regular.

This isn’t the book of face - if we’ve stopped chatting then there’s no point

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only have people I’ve met on mine but we don’t speak often. I like to keep them on my friends list so they are easier to find and can see their updates etc if they post any. I don’t constantly message my friends on social media so it’s no different here for me.

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

Our friends list stays reasonably large as many of them come to our parties.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only have people I’ve met on mine but we don’t speak often. I like to keep them on my friends list so they are easier to find and can see their updates etc if they post any. I don’t constantly message my friends on social media so it’s no different here for me. "

Same approach here

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I only have people I've met on my list, but unless they keep in regular contact, they get removed.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"If they haven't hung out the back of me or aren't likely too in the future, I don't keep them as friends. "

*Sends friend request

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have many friends, quality over quantity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as they want to be there.

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow


"As long as they want to be there. "

Same as us

Tinder x

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

It's not a feature I use

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