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Do you ever look at a profile and see you have chatted with that person before

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But you have no idea that you ever spoke with them.

Is it just me who feels like I'm losing mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do occasionally. But for me it's "that was 2 years ago! Ooft"

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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago

Bath

Yeh… it happens

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Nope, not just you!

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Yes and there's normally a few years gap, on the sent messages notification on their profile. Thank heavens for the private note function

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Sure then try figure out what it was about

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Yes and there's normally a few years gap, on the sent messages notification on their profile. Thank heavens for the private note function "

Thats something I've never used, maybe I should start.

XX

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes and there's normally a few years gap, on the sent messages notification on their profile. Thank heavens for the private note function "

How do that work ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've seen forum users who I chatted with in the last couple of weeks and I can't for the life of me remember what was said. Can't even remember hearing from them.

I wish there was a way I could click on the profile and see previous conversations.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Yes. I used to get messages saying we hadn't spoken for a while and when I checked it would be five years plus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes ... sometimes l go to send a message regards something they've said on the forums etc and am told that l've already sent a message and have received no reply so then l don't send one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got a good memory and not that many chats so all good

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Got a good memory and not that many chats so all good "

Give it time when you've been here several years your brain will be filtering pal it's amazing how many years later you can still remember little bits

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We often get new profiles who message us as if they are new onto FAB but I have a fantastic memory and can remember pics sent to us on their old profile

Don’t think they are that impressed that they’ve started a new profile to start FAB again and I’m saying welcome back

K

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"Yes and there's normally a few years gap, on the sent messages notification on their profile. Thank heavens for the private note function

Thats something I've never used, maybe I should start.

XX"

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It's indispensable for me, for a multitude of reasons. The private notes function: long may it live.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I’m sure fab makes it up. Click on loads of profiles and it says “ you winked/messaged them so many months ago “ I ask the mrs she can’t recall, and neither can I.

The mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The common thing to do on here is once around the pussy tank, forget and back around again. I have a good memory so find it bizarre when people don't remember we have already chatted. Even more bizarre when they forget they've shagged you already and no Im not joking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This seems to be common and there are a few clues.

One - if you stay logged into Fab when you see profiles, the ones you've viewed before have purple writing and if not, it's blue.

Two - when you view a profile it will tell you if you've winked or messaged previously

Three - if you do message someone again, your old messages should appear in the thread.

We get people messaging us again only weeks after making it clear that they're not for us. Often with exactly the same message, word for word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

Someone messaged me

Then I realised I met him 6 yrs ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the fucking time lol

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire


"The common thing to do on here is once around the pussy tank, forget and back around again. I have a good memory so find it bizarre when people don't remember we have already chatted. Even more bizarre when they forget they've shagged you already and no Im not joking "

Is it so bizarre when people change names and pictures so often?

If there was a face picture on your avatar then I’d be very surprised if anyone forgot they’d had sex with you.

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By *ustincamebridgeCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Always doing it. When we started, some must have thought we were stalking them

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss


"Yes and there's normally a few years gap, on the sent messages notification on their profile. Thank heavens for the private note function

How do that work ?"

Open the profile, press the 3 limes menu and your privates notes option comes up.

I use it to yes/no/maybe male profiles I have interacted with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've seen forum users who I chatted with in the last couple of weeks and I can't for the life of me remember what was said. Can't even remember hearing from them.

I wish there was a way I could click on the profile and see previous conversations."

Are the messages not still sat in your inbox or do you delete them?

I receive messages and then it will say you messaged this person 3 weeks ago, I use the private note function which I find useful.

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Happens a lot!

Usually it says we make each other years ago....... but not a clue what about!!!

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

I tend to leave private notes, which is a feature I only learned about recently and it's been quite handy to keep track if people I've converse before and found we have nothing in common. It saves embarrassment if you messaged them again. But I do have friends that haven't had a convo in a while and we tend to have a catch up once in a while too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People change profile pics and names. I don't recognise most people when they change their profile pics. Also many are so similar I get them mixed up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The common thing to do on here is once around the pussy tank, forget and back around again. I have a good memory so find it bizarre when people don't remember we have already chatted. Even more bizarre when they forget they've shagged you already and no Im not joking

Is it so bizarre when people change names and pictures so often?

If there was a face picture on your avatar then I’d be very surprised if anyone forgot they’d had sex with you.

"

Burn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

I am constantly surprised by the anti-aging effect that having a Fab profile has on people

There are some people who haven't aged a year in the 12/13 years since I first had a profile here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Occasionally. Speaks volumes re: quality of the chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It could have been a forum game /thread

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"It could have been a forum game /thread "

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You and your forum games and photo challenges!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It could have been a forum game /thread

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You and your forum games and photo challenges! "

Like your not her assistant

Miss S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But yes, in reply to you OP.

Sometimes can be a few years ago.

Miss S x

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"It could have been a forum game /thread

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You and your forum games and photo challenges!

Like your not her assistant

Miss S x"

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Rumbled!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have left a nice message on lots of couples n ladies profiles, but usually get deleted , even blocked

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By *olarbear73Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yeah that happens, sometimes discussion just goes cold

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It could have been a forum game /thread

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You and your forum games and photo challenges!

Like your not her assistant

Miss S x

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Rumbled! "

Miss S x

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire


"The common thing to do on here is once around the pussy tank, forget and back around again. I have a good memory so find it bizarre when people don't remember we have already chatted. Even more bizarre when they forget they've shagged you already and no Im not joking

Is it so bizarre when people change names and pictures so often?

If there was a face picture on your avatar then I’d be very surprised if anyone forgot they’d had sex with you.

Burn."

No burn!

I was just contemplating how anyone could forget they’d had sex with someone.

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London


"It could have been a forum game /thread "

Yep, that’s happened to me and can only vaguely remember messaging / getting a message from someone.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I had a couple of people message me recently who I'd spoken to 3 years ago.

I was trying to work out why we hadn't met.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"Yes and there's normally a few years gap, on the sent messages notification on their profile. Thank heavens for the private note function

How do that work ?

Open the profile, press the 3 limes menu and your privates notes option comes up.

I use it to yes/no/maybe male profiles I have interacted with "

I've only just bloody realised who you are, from looking at your profile and seeing we've verified each other

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