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Discharge from hospital after hip replacement

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anyone have experience of what to expect prior to someone being discharged from hospital after a hip replacement?

My dad (in his 80s) had one earlier today and seems to be bright enough in himself which is great. However, one nurse was talking about him being discharged tomorrow. So far, he's not been out of bed; seen by a physio to see how he can move or to give advice on exercises etc.

No, horror stories please as I'm already a bit stressed about it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He will need to be able to get out of bed, out of a chair and on and off the toilet on himself. My uncle came home a few weeks ago after a hip op and was sent straight back because they discharged him without checking the above.

Hopefully he does well

F

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

My dad had two in his life..he was never discharged just after he had it done..he was kept in for at least two weeks from what I remember..he was your dad's age as well.. they do some physio at home..but it starts at the hospital ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"He will need to be able to get out of bed, out of a chair and on and off the toilet on himself. My uncle came home a few weeks ago after a hip op and was sent straight back because they discharged him without checking the above.

Hopefully he does well

F"

Thank you. That certainly gives me the basis for a sensible discussion around the bed, chair and toilet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My dad had two in his life..he was never discharged just after he had it done..he was kept in for at least two weeks from what I remember..he was your dad's age as well.. they do some physio at home..but it starts at the hospital .."

Thank you. Again, good to know. I appreciate cases are very individual but 1 day seemed a bit quick and overly optimistic. I think I expected physio / exercising to carry on once home but I'm talking myself round in circles at times x

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By *ittleCurvyChickWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the rainbow

When my mum had hers done she was sitting in the chair the day after surgery. 2 days after surfery she was up and walking with help. She wasn't discharged until she could get out of bed, out of a chair/toilet and able to climb a flight of stairs.

Op, your dad is lucky to have you there fighting his corner. I wish him a speedy recovery x

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By *GermanInLondonMan
over a year ago

London

I think there maybe quite a bit of pressure to get people out of hospital asap. Horrible times.

If they are unreasonable and would be a family member of mine I would try to be firm.

Doesn't help if he comes back with complications when discharged too quickly.

Good luck.

PS: shouldn't sound negative to hospital staff. Lots of pressure they are out under in a broken system.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think there maybe quite a bit of pressure to get people out of hospital asap. Horrible times.

If they are unreasonable and would be a family member of mine I would try to be firm.

Doesn't help if he comes back with complications when discharged too quickly.

Good luck.

PS: shouldn't sound negative to hospital staff. Lots of pressure they are out under in a broken system."

I don't disagree with you and I've no wish for him to become a bed blocker as soon as he can manage. I just don't want paramedics and fireman having to be called to pick him up again. At over 6', and although frail, there's a lot of him to move.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When my mum had hers done she was sitting in the chair the day after surgery. 2 days after surfery she was up and walking with help. She wasn't discharged until she could get out of bed, out of a chair/toilet and able to climb a flight of stairs.

Op, your dad is lucky to have you there fighting his corner. I wish him a speedy recovery x"

Thank you x

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By *uvery30Woman
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Normaly 2 days after the replacement. That's after physio and been seen by consultant ect and ensuring the pain is well controlled. Some may go home on day 1. But giving his age I would say at least 2 days post op. And ensuring he can do stairs ect to ( if he has them at home) also making sure he can walk with the correct aids as well. Ie frame or sticks. Feel free to message me privately if I can help any more op.

Sending best all the best for speedy recovery xx

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

My mum was was discharged approx 48 hrs after she had the op.

She had physio and could walk with crutches. Could get in and out of bed, toilet etc by herself. She did have a frame around the loo to help her get up and down and a stool to sit on whilst showering. Hopefully Occupational therapist has sent equipment for at home to support patient post op.

It will take approx 4 wks before they are more mobile ( walking with a stick) around the house and about 8 wks post op to walk without.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two days doesnt seem much at all does it for having had such a big operation, I am surprised.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

if your not happy with anything dont be afraid to challenge them ... theres so many question like does he live on his own ..will he need a care package whiles he recovering and so on ... my mum had her knee replacement and was in and out same day she is due a hip replacement in the summer 2023 ..unsafe discharge is not a uncommon thing with the nhs

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Ask to speak to the discharge officer, physio and social services person. If he's medically fit ask for him to be transferred into a rehab or respite facility. I never thought I'd be saying this but you need to ensure that you refuse to do certain things or you'll find yourself doing more than you're capable of or qualified for.

Good luck and speedy recovery to your dad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My dad was discharged soon as they could get him up and walk like next day I think I heard same day in some cases

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone have experience of what to expect prior to someone being discharged from hospital after a hip replacement?

My dad (in his 80s) had one earlier today and seems to be bright enough in himself which is great. However, one nurse was talking about him being discharged tomorrow. So far, he's not been out of bed; seen by a physio to see how he can move or to give advice on exercises etc.

No, horror stories please as I'm already a bit stressed about it x"

I’ve had both hips done..the latest one was three weeks ago.. yes there is a difference in age.. but they need you to be able to get in/out of bed & a chair.. physio will need you to able to walk with crutches & do the exercises they give you that’s a must.. he will need to at least pee before they let him go.. if he has a low toilet he will need the booster seat.. I was in for 48hrs on both hips..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all for the advice and best wishes. I feel better prepared for the discussions now x

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I had one and I was out less than 48 hours after. I was in a ward with a few older people and we were all discharged the same day. You get out of bed the day after and walk to prevent complications. Once you can walk up a step you can go home.A physio sees you and helps you with it. For older people they make sure they are steady on their feet and know how to use the walking aids either crutches,rollator or waking frame depending on their mobility.

The most important thing after is to follow the rules for 6 weeks at least like no crossing legs,no bending down over 90 degree angles etc. Just to let muscles etc heal so it doesn't pop out place. The pain isn't too bad especially after about two or 3 days. As long as they have someone to look after them at home and who can check on them they will get discharged as soon as they are up and mobile.

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By *JSWINGSTARMan
over a year ago

carshalton

As a gent who’s had 3 hip replacements so far,

the average stay in hospital is 3-5 days nowadays..

But before discharge to home the environment patient being discharged to has to be known and basically who and how the discharged patients care package will work..

Physio’s will also check mobility and whether or not you can do stairs(even if not applicable for one storey home)..

They’ll also enquire about handy aids(ie raised toilet seat,banisters or the bathroom handles/grips

Suitable Pain relief needs to be organised and discharge information to be passed on to Gp within 10-14 days post op..

Another check they do is whether or not the toileting habits are working (basically can’t leave til had a shit)..

They normally won’t discharge without a relative and you are also in your right to ask anything or raise any concerns you may have with his named nurse,any staff nurse or the ward sister..

Hope this makes sense and helps but if any query just ask..

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By *erriman69Couple
over a year ago

highworth

Had mine done last year. Op was Monday afternoon and I was home for dinner on Tuesday. They checked that I could walk with crutches and manage stairs before they let me go.

We had moved a bed downstairs in advance and that made life easier.

The one thing that is tricky is making yourself a hot drink. (You can't carry anything when you're on crutches) We bought some flasks and a shoulder bag so I could make a coffee, take it to the sofa in the bag and pour it into a cup so I could drink sitting down.

Also, make sure he's got a seat that isn't too low as that will be difficult to get out of.

Oo and handles in the shower to make sure he doesn't fall. I got some online from Coopers - they vacuum stick to the wall.

If I think of any other tips I'll drop you a note.

Wishing you well.

Dee x

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

My dad had one when he was in his late 70s. He was out the day after the op which scared the bejeezus out of me as he lives alone and I had to go and stay to care for him. It was far easier than I anticipated: I'd help him up and down stairs, getting in and out of bed, get his sweat pants on (don't bother with trousers!), putting his shoes on, and carrying things for him but other than that I was amazed at how he just got on with it.

Hope your Dad is OK OP x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for all the comments, well wishes and support in the new posts as well. It is very much appreciated x

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