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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Chatting with a ‘couple’ seems friendly enough and then ‘you can’t view this profile’ …user has blocked you

Is blocking your ‘go to’ if you just can’t be bothered to chat anymore?

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By *he HandiemanMan
over a year ago

north west

Happened to me a few times, i dont get it but hey ho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody blocks out of the blue, there's always a reason whether you think there is or not. Don't stress about things you can't control and move on.

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By *ustincider888Man
over a year ago

Preston Ish

Don't waste your energy bothering about it

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

It saves on awkward conversations when you realise the compatibility isn't there, I guess.

Getting blocked is fine. It's better than continuing to waste time and energy on someone who isn't gonna work out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah of they decide you aren't for them, I would sooner just say personally

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Are you sure they've blocked you, could they be temporarily suspended pending photo verification of similar?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nobody blocks out of the blue, there's always a reason whether you think there is or not. Don't stress about things you can't control and move on."

Oh yeah not stressed about it just curious about others experience if it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It saves on awkward conversations when you realise the compatibility isn't there, I guess.

Getting blocked is fine. It's better than continuing to waste time and energy on someone who isn't gonna work out."

Yeah makes sense not to waste time …but don’t see why the conversation should be awkward .. we’re all adults

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

wouldnt worry about just move on,,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are you sure they've blocked you, could they be temporarily suspended pending photo verification of similar?"

We were chatting….and then I tried to look at their profile and it said ‘you can’t view this profile’ so I tried to message and it said they had blocked me. I can’t see how it would be temp

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"It saves on awkward conversations when you realise the compatibility isn't there, I guess.

Getting blocked is fine. It's better than continuing to waste time and energy on someone who isn't gonna work out.

Yeah makes sense not to waste time …but don’t see why the conversation should be awkward .. we’re all adults "

Having dealt with a lot of single men on here, I understand expecting a shitty response.

Probably why half the time I go with one word answers in the hope they'll decide I'm boring and fuck off on their own rather than making a big deal.

Not all men. But enough to make people having their guard up reasonable.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"wouldnt worry about just move on,,"

no worry…just curious of others experience

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Did you engage in sex chat?

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

I do hear of lots of people trying to politely turn down folk and getting endless begging messages trying to get them to change their minds. Followed by abuse when they don’t capitulate.

Maybe that couple has just taken blocking as a strategy to avoid that. Not suggesting you would have, OP, but it might explain the lack of explanation.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It saves on awkward conversations when you realise the compatibility isn't there, I guess.

Getting blocked is fine. It's better than continuing to waste time and energy on someone who isn't gonna work out.

Yeah makes sense not to waste time …but don’t see why the conversation should be awkward .. we’re all adults

Having dealt with a lot of single men on here, I understand expecting a shitty response.

Probably why half the time I go with one word answers in the hope they'll decide I'm boring and fuck off on their own rather than making a big deal.

Not all men. But enough to make people having their guard up reasonable."

Well yes I guess that could be the case… shame that’s the feeling

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Did you engage in sex chat?"

Their first message got ‘straight to the point’

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I do hear of lots of people trying to politely turn down folk and getting endless begging messages trying to get them to change their minds. Followed by abuse when they don’t capitulate.

Maybe that couple has just taken blocking as a strategy to avoid that. Not suggesting you would have, OP, but it might explain the lack of explanation."

Yeah that’s fair

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By *evonrobMan
over a year ago

Kingsbridge

You can never tell how a message that you think is harmless is going to be perceived. I’ve had that problem with messages I thought were humorous but were perceived as really unfunny. Take it on the chin and move on!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You can never tell how a message that you think is harmless is going to be perceived. I’ve had that problem with messages I thought were humorous but were perceived as really unfunny. Take it on the chin and move on!"

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've never done this mid chat but have been on the receiving end a few times over the years.

In one case we had chatted for a couple of weeks and she was very full on about getting to know me and wanting to meet when she got back from holiday and when I replied to wish her a happy holiday I was blocked.

That was years ago and it annoyed me at the time because I was struggling to maintain conversations and her actions didn't make sense.

She was well verified and there had been zero sex chat beforehand.

If it was to happen now I wouldn't give it a second thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do if I can't be arsed anymore, yep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did you engage in sex chat?

Their first message got ‘straight to the point’ "

He finished his wank.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I do if I can't be arsed anymore, yep."

I guess whatever works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chatting with a ‘couple’ seems friendly enough and then ‘you can’t view this profile’ …user has blocked you

Is blocking your ‘go to’ if you just can’t be bothered to chat anymore?

"

I only block if someone doesn’t respect my boundaries.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Did you engage in sex chat?

Their first message got ‘straight to the point’

He finished his wank. "

I didn’t want to assume …

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Did you engage in sex chat?

Their first message got ‘straight to the point’

He finished his wank. "

Yep definitely this

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Did you engage in sex chat?

Their first message got ‘straight to the point’

He finished his wank.

Yep definitely this

Mrs "

Who am I to think this directly

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By *ittall2020Man
over a year ago

Norwich

It seems this couple was lacking in one thing. A woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I would say that I no longer felt that we were compatible and wish them well, or something along those lines.

I rarely hit the block button though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only block the really really annoying people.

So yeah, at last count it was about 30k.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Chatting with a ‘couple’ seems friendly enough and then ‘you can’t view this profile’ …user has blocked you

Is blocking your ‘go to’ if you just can’t be bothered to chat anymore?

"

Yeah I think I’ve blocked most

Of the site now. Unless it’s forum people I never block them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I have 2 people blocked but only because they pollute my local updates feed with disgusting pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest, they may have seen the size of your appendage and the Mrs' insides exploded there and then and blocking you was their first thought.

F

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I have 2 people blocked but only because they pollute my local updates feed with disgusting pics"

I will stop posting cream pies, I promise

F

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's happened to me and I just block them back out of pettiness

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By *hinstrapMan
over a year ago

Barnsley

Happened a few time. Just take it on the chin and move on. There may or may not be a reason...you will never know...don't waste energy. Next haha

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By *hinstrapMan
over a year ago

Barnsley

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Chatting with a ‘couple’ seems friendly enough and then ‘you can’t view this profile’ …user has blocked you

Is blocking your ‘go to’ if you just can’t be bothered to chat anymore?

Yeah I think I’ve blocked most

Of the site now. Unless it’s forum people I never block them. "

I seemed to have escaped the block

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To be honest, they may have seen the size of your appendage and the Mrs' insides exploded there and then and blocking you was their first thought.

F"

Made her sick?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's happened to me and I just block them back out of pettiness "

Haha that’s what I did

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Chatting with a ‘couple’ seems friendly enough and then ‘you can’t view this profile’ …user has blocked you

Is blocking your ‘go to’ if you just can’t be bothered to chat anymore?

"
Yep one wrong word they don't need you anymore and no recourse just move on as easily as they did

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