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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I get that some people are submisive, and like to be dominated in the bedroom when having the sex , but…..

If you meet or are with someone that is also dominant, is there a power struggle sex fight? Because that sounds like a lot of kinky fun I could get on board with?

So, are dominant people only compatible with those that say they are submissive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You might get people who switch.. But I'm not sure you can have a domme+Dom.. It would be a power struggle.. Only one person can be in charge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You might get people who switch.. But I'm not sure you can have a domme+Dom.. It would be a power struggle.. Only one person can be in charge "

There’s only one way to understand this….

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I get that some people are submisive, and like to be dominated in the bedroom when having the sex , but…..

If you meet or are with someone that is also dominant, is there a power struggle sex fight? Because that sounds like a lot of kinky fun I could get on board with?

So, are dominant people only compatible with those that say they are submissive?

"

You sound like a switch to me

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"I get that some people are submisive, and like to be dominated in the bedroom when having the sex , but…..

If you meet or are with someone that is also dominant, is there a power struggle sex fight? Because that sounds like a lot of kinky fun I could get on board with?

So, are dominant people only compatible with those that say they are submissive?

"

Are you after serious answers or any old flannel?

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By *REEPALESTINEMan
over a year ago

derby

Some people prefer both depending on their moods

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you after serious answers or any old flannel?"

Go with the flannel please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You might get people who switch.. But I'm not sure you can have a domme+Dom.. It would be a power struggle.. Only one person can be in charge

There’s only one way to understand this…."

Fiiiiigghhtt!

I can defo take you

..... One-ah, two-ah, three-ahhhhh.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get that some people are submisive, and like to be dominated in the bedroom when having the sex , but…..

If you meet or are with someone that is also dominant, is there a power struggle sex fight? Because that sounds like a lot of kinky fun I could get on board with?

So, are dominant people only compatible with those that say they are submissive?

"

You could try it on yourself using a mirror

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

When I've found a Dom to play with, it's turned into high passion, urgency sex, we feed off each others energy and animalistic literally just fuck, over and over in many different positions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You might get people who switch.. But I'm not sure you can have a domme+Dom.. It would be a power struggle.. Only one person can be in charge

There’s only one way to understand this….

Fiiiiigghhtt!

I can defo take you

..... One-ah, two-ah, three-ahhhhh..... "

But would I just let you, or make it a fight?

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

The meeting of two Dom’s is contractually settled with an arm wrestle.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get that some people are submisive, and like to be dominated in the bedroom when having the sex , but…..

If you meet or are with someone that is also dominant, is there a power struggle sex fight? Because that sounds like a lot of kinky fun I could get on board with?

So, are dominant people only compatible with those that say they are submissive?

You could try it on yourself using a mirror "

Oh. very good.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get that some people are submisive, and like to be dominated in the bedroom when having the sex , but…..

If you meet or are with someone that is also dominant, is there a power struggle sex fight? Because that sounds like a lot of kinky fun I could get on board with?

So, are dominant people only compatible with those that say they are submissive?

Are you after serious answers or any old flannel?"

It would be appropriate to say both.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get that some people are submisive, and like to be dominated in the bedroom when having the sex , but…..

If you meet or are with someone that is also dominant, is there a power struggle sex fight? Because that sounds like a lot of kinky fun I could get on board with?

So, are dominant people only compatible with those that say they are submissive?

You sound like a switch to me"

I normally get told I sound like a nob.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The meeting of two Dom’s is contractually settled with an arm wrestle.

"

With a backdrop of a brooding thunderstorm. A slash of lightning as their hands lock, before the heavens open and everyones shirts are hopelessly wet and stuck to their tensed up bodies.

Would be nice

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By *im n Her 68Couple
over a year ago

Garvagh

No my partner and I are both dominant. I love being dominanted by him it's not a power struggle it's more him knowing I'm a Domniant and respects me more when I give him that power over me.

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field

It can be interesting

Met up with a women a few times, already knew her quite well through the forums and parties. Self confessed Dominatrix/top who was feisty, gobby, opinionated, took no shit…even worked as a club bouncer for a while. We got on well and I was up for the battle of wills!

While she tried to Dominate me, it mainly consisted of me getting the giggles, pissing about, being sarcastic and playing brat for about half an hour and her getting increasingly frustrated- cos I’m more of a stubborn cunt than she is.

After the half hour of much amusement on my part, I eventually wrapped my legs round her, flipped her on to her back, took the piss out of her ‘poor attempt’ and lack of door supervision skills and informed her I was taking over the fucking (I really need to get back to the gym and get that level of strength back).

Have to say, it was some of the most fun I had on here whenever we met up and it’s a shame she went and got herself loved up, married off and sprogged (well not a shame for her, happy as a chimp locked in bobs world of bananas as her hubby is a switch/cuck)

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…


"The meeting of two Dom’s is contractually settled with an arm wrestle.

With a backdrop of a brooding thunderstorm. A slash of lightning as their hands lock, before the heavens open and everyones shirts are hopelessly wet and stuck to their tensed up bodies.

Would be nice "

….and Gustav Holst’s, Mars: The Bringer Of War always, out of nowhere, starts playing in the background as the two Titans face off in this Herculean struggle for sexual supremacy

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

I'm naturally dominant but not a domme

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The meeting of two Dom’s is contractually settled with an arm wrestle.

With a backdrop of a brooding thunderstorm. A slash of lightning as their hands lock, before the heavens open and everyones shirts are hopelessly wet and stuck to their tensed up bodies.

Would be nice

….and Gustav Holst’s, Mars: The Bringer Of War always, out of nowhere, starts playing in the background as the two Titans face off in this Herculean struggle for sexual supremacy "

I want front row tickets for this

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The meeting of two Dom’s is contractually settled with an arm wrestle.

With a backdrop of a brooding thunderstorm. A slash of lightning as their hands lock, before the heavens open and everyones shirts are hopelessly wet and stuck to their tensed up bodies.

Would be nice

….and Gustav Holst’s, Mars: The Bringer Of War always, out of nowhere, starts playing in the background as the two Titans face off in this Herculean struggle for sexual supremacy "

This is wonderful.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I like dominant women, they satisfy very different things in me, and push me, not just sexually , although I’ve failed to have long lasting relationships with any so far. When I’ve met for swinging it’s always been good, interesting and I’m more than happy to do as I’m told for a while if they command trust and respect, why wouldn’t you ?

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By *opperKinksWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

A switchy fight for power is such good fun. Using alllll the things you know about your partner to try and make them melt so you gain the upper hand and vice versa... it's hot, and intense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

No switch here .but happy to dominate with others or train others

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"I get that some people are submisive, and like to be dominated in the bedroom when having the sex , but…..

If you meet or are with someone that is also dominant, is there a power struggle sex fight? Because that sounds like a lot of kinky fun I could get on board with?

So, are dominant people only compatible with those that say they are submissive?

"

It's like a celebrity death match.

Actually intelligent people can work it out. But equally I've been in some scenarios where I just chose to disengage as the focus was being lost in the proverbial dick measuring contest.

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field


"I get that some people are submisive, and like to be dominated in the bedroom when having the sex , but…..

If you meet or are with someone that is also dominant, is there a power struggle sex fight? Because that sounds like a lot of kinky fun I could get on board with?

So, are dominant people only compatible with those that say they are submissive?

It's like a celebrity death match.

Actually intelligent people can work it out. But equally I've been in some scenarios where I just chose to disengage as the focus was being lost in the proverbial dick measuring contest. "

Its just difficult to play the psychological games with someone who doesn't really want to give in and knows exactly what you're up to, you can't easily mindfuck them in the same way as a sub who is looking, craving to have you in their head. Not that most subs don't know what you're up to, but their raison d'etre and pleasure centre is to hand over control to that person who hits the right spots.

So with you both fighting for control, it can either become a battle of strength or a case of who can play the dirtiest...not that either option isn't fun

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By *es_salopesCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

As they say different strokes for different folks.

I'm a sadistic Dom, I enjoy being mean to people including impact stuff. When I have tried receiving it really doesn't float my boat, so couldn't be in a monogamous relationship with a dominant person, but a non-monogamous relationship where each of you could get your fix/ gang up on a together on subs could be fun.

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By *ichaelknightMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

I'm dominant and so is my partner. The thing you are describing is top and bottom. She is the top. She does what she wants and I go with it. I am the bottom. I do what she wants, because I like what she wants. But there's no submission involved. Pain, sadism, yes. But no submission.

Top and bottom.

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

I know a number of women that are/ present themselves as Dominants. I give them the courtesy to accept how they present themselves provided the courtesy is reciprocated i.e don't try and dom me and I won't try to dom you. I would suggest it is a cliché that a Dominant has to control everyone in sight.

In my view D/s is relationship based and personal, and on that basis one Dominant can sub to another.

I would suggest there is a distinction between a person having a powerful personality and them being a Dominant. I prefer submissives who have strong personalities.

Some people need to feel overwhelmed (and all that dramatic primal stuff) to be submissive to someone. Others just like the way a person handles themselves and feel they could be submissive to that person. It does not always have to be drama and fireworks. It can be quite civilised.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most women want to fuck me in the ass regardless so I'm used to power struggles. But I always win

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