FabSwingers.com forum: Follow up to my previous topic

By *ornyHumpyMan95 OP Man
over a year ago

Prestatyn

A couple of days ago, I posted a topic about how my compliments were getting deleted and how I agree with something actually got me blocked.

It was posted out of pure frustration and I wasn't thinking clearly at the time, so I'm sorry going forward.

Now, the topic thread itself allowed me to actually get a good look at myself and made some changes about myself both profile and personality-wise

- New profile pic for the time being even if it looks boring as fuck right now, I will get it changed again, but not be too revealing.

- Will participate more on the forums, I need to properly learn to converse with people on here not just through DMs.

- I will expect sarky comments if I fuck up and learn to take it on the chin.

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- Learn whose for me and whose not for me, using Blocking as a filter.

Any other suggestions I could take on board, again I just need to apply myself more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A couple of days ago, I posted a topic about how my compliments were getting deleted and how I agree with something actually got me blocked.

It was posted out of pure frustration and I wasn't thinking clearly at the time, so I'm sorry going forward.

Now, the topic thread itself allowed me to actually get a good look at myself and made some changes about myself both profile and personality-wise

- New profile pic for the time being even if it looks boring as fuck right now, I will get it changed again, but not be too revealing.

- Will participate more on the forums, I need to properly learn to converse with people on here not just through DMs.

- I will expect sarky comments if I fuck up and learn to take it on the chin.

and

- Learn whose for me and whose not for me, using Blocking as a filter.

Any other suggestions I could take on board, again I just need to apply myself more."

Fairplay

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By *ornyHumpyMan95 OP Man
over a year ago

Prestatyn

"A couple of days ago, I posted a topic about how my compliments were getting deleted and how I agree with something actually got me blocked.

It was posted out of pure frustration and I wasn't thinking clearly at the time, so I'm sorry going forward.

Now, the topic thread itself allowed me to actually get a good look at myself and made some changes about myself both profile and personality-wise

- New profile pic for the time being even if it looks boring as fuck right now, I will get it changed again, but not be too revealing.

- Will participate more on the forums, I need to properly learn to converse with people on here not just through DMs.

- I will expect sarky comments if I fuck up and learn to take it on the chin.

and

- Learn whose for me and whose not for me, using Blocking as a filter.

Any other suggestions I could take on board, again I just need to apply myself more.

Fairplay

Thanks

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Well done OP. Good luck.

(P.S. remove that lingering status update which doesn't really help)

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Relax a bit more.

Enjoy it.

If it's not working for you/making you a bit meh, take a break from it. Come back when you're feeling positive. Use the site as a tool but don't see it as being a must do thing.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Don't be too hard on yourself, you're learning from experience

My only suggestion is remove your status

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

Seems fair, good on you.

I reckon the main thing is not to assume anything. Having freedom of speech doesn’t necessarily mean anyone ever has to listen to you. If someone gives you their time and attention, that’s a privilege - and a compliment.

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

You've got to be mean to keep em keen...... True saying although i personally aire to the nice side

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

If we compliment and agree with your new approach will we be blocked?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d change your status . V negative.

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By *ornyHumpyMan95 OP Man
over a year ago

Prestatyn

"Well done OP. Good luck.

(P.S. remove that lingering status update which doesn't really help)"

Will do

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By *ornyHumpyMan95 OP Man
over a year ago

Prestatyn

"Relax a bit more.

Enjoy it.

If it's not working for you/making you a bit meh, take a break from it. Come back when you're feeling positive. Use the site as a tool but don't see it as being a must do thing. "

Ye fair thing to do

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By *ornyHumpyMan95 OP Man
over a year ago

Prestatyn

"Don't be too hard on yourself, you're learning from experience

My only suggestion is remove your status

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By *ornyHumpyMan95 OP Man
over a year ago

Prestatyn

"If we compliment and agree with your new approach will we be blocked?

No idea tbh

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

Good on you, OP. All I would say is don’t try too hard. Just relax, be YOU and enjoy chatting with people. Your personality will naturally come across and you will find someone who wants to be with you because of you. Enjoy, my friend.

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By *ornyHumpyMan95 OP Man
over a year ago

Prestatyn

"Good on you, OP. All I would say is don’t try too hard. Just relax, be YOU and enjoy chatting with people. Your personality will naturally come across and you will find someone who wants to be with you because of you. Enjoy, my friend."

Cheers man

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