FabSwingers.com forum: Street approach,spontanious chat

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Anybody approached somebody spontanoously and got chatting. And it was well recieved face to face.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

I spoke to the postperson this morning, at the end of my street.

The dialogue was well received.

Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not in the street but a cute guy started chatting to me in a coffee shop queue and we ended up dating for about 6 months.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Yep. The person I had a long term relationship with before my fiancé.

Saw him at a conference. Liquid courage later, went over and spoke to him with the cheering of my colleagues embarrassing the fuck out of me as I did. Dated him for a couple of years so yeah. Thanks free bar, you helped my vagina. Maybe not my heart.

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

I have made eye contact and conversation with women in the supermarket.Had a few dates and adult fun with some so yes I would say it was well received

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

When you say well received, do you mean did it lead to sex?

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

yes I talk to anyone if they want to do.

Dosnt matter if its in the street at a bus stop or on the bus.

Ive bumped into many at the local shops and weve been chatting in there often.

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

Hardly ever, but would like to - nerves often get the better of me.

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I love chatting to people from those behind the counter at local shop to dog walkers and people on the train. Problem is that so many people walk about these days with that agree look as they are about to thump you, never mind have a conversation with you. I am sure we all used to be friendlier than now.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"Anybody approached somebody spontanoously and got chatting. And it was well recieved face to face.

It's not common for me being neurodivergent I do miss a lot of social cues. However, when it's directly in my face and I manage to be in the present moment( not in my imaginary lala land) and make eye contact, it does happen.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When you say well received, do you mean did it lead to sex?"

A mind connection. If sex was had thats a bonus!

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By *gor247Man
over a year ago

london

I’m more of a social creature and tend to shine in a face-to-face type situation than I do with the online texting shenanigans. I like to see facial expression and body language which are key to communicating with people. Looking someone in the eye and whispering sweet nothings to them is my preferred method of communication as to talking to someone over text for ages and then meeting and there is no chemistry. Put me in a room and I’m golden

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Yeah.

I was was like "sup babe"

She was like

"Sup back atcha"

I was like

"U iz well fit"

She was like

"So iz you"

Then I was like

"Can I have a big Mac and large fries please and a chocolate milkshake"

She was like

"That'll be £6.11 window number 2"

I was like

"Laterz"

I was really cool

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yeah.

I was was like "sup babe"

She was like

"Sup back atcha"

I was like

"U iz well fit"

She was like

"So iz you"

Then I was like

"Can I have a big Mac and large fries please and a chocolate milkshake"

She was like

"That'll be £6.11 window number 2"

I was like

"Laterz"

I was really cool

MAC saved the day heh. Fast drive through lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Be yourself chat away. If some connect cool. If not carry on.

My style since i can remember!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m more of a social creature and tend to shine in a face-to-face type situation than I do with the online texting shenanigans. I like to see facial expression and body language which are key to communicating with people. Looking someone in the eye and whispering sweet nothings to them is my preferred method of communication as to talking to someone over text for ages and then meeting and there is no chemistry. Put me in a room and I’m golden "

Same here. Cant beat the real thing. Online has killed that vibe and connection really.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have made eye contact and conversation with women in the supermarket.Had a few dates and adult fun with some so yes I would say it was well received "

Cool. All to do with how you put your best foor forwards.

You cant do that online,really??

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

As in small talk, yeah, all the time.

As in sex, no, I shut that down.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As in small talk, yeah, all the time.

As in sex, no, I shut that down."

Online here? Or as in person face to face?

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By *aramel.desiresMan
over a year ago

London

Yes. I approached a lady in the Tesco car park yesterday. I said hi and explained why I was there and asked he if I could look at her car because I have been looking to buy one myself. She showed me round it and the boot. She even explained what she was going to convert some of it to a camper. Miles per gallon and everything. Very nice lady. It was Toyota Vellfire if anyone is interested.

Under the current climate I would not dare approach a lady in the street with any pick up desires or sexual desires. Just not the right place in my opinion.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

That's how I met Paul.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"As in small talk, yeah, all the time.

As in sex, no, I shut that down.

Online here? Or as in person face to face? "

I was answering your OP, so - in person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live in Rotherham not safe to do that haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes. I approached a lady in the Tesco car park yesterday. I said hi and explained why I was there and asked he if I could look at her car because I have been looking to buy one myself. She showed me round it and the boot. She even explained what she was going to convert some of it to a camper. Miles per gallon and everything. Very nice lady. It was Toyota Vellfire if anyone is interested.

Under the current climate I would not dare approach a lady in the street with any pick up desires or sexual desires. Just not the right place in my opinion.

Really. So where will the pickup happen??

Just asking.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That's how I met Paul.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As in small talk, yeah, all the time.

As in sex, no, I shut that down.

Online here? Or as in person face to face?

I was answering your OP, so - in person."

I dont think many Calibrated people would be so vile in words from the mouth face to face. As they are here online behind a keyboard??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I live in Rotherham not safe to do that haha"

Why just rotherham.?

Dont tell me. I smell where this stench maybe going!!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"As in small talk, yeah, all the time.

As in sex, no, I shut that down.

Online here? Or as in person face to face?

I was answering your OP, so - in person.

I dont think many Calibrated people would be so vile in words from the mouth face to face. As they are here online behind a keyboard??

What have I said that indicates vileness?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As in small talk, yeah, all the time.

As in sex, no, I shut that down.

Online here? Or as in person face to face?

I was answering your OP, so - in person.

I dont think many Calibrated people would be so vile in words from the mouth face to face. As they are here online behind a keyboard??

What have I said that indicates vileness?"

You havmt at all. Can get misread.

I meant many can be crass online. But may not use certain foul words in a croud or haveing sunday tea.

But when d*unk many do get roudy though lol

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"As in small talk, yeah, all the time.

As in sex, no, I shut that down.

Online here? Or as in person face to face?

I was answering your OP, so - in person.

I dont think many Calibrated people would be so vile in words from the mouth face to face. As they are here online behind a keyboard??

What have I said that indicates vileness?

You havmt at all. Can get misread.

I meant many can be crass online. But may not use certain foul words in a croud or haveing sunday tea.

But when d*unk many do get roudy though lol "

OK.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As in small talk, yeah, all the time.

As in sex, no, I shut that down.

Online here? Or as in person face to face?

I was answering your OP, so - in person.

I dont think many Calibrated people would be so vile in words from the mouth face to face. As they are here online behind a keyboard??

What have I said that indicates vileness?

You havmt at all. Can get misread.

I meant many can be crass online. But may not use certain foul words in a croud or haveing sunday tea.

But when d*unk many do get roudy though lol

OK. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Err no

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I often have random conversations with strangers but not flirty type ones.

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

not in the street but many times chatting to ladies walking the dog down the canal,,, just chat nothing else

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I often have random conversations with strangers but not flirty type ones."

So all formal and strictly business? Lol .

So do you flirt on here? In text and typing form?

Just curious thats all.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"I often have random conversations with strangers but not flirty type ones.

So all formal and strictly business? Lol .

So do you flirt on here? In text and typing form?

Just curious thats all. "

I'm terrible at flirting, so no

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By *red333Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Anybody approached somebody spontanoously and got chatting. And it was well recieved face to face.

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Of course doesn't almost everyone on the planet do this

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"not in the street but many times chatting to ladies walking the dog down the canal,,, just chat nothing else"

Doggy walking or doing similar persuits brings people together.

Even atimes my american bulldog was trying to Hump a bitch!

Lol i asked the onwer does her dog take after her!

Obv jokeingly!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes many a times, always had pleasant experiences by simply being polite.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I often have random conversations with strangers but not flirty type ones.

So all formal and strictly business? Lol .

So do you flirt on here? In text and typing form?

Just curious thats all.

I'm terrible at flirting, so no

Ok cool. So you get flirted upon.? Lol

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"I often have random conversations with strangers but not flirty type ones.

So all formal and strictly business? Lol .

So do you flirt on here? In text and typing form?

Just curious thats all.

I'm terrible at flirting, so no

Ok cool. So you get flirted upon.? Lol "

Only by people in swinging clubs and d*unken idiots in pubs. Thankfully, being that bit older, I generally get much less unwanted attention from random blokes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I often have random conversations with strangers but not flirty type ones.

So all formal and strictly business? Lol .

So do you flirt on here? In text and typing form?

Just curious thats all.

I'm terrible at flirting, so no

Ok cool. So you get flirted upon.? Lol

Only by people in swinging clubs and d*unken idiots in pubs. Thankfully, being that bit older, I generally get much less unwanted attention from random blokes."

i get you.

Your serious police woman look keeps them at bay! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not in the streets, but I usually am pretty good at socialising with total strangers at a bar, and I've had impromptu conversations with other diners around me in a restaurant or bistro setting before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pre October I would have rather died than do this . I was so shy.

But my cancer diagnosis in October has changed a lot. This is one thing. Now I chat to anyone and it seems like the easiest thing in the world. I’m a lot more smiley (and positive) and I think just generally more approachable.

Others seem to pick up on this also so it’s a good thing for me.

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By *aramel.desiresMan
over a year ago

London

In clubs, swingers and vanilla. From Friends.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Pre October I would have rather died than do this . I was so shy.

Others seem to pick up on this also so it’s a good thing for me. "

Ditto i agree. I had a near death escape. I live each day the best poss way.

Many dont ever understand. I get asked at Hostpitals around the country, by one Nurse! " what do you want " lol

My reply. You have nothing to offer me, iam alive.

"God Bless "

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By *loss aka Miss JonesWoman
over a year ago

south coast IOW

I’m very sociable face to face and find I can start a conversation almost anywhere. Makes me good at livening up parties too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I’ve got form for this. Trains, buses, courses, nights out. My wonky little mush and outstanding personality work for some. Weirdos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ended up having a very nice conversation with an equally very nice policeman that was doing door to door enquiries, about Magic Mike, Galaxy chocolate and alcohol.He even started tapping his foot and giving a little hip sway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also I love randomly smiling and saying hello it freaks the shit out of people!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m very sociable face to face and find I can start a conversation almost anywhere. Makes me good at livening up parties too

i admire the sparkle and confidence.

My mindset says

Why wait for things to happen. Make them happpen!!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes, I’ve got form for this. Trains, buses, courses, nights out. My wonky little mush and outstanding personality work for some. Weirdos"

Weirdo's?? Lol

Maybe its your perfume choice? Lol

jokeing , pulling your leg.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Occasionally with full eye contact but rarely often

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Also I love randomly smiling and saying hello it freaks the shit out of people!"

Many are introverted in their very own bubble and world.

Iam the say. Being a male many think iam a nutter

, could be high on " COKE " its life really iam on.

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By *loss aka Miss JonesWoman
over a year ago

south coast IOW

"I’m very sociable face to face and find I can start a conversation almost anywhere. Makes me good at livening up parties too

i admire the sparkle and confidence.

My mindset says

Why wait for things to happen. Make them happpen!!"

Me too. I’m a very happy person generally and smile a lot. People tend to smile back.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m very sociable face to face and find I can start a conversation almost anywhere. Makes me good at livening up parties too

i admire the sparkle and confidence.

My mindset says

Why wait for things to happen. Make them happpen!!"

Me too. I’m a very happy person generally and smile a lot. People tend to smile back. "

10/10 love that outlook. More fun i guess.

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

I wish I could be chatted up, or even propositioned while I was out dressed fully

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Occasionally with full eye contact but rarely often

Many dont do much eye contact now. The artform is dieing.

Esp on here!!! Lovl.

Wink wink

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

"Yeah.

I was was like "sup babe"

She was like

"Sup back atcha"

I was like

"U iz well fit"

She was like

"So iz you"

Then I was like

"Can I have a big Mac and large fries please and a chocolate milkshake"

She was like

"That'll be £6.11 window number 2"

I was like

"Laterz"

I was really cool

MAC saved the day heh. Fast drive through lol

Reminds me of a response I got after my usual retort when asked "Zatta meal?" at McDonalds. I either reply "No, it's junk food" or "A dietician wouldn't call it one" (if I think they have heard of dieticians).

On this occasion I got the reply "Wow, You made my day". Unfortunately this was at the drivethru interface and not face to face so the opportunity to progress was missed!

By the way, you can avoid being asked "Izatta meal" if you mention the fries before the burger as that doesn't fit in with their training routine.

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By *ommyTighMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

More than that

Eye to eye

Smile to smile

Hi to hi

Then we fucked

Total strangers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess in a shop doesn't count? I did get his number after chatting with him for 10 minutes though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I guess in a shop doesn't count? I did get his number after chatting with him for 10 minutes though.

. Nice result.

I wish woman would approach me. Lol many say powerful aura! I have to smooth them down

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Occasionally with full eye contact but rarely often

Many dont do much eye contact now. The artform is dieing.

Esp on here!!! Lovl.

Wink wink

Well I'd say depends upon whether what their looking at would turn heads and try undress with full eye contact

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