FabSwingers.com forum: Valentines ?

By *eavenNhell OP Couple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

was talking with my fiancee earlier she said not to get her anything for her tomorrow as she isnt getting me anything

is this a trap ?

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

Of course!!!

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

But don’t get her something because you think it’s a trap and you want to avoid it. Get her something because you love her and want to show you were thinking of her (unless you *know* it will make her feel awk, having specifically asked you not to)

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

tbh some people just dont bother anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course it is silly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Show your love everyday not just oneit should be special all the time to some degree

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

I think in this case maybe do something for her instead like running a bath with candles or cook her dinner......covers most bases if she is expecting something without spending money. It won't male her feel awkward if she hasn't brought you anything.

I know if a man offered to cook fore I'd love it

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

We're not getting each other anything. I can't get out to buy a card and I didn't even think about it till yesterday and then it was too late to order online. We know we love each other dearly, we don't need to give each other trinkets or bits of card. We're buying a new house instead

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

Yea it probably is a trap.

Make her a homemade card. Showing you made effort and thought. Also costing very little

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know her best.

If you want to, you should. But if she's being genuine then don't pressure yourself.

I don't don't think my partner is aware it is Valentine's tomorrow. I'm not even bothered though, you soon realise what a load of tosh it is after so many years together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

People don't really do this sort of thing do they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"was talking with my fiancee earlier she said not to get her anything for her tomorrow as she isnt getting me anything

is this a trap ?"

Admiral Ackbar says yes.

*one for the starwars geeks.

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"was talking with my fiancee earlier she said not to get her anything for her tomorrow as she isnt getting me anything

is this a trap ?

Admiral Ackbar says yes.

*one for the starwars geeks.

Take evasive action!!!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

A trap?

No, I don't think your fiancée would play silly games like that. Don't know her but it's so bloody childish. Traps.

I don't want stuff. I tell people that. I always, will always appreciate someone taking the time to do something/get something they know will mean something to me.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

"was talking with my fiancee earlier she said not to get her anything for her tomorrow as she isnt getting me anything

is this a trap ?

Admiral Ackbar says yes.

*one for the starwars geeks.

My mind instantly went to the relevant "It's a trap" meme

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

I got my friend with benefits some chocolates and a vibrator. If she doesn’t like the chocolates she can go fuck herself…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yea it probably is a trap.

Make her a homemade card. Showing you made effort and thought. Also costing very little

Aww yeah it’s nice to make a home made card

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You know her best.

If you want to, you should. But if she's being genuine then don't pressure yourself.

I don't don't think my partner is aware it is Valentine's tomorrow. I'm not even bothered though, you soon realise what a load of tosh it is after so many years together."

Definitely this

Miss S x

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

OP if you know each other well enough to be engaged you know each other well enough to know if she's going to pout. We don't bother with gifts any more but I would definitely pout if he didn't bother with a card. My favourite Valentines Day card was a pancake made by B with Happy Valentines Day written on it because I'd spent ages going on about how Pancake Day is better

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

If thats whats shes said then dont get her anything.

instead suprise her on another day.

but do add something in a written form as a surprise on the day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eugh women...

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"was talking with my fiancee earlier she said not to get her anything for her tomorrow as she isnt getting me anything

is this a trap ?

Admiral Ackbar says yes.

*one for the starwars geeks.

And may the Force be with the OP

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