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"I have not once heard this described as missing white woman .Just as you think reporting is unfair im sick of the reference towards the colour of someone's skin.This is a mother, wife ,daughter who has disappeared." You may be sick, but it doesn’t negate the fact that it’s very likely that if she was a different ethnicity OR gender there wouldn’t have been so much coverage of her disappearance. | |||
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"I have not once heard this described as missing white woman .Just as you think reporting is unfair im sick of the reference towards the colour of someone's skin.This is a mother, wife ,daughter who has disappeared. You may be sick, but it doesn’t negate the fact that it’s very likely that if she was a different ethnicity OR gender there wouldn’t have been so much coverage of her disappearance. " I strongly disagree. People who's opinion matches yours are part of the problem. You fuel the black versus white/ female v male issues.In America the thought that police brutally of white officers versus black civilians was just that black versus white. That's just been proved to be wrong with black against black police brutality. Not a one size fits all discussion. | |||
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"I have not once heard this described as missing white woman .Just as you think reporting is unfair im sick of the reference towards the colour of someone's skin.This is a mother, wife ,daughter who has disappeared." Two black women were murdered in London less than three years ago, the police didn't even start a search after the families reported the missing.. The women's families started the search and that's how they were found.. Whilst it's one counter example to the sad case the op refers to, he has a point.. | |||
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"I have not once heard this described as missing white woman .Just as you think reporting is unfair im sick of the reference towards the colour of someone's skin.This is a mother, wife ,daughter who has disappeared. Two black women were murdered in London less than three years ago, the police didn't even start a search after the families reported the missing.. The women's families started the search and that's how they were found.. Whilst it's one counter example to the sad case the op refers to, he has a point.." So do i. Your reply just adds to the divide. | |||
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"Media coverage is not fair, or just in any way, shape or form. Be that reporting on sports, politics, celebrities, to the serious reports as you mention, etc etc etc. They seem to always have an agenda. " Fear is and will remain one of the main drivers in human psyche. So if a news "story" has the bones of underlining fear the inducement of it will SELL! and that makes it "news worthy" other drivers are always there to but tge fundmentle ones lead to a frenzy. Sad but true. | |||
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"The case of a missing white woman in Morecambe has made me realise the deep inbalance in our sociaty. I she is found safely BUT, shes is not the only missing person in the UK, yet the media is seemingly obsessed with blanketting us with coverage of this one case. The term Missing White Woman Syndrome describes how Western media will focus on the murder, kid napping, or disappearance of Caucasian females — usually pretty, young, and middle- or upper-class — to the exclusion of male, minority, poor, and/or disabled missing persons. The origin of the term is unclear. Although Professor Sheri Parks of the University of Maryland claims to have coined it circa 2005, it apparently has been in use among journalists (and Fark.com) for years before that (Gwen Ifill used the term in a panel discussion in August 2004, for example). It's also been referred to as "missing pretty girl" syndrome and "Damsel in Distress" syndrome. In particular, the United States (and to a lesser extent Canada and the UK) has the AMBER Alert, which is a special alert code for child abductions and was named for the young white daughter of influential parents. Do you think the coverage is fair across all ethnicity sex, and socia economic status?" What race is she ? How do you know ? | |||
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"No idea why the media seems to focus on one case more than another. There must be hundreds of missing people in the same situation that does not get the same coverage whatever their sex,colour or age is. Maybe its to deflect us from other news. " Have a Google of how many people go missing a year in the UK.... It is fucking mind blowing. | |||
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"No idea why the media seems to focus on one case more than another. There must be hundreds of missing people in the same situation that does not get the same coverage whatever their sex,colour or age is. Maybe its to deflect us from other news. " It's more simple than you think .. 1. What else is going on ? 2. What twist can be put on the story ? 3. Is there anyone nearby to take a few shots and do a few words. 4. Does it pique the interest of the public on social media ? But most importantly can we be ahead of what the people are thirsting for and increase our figures and revenue. If there had been something juicier you wouldn't have heard of this case either. The News is a business and a politicised one. | |||
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"The case of a missing white woman in Morecambe has made me realise the deep inbalance in our sociaty. I she is found safely BUT, shes is not the only missing person in the UK, yet the media is seemingly obsessed with blanketting us with coverage of this one case. The term Missing White Woman Syndrome describes how Western media will focus on the murder, kid napping, or disappearance of Caucasian females — usually pretty, young, and middle- or upper-class — to the exclusion of male, minority, poor, and/or disabled missing persons. The origin of the term is unclear. Although Professor Sheri Parks of the University of Maryland claims to have coined it circa 2005, it apparently has been in use among journalists (and Fark.com) for years before that (Gwen Ifill used the term in a panel discussion in August 2004, for example). It's also been referred to as "missing pretty girl" syndrome and "Damsel in Distress" syndrome. In particular, the United States (and to a lesser extent Canada and the UK) has the AMBER Alert, which is a special alert code for child abductions and was named for the young white daughter of influential parents. Do you think the coverage is fair across all ethnicity sex, and socia economic status?" I thought you were talking about TV adverts for a minute. | |||
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"No idea why the media seems to focus on one case more than another. There must be hundreds of missing people in the same situation that does not get the same coverage whatever their sex,colour or age is. Maybe its to deflect us from other news. " Because it is the generally more "appealing" news story. Designed to gather attention and interest from the largest parts of the population. It has an appeal to reach the most people and hit home. News is no different than any other TV show, ratings are what matters. Viewers for TV, visits to a page, buying a newspaper. The more the better. The fluff pieces are there to make it less focused and fill time/space. | |||
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"It’s another example of white privilege, pretty privilege - you’ll get more effort put into finding you if you go missing. No sure why women though , maybe there’s a feeling of corporate guilt for how women are mistreated by society and this is a reaction from that guilt " Does it not depend which country you're in? Which determines how or if the disappeared are reported at all and or what attract the most attention? (I appreciate we are mostly talking about UK here but mindful there are cultures and environments other than our own) | |||
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"It’s another example of white privilege, pretty privilege - you’ll get more effort put into finding you if you go missing. No sure why women though , maybe there’s a feeling of corporate guilt for how women are mistreated by society and this is a reaction from that guilt " Or how about over 80% of missing women in the UK are white and approx 14% of missing women in the UK are black .... With SIX times more white women going missing .... I'd expect them to be reported SIX times more frequently | |||
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"I have not once heard this described as missing white woman .Just as you think reporting is unfair im sick of the reference towards the colour of someone's skin.This is a mother, wife ,daughter who has disappeared. Two black women were murdered in London less than three years ago, the police didn't even start a search after the families reported the missing.. The women's families started the search and that's how they were found.. Whilst it's one counter example to the sad case the op refers to, he has a point.. So do i. Your reply just adds to the divide. " Recognizing disparity and the issues that causes within society isn't adding to division, it's part of trying to close the gaps.. I never said you didn't, perhaps if you elaborate on the specific things that may help the debate? What are you 'sick of'? | |||
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"It’s another example of white privilege, pretty privilege - you’ll get more effort put into finding you if you go missing. No sure why women though , maybe there’s a feeling of corporate guilt for how women are mistreated by society and this is a reaction from that guilt Or how about over 80% of missing women in the UK are white and approx 14% of missing women in the UK are black .... With SIX times more white women going missing .... I'd expect them to be reported SIX times more frequently" As usual. You make a great point. | |||
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"The case of a missing white woman in Morecambe has made me realise the deep inbalance in our sociaty. I she is found safely BUT, shes is not the only missing person in the UK, yet the media is seemingly obsessed with blanketting us with coverage of this one case. The term Missing White Woman Syndrome describes how Western media will focus on the murder, kid napping, or disappearance of Caucasian females — usually pretty, young, and middle- or upper-class — to the exclusion of male, minority, poor, and/or disabled missing persons. The origin of the term is unclear. Although Professor Sheri Parks of the University of Maryland claims to have coined it circa 2005, it apparently has been in use among journalists (and Fark.com) for years before that (Gwen Ifill used the term in a panel discussion in August 2004, for example). It's also been referred to as "missing pretty girl" syndrome and "Damsel in Distress" syndrome. In particular, the United States (and to a lesser extent Canada and the UK) has the AMBER Alert, which is a special alert code for child abductions and was named for the young white daughter of influential parents. Do you think the coverage is fair across all ethnicity sex, and socia economic status?" Poor white get same coverage as black and Asian I just choose not to let it worrie me as should you. | |||
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"It’s another example of white privilege, pretty privilege - you’ll get more effort put into finding you if you go missing. No sure why women though , maybe there’s a feeling of corporate guilt for how women are mistreated by society and this is a reaction from that guilt Or how about over 80% of missing women in the UK are white and approx 14% of missing women in the UK are black .... With SIX times more white women going missing .... I'd expect them to be reported SIX times more frequently" No it’s white / pretty female privilege, otherwise each missing person would get the same media attention. | |||
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"It’s another example of white privilege, pretty privilege - you’ll get more effort put into finding you if you go missing. No sure why women though , maybe there’s a feeling of corporate guilt for how women are mistreated by society and this is a reaction from that guilt Or how about over 80% of missing women in the UK are white and approx 14% of missing women in the UK are black .... With SIX times more white women going missing .... I'd expect them to be reported SIX times more frequently No it’s white / pretty female privilege, otherwise each missing person would get the same media attention. " So why didn't all the other pretty white females get any media attention ? This case was in the right place at the right time and public demand via social media will keep it there. I'm not denying un-conscious or even conscious bias but the grasping of 'skin colour' by those that read ONE theory and speak of it as an absolute truth do harm to everyone. It's simple chance and take up that this case got so much coverage. | |||
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"It’s another example of white privilege, pretty privilege - you’ll get more effort put into finding you if you go missing. No sure why women though , maybe there’s a feeling of corporate guilt for how women are mistreated by society and this is a reaction from that guilt Or how about over 80% of missing women in the UK are white and approx 14% of missing women in the UK are black .... With SIX times more white women going missing .... I'd expect them to be reported SIX times more frequently No it’s white / pretty female privilege, otherwise each missing person would get the same media attention. So why didn't all the other pretty white females get any media attention ? This case was in the right place at the right time and public demand via social media will keep it there. I'm not denying un-conscious or even conscious bias but the grasping of 'skin colour' by those that read ONE theory and speak of it as an absolute truth do harm to everyone. It's simple chance and take up that this case got so much coverage. " It’s not grasping of 'skin colour' , white privilege is very real so is pretty privilege. It’s not offensive or attacking white pretty people either , it’s just a fact. | |||
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"I'm not denying it exists but in this case it IS just latching onto skin colour to make a point. This case is widely covered due to a range of facts..... the heavens colliding if you like ....... not solely because she's perceived as caucasian." It is very much part of it though, it may not be the sole reason, as you say, but it’s a big part of it. | |||
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"... it apparently has been in use among journalists (and Fark.com) for years before that ..." I just want to say thanks for reminding me about Fark.com - used to spend HOURS on there | |||
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"No idea why the media seems to focus on one case more than another. There must be hundreds of missing people in the same situation that does not get the same coverage whatever their sex,colour or age is. Maybe its to deflect us from other news. It's more simple than you think .. 1. What else is going on ? 2. What twist can be put on the story ? 3. Is there anyone nearby to take a few shots and do a few words. 4. Does it pique the interest of the public on social media ? But most importantly can we be ahead of what the people are thirsting for and increase our figures and revenue. If there had been something juicier you wouldn't have heard of this case either. The News is a business and a politicised one." ^^^ this Even the supposed 'impartial' BBC is biased. It's not altruistic or fair, it's capitalism waging war with communism and all the other social and political 'isms. Ain't life grand | |||
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"This isnt some junkie or runaway teen, it's a mother who disappeared while walking her dog in a quiet town." Which is far from unique? | |||
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" October last year a local middle aged man who wasn't white but possible Asian (I won't speculate) with mental health issues was triggered while out shopping with his family and ran off. His disappearance was highlighted on local F@cebook pages, buisness windows and basic community word of mouth. I believe he was a man who was well liked had a good life large home ect. I saw the community set up searches with the police when a siting had been reported. But I never once saw it on national news sites or TV... sadly he was found d two weeks ago and had to be identified by dental records " This is the thing, local news and social media are much more likely to promote the stories of missing persons of any gender, race, age, or whatever else than the national news. Social media especially. | |||
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"Is the media coverage bias? Yes. I have no statistics but i would imagine the number of men and women who go missing each day is far greater a number, to report equally on each. Media is bias. Who would have thought it ?" 890 people reported missing each and every day. | |||
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" October last year a local middle aged man who wasn't white but possible Asian (I won't speculate) with mental health issues was triggered while out shopping with his family and ran off. His disappearance was highlighted on local F@cebook pages, buisness windows and basic community word of mouth. I believe he was a man who was well liked had a good life large home ect. I saw the community set up searches with the police when a siting had been reported. But I never once saw it on national news sites or TV... sadly he was found d two weeks ago and had to be identified by dental records " It certainly didn’t get picked up by the nationals but was very well publicised locally. Is it just because the missing lady has a bit more of an air of mysterious disappearance around it? | |||
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" Is it just because the missing lady has a bit more of an air of mysterious disappearance around it? " This is exactly it. it’s this simple. The media are feeding our hype, because we are interested in it. There were no threads about all the other missing people people have talked about above, it’s a circle between us and the media each moving the other to greater interest. No-one is interested in quiet guy suddenly isn't around any more, or troubled teen disappears, or addict has gone missing - especially when people only start to realise they are missing days or weeks later because people weren’t interested….. But attractive mother leaves phone still connected on a call and leaves dog in a field and dissapears in a short 10 minute window is crack to media and public, because it’s a real life Agatha Christie. Is there a single one of us that hasn’t proffered an opinion to *someone* about if you think she’s in the water or not? I doubt it. How many times did you sleuth the above less mysterious dissapearances? Not once. We act like we’re fed this stuff, but we make it ourselves. | |||
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"This isnt some junkie or runaway teen, it's a mother who disappeared while walking her dog in a quiet town." Lovely. Fuck those junkies eh? Who cares about them! | |||
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"This isnt some junkie or runaway teen, it's a mother who disappeared while walking her dog in a quiet town. Lovely. Fuck those junkies eh? Who cares about them! " Or teenagers, I mean we all loathe them right?! | |||
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"From start to finish all of your views are why your all disillusioned and think the world will live in harmony... Black and white people are racist..." Not all people are racist? | |||
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