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Like a needle in a haystack for york blokes

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By *obbymonk OP   Man
over a year ago

york

It’s so difficult for york blokes to get a meet but I’m sure it’s because I’d say there’s 70% more men than women on this site at least

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

What’s York got to do with it ? I’m sure a bloke from bognor Regis feels the same.

The mr

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By *obbymonk OP   Man
over a year ago

york


"What’s York got to do with it ? I’m sure a bloke from bognor Regis feels the same.

The mr "

I’m sure they might but I’m from york

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you consulted with the other men of York to get these facts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What’s York got to do with it ? I’m sure a bloke from bognor Regis feels the same.

The mr

I’m sure they might but I’m from york "

I like York, it’s a nice place, you should find it easy getting people to come to you with that type of advertising. Take them up the tower!!

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By *obbymonk OP   Man
over a year ago

york


"Have you consulted with the other men of York to get these facts? "

Some I have yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have 44 verifications, that's a lot of meets in some people's books.

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By *obbymonk OP   Man
over a year ago

york


"You have 44 verifications, that's a lot of meets in some people's books. "

Yeh I have but I’ve been on here since 2015 x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have 44 verifications, that's a lot of meets in some people's books. "

And you won't drive more than an hour away, damn it, I'm 1 hour 5 minutes away, ahhh well.

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By *obbymonk OP   Man
over a year ago

york


"What’s York got to do with it ? I’m sure a bloke from bognor Regis feels the same.

The mr

I’m sure they might but I’m from york

I like York, it’s a nice place, you should find it easy getting people to come to you with that type of advertising. Take them up the tower!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have 44 verifications, that's a lot of meets in some people's books.

Yeh I have but I’ve been on here since 2015 x"

Do you enjoy the York social event that's regularly held?

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By *obbymonk OP   Man
over a year ago

york


"You have 44 verifications, that's a lot of meets in some people's books.

And you won't drive more than an hour away, damn it, I'm 1 hour 5 minutes away, ahhh well.

"

Durham is more than that lol but I have been to consett before

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By *ubcdverykinkyMan
over a year ago

Bourne lincs

Yes same here I am from Morton nr Bourne lincs. It's dead round here plenty of talking and the pic lookers but nothing gen

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By *obbymonk OP   Man
over a year ago

york


"You have 44 verifications, that's a lot of meets in some people's books.

Yeh I have but I’ve been on here since 2015 x

Do you enjoy the York social event that's regularly held?"

I’ve been asked to go but never been I’m a bit shy for that sort of thing tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have 44 verifications, that's a lot of meets in some people's books.

And you won't drive more than an hour away, damn it, I'm 1 hour 5 minutes away, ahhh well.

Durham is more than that lol but I have been to consett before "

Not where I Iive Durham/North Yorkshire

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live


"It’s so difficult for york blokes to get a meet but I’m sure it’s because I’d say there’s 70% more men than women on this site at least "

According to your profile you had a meet a week ago ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have 44 verifications, that's a lot of meets in some people's books.

Yeh I have but I’ve been on here since 2015 x"

That’s still a meet every 2-3 months on average which is way more than most guys on here.

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By *obbymonk OP   Man
over a year ago

york


"It’s so difficult for york blokes to get a meet but I’m sure it’s because I’d say there’s 70% more men than women on this site at least

According to your profile you had a meet a week ago ?? "

Cam meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have 44 verifications, that's a lot of meets in some people's books.

Yeh I have but I’ve been on here since 2015 x

Do you enjoy the York social event that's regularly held?

I’ve been asked to go but never been I’m a bit shy for that sort of thing tbh "

Bit of advice then, you need to be pro active. As with most things in life, effort put in often equals the rewards reaped. Shyness and being a swinger aren't over compatible in my book. If you want something in life you have to take positive steps yourself. Good things don't have a tendency to just land in your lap. I wish you luck.

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By *obbymonk OP   Man
over a year ago

york


"You have 44 verifications, that's a lot of meets in some people's books.

And you won't drive more than an hour away, damn it, I'm 1 hour 5 minutes away, ahhh well.

Durham is more than that lol but I have been to consett before

Not where I Iive Durham/North Yorkshire "

Ahhh ok where abouts ?

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By *ivek68Man
over a year ago

york


"You have 44 verifications, that's a lot of meets in some people's books.

And you won't drive more than an hour away, damn it, I'm 1 hour 5 minutes away, ahhh well.

"
I'll drive to you . I'm from York lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly OP just read through this thread, and not trying to have a go, but you just come across as entitled…

2 lines on your profile, a rinse and repeat selection of cock pictures, not willing to travel far (in a county that demands it), had what a lot of guys would consider to be plenty of meets, unsatisfied with a webcam meet, won’t go to a local social event.

We would, and have, met guys from York even just for socials, so it is possible. You just have to be willing to try harder and stop complaining.

Hope you find what you’re looking for

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By *ulfilthmentMan
over a year ago

Just around the corner

You’re certainly having much more success in York than I’ve managed over the years. Perhaps we should pool our resources?

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By *obbymonk OP   Man
over a year ago

york


"Honestly OP just read through this thread, and not trying to have a go, but you just come across as entitled…

2 lines on your profile, a rinse and repeat selection of cock pictures, not willing to travel far (in a county that demands it), had what a lot of guys would consider to be plenty of meets, unsatisfied with a webcam meet, won’t go to a local social event.

We would, and have, met guys from York even just for socials, so it is possible. You just have to be willing to try harder and stop complaining.

Hope you find what you’re looking for "

Not entitled at all and wasn’t even complaining just saying and I wasn’t unsatisfied with the cam meet at all!

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By *obbymonk OP   Man
over a year ago

york


"You’re certainly having much more success in York than I’ve managed over the years. Perhaps we should pool our resources? "

I’ve been on here a while though mate tbh

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Personally I’d say your success is based less on when you live and more on how you present yourself.

Conflicting profile content and photos is a red flag for most!

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By *obbymonk OP   Man
over a year ago

york


"Personally I’d say your success is based less on when you live and more on how you present yourself.

Conflicting profile content and photos is a red flag for most! "

Conflicting profile content and pictures how??

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live


"Personally I’d say your success is based less on when you live and more on how you present yourself.

Conflicting profile content and photos is a red flag for most!

Conflicting profile content and pictures how?? "

Probably the safe sex bit on profile and the pics wearing no condom ?

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By *obbymonk OP   Man
over a year ago

york


"Personally I’d say your success is based less on when you live and more on how you present yourself.

Conflicting profile content and photos is a red flag for most!

Conflicting profile content and pictures how??

Probably the safe sex bit on profile and the pics wearing no condom ?"

I’m happy with using a condom but prefer not too

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"It’s so difficult for york blokes to get a meet but I’m sure it’s because I’d say there’s 70% more men than women on this site at least "
Its actually 985 men to 1 woman according to the latest moray poll and they are mostly in the northern hemisphere, so unless you have abs, tatts and a personality your chances of getting a meet here are negligible.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

OP the ratios have always been single guy top heavy. Always.

But that is the what stops all men getting meets.

Those that know how best to portray themselves and engage with others will do better than others.

You haven't asked for profile advice so I won't give any. But I know many single guys who do well. Very well. The kind that would never have to complain about how hard life on Fab is.

Certain things work in someone's favour and others work against them. The key is minimising the latter.

A

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"OP the ratios have always been single guy top heavy. Always.

But that is NOT what stops all men getting meets.

Those that know how best to portray themselves and engage with others will do better than others.

You haven't asked for profile advice so I won't give any. But I know many single guys who do well. Very well. The kind that would never have to complain about how hard life on Fab is.

Certain things work in someone's favour and others work against them. The key is minimising the latter.

A"

Typo corrected.

A

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By *altyMouthsCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Probably best you just blame the Romans

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

The York drought is well documented, OP. Move to Oxford, where we poor chaps are asphyxiated in a flood of female attention.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"It’s so difficult for york blokes to get a meet but I’m sure it’s because I’d say there’s 70% more men than women on this site at least "

Hi op. The last time I did a mini survey on the forums - which was several years ago - there were 10 time more men than women.

Many guys do themselves no favours though. Having a fairly blank ‘shadow’ profile - or one with mostly/all cock pics will appeal only to other men - not women.

I never open messages where the profile pic is a silhouette or a cock - and neither do many other women. Simply putting effort into your pics and profile text - and attending group socials to get yourself known - will make a huge difference.

However - many guys prefer to have a whine rather than put the effort in.

I’m not referring directly to you here op - just to fab single males in general. X

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

As well as the excellent York social there are two popular clubs in Leeds.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"It’s so difficult for york blokes to get a meet but I’m sure it’s because I’d say there’s 70% more men than women on this site at least "

Ps …. Just checked out the first page of your pics. They’ll appeal to men - not most women. The torso pics were nice but all the others would be considered off putting to many women. They’re very dick focussed - and all based around ‘look at who I’ve shagged before you!’

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"It’s so difficult for york blokes to get a meet but I’m sure it’s because I’d say there’s 70% more men than women on this site at least

Ps …. Just checked out the first page of your pics. They’ll appeal to men - not most women. The torso pics were nice but all the others would be considered off putting to many women. They’re very dick focussed - and all based around ‘look at who I’ve shagged before you!’ "
He does have a womans hand around it and can spray 2 ways

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

If you lived in a different location you’d still have the same issue - nothing to do with York at all.

I’d say the bare back pics with different women and your sole focus on your cock are where your problem lies. And not much effort put into your profile.

But some are happy with it as you’ve met people

K

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

move to nottingham more women than men, 3 to 1

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

I would say that it is more or less the same in any place.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

The Census says that in York there are 101,797 women and only 96,254 men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say that it is more or less the same in any place."

Unless it’s the Capital of Republic of Ireland, because it’s Dublin everyday!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really don't know why more women don't sign up to sex sites. Men need pussy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What’s York got to do with it ?"

What's York but a second hand emotion.

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