FabSwingers.com forum: Ladies, pet names from strangers yes or no?

By *uliette500 OP Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Just had a man call me babe in a first message.

Anything like sweetheart, darling, babe etc puts me straight off and I even say so in my profile.

I just find it really over familiar.

Am I unique in this or do other women hate it too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your not the only one. Babe or bbe, huni, hun anything really!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

And that is all

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"Your not the only one. Babe or bbe, huni, hun anything really!"

Snap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it's awful. I dont always mind when it happens in person, as that can just be someone's way with words but written it just feels off. Ugh.

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By *eviant KnightMan
over a year ago

Norton

I'm not a fan of pet names either, it's a bit rude

Just to help the boys out, how would you like to be referred to? X

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By *uliette500 OP Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"I'm not a fan of pet names either, it's a bit rude

Just to help the boys out, how would you like to be referred to? X"

If you must put a name then anything related to my profile name is a good start but really not needed in a message when it's only to one person.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It saves having to remember a person's name

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By *weetkitten65Woman
over a year ago

Halifax

"Just had a man call me babe in a first message.

Anything like sweetheart, darling, babe etc puts me straight off and I even say so in my profile.

I just find it really over familiar.

Am I unique in this or do other women hate it too? "

Miss or Missy

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By *weetkitten65Woman
over a year ago

Halifax

"I'm not a fan of pet names either, it's a bit rude

Just to help the boys out, how would you like to be referred to? X"

By the name used on my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just had a man call me babe in a first message.

Anything like sweetheart, darling, babe etc puts me straight off and I even say so in my profile.

I just find it really over familiar.

Am I unique in this or do other women hate it too? "

I hate BABE we are not pigs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate 'Sweet' as well grrr

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By *weetkitten65Woman
over a year ago

Halifax

"I hate 'Sweet' as well grrr"

With mine not much choice

But have had "here kitty,kitty "

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By *uiet_69Man
over a year ago

Near

Chill babes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally l think it's an insult to any woman to be called a pet name from a stranger but it's only my opinion.

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By *an de LyonMan
over a year ago

welling

"Personally l think it's an insult to any woman to be called a pet name from a stranger but it's only my opinion."

I think sometimes half the problem is there’s no female equivalent of ‘mate’

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

North West

"Just had a man call me babe in a first message.

Anything like sweetheart, darling, babe etc puts me straight off and I even say so in my profile.

I just find it really over familiar.

Am I unique in this or do other women hate it too? "

I really dislike it.

Pet names are grim, especially from randoms.

I have a fab name, if you're really not sure how to address me, use that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate it. I even hate it from people I do know!

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By *uiet_69Man
over a year ago

Near

"Just had a man call me babe in a first message.

Anything like sweetheart, darling, babe etc puts me straight off and I even say so in my profile.

I just find it really over familiar.

Am I unique in this or do other women hate it too?

I really dislike it.

Pet names are grim, especially from randoms.

I have a fab name, if you're really not sure how to address me, use that! "

Agree with you there sweet cheeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only like the term female.

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

North West

"Just had a man call me babe in a first message.

Anything like sweetheart, darling, babe etc puts me straight off and I even say so in my profile.

I just find it really over familiar.

Am I unique in this or do other women hate it too?

I really dislike it.

Pet names are grim, especially from randoms.

I have a fab name, if you're really not sure how to address me, use that!

Agree with you there sweet cheeks "

Twit!

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Doesn’t bother me, I speed read past that to get to the cock pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the "oi you" ones best.

Though I'd take babe over

beautiful/gorgeous/sexy.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

It could be worse!

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Yuck, no

Hate hun/babe/nawty etc from men I've never spoken to .

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Oh and almost forgot dear

I'm not 80.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ni definitely not a fan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Babe, uuurgh. I am not a pig.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

I hate it. Enough to mention it in my profile but that frequently gets ignored

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By *horehouseprincessWoman
over a year ago

small town near Munich

hate it, never thought about mentioning it on profile though. not yet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But its ok for women to use such terms to men? I was in hospital two weeks ago for a camera down my cock and the lovely nurse doing it said "This bit might hurt darling". So am naked from the waist down with a woman I met five minutes previously who is manipulating my penis and its ok for her to call me "Darling"? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But its ok for women to use such terms to men? I was in hospital two weeks ago for a camera down my cock and the lovely nurse doing it said "This bit might hurt darling". So am naked from the waist down with a woman I met five minutes previously who is manipulating my penis and its ok for her to call me "Darling"? Lol"

Calm down love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry babe

Calm down love. "

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

always ask lady her first name,, never use pet names

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By *atprincess88Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Nope, I hate being called 'babe' too, it's just over familiar, shallow and insincere, switches me off instantly from wanting to talk to that person x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"always ask lady her first name,, never use pet names"

Yeah no one's getting that either!

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By *ilfCrumpet9Man
over a year ago

Wirral

Is Madam appropriate to use when addressing you ladies or is that a no go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I hate this as well.

Especially being called Babe by a stranger.

"Babe" reminds me of the film about a pig!

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I like the "oi you" ones best.

Though I'd take babe over

beautiful/gorgeous/sexy.

How do you feel about squeezy grump?

Asking for a friend!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like the "oi you" ones best.

Though I'd take babe over

beautiful/gorgeous/sexy.

How do you feel about squeezy grump?

Asking for a friend! "

Try it and see.

I dare you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a definite no from me online and in real life.

Hate Babe/Doll/Hun(that ones for more than one reason lol)MsFox

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I like the "oi you" ones best.

Though I'd take babe over

beautiful/gorgeous/sexy.

How do you feel about squeezy grump?

Asking for a friend!

Try it and see.

I dare you. "

I shall relay this information to my friend.

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

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sorry...... in your

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By *uliette500 OP Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"hate it, never thought about mentioning it on profile though. not yet!"

I do but nobody reads it anyway

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm not a fan. It's overly familiar.

In person I've become used to it - it's pretty common where I live.

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