FabSwingers.com forum: Best valentines

By *nicorn69couple OP Couple
over a year ago

colchesterish Essex

What’s your dream valentines? Love to hear people opinions. From the vanilla to the filthiest

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Vanilla?

This is going to be rather cheesy. I don't really want gifts. Flowers. None of that.

Time. Actual time with someone. A letter. The literary romantic in me will always value handwritten letters, the time someone has spent thinking of you, finding the right words to express things that are so nuanced. I think words are so important to me and if someone makes an effort to embrace language because they know it means a lot to me, they'll be around for some time.

And then I'm happy to do whatever. Cook their favourite meal, go for a coffee. Make cocktails. Snuggle all day. Go to the gym because you've agreed to accompany someone.

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

Happy to get finger blasted in a park with some tinnies tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had one amazing valentines once with an ex. I forget why, but I hadn’t really bothered much aside from buying stuff for dinner (unlike me!) and he totally overcompensated. He chose some films from Blockbuster (yep, THAT long ago), bought flowers, and had made chocolate dipped strawberries. Then he’d run a bath and put candles everywhere and put music I like on.

Then after all that, and dinner, we proceeded to have perfectly adequate sex

So basically that, again, but swapping out the ‘adequate’ for ‘filthy and mind blowing’

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

A dine in for 2 that I’ll have over 2 evenings , glass of fizz and a good film on the telly, then bed to snuggle my teddy.

I saw my daughter today and she’d bought me a valentine’s card and 2 red roses, that’s all I need x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I spent valentines weekend with my diamond

Spending time with someone I adore, enjoying each others company and making unforgettable memories…

Thats my dream Valentines come true

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Happy to get finger blasted in a park with some tinnies tbh "

You're a simple creature.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

My four year old grandson told me today I was his valentine

That’ll more than do for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I spent valentines weekend with my diamond

Spending time with someone I adore, enjoying each others company and making unforgettable memories…

Thats my dream Valentines come true

This made me awww

And agree this is the perfect valentines x

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

I cannot remember the last time I went on a date, in a traditional/romantic sense. I wish I had a point of reference.

For me, I would really enjoy an afternoon out to an art gallery. Not a temporary exhibition but instead the permanent collection that's often overlooked and less appreciated.

A spot of light lunch with unfussy food and wine but enough to subtly fuss over each other.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Just to spend time cuddled up to my late beloved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to spend the day with a guy that'll buy me hash browns, make me laugh, and fuck me like a hoare.

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london

"I want to spend the day with a guy that'll buy me hash browns, make me laugh, and fuck me like a hoare.

I’m in

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

who said romance is dead,, its alive and kicking..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I want to spend the day with a guy that'll buy me hash browns, make me laugh, and fuck me like a hoare.

I’m in

Yay, not too early though. Around 10 is good.

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By *nicorn69couple OP Couple
over a year ago

colchesterish Essex

This is all so lovely! Romance is definitely alive and kicking!

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I’m romantic all year so I don’t go OTT at Valentines.

It’s the little things, I make C her tea and coffee in bed, sometimes breakfast.

I’ll leave notes for her, or post them through the letter box so our Sproodle collects it and takes it into C.

I give foot rubs, massages and we spend time talking to each other every night.

If I can make C smile and feel loved throughout the busy day then I’m happy too

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By *nicorn69couple OP Couple
over a year ago

colchesterish Essex

I think this thread could be a great learning environment for how to keep women happy.

Effort over anything else

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

I haven’t been seeing anyone as Valentine’s Day rolls around for about 15 years. Wow, sobering thought.

I just want to be with someone for the day with whom I share deep feelings of love and intimacy. I want to go out somewhere nice for the day and have a relaxed lunch or afternoon tea.

I’d work a little surprise gesture in so she knows I’ve been thinking about her.

Evening, maybe a nice long, hot bath together with nibbles of our favourite foods.

And then I would do the sex at her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A valentine is simply a person who wants to be with someone that also wants the be with that person ...both want to be with eachother...after that nothing else matters.

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london

"I want to spend the day with a guy that'll buy me hash browns, make me laugh, and fuck me like a hoare.

I’m in

Yay, not too early though. Around 10 is good. "

Good time to be fair, gets all the rubbish convos

Out the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My favourite 'romantic' mornings was someone bringing me a cup of tea in bed and a stack of warm buttered pancakes whilst we watched futurama. Then decent sex. A pleasant dog walk and back to bed to watch a film where I could fall asleep with my head on a warm chest. That would do me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gregs sausage roll, and thermos of vodka

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

"Gregs sausage roll, and thermos of vodka "

OMG that is my dream. 8 fucking hate that schmaltzy valentines shite.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Food and a massage , manicure , maybe a film I actually like. Barola & Cheesecake then a nap

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

I'd quite like to take boobs on our bed that's covered in rose petals that's kinda romantic and kinda naughty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A happy meal where he let's me have the toy and a banana milkshake!

If he's lucky he'll get a five finger knuckle shuffle round the Maccy bins

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Multiplayer gaming night , takeaway , and some hardcore fucking

Or play it by ear see what we feel like and make it happen in advance

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Fox and I, naked in a big bed in a hotel somewhere warm with a sea view, tubs of Ben & Jerry's, strawberries and cream, Haribos, wine and Deadpool on a big screen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Vanilla?

This is going to be rather cheesy. I don't really want gifts. Flowers. None of that.

And then I'm happy to do whatever. Cook their favourite meal, go for a coffee. Make cocktails. Snuggle all day. Go to the gym because you've agreed to accompany someone.

This.

Not the gym part. But time. Actual time spent together.

That's all i ever want, never gifts.

This i do love tulips and appreciate them when they random pop up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think this thread could be a great learning environment for how to keep women happy.

Effort over anything else"

That’s it. Effort.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"Vanilla?

This is going to be rather cheesy. I don't really want gifts. Flowers. None of that.

And then I'm happy to do whatever. Cook their favourite meal, go for a coffee. Make cocktails. Snuggle all day. Go to the gym because you've agreed to accompany someone.

Send me your address and I’ll send ypu something in the post.

It won’t be handwritten, but will have taken a lot of time, care and attention

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

I was proposed to on valentines. We married February the year after.

Now February just has memories of my husbands last weeks.

It holds nothing for me now. Always been fucked about since.

Don’t put your heart out there, keep it protected.

Best to stay guarded.

Never expect anything from anyone and you won’t be disappointed

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

Honestly just time together is all I want, no fusd, no frills, something life has stopped us having for a good while now

Tinder x

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

Im not a lover of the expense of valentines, With the chocolates and flowers.

Id rather recieve a letter or pm or even something wrote and sent via a forum.

It costs nothing to write it out, To consider others.

This is why ive wrote out so many over the years, For many on the other forum and on this forum.

To give you an idea ive sent between 15-45 valentines messages a year.

For 16 years.

They have been given a smile.

They have been given a surprise too many.

Some cry in tears of joy.

Whilst many have been shocked to find out who they are from.

Ive always given the valentine op a valentines poem.

What have I gained from all these years of giving out these valentines poems.

A beaming smile

Ive got to watch all of your nice comments

The best part is where youve all tried to guess who the sender is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I spent valentines weekend with my diamond

Spending time with someone I adore, enjoying each others company and making unforgettable memories…

Thats my dream Valentines come true

This made me awww

And agree this is the perfect valentines x"

Thank you Jasmine

It went far too quickly though!

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By *iger4uWoman
over a year ago

In my happy place

"I was proposed to on valentines. We married February the year after.

Now February just has memories of my husbands last weeks.

It holds nothing for me now. Always been fucked about since.

Don’t put your heart out there, keep it protected.

Best to stay guarded.

Never expect anything from anyone and you won’t be disappointed "

Or, make better choices.

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

"I was proposed to on valentines. We married February the year after.

Now February just has memories of my husbands last weeks.

It holds nothing for me now. Always been fucked about since.

Don’t put your heart out there, keep it protected.

Best to stay guarded.

Never expect anything from anyone and you won’t be disappointed

Or, make better choices.

Yeah because people have a sign on them saying they’re a dick.

Of course it’s my fault for who I ‘choose’

What a stupid comment

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By *an de LyonMan
over a year ago

welling

First valentines with the mrs (we’d been together 2 months) I cooked her a 7 course Thai platter. Didn’t realise how intolerant to spice she was. She spent most of the night on the shitter and the rest of it curled up with an ice pack between her cheeks

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I was proposed to on valentines. We married February the year after.

Now February just has memories of my husbands last weeks.

It holds nothing for me now. Always been fucked about since.

Don’t put your heart out there, keep it protected.

Best to stay guarded.

Never expect anything from anyone and you won’t be disappointed

Or, make better choices.

Yeah because people have a sign on them saying they’re a dick.

Of course it’s my fault for who I ‘choose’

What a stupid comment "

Agreed!

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

We have a tradition that mirrors our very first Valentines many years ago, we share a bag of chips on the seafront

It's in Devon nowadays, back along on our first Valentines it was at a very windy Margate.

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

"I was proposed to on valentines. We married February the year after.

Now February just has memories of my husbands last weeks.

It holds nothing for me now. Always been fucked about since.

Don’t put your heart out there, keep it protected.

Best to stay guarded.

Never expect anything from anyone and you won’t be disappointed

Or, make better choices.

Wow, what a lovely comment! Of course it's nothing to do with the other person being a dick

Tinder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not into 'things' I love someone's time and thought. My partner makes me a photo card of memories from the year before which I love! This year we plan to spend the day hanging out with games and snacks and an evening in the hot tub

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By *weetkitten65Woman
over a year ago

Halifax

A few drinks at the pub, bag of nuts & stimulating conversation & lots of laughs...

Then go with the flow

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

A full night's unbroken sleep.

That's the dream.

Mrs

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By *uicy 2020Woman
over a year ago

London

Just something thoughful would make me feel all warm and gooey. Absolutley does not need to be a big or expensive guesture, a lovely message to say theyre thinking of me, a lingering kiss with a look of longing in their eyes. I live in hope! X

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By *avetrucker999Man
over a year ago

Grimsby

Lol....

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By *avetrucker999Man
over a year ago

Grimsby

"Happy to get finger blasted in a park with some tinnies tbh "

Pmpl

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By *ritladMan
over a year ago

Taunton

Many a happy valentines doing that

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"We have a tradition that mirrors our very first Valentines many years ago, we share a bag of chips on the seafront

It's in Devon nowadays, back along on our first Valentines it was at a very windy Margate."

I love this!!!

I’m not a fan of Valentine’s Day but T is a proper romantic. I just look forward to snuggles in bed like every other night

J x

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