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How do people feel about winks?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know that a lot of fabsters think of them as lazy, but as a form of saying I'm interested in you, do you not think they serve this purpose?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind them and sometimes wink back but only to those who I'm interested in chatting to, everyone else I just delete after peeking of course

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I know that a lot of fabsters think of them as lazy, but as a form of saying I'm interested in you, do you not think they serve this purpose?"

If someone is interested, why not say so with a message? My profile says no winks, if people want to meet me, they can ask with words not emoticons.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

aint got an issue with them

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Dont mind them but tbh dont pay that much attention to them

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By *ogistical NightmaresCouple
over a year ago

Manchester Area

See them as a sign of interest, no different to if you are out in a bar and someone winks at you. You either return or ignore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont mind them but tbh dont pay that much attention to them "

I think this is a reflection of the general attitude.

I used to do a lot of winking ...but don't tend to bother now, for this reason. TO be honest I'd be surprised if many women have time to check them, given that they tend to inundated with messages.

Why look at winks when you have messages?

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"I know that a lot of fabsters think of them as lazy, but as a form of saying I'm interested in you, do you not think they serve this purpose?

If someone is interested, why not say so with a message? My profile says no winks, if people want to meet me, they can ask with words not emoticons."
because wen uv spent hours of time messaging people, to just keep getting deletes, a wink just says hi im interested without the hassel, and if a wink comes back then a message can be then written it may be a lazy option but its a tool thats there to be used. just like u fems and couples love the block button , u could see that as lazy to instead of a polite no thanku people rather block block block again a tool used as its there so why not a wink

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I like them, receiving is a nice icebreaker and I often send one to people who interest me.

If they say no winks then I don't send one.

I don't see them as lazy, just an excellent way to express an initial interest in someone

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I know that a lot of fabsters think of them as lazy, but as a form of saying I'm interested in you, do you not think they serve this purpose?

If someone is interested, why not say so with a message? My profile says no winks, if people want to meet me, they can ask with words not emoticons."

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

One of the great features of Platinum membership on Fabs apart from being able to look at other people's friends only pictures and deleting your sent emails in other people's inboxes is being able to send unlimited winks to the same person.

I have used this feature to devise a morse code-like system of communication to other forum users.

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"One of the great features of Platinum membership on Fabs apart from being able to look at other people's friends only pictures and deleting your sent emails in other people's inboxes is being able to send unlimited winks to the same person.

I have used this feature to devise a morse code-like system of communication to other forum users."

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"One of the great features of Platinum membership on Fabs apart from being able to look at other people's friends only pictures and deleting your sent emails in other people's inboxes is being able to send unlimited winks to the same person.

I have used this feature to devise a morse code-like system of communication to other forum users."

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"One of the great features of Platinum membership on Fabs apart from being able to look at other people's friends only pictures and deleting your sent emails in other people's inboxes is being able to send unlimited winks to the same person.

I have used this feature to devise a morse code-like system of communication to other forum users.

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Granny, I didn't know you cared

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ignore them, prefer a message

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"I ignore them, prefer a message"

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Winks are magic.

If they come from an undesirable they are binned like pizza leaflets.

If they come from someone fanciable they are given the same treatment as a registered letter on gold plated velum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess mostly winks are fairly harmless…….

But sometimes them people who've got one of those involuntary eye twitches can be quite scary….

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I guess mostly winks are fairly harmless…….

But sometimes them people who've got one of those involuntary eye twitches can be quite scary…. "

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I like winks, if we like the person we wink back if not no harm done. We sometimes wink people ourselves it's a good way to start communicating

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I know that a lot of fabsters think of them as lazy, but as a form of saying I'm interested in you, do you not think they serve this purpose?"

Not really, when sending a message to say that is free!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like them that is if it means anything we get a wink so i think ok they interested wink back or send a message then it gets deleted without a replie so why bother winking xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the winks. Seems I tend to get them from couples who say are not looking for single guys. I think its a good way of saying admire a profile and see if get a recipicoral wink back. I tend to search in my local area and have broadened this due to winks I have received from further afield. Gab would be lesser without them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i did wink at a couple once an fabed there pic as i thought it was sexy they winked back an then said you are only looking for a female an we are a couple i just replied i admired there pic an had to wink think its polite an nice x

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I had a six month wink affair with someone on here. It's run it's course now but it was fun while it lasted

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


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You two are absolutely filthy!

I love you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did i miss something or have we not already had this very same question today ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love 'em.

When I'm not getting any actual sex I employ them frequently. And every night at bedtime to help me sleep.

Oh hang on.... winks, you say?

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By *luespartanMan
over a year ago

crawley

Love them ,can I have more ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mass delete every day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are a polite way of saying " hi! I liked your profile and would like to get to know you - if you are interested" - what could be nicer...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't mind recieving them and just see them as another tool on the site to show intrest in a profile. We will uaually message someone back if they intrest us just to say thanks for the wink and then the ball's in their court if they want to take the conversation any further.

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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You two are absolutely filthy!

I love you."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know that a lot of fabsters think of them as lazy, but as a form of saying I'm interested in you, do you not think they serve this purpose?"

Yes I think they do serve this purpose, I don't mind them at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind winks, but prefer Butterfly kisses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I make an effort now to look at winks,

Mostly I dont actually look properly if Im honest,

I would send a wink though.

I really like them, in clubs,

he winks, I smile, we move towards each other and then things start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know that a lot of fabsters think of them as lazy, but as a form of saying I'm interested in you, do you not think they serve this purpose?"

In all honesty they tend to get ignored so don't feel anything really about them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love tidally winks

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