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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Are you someone that acts a certain way in the forums, but in DMs once turned on with someone can act totally differently? Essentially, a lot more kinky/filthy/extreme than anyone else would know?

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Nope I'm equally as boring on both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well duh.....

Lady in the forums

Insatiable and enthusiastic 1-1

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

"Are you someone that acts a certain way in the forums, but in DMs once turned on with someone can act totally differently? Essentially, a lot more kinky/filthy/extreme than anyone else would know?"

possibly, but how do you define "how" kinky somebody is? How do you compare only a bit with very? I guess it depends on each persons idea of what is and what isn't?

or am I overthinking this

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I'd say I'm just as prone to word vomiting here as I am in direct messaging or in real life.

No point pretending to be something I'm not.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I don't act in either scenario.

What you see is what you get in forum engagement.

I refuse to discuss personal kinks or preferences with anyone I'm not meeting so obviously those conversations will be different but once again no acting involved.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Yes definitely.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Are you someone that acts a certain way in the forums, but in DMs once turned on with someone can act totally differently? Essentially, a lot more kinky/filthy/extreme than anyone else would know?"

Not at all! I speak my mind, and say it as I see it, at all times. I would certainly hate to disappoint my forum fan club by being ‘caught out’ for not being true to my perceived self….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm nice as pie to everyone on here but slag you all off behind your backs without a second thought.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Oh I waffle on here. In private. I'd even go so far as to say the more comfortable I am, the more I love waffling away with someone.

In terms of talking about sex, it's not something I'd do with someone I don't know. But the me where I write about sex and relish the chance to be open about my sexuality? I'm very much like that when I get to know someone. The smut I write is how I really feel, it just takes me time to warm to someone enough to discuss it in that way.

I'm probably kinkier in private come to think of it. But I prefer keeping that more personal.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I don’t feel the need for anyone I’m not meeting or intending to meet to know what goes on in my head so to an extent I keep something’s for private messages but that’s not to say I’m not my real self on forum posts. I just don’t need everyone to know my business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well duh.....

Lady in the forums

Insatiable and enthusiastic 1-1"

Both are authentically me. I just have a love of privacy for intimate times

Nothing fake on me or in me or near me.

I didn't read the OPs post to mean were people being fake though. Just revealing or protecting parts of yourself for public or private.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Might talk shop in person. Remember this isn’t Facebook brav

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reckon very few people know me properly, but I'm still miserable most of the time in real life.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I thought everyone knew that if women talk sex on the forums it brings all the horny guys to their inbox

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By *he_turtle_movesMan
over a year ago

york

I'm on best behaviour here but once you get me going all that changes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. If it turns sexual in DMs the conversation is over.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Nah, can’t be doing with fantasists, dreamers, liars or other forms of dishonesty.

Anyone that plays a role in either the forums or real life is a knob in my opinion!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What would be the point in that! It's too much hard work to be anything other than me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I'm filthy all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I'm more reserved on the forums as I only want to share certain aspects about me with people I meet, not all and sundry on an internet site.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

I don’t act in a certain way, I’m just myself in both aspects.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm equally boring in both forums and inboxes

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you someone that acts a certain way in the forums, but in DMs once turned on with someone can act totally differently? Essentially, a lot more kinky/filthy/extreme than anyone else would know?"

Nope, we are the same kinda people however you interact with us. Very much "what you see is what you get" everywhere

Mrs

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

On Holibobs

Yes. I don't speak filth on a public forum. Only One to one with someone I am sexually invested in

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

This is interesting. I think I'm the same, but have been told I'm more flirtatious in person. I think I'm pretty flirtatious here, but apparentky not so much.

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

I'm pretty 2D in both , occasional I might try to spice things up by pretending to be a Nigerian Prince

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

I’m as flirty. Possibly a little quieter.

1-1 probably naughtier

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I’m as flirty. Possibly a little quieter.

1-1 probably naughtier

Naughtier? Not possible.

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

"I’m as flirty. Possibly a little quieter.

1-1 probably naughtier

Naughtier? Not possible.

Scary thought, I know!!! But true.

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By *astandtheCurious2Couple
over a year ago

letchworth

I’m a lot quieter and possibly shyer on the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a twat in both areas

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

I’m not different but you get more of me 1-1.

My posts are usually a brief opinion or responding to another. Messages I’m more chatty so I can find out about other people.

In person I’m stupendous company.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not wank fodder sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m always a good boy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m always a good boy

I'd hope not.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

In a way yes, but more so that the flirting or whatever is more direct and personal. Largely because while I am an obvious flirt on the forums, a lot of it is just friendly flirting.

Some people don't like excessive public flirting either as the recipient or as an outside party. So I keep that out of public and in private as I say is more direct but still respectable as anyone I've chatted to in messages can tell you.

So yes there is a different side from public forum to messages but not a whole other personality so to speak.

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

Totally depends, I can certainly be more open and upfront in private messages, keep it friendly and playful on the forum as its good to keep a bit of your personality private

Tinder x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you someone that acts a certain way in the forums, but in DMs once turned on with someone can act totally differently? Essentially, a lot more kinky/filthy/extreme than anyone else would know?"

What about you OP?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m always a good boy

ALWAYS????

Or is this like 'When he was good, he was very, very good, But when he was bad, he was wicked horny.'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. I'm filthy all the time.

Only cause you rarely shower

If you never hear from the male part of this account again just know it was worth it

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

I’m definitely a lot more open in DMs and use less shit one liners. Not sure if that’s a good thing or not!

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

No.

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