FabSwingers.com forum: Multiple Veris from same Profile…

By *undayGirl 69 OP Woman
over a year ago

Coalville

Following on from last weekends lively discussion about Veris… can someone please tell me why there is any need for multiple verifications?

You met one time n they’re genuine… brilliant, good for you…

But why then veri the person again 5 or 6 times?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could go without meeting someone new for a long time and recent veris let’s people know you’re still active.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Because they want to.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"Because they want to.

Because they want to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because they want to.

Because they want to."

Billie Piper?

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By *hropshireGentMan
over a year ago

midllands, traveling with work

Some people are odd like that, I only ever verify someone once even if I’ve met them 10 times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Some people are odd like that, I only ever verify someone once even if I’ve met them 10 times "

Odd people on here? Shut the front door

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I tend to hide old verifications after 6 months or so. It's nice to have a fresh one to replace it with if I'm still seeing the person.

Also sometimes after a particularly enjoyable meet I feel like leaving an extra review even if I've given them one before.

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By *undayGirl 69 OP Woman
over a year ago

Coalville

Just me that sees as marking your territory then?

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By *aked2sumCouple
over a year ago

local

Often see guys with multiple veris off the same couple or been to the same gang bang 5 or 6 times it just tells us they have found there niche no harm in it at all some people find something that works for them and give up on trying to find something else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lamp post pissing.

I find it odd but some people like it as it shows they do repeat meets.

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

nae danger.

Of course it's territory marking females know what they're doing and how make it clear if someone's basically owned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Following on from last weekends lively discussion about Veris… can someone please tell me why there is any need for multiple verifications?

You met one time n they’re genuine… brilliant, good for you…

But why then veri the person again 5 or 6 times?

Totally agree with ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see the contention with verifications

It's whatever works for the two parties involved

If their methodology doesn't work for you, fine, just let them be

The projection on here at times is intense

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"Of course it's territory marking females know what they're doing and how make it clear if someone's basically owned

But it would be the guy displaying it for all to see, so he would know what he's doing too

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

It does sometimes feel a bit like lamppost territory marking…. But… it takes 1 to keep posting them and 1 to keep showing the multiple posts

So maybe it says as much about the people showing……

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Of course it's territory marking females know what they're doing and how make it clear if someone's basically owned

But it would be the guy displaying it for all to see, so he would know what he's doing too "

He might be scared not to show it.

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

nae danger.

"Of course it's territory marking females know what they're doing and how make it clear if someone's basically owned

But it would be the guy displaying it for all to see, so he would know what he's doing too "

Yeah but tons of guys will do whatever make sure they get regular nooky, each to there own. Id let it be displayed once the first time and wouldn't play with controlling people who kept asking why didn't display there newest one

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I have one repeat veri from my fab bestie. They were posted 3 years apart and as we aren't currently meeting either on our singles profiles or our couples profile it shouldn't really matter to anyone else.

The second one is obviously done as a bit of fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same person more than once, you are definitely telling people to stay the fuck away!

Though inevitably it ends with one of them leaving, seen it a few times with forum folk.

Learn to share people!

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Marking territory.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me repeat veris are like trip advisor, youve met them they are real they turned up no need to go into the ins and out of your multiple times youve met them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know I've never had one to start with

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"Same person more than once, you are definitely telling people to stay the fuck away!

I have never once even thought of it that way. Until seeing this thread, anyway.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We’ve got a couple of people who we’ve got veris from and given to a couple of times.

The meets initially were a couple of hours. Then next time was a weekend spent together.

Very different types of meets and so very different verifications.

Verifications are for us to reminisce more than for other people, so we don’t worry if people think it’s wrong/stupid or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a scent marking exercise, a clear message that this is mine, stay clear......that's my little opinion....but only ppl know there motives for multiple veris from same person and to give them...

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By *illloganMan
over a year ago

Essex

I think nothing of it, I'd leave multiple feedbacks if I purchased several items off the same seller.

I see fab no different.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I find it strange how many people see it as possessive or territory marking, given the entire nature of swinging.

But hey. Everyone is entitled to their opinions.

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By *elisandre300Woman
over a year ago

dontbefuckingnosey

"Same person more than once, you are definitely telling people to stay the fuck away!

I have never once even thought of it that way. Until seeing this thread, anyway.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

I've had buddies I've seen daily ranging from a few months to more than 7yrs. I can understand the signals repeat veris send, but when you've met others in between or when there's months between sending a veri, it's not like you look at them. It's more 'that was a good night, it's worth typing about'. Obviously when you get past a year or so you don't really verify.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Because we like it, my veris aren't to prove whether I'm real to others. They are memories of a top night out and we like reminiscing

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By *elisandre300Woman
over a year ago

dontbefuckingnosey

"Because we like it, my veris aren't to prove whether I'm real to others. They are memories of a top night out and we like reminiscing

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

I've always thought this as never really done veris for the same person. However, of they did one for me, I would simply hide the old one as the newer one is more relevant

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"… I would simply hide the old one as the newer one is more relevant

Depends what they say though, doesn’t it? No point having hard and fast rules about this sort of thing.

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

Lamp posts, marking territory

Funny given where we are, but there you go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suppose its how you make use of the veri system, some use them to show how awesome they are in bed some use them just to make sure the person is real and turns up or not no ones right or wrong

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

People can do what they want. If it’s not hurting anyone they shouldn’t be called out for it imho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lamp posts, marking territory

Funny given where we are, but there you go

This when it's just the same people verifying one another constantly

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Also none of our veri’s are lamp post pissing at all. We spend time with that person and then we go our separate ways.

If they meet others or not is up to them. We will be meeting others or maybe we won’t. But we aren’t tied to each other.

Swinging is different to a lot of people but to us we have no ties with anyone - we just enjoy their company for that time and hopefully if we all enjoy it, we’ll do it again

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"Just me that sees as marking your territory then?

This. Like some sort of ownership.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You could go without meeting someone new for a long time and recent veris let’s people know you’re still active."
100% Agree .

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

"Just me that sees as marking your territory then?

This. Like some sort of ownership."

Has never even occurred to me that verifications would be seen this way. It's most definitely not the purpose of mine

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Following on from last weekends lively discussion about Veris… can someone please tell me why there is any need for multiple verifications?

You met one time n they’re genuine… brilliant, good for you…

But why then veri the person again 5 or 6 times?

It’s lamppost pissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People can do what they want. If it’s not hurting anyone they shouldn’t be called out for it imho"

Agreed fellow Berkshire resident.

But this is fab. 100% judgmental.

On here you’re damned if you do and damned if you dont.

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

"Lamp posts, marking territory

Funny given where we are, but there you go

This when it's just the same people verifying one another constantly "

Yep, im aware of that

Others have said the same too on this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People can do what they want. If it’s not hurting anyone they shouldn’t be called out for it imho

Agreed fellow Berkshire resident.

But this is fab. 100% judgmental.

On here you’re damned if you do and damned if you dont. "

It's people's opinions, the world would be a boring place if everyone just agreed with everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They can be handy, especially if they're a different scenario.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People can do what they want. If it’s not hurting anyone they shouldn’t be called out for it imho

Agreed fellow Berkshire resident.

But this is fab. 100% judgmental.

On here you’re damned if you do and damned if you dont.

It's people's opinions, the world would be a boring place if everyone just agreed with everyone.

I know. That’s why I gave mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because they want to.

Because they want to.

Billie Piper?"

Ha ha, well played, Sir/Madam

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"Also none of our veri’s are lamp post pissing at all. We spend time with that person and then we go our separate ways.

If they meet others or not is up to them. We will be meeting others or maybe we won’t. But we aren’t tied to each other.

Swinging is different to a lot of people but to us we have no ties with anyone - we just enjoy their company for that time and hopefully if we all enjoy it, we’ll do it again

I was just thinking about couples and saw your reply..

I am wondering... is this a thing more associated with singles or even a forum thing?

I am pretty sure that couples who re-verify as they meet the same couples in a circle of good friends or attend the same parties aren't seen as marking lamp posts.

Same as when I didn't know about the fourms and was messaging people. They either responded, didn't, I matched what they were looking for or not.

It seems odd that the majority of people look for fb's, but only expect one verification.

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By *empest2KMan
over a year ago

Derby

"They can be handy, especially if they're a different scenario.

This is similar to what I was about to say, tbh. There can be differences between social meets and play meets, and I think it's good to highlight these via verifications.

Also, like what a previous poster mentioned, verifications are more of a ‘I am real and I was there to experience (and reminisce) the occasion’

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Following on from last weekends lively discussion about Veris… can someone please tell me why there is any need for multiple verifications?

You met one time n they’re genuine… brilliant, good for you…

But why then veri the person again 5 or 6 times?

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To get the number count up, don't miss out on this one

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By *laleeWoman
over a year ago

over the rainbow

"Same person more than once, you are definitely telling people to stay the fuck away!

Though inevitably it ends with one of them leaving, seen it a few times with forum folk.

Learn to share people!

"
this

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"Also none of our veri’s are lamp post pissing at all. We spend time with that person and then we go our separate ways.

If they meet others or not is up to them. We will be meeting others or maybe we won’t. But we aren’t tied to each other.

Swinging is different to a lot of people but to us we have no ties with anyone - we just enjoy their company for that time and hopefully if we all enjoy it, we’ll do it again

I was just thinking about couples and saw your reply..

I am wondering... is this a thing more associated with singles or even a forum thing?

I am pretty sure that couples who re-verify as they meet the same couples in a circle of good friends or attend the same parties aren't seen as marking lamp posts.

Same as when I didn't know about the fourms and was messaging people. They either responded, didn't, I matched what they were looking for or not.

It seems odd that the majority of people look for fb's, but only expect one verification.

I think verifications can be interpreted in so many different ways.

I imagine if it’s two singles and all they do every week is veri each other and no one else then it could be lamp post pissing.

For us, it’s really to reminisce - we’ve met some people again who we’ve not verified again, met some we’ve not verified at all.

Verifications don’t show anyone anything other than the people involved. Well except for the really graphic ones, then everyone can imagine it then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure it really matters. It’s your profile, do what you want to do. It might change.

Sometimes, I wish I’d waited to veri someone after three meets, when I realised, they’re a bit odd!

Then, I leave and come back to fab, so nothing really matters! Start over.

Sometimes it’s nice to relive a memory, from another persons point of view. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find it strange how many people see it as possessive or territory marking, given the entire nature of swinging.

But hey. Everyone is entitled to their opinions."

What is the nature of swinging?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find it strange how many people see it as possessive or territory marking, given the entire nature of swinging.

But hey. Everyone is entitled to their opinions."

Yep agreed.

If I wanted to mark my territory I'd piss on him not verify him. But I'm not a cat

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"People can do what they want. If it’s not hurting anyone they shouldn’t be called out for it imho

Agreed fellow Berkshire resident.

But this is fab. 100% judgmental.

On here you’re damned if you do and damned if you dont.

It's people's opinions, the world would be a boring place if everyone just agreed with everyone.

When was the last time you agreed with someone???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People can do what they want. If it’s not hurting anyone they shouldn’t be called out for it imho

Agreed fellow Berkshire resident.

But this is fab. 100% judgmental.

On here you’re damned if you do and damned if you dont.

It's people's opinions, the world would be a boring place if everyone just agreed with everyone.

When was the last time you agreed with someone???

A few hours ago actually. That's me done till 2024.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find it strange how many people see it as possessive or territory marking, given the entire nature of swinging.

But hey. Everyone is entitled to their opinions.

What is the nature of swinging? "

Straighten your legs then bend really quickly.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

No idea. But carry on, I like reading them. I’m a nosy cow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never really given it much thought tbh

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"I find it strange how many people see it as possessive or territory marking, given the entire nature of swinging.

But hey. Everyone is entitled to their opinions.

What is the nature of swinging? "

Christ that's a whole can of worms.

Of course everyrhing is open to individual interpretation. But sharing and community should be pretty common threads to most peoples grasp of the concept.

The less ingrained ideas of ownership and possessiveness are why I like this community.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Multiple veri's from one source, hide all but the latest one? It's probably the most relevant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find it strange how many people see it as possessive or territory marking, given the entire nature of swinging.

But hey. Everyone is entitled to their opinions.

What is the nature of swinging?

Christ that's a whole can of worms.

Of course everyrhing is open to individual interpretation. But sharing and community should be pretty common threads to most peoples grasp of the concept.

The less ingrained ideas of ownership and possessiveness are why I like this community."

Fair points.

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By *annabarberaCouple
over a year ago

Staffs

"Same person more than once, you are definitely telling people to stay the fuck away!

I have never once even thought of it that way. Until seeing this thread, anyway.

Thought the same

Some people literally have nothing else to moan about do they

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

Some people clearly think about this more than I do, I couldn't give two shits. If I see more than one verification from a person I just treat it as one veri.

Who cares? More important things to worry about.

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"I find it strange how many people see it as possessive or territory marking, given the entire nature of swinging.

But hey. Everyone is entitled to their opinions.

What is the nature of swinging?

Straighten your legs then bend really quickly. "
lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women marking their territory.

More fool them, makes me want to meet the fella even more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive had 5 good meets only verified one

and had reg with one not verified him either dont feel the need

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

Cocking the leg up

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

"ive had 5 good meets only verified one

and had reg with one not verified him either dont feel the need "
why would you not verify a good meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ive had 5 good meets only verified one

and had reg with one not verified him either dont feel the need why would you not verify a good meet?"

dont know just didnt at the time

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By *amantha TSWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

I've got a few repeat veris, mainly just down to the fact my old ones were in my old name and they were kind enough to reverify using my new name (I've hidden all the ones that refer to my old name, more to stop any confusion!)

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

"I don't see the contention with verifications

It's whatever works for the two parties involved

If their methodology doesn't work for you, fine, just let them be

The projection on here at times is intense"

Yep I agree with you

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Why not?? X

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

Don't see it as territorial.. We have a few repeat veris. We stayed in touch, and met again, helping them with thing's they wanted to try, but with a known entity.. Both them and us net others in the meantime so why not..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because it’s nice

It can be part of the turn on for both parties and any partners to read too xx

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

"I don't see the contention with verifications

It's whatever works for the two parties involved

If their methodology doesn't work for you, fine, just let them be

The projection on here at times is intense

Yep I agree with you "

Third that! Move on if you don't like, what is their choice and frankly none of your business!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if you want to verify the same person after each meet then why not? Its called personal choice

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

I have a few from the same person but it’s more of an in-joke between us than territory marking. I’m too modest to display my veris so it’s kind of irrelevant anyway.

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

Some might be social and some might be play veris and you could be meeting someone on the regular basis

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By *ap-scarCouple
over a year ago

Sleaford

We have had a few from multiple meets because some have been social and some play.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Maybe because they are such good fun, you want to keep reminding people?

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

A reminder of a good time!

Lamp Post Pissing?

Trying to show they are in demand?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't ever given it any thought really. I mean if somebody posted on someone's saying 'Oi, piss off, they're mine! I sit outside their house watching'... Might give me some concerns. But other than that why the hell would I care?

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Following on from last weekends lively discussion about Veris… can someone please tell me why there is any need for multiple verifications?

You met one time n they’re genuine… brilliant, good for you…

But why then veri the person again 5 or 6 times?

It shows that "repeat meets" are an option. Also, current verifications show that they are still meeting.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

If the same person wants to meet me more than once, I might be quite proud of that. Happy to show it off.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I have one repeat veri and he's the only person I've done a repeat veri for as well. They were done years apart and his last veri for me made me laugh when I read it.

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By *an1978Woman
over a year ago

GONE/TIMEOUT (No DMs please)

I've done one where the first was just a brief social meet, and the second was a meet meet.

Generally then I wouldn't do another unless a few years down the line if someone comes back to fab.

Fab can be used any way you wish so long as it doesn't harm others, so if f**k buddies want to give eachother weekly reviews, leave them to it, and get on with your own journey.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I have some repeat veris and these are usually from social events Ive attended

I very rarely display meet veris as that’s my private business and it’s also caused some unwanted drama in the past with messages landing in my inbox

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By *ilthyRacersCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

It shows that "repeat meets" are an option. Also, current verifications show that they are still meeting."

That’s the reason we like seeing repeat veris. It shows that someone is into that kind of meet, which is our preferred option.

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By *hropshireGentMan
over a year ago

midllands, traveling with work

I also find it hard with the amount of veris too. Someo people say too many puts them off. I generally only display a third of mine.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

If anyone thinks veris are a complete diary of someone's sexual activity and that one is left each time someone has sex.......I have some magic beans to sell you.

Worrying about other people's veri count, content or frequency is as pointless as a blunt pencil.

If they put you off? Move on. If you think someone has too many? Move on. If you don't like who they've met? Move on. I doubt they'll be bothered at all.

If you don't think someone has enough? Go shag them and leave one. Problem solved.

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

"If anyone thinks veris are a complete diary of someone's sexual activity and that one is left each time someone has sex.......I have some magic beans to sell you.

Worrying about other people's veri count, content or frequency is as pointless as a blunt pencil.

If they put you off? Move on. If you think someone has too many? Move on. If you don't like who they've met? Move on. I doubt they'll be bothered at all.

If you don't think someone has enough? Go shag them and leave one. Problem solved.

I’m enjoying your comments on various threads this morning

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By *hropshireGentMan
over a year ago

midllands, traveling with work

"If anyone thinks veris are a complete diary of someone's sexual activity and that one is left each time someone has sex.......I have some magic beans to sell you.

Worrying about other people's veri count, content or frequency is as pointless as a blunt pencil.

If they put you off? Move on. If you think someone has too many? Move on. If you don't like who they've met? Move on. I doubt they'll be bothered at all.

If you don't think someone has enough? Go shag them and leave one. Problem solved.

I completely agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have no problem with multiple veris from the same person on other profiles, and we have no issues showing them. In our opinion it shows that they/we are worth the time and energy. We also don’t care who it puts off - if you’re that sensitive that it bothers you, we wouldn’t be compatible anyway - so a handy filter.

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By *heLaserGuyMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Ive a few by the same person, most are social nights, going out for drinks etc.

Never really thought about it to be honest, not all my meets have left veris.

Multiple veris at least show you not a one night stand kind of guy if nothing else

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

I think it’s useful. As others have said, it shows that they are into more than just a one off.

I actually like reading veris. Some of them are funny, some are highly complimentary and others are sarcastically complimentary. Reading between the lines can give quite a bit of insight also

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