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Why send a friend request when you can't even send a message!!

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By *he full works OP   Couple
over a year ago

Eastbourne

How many people get annoyed when guys or couples send a friend request before even talking too you first surely they don't think....oh right yes let's just add them so they can see all our sexy pics!!!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I think you'll find.they do!!

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By *he full works OP   Couple
over a year ago

Eastbourne


"I think you'll find.they do!!"

We've had loads especially men!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens all the time but doesn't bother me, one poster told me what to do, wait until they are offline then nose at their pics and delete if you don't like them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a daily thing,

I figure they want to perv pics, or staus updates without the fuss of having to make contact/be rejected.

The other side of me says it's a way of showing an interest, and allowing you to see their pics (whilst they are offline), and decide if you want to start a chat or not though.

Its akin to sending a face pic sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont get annoyed !just delete them!

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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire


"Happens all the time but doesn't bother me, one poster told me what to do, wait until they are offline then nose at their pics and delete if you don't like them "

We do this all the time, we have it written in our profile that we are very likely to do just that, so if they send an unsolicited FR I take it that they are giving me consent to do just that

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I get this a bit and I do find it a bit presumptuous.

However, becoming annoyed at anything on the internetz is wasted mind bullets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure a lot of you have experienced my following comment - I today received a friend request from a couple in USA, not for the first time either.. I've declined them all.. Yes I know sometimes it's good to have a chat with people whether your planning to meet or not (in the UK) but between countries is abit too far..

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I have deleted four unsolicited friend requests just this morning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Happens all the time but doesn't bother me, one poster told me what to do, wait until they are offline then nose at their pics and delete if you don't like them "

Ah see one poster said leave them sat there as they can't request again and I have 6 at the moment but am it bing to delete them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many people get annoyed when guys or couples send a friend request before even talking too you first surely they don't think....oh right yes let's just add them so they can see all our sexy pics!!! "

Me, I either ignore or block now. I know sometimes if using a phone they can be sent accidentally instead of a wink, but surely if you knew you'd sent one in error you'd message and apologise for the friend invite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many people get annoyed when guys or couples ..."

..women do it as well

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By *ssexguy69Man
over a year ago

thurrock Essex

get that al the time , just so they can look at ur pics

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

You would be surprised at the amount of people that accept the invite....

They chance it...sometimes they get lucky...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A very common problem on this site - i just ignore them now and if they shirty (some do) ; i still ignore them lol

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

It's not just guys and couples. Plenty of women do it too.

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

' all the lonely people, where do they all come from'

la la la la

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

One of lifes unsolved mysteries i guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many people get annoyed when guys or couples send a friend request before even talking too you first surely they don't think....oh right yes let's just add them so they can see all our sexy pics!!! "

If you look closer at the menu on the left when viewing someone's profile you'll see that the 'add to hotlist' link is directly beneath the 'invite as a friend' link. I think a lot of people click one when they meant to click the other, which isn't so bad if you add to hotlist when you meant to invite as a friend, but if you only want to add someone to a hotlist (because you haven't messaged them yet, or don't know them from the forums for example) then it can be embarrassing to click the 'invite' link by mistake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not just guys and couples. Plenty of women do it too. "

Not the real ones though Ryan!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess “some” spurious friend invites result from the transition whereby many site members now access the site via small touch screen devices where its fairly easy to inadvertently activate a wink or friend invite while browsing random profiles…..

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"It's not just guys and couples. Plenty of women do it too.

Not the real ones though Ryan!! "

Oh I dunno. I won't name and shame else I will be back on the naughty step lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Happens all the time but doesn't bother me, one poster told me what to do, wait until they are offline then nose at their pics and delete if you don't like them

We do this all the time, we have it written in our profile that we are very likely to do just that, so if they send an unsolicited FR I take it that they are giving me consent to do just that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just do what we do leave them all on so they can't send another request and ignore them lol ( been a good day so far only had two requests)

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