FabSwingers.com forum: Were you promiscuous before you found swinging?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Honesty time.. did you used to put it about a bit before you discovered swinging?

I have to confess to being a bit of a male slut tbh. I loved nothing more than sinking my cock into a new pussy and it's still something I really get a kick out of now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was younger maybe but then moved in with someone, split 5 yrs later and spent about 17 years celebate, too busy bringing up kids and too scared to get back on the dating scene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think I was a swinger in my teens...just didn't know what it was called back then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were the total opposite as we were only kids when we got together so were each others firsts and onlys until we started swinging.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Yep!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope was totally faithful during a very long celibate marriage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was before I got married then stayed faithful in a marriage (I loved my wife and we didn't want to share each other) then Devorce. I then found I was free and so like a kid in a sweet shop went and tried the delights on offer. Really enjoyed my sexual journey so far.

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

No - we've been together since we were 16 so didn't have the chance

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

nah ...only had the one man ...how times change !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, until we started swinging we were faithfull to eachother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the definition of promiscuous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think I was a swinger in my teens...just didn't know what it was called back then

I'm liking this so I'm using it to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think I was a swinger in my teens...just didn't know what it was called back then

I'm liking this so I'm using it to

you mean i wasn't your first?

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't love my virginity until I was 20 but throughout my 20's if I wasn't in a relationship then there was an overhanging succession of women.

Then since my 30's pretty much every relationship has been a swinging and/or open one.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Yep.

My pre swinging numbers are higher than many swingers.

Despite having long periods of celibacy too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think I was a swinger in my teens...just didn't know what it was called back then

I'm liking this so I'm using it to

you mean i wasn't your first?

lol

Lol ermmmm not by a long shot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before, during and hopefully will in the future.

It just seemed like a natural step for us to venture into swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had my wild days when I was in my 20s.

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

I was a redcoat for 5 seasons, average 44 weeks a season, at least 1 girl a week .. do the maths!

Did my first ever MFM. FfM (2 american lifeguards), orgy and gangbang when a redcoat. The missus was quite free and easy whenever she had a drink. So thats every fri and sat taken care of for her. When we got married neither of us told the other the total truth about our sexual history and we were faithful to each other, but once we talked about adding extras to our play, we both became very open about our past and we havent looked back since. Swinging to us is all about the extras but its not something we feel is missing etc. Its just an extra.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

from the age of 17 till i was 18, before i got married, i had lots of fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I didn't love my virginity until I was 20 but throughout my 20's if I wasn't in a relationship then there was an overhanging succession of women.

Then since my 30's pretty much every relationship has been a swinging and/or open one."

Dam you autocorrect that should be ever changing not overhanging!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I was in a serious relationship from 15 - 20 and then a couple of short term ones before another long term one.

Never had the chance or inclination and always remained faithful.

I have and always will be good

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have and always will be good

I look forward to putting that to the test one of these days.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

No, I've either been in a long term relationship (always monogamous) or not really had the opportunity for single promiscuity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have and always will be good

I look forward to putting that to the test one of these days.

I blame my parents for sending me to a Convent, had to rebel eventually

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have and always will be good

I look forward to putting that to the test one of these days.

I blame my parents for sending me to a Convent, had to rebel eventually

Convent girls are dirty! I've had a couple of convent girls in my time and they've been the dirtiest by far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have and always will be good

I look forward to putting that to the test one of these days.

I blame my parents for sending me to a Convent, had to rebel eventually

Convent girls are dirty! I've had a couple of convent girls in my time and they've been the dirtiest by far.

You didn't ask the question was I dirty, just promiscuous

Can do cock tease and dirty no problem

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have and always will be good

I look forward to putting that to the test one of these days.

I blame my parents for sending me to a Convent, had to rebel eventually

Convent girls are dirty! I've had a couple of convent girls in my time and they've been the dirtiest by far.

You didn't ask the question was I dirty, just promiscuous

Can do cock tease and dirty no problem

I was thinking more of shagging on a wet day in the mud.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have and always will be good

I look forward to putting that to the test one of these days.

I blame my parents for sending me to a Convent, had to rebel eventually

Convent girls are dirty! I've had a couple of convent girls in my time and they've been the dirtiest by far.

You didn't ask the question was I dirty, just promiscuous

Can do cock tease and dirty no problem

I was thinking more of shagging on a wet day in the mud.

As long as it involves wrestling

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have and always will be good

I look forward to putting that to the test one of these days.

I blame my parents for sending me to a Convent, had to rebel eventually

Convent girls are dirty! I've had a couple of convent girls in my time and they've been the dirtiest by far.

You didn't ask the question was I dirty, just promiscuous

Can do cock tease and dirty no problem

I was thinking more of shagging on a wet day in the mud.

As long as it involves wrestling

Never done that before. Quite like the idea of being wrestled and pinned down so my cock is exposed and then someone, anyone really, comes and sucks it.

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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

Nope.

We have been together since I was 15, have always been faithful & still am...I don't count swinging as being unfaithful, I NEVER do anything without his permission

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have and always will be good

I look forward to putting that to the test one of these days.

I blame my parents for sending me to a Convent, had to rebel eventually

Convent girls are dirty! I've had a couple of convent girls in my time and they've been the dirtiest by far.

You didn't ask the question was I dirty, just promiscuous

Can do cock tease and dirty no problem

I was thinking more of shagging on a wet day in the mud.

As long as it involves wrestling

Never done that before. Quite like the idea of being wrestled and pinned down so my cock is exposed and then someone, anyone really, comes and sucks it.

Good to be choosy hey

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Think I was a swinger in my teens...just didn't know what it was called back then

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Think that sums me up, too. Then a long period of being a good wife (well, I thought so, anyway..;-) ... now this....

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I was a virgin bride at 20, only slept with my husband. Left him 10 years ago, spent couple of years making sure my girls were ok, didn't think about sex at all.

From 48 to 50 I had a lovely time, slowed down a bit now, can't be bothered at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I was never promiscuous before swinging - I'm now living my rebel years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but then I discovered swinging just before I was 18, so I didnt really have a chance to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Up until my early thirties I was a good boy and was never promiscuous. Then I decided to live out my fantasies

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Total slut when single. Absolutely monogamous in relationships. I prefer being single!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I came to terms with my loose nature when i was still at school, i remember my friends all saying yuck at the thought of doing blow jobs whilst it felt like a very natural and good thing to do for me! I was a terrible slut when i was single, and had no problems with it at all, i really enjoyed being a mature student at uni!! So glad that i met the right person who appreciates my naughty side and loves me enough to indulge it! x

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

I think I can safely say I was a tad promiscuous as I'd had mmmff, gangbang and fucked a good few blokes before I hit 18...slowed down whilst I was married but still managed half a dozen extra cocks or so (and the occasional pussy) a year then for the last 3 years of my marriage for some reason I was almost celibate - once I left my husband I shagged who I liked when I liked, then had a bit of a break after a guy I turned down spiked my drink and I woke up in his bed **shudder**, then I found swinging...another break when I was in a relationship (though I did cheat a handful of times) then kicked him into touch when I found he was a theiving bastard and onto Fab...not looked back since - I have found my wee niche in society and I'm staying here

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

" I have found my wee niche in society and I'm staying here

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You TOLD ME you were nt into watersports!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

No, but that's because I am one of those women who joined here because she couldn't pull when out on the town

I was always very sexually aware though, masturbating most nights with different things, trying different things like anal etc with my toys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope , I was always the gentleman ,I found myself in many situations where I did the right thing but then mentally flagellated myself as that was not the way to get your legover .

The plus side was that I had many close female friends who trusted me .

Then I met Mrs J and I was like a bull let loose , we could not fuck enough .

Now we have found swinging the sky's the limit .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lost my cherry to my gf at 19... she eventually became my wife for 21 years, during which time I never strayed (nor even contemplated it)

post divorce i figured i'd try and experience a bit more of what the world may have to offer before i spend my days looking at the underside of the lid on the box...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lost my virginity nearly 9 years ago. When I left my ex 20 months ago I had been with 16 guys. So I think I can say yes I was promiscuous but then I found swinging. Since then all hell has broken loose!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Lost my virginity nearly 9 years ago. When I left my ex 20 months ago I had been with 16 guys. So I think I can say yes I was promiscuous but then I found swinging. Since then all hell has broken loose! "

Jesus! You weren't even alive when I lost my virginity!! I lost mine 33 years ago - to my older brother's ex/gf before he did!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nope , I was always the gentleman ,I found myself in many situations where I did the right thing but then mentally flagellated myself as that was not the way to get your legover .

The plus side was that I had many close female friends who trusted me .

Then I met Mrs J and I was like a bull let loose , we could not fuck enough .

Now we have found swinging the sky's the limit ."

We've gone the other way. When Siren and I met, through swinging, we were at it like rabbits for the first year, and we had a lot of playmates too, but since pregnancy/breastfeeding etc over the last 4 years we barely have sex with each other, and certainly not with anyone else. We haven't swung for just over four years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met my OH in school and married him, he took my innocence lol. So no definitely not promiscuous prior to starting playing and I'm not now either, just very very naughty

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By *orkieMan
over a year ago

Who knows

" You TOLD ME you were nt into watersports! "

She cant go windsurfing currently cos the walking frame gets in the way, that could be what she meant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes before and after I was married

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Not really. I've always had a rampant libido and the way to control it is to control it. I controlled it for a very long time until Shrove Tuesday in 2010. Now I enjoy pancakes whenever I can.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

yes

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By *aster of a mindCouple
over a year ago

York

"Nope.

We have been together since I was 15, have always been faithful & still am...I don't count swinging as being unfaithful, I NEVER do anything without his permission

like you we were totally monogomous before swinging (25 years together)and do not see swinging as being unfaithful by any means. we always play together so never any issues. 8 months after our first meet we love this lifestyle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No and I'm not now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Honesty time.. did you used to put it about a bit before you discovered swinging?

I have to confess to being a bit of a male slut tbh. I loved nothing more than sinking my cock into a new pussy and it's still something I really get a kick out of now."

Didnt really know what to do with a dick before i became a swinger......i was very naive ......honest

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