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The first time you watched your partner with another

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By *s-two-75 OP   Couple
over a year ago

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We are just starting our journey, we both get turned on when talking of the experience of playing with others together, seeing each other being pleasured..

So for the experienced, do you remember the first time you watched your partner having sex with another and how did it make you feel initially x

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By *ouple4PlayXCouple
over a year ago

Essex

Absoloutly I remember!

The thought is so vivd of her slowly undressing and the guy seeing her tits and his jaw dropping in amazement. While she slowly went down and sucked his cock I remember him gasping for air when she looked up with his bellend on her tongue.

That's when I decided to give her my coco and his to suck on while I took a pic for the wank bank.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I absolutely loved it and it made me immensely turned on. Watching my husband fuck another woman is incredibly arousing.

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By *iberatedduoCouple
over a year ago

Ashbourne

Our first experience was spontaneous when it happened.

We had already discussed boundaries beforehand which is key to a successful encounter.

The night in question involved visiting a club where we got chatting to an older fella late into the night before we all found a room to make up our first threesome.

We found it highly exhilarating.

Since then our boundaries keep changing the longer we’ve been on the scene.

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By *topthepressMan
over a year ago

MANCHESTER

Was a work colleague he had fancied her a long time the way she sucked him u would have thought she never had cock

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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It's been many years since I first watched a partner with someone else, so I can't really recall the ins and outs of it (pun intended ). I do like watching partners though. I like to see them enjoying themselves. And I like to see the pleasure that the other woman is experiencing,knowing exactly the sensations that she's feeling when he's doing certain things. Plus, reclaim sex is amazing...an unspoken way of us saying to each other 'yeah, that was fun, but THIS, this is how to do sex'.

I've never been prone to jealousy, but I've been witness to quite a few fallouts over the years. My advice would be to communicate a lot, agree boundaries, and stick to them....it's sometimes very tempting to overstep those boundaries in the heat of the moment, but you agreed on them for a reason. And most important of all, have fun, discuss everything...and then discuss it some more.

I hope it turns out to be everything that you imagine it to be OP x

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral


"We are just starting our journey, we both get turned on when talking of the experience of playing with others together, seeing each other being pleasured..

So for the experienced, do you remember the first time you watched your partner having sex with another and how did it make you feel initially x"

It was July 2000 and it was my (now) wife with (still) one of my best mates after a day on the beer.

I didn't watch on that occasion but listened from the other side of the door.

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By *s-two-75 OP   Couple
over a year ago

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Thank you for the responses, it’s nice to hear from your experiences

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By *JandCMCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

Was last November, our 1st mfm meet n what a turn on watching her with another guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So does any ladies on here like watching a couple having sex at all? Maybe in front of you or watching them on a video call or something to the point where you want to play with yourself?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So does any ladies on here like watching a couple having sex at all? Maybe in front of you or watching them on a video call or something to the point where you want to play with yourself? "

Yes I like watching, partly the reason I attend clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So does any ladies on here like watching a couple having sex at all? Maybe in front of you or watching them on a video call or something to the point where you want to play with yourself?

Yes I like watching, partly the reason I attend clubs."
how about a video call from him and his wife doesn't know the camera is on lol whilst she is riding him

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)


"how about a video call from him and his wife doesn't know the camera is on lol whilst she is riding him "

Oh dear,

I'm not sure that's legal, it's certainly immoral.

Gbat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how about a video call from him and his wife doesn't know the camera is on lol whilst she is riding him

Oh dear,

I'm not sure that's legal, it's certainly immoral.

Gbat "

Have you never seen or watched hidden cam porn on red tube or xhamster or anything no? That's the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So does any ladies on here like watching a couple having sex at all? Maybe in front of you or watching them on a video call or something to the point where you want to play with yourself?

Yes I like watching, partly the reason I attend clubs. how about a video call from him and his wife doesn't know the camera is on lol whilst she is riding him "

so the wife hasn't consented to it?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)


"how about a video call from him and his wife doesn't know the camera is on lol whilst she is riding him

Oh dear,

I'm not sure that's legal, it's certainly immoral.

Gbat

Have you never seen or watched hidden cam porn on red tube or xhamster or anything no? That's the same "

I expect most of that stuff is actually set up and the person knows they are being filmed. It's make believe.

What you are suggesting is fucking your wife while strangers watch and she doesn't consent. That's NOT make believe if you do it.

I'm a bit rusty on sexual offences legislation, but I'll have a quick look at voyeurism now and get back to you.

If she actually exists, I doubt your wife will like this idea. My advice is keep it as a fantasy.

Gbat

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

Quick google, here's a headline for you .....

"Anyone who films a partner during sex without their consent is committing the criminal offence of voyeurism, the Court of Appeal has ruled in a case"

I would suggest that committing a sexual offence upon your wife would not be the best thing you did this year.

Fantasy is okay though.

Gbat

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There


"So does any ladies on here like watching a couple having sex at all? Maybe in front of you or watching them on a video call or something to the point where you want to play with yourself?

Yes I like watching, partly the reason I attend clubs. how about a video call from him and his wife doesn't know the camera is on lol whilst she is riding him "

That’s a dreadful thought and you’ve hijacked this thread, which is bad manners. If you want to chat about illegal activity you should do it somewhere else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are just starting our journey, we both get turned on when talking of the experience of playing with others together, seeing each other being pleasured..

So for the experienced, do you remember the first time you watched your partner having sex with another and how did it make you feel initially x"

It was a mixture of emotions which only led me to be even more turned on by watching another guy pleasuring he, good luck with your voyage x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
over a year ago

London (She/Her)


"So does any ladies on here like watching a couple having sex at all? Maybe in front of you or watching them on a video call or something to the point where you want to play with yourself?

Yes I like watching, partly the reason I attend clubs. how about a video call from him and his wife doesn't know the camera is on lol whilst she is riding him "

Makes note to never meet this guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love walking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watching

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Well it was this one time at band camp

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"We are just starting our journey, we both get turned on when talking of the experience of playing with others together, seeing each other being pleasured..

So for the experienced, do you remember the first time you watched your partner having sex with another and how did it make you feel initially x"
oh I remember. I had let them both go upstairs without me.. if listened for a while... then gone in.. and he was making her orgasm. It was so sexy. I felt horny, and was so turned on. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's an odd one

It doesn't turn me on per se

I enjoy it but I become emotionally detached from the person

It's voyeurism in its most raw form

A carnal desire you might say

I do, however, REALLY enjoy our coupled sex immediately afterwards

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By * and P southeastCouple
over a year ago

essex

We love it and will not forget the first time ,we both entered the couple’s bedroom got naked and started playing with them,we were all on the same bed and watching my wife with another guy was fantastic my wife liked seeing me fuck the wife in front of her ,we took turns watching each couple wanking each other off we all got so horny we ended up staying hours in the bedroom and all lost our bi virginity

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