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By *illerbarbie86 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Colchester

I must have some sort of sign pinned to my head today! Lots of horrid messages some guys. All deleted, blocked and reported. Wondering if anyone else has had an influx today?

Needed to get that off me chest.

Ps I'm new here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly being of the fairer sex you'll get more of this than us guys - but you're doing the right thing!

Block and report is the way to go every time!

Oh - and welcome to the forums!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope , all quiet here .

Hi and welcome

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

it happens... block, delete and move on...

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By *acdoodleMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I must have some sort of sign pinned to my head today! Lots of horrid messages some guys. All deleted, blocked and reported. Wondering if anyone else has had an influx today?

Needed to get that off me chest.

Ps I'm new here "

Don't worry about it. This site is full of dicks. You just have to do what you're doing block them ect and get on with having fun and meeting the cool people that are on here great profile so don't be concerned xx

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

Aww, how horrible. Chin up and rise above it ...

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must have some sort of sign pinned to my head today! Lots of horrid messages some guys. All deleted, blocked and reported. Wondering if anyone else has had an influx today?

Needed to get that off me chest.

Ps I'm new here "

I know this is going to sound trite, but welcome to the Fabs Learning Curve...

All you can do is set your filters strongly enough, and get ruthless with the delete and/or block button...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i had one today, i think people are a bit grumpy after christmas and having to go back to work.

just ignore them, block and delete.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

First of all, Killerbarbie (Great Name btw) welcome to the forums - and secondly you will end up growing a thicker skin and wont let that get to you. Follow people's advice and if really bad, block and report.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

welcome

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By *illerbarbie86 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Colchester

Thanks for your replies

I am learning swiftly, lurking on the forums for a while has helped lots! Although now I've lost my forums cherry who knows where I'll pop up

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Thanks for your replies

I am learning swiftly, lurking on the forums for a while has helped lots! Although now I've lost my forums cherry who knows where I'll pop up "

I don't think you're gonna be the shy retiring type (actually, I don't think there are that many anyway on here!) so don't let the horrid one liners get you down. Great profile btw. Welcome!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for your replies

I am learning swiftly, lurking on the forums for a while has helped lots! Although now I've lost my forums cherry who knows where I'll pop up

I don't think you're gonna be the shy retiring type (actually, I don't think there are that many anyway on here!) so don't let the horrid one liners get you down. Great profile btw. Welcome! "

Waves... Helloooo im shy

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"I must have some sort of sign pinned to my head today! Lots of horrid messages some guys. All deleted, blocked and reported. Wondering if anyone else has had an influx today?

Needed to get that off me chest.

Ps I'm new here "

Don't let the buggers get you down! Just grow a thick skin and learn to beat them at their own game.

On another site I had an initial 'I wanna fuck you message'. I turned him down (he was lucky to get a response) and he called me an 'old slapper'. Oh - I was sssoooo hurt! LOL (He was only 22) so I wrote a really lengthy and rather verbose message putting him down (I cannot post any of it on here, unfortunately) and blocked him as soon as I sent it.

Most people who are abusive are a joke - just laugh at them and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for your replies

I am learning swiftly, lurking on the forums for a while has helped lots! Although now I've lost my forums cherry who knows where I'll pop up

I don't think you're gonna be the shy retiring type (actually, I don't think there are that many anyway on here!) so don't let the horrid one liners get you down. Great profile btw. Welcome!

Waves... Helloooo im shy "

*cough, bollocks, cough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for your replies

I am learning swiftly, lurking on the forums for a while has helped lots! Although now I've lost my forums cherry who knows where I'll pop up

I don't think you're gonna be the shy retiring type (actually, I don't think there are that many anyway on here!) so don't let the horrid one liners get you down. Great profile btw. Welcome!

Waves... Helloooo im shy

*cough, bollocks, cough "

Meeeeee toooo lol

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

As you can see we are all nice here...

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By *illerbarbie86 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Colchester

Hehehe well you've all tickled me in the right places

I generally do have a thick skin but a couple of messages just really pissed me off. I have sent some rather lovely eloquently written replies, letting them know who's boss

And Helloooo back! I feel at this point I should have a bell, whilst ringing shouting "Fresh Meat!" And see how many people I can lure in........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes had the abuse. You have done the right thing in reporting it.

Nice to see you on the forum x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for your replies

I am learning swiftly, lurking on the forums for a while has helped lots! Although now I've lost my forums cherry who knows where I'll pop up

I don't think you're gonna be the shy retiring type (actually, I don't think there are that many anyway on here!) so don't let the horrid one liners get you down. Great profile btw. Welcome!

Waves... Helloooo im shy

*cough, bollocks, cough "

I am obi, you know that

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