FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to The Lounge

Old age and being attracted to the opposite sex

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As the years start to pass by is it harder to pull the opposite sex,or is this just how the world is these days..

Obviously I can only speak for myself here,but I feel I used to look older years ago and body wise be less attractive years ago but found it easy to attract the opposite sex in real life situations as apposed to modern day.

Is it an age thing or is it how the world has changed now with all the dating sites and so on.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Change your first name to Les and watch your luck change

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

It may just be a shift in dynamics.

I find it easier now than I did 10 years ago.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha why les fella what do you know that I don't !!!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You might have a point here,if that's the case I can't wait till I'm 50,maybe it will shift in my favour again who knows

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As the years start to pass by is it harder to pull the opposite sex,or is this just how the world is these days..

Obviously I can only speak for myself here,but I feel I used to look older years ago and body wise be less attractive years ago but found it easy to attract the opposite sex in real life situations as apposed to modern day.

Is it an age thing or is it how the world has changed now with all the dating sites and so on."

Says your 45, don't think your old at all! Jus hang in there! Time has changed as the menu has grown

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"As the years start to pass by is it harder to pull the opposite sex,or is this just how the world is these days..

Obviously I can only speak for myself here,but I feel I used to look older years ago and body wise be less attractive years ago but found it easy to attract the opposite sex in real life situations as apposed to modern day.

Is it an age thing or is it how the world has changed now with all the dating sites and so on."
technology eh its taking over but to be honest real life is the best way to attract anything, they can see your face, see your smile and be transformed by your personality

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As the years start to pass by is it harder to pull the opposite sex,or is this just how the world is these days..

Obviously I can only speak for myself here,but I feel I used to look older years ago and body wise be less attractive years ago but found it easy to attract the opposite sex in real life situations as apposed to modern day.

Is it an age thing or is it how the world has changed now with all the dating sites and so on.technology eh its taking over but to be honest real life is the best way to attract anything, they can see your face, see your smile and be transformed by your personality "

Best way to put it

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *.T.Man
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Haha why les fella what do you know that I don't !!!!"

Viva Les Vagas!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *atprincess88Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I honestly think it's easier now than ever because self-confidence comes with age and experience and when I was younger I doubted myself and worried too much what other people think but at 52 now I accept myself for what I am and just want to have fun with like-minded people. It's easy to doubt yourself especially when younger but have confidence in yourself and the world is your oyster. There will always be people out there for whom you are their exact type - it's just finding them! lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I didn't join here until I was 52 and it has been much easier than it ever was before.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *an4funMan
over a year ago

london


"You might have a point here,if that's the case I can't wait till I'm 50,maybe it will shift in my favour again who knows "

It's all down hill when you reach fifty (men). Get plenty in in the 5 years you have left

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I honestly think it's easier now than ever because self-confidence comes with age and experience and when I was younger I doubted myself and worried too much what other people think but at 52 now I accept myself for what I am and just want to have fun with like-minded people. It's easy to doubt yourself especially when younger but have confidence in yourself and the world is your oyster. There will always be people out there for whom you are their exact type - it's just finding them! lol "

Could not have put it better

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Old age?!?

You're only 45 OP that's nowhere near old age.

I'm not far off 50 and happily married but have no problem attracting the opposite sex should I choose. If you're confident and comfortable in yourself I think that makes all the difference.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately, we live in a World where selfishness, greed, etc. are rife. However, there are plenty lovely peeps out there who will like you just the way you are and just what you look like, how much money you have in your bank account, what you drive, own, etc. Never settle for less, when that someone special comes along who accepts you just the way you are without conditions - you'll know it's right and they're the missing piece to your life that's worthy of spending what time we have with that person. We live in hope. Be lucky (& take comfort in knowing we are beautiful in the way God made us).

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unfortunately, we live in a World where selfishness, greed, etc. are rife. However, there are plenty lovely peeps out there who will like you just the way you are and just what you look like, how much money you have in your bank account, what you drive, own, etc. Never settle for less, when that someone special comes along who accepts you just the way you are without conditions - you'll know it's right and they're the missing piece to your life that's worthy of spending what time we have with that person. We live in hope. Be lucky (& take comfort in knowing we are beautiful in the way God made us). "

If you see mine send him this way please!

I haven't met him yet!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

As a 45 year old I’d have thought you’d be knocking those lasses in their 20’s out of the ball park.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unfortunately, we live in a World where selfishness, greed, etc. are rife. However, there are plenty lovely peeps out there who will like you just the way you are and just what you look like, how much money you have in your bank account, what you drive, own, etc. Never settle for less, when that someone special comes along who accepts you just the way you are without conditions - you'll know it's right and they're the missing piece to your life that's worthy of spending what time we have with that person. We live in hope. Be lucky (& take comfort in knowing we are beautiful in the way God made us).

If you see mine send him this way please!

I haven't met him yet! "

Ditto, but in my case I'd prefer it to be a "her"

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Find it much is easier now especially with age-appropriate women but not with women half my age but nobody wants them anyway

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top