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By *oxy_minx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Is there really room for them on here, or am I just wishful thinking?

Some people rightfully message me saying I see you might be interested in **** but then go on to say they don't have any real experience, so, should I just stop looking for new playmates into them and just be thankful for the one who know's me well? And just treat any new contact as 'vanilla' meets?

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

I'm on a fetish site for that side of things. Any one I meet on here, I dont mention it to, unless they bring it up.

There are quite a lot of people on here that are also on the same site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm on a fetish site for that side of things. Any one I meet on here, I dont mention it to, unless they bring it up.

There are quite a lot of people on here that are also on the same site "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with aiming high and hoping!

If you have to accept some more 'vanilla' fun in the meantime that's your choice - just don't ever let your standards slip! You may have to adopt a 'trial and error' approach - after all there's many in the virtual world that will lay claim to being masters of all sorts but actually just muppets (just look at how many sad twats have the 50 shades references somewhere on their profiles!).

Good luck and hope you manage to find some good fun of whatever kink you're seeking!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

True fetishists need no introduction, we gravitate to each other naturally.

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By *ub bbwWoman
over a year ago

oldbury

I think conversation is key here if you get chance to bring it up in conversation why not you never know. I didn't think I'd find anyone seriously into same stuff as me but I did so don't give up.

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By *oxy_minx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I'm on a fetish site for that side of things. Any one I meet on here, I dont mention it to, unless they bring it up.

There are quite a lot of people on here that are also on the same site "

I'm on another site as well, but unfortunately, it's pretty quiet up my neck of the woods

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

We've always kept the two seperate. Not really opposed to mixing it we've just never found people we trust enough or on our wavelength to mix it with! Lol.

And there are so many muppets/masters about aswell lol.

Probably better off at fetish type munches and such rather than here if that is what you are looking for. To much to sort through on here.

You never know though! Good luck.

Xxx

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian

Don't know about your local area but deffo lots of ppl who on Fab as well as the fetish site....we were surprised how many we see @ fabsocials who we've also seen @ Munches.

We always check the interest list!

We show in our pics that we swingers as well as kinksters,makes it easy for ppl to see if we for them or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm on a fetish site for that side of things. Any one I meet on here, I dont mention it to, unless they bring it up.

There are quite a lot of people on here that are also on the same site

I'm on another site as well, but unfortunately, it's pretty quiet up my neck of the woods "

Get involved on the forums, love pics, click that you may attend events as the more active profiles are the ones that show earlier in the location searches and that way more people should see your profile.

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By *oxy_minx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Nothing wrong with aiming high and hoping!

If you have to accept some more 'vanilla' fun in the meantime that's your choice - just don't ever let your standards slip! You may have to adopt a 'trial and error' approach - after all there's many in the virtual world that will lay claim to being masters of all sorts but actually just muppets (just look at how many sad twats have the 50 shades references somewhere on their profiles!).

Good luck and hope you manage to find some good fun of whatever kink you're seeking!! "

Yes, it is the 50 shades I'm having a dig at!

No way would I allow someone with no experience experiment on me! But some how everyone has because a expert!

I would however, never drop my standards, but some men do seem to feel intimidated that they cannot satisfy my needs, even though I wouldn't be looking for that from any or every meet I have as people know a lot of trust needs to be there

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By *oxy_minx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"True fetishists need no introduction, we gravitate to each other naturally. "

I've heard that and I will admit I was quite shocked, that they had read me correctly within a few minutes of meeting!

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"True fetishists need no introduction, we gravitate to each other naturally.

I've heard that and I will admit I was quite shocked, that they had read me correctly within a few minutes of meeting! "

Definitely experienced that in the past to.... Just not enough lol

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By *oxy_minx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"True fetishists need no introduction, we gravitate to each other naturally.

I've heard that and I will admit I was quite shocked, that they had read me correctly within a few minutes of meeting!

Definitely experienced that in the past to.... Just not enough lol"

Oh yes, and that was before they even knew I was sub and like you I wish there were more!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mix the two, here's fer shaggin'

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By *oxy_minx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I don't mix the two, here's fer shaggin' "

Surely it's both???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mix the two, here's fer shaggin'

Surely it's both???"

I'm sure it is just not for me

I've never mixed the two, that's why I joined here in the first place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mix the two, here's fer shaggin' "

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By *oxy_minx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I don't mix the two, here's fer shaggin'

+ 1 "

So where do you get the other?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mix the two, here's fer shaggin'

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So where do you get the other?"

Who me? or QuietlyKinkyMe?

I go to Fet events on occassion but more likely play at private parties these days

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By *oxy_minx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I don't mix the two, here's fer shaggin'

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So where do you get the other?

Who me? or QuietlyKinkyMe?

I go to Fet events on occassion but more likely play at private parties these days "

Either or! But quiet up here, haven't seen any munches being advertised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm on a fetish site for that side of things. Any one I meet on here, I dont mention it to, unless they bring it up.

There are quite a lot of people on here that are also on the same site

I'm on another site as well, but unfortunately, it's pretty quiet up my neck of the woods "

Not as quiet as you think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm on a fetish site for that side of things. Any one I meet on here, I dont mention it to, unless they bring it up.

There are quite a lot of people on here that are also on the same site "

This x10

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing wrong with aiming high and hoping!

If you have to accept some more 'vanilla' fun in the meantime that's your choice - just don't ever let your standards slip! You may have to adopt a 'trial and error' approach - after all there's many in the virtual world that will lay claim to being masters of all sorts but actually just muppets (just look at how many sad twats have the 50 shades references somewhere on their profiles!).

Good luck and hope you manage to find some good fun of whatever kink you're seeking!!

Yes, it is the 50 shades I'm having a dig at!

No way would I allow someone with no experience experiment on me! But some how everyone has because a expert!

I would however, never drop my standards, but some men do seem to feel intimidated that they cannot satisfy my needs, even though I wouldn't be looking for that from any or every meet I have as people know a lot of trust needs to be there "

Your true master would just be your master without effort on his part on or yours. He would know where he can't go because somehow you would have communicated that to him whislt retaining your submissive status within the fledgling relationship honeymoon period. If he knows his stuff he'll have been expecting it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wise words

before you go into a dynamic and are owned/submissive, conversation into what, when, who, previous experience, expectations and boundaries need to be clarified.

Only with good knowledge and trust can you begin a strong dynamic imo.

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