FabSwingers.com forum: Post sex cuddles!

By *ot_Guy999 OP Man
over a year ago

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So... to cuddle or not to cuddle... that is the question?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't want to meet someone that doesn't like cuddles afterwards

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By *ttentiveRabbitMan
over a year ago

Lymington

Like asking me if I’d want to breathe after lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just blow your load and run away like a real man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuddle!!

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

I have to say OP in my humble, and somewhat brutally honest opinion, this is a silly question. However! It depends on what for you constitutes a cuddle.

For example; if I was to give my partner a damn good seeing to where we’re both hot and sweaty afterwards and we lay or sat next to each other and I placed my arm around them and held them close then of course! Cuddles are brilliant.

If, on the other hand after the same scenario my mountainous size was to swamp them in an embrace so crushing, with my arm pit hair tickling their nostrils, then no. Cuddles are very encroaching.

Go for the former

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

With my partner cuddles please, even if there's been no sex. With casual partners not thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So... to cuddle or not to cuddle... that is the question? "

I never say no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With Mr J most definitely yes, on a meet no.

Miss S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Next you’ll be asking me to give them my name.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it. I even like the thought of cuddling her after she's been with another man or after a meet.

Didn't think I'd ever say this before I joined this site.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

With the Mr yes, I love the sleepy post orgasm cuddles, with others not so much.

Mrs

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By *eastXMan
over a year ago

London

Depends on the level of emotional engagement.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Always, if I don't think they're the type to do that, then I wouldn't be sleeping with them.

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By *ot_Guy999 OP Man
over a year ago

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I genuinely expected more cuddlers in here... seems that isn't the case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I genuinely expected more cuddlers in here... seems that isn't the case

You only need one

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm a cuddler.

For me it's a friendliness thing. I want that level of emotional intimacy during a meet. I like you, we gave each other pleasure - cuddles seem natural in that context

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With a new meet Absolutely not.

I don't mind a chat and a brief round up but no I wouldn't want to get intimate in any other way

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Yes. I generally wouldn't have sex with somebody I'd not be comfortable cuddling with anyway. But add that on to just enjoying it, it is a big yes.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I'm not a cuddler.

With the important people I do like to bask in the afterglow for a while beside each other, either talking shit or in that peaceful silence that doesn't need to be filled, fingers tracing and teasing with no real intent beyond to make sure that the moment we part is the moment the need is right back.

But mostly I want people to fuck off after the fun part.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I'm not a cuddler.

But mostly I want people to fuck off after the fun part."

Nope, sorry! I'll be laying there just talking to you none stop in a very close embrace.

Heaven for you, I know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm definitely up for cuddles after but quite often I can't help but start playing again

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"I'm not a cuddler.

But mostly I want people to fuck off after the fun part.

Nope, sorry! I'll be laying there just talking to you none stop in a very close embrace.

Heaven for you, I know. "

It's a good job I'm a masochist really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Noooo! Definitely not, I'm out of there as soon as we're done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not a cuddler.

But mostly I want people to fuck off after the fun part.

Nope, sorry! I'll be laying there just talking to you none stop in a very close embrace.

Heaven for you, I know.

It's a good job I'm a masochist really

I’d fuck off after you lick my starfish

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"So... to cuddle or not to cuddle... that is the question? "

Not with casual fab partners. Only with a GF

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With my partner cuddles please, even if there's been no sex. With casual partners not thank you. "

Exactly that

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By *isge BeathaWoman
over a year ago

Here, There and Everywhere

a post sex spoon or cuddle.

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By *ot_Guy999 OP Man
over a year ago

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Surely more the merrier?

Share the love people

haha!

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle

I like a woman that cuddles my cock with her

Mouth.. is that on topic??

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By *ot_Guy999 OP Man
over a year ago

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"I like a woman that cuddles my cock with her

Mouth.. is that on topic??

Maybe snoozy 69s need to become a thing haha

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By *lemFandango23TV/TS
over a year ago

Sou City Centre

Cuddles before and after, they are the only way

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"Maybe snoozy 69s need to become a thing haha"

Oh god no.

69s suck in lame way.

Someone capable of falling asleep during one of my blowjobs is a heretic.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Maybe snoozy 69s need to become a thing haha

Oh god no.

69s suck in lame way.

Someone capable of falling asleep during one of my blowjobs is a heretic."

Challenge accepted

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By *herry delightWoman
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

I have to be honest I only cuddle if they what to as I don't like cuddles.

Recover, A hug and go. X

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"Challenge accepted "

Look you. I'm already compromising my moral code by even considering consorting with a Scouser. Do not be disrespecting my blow jobs

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By *uffolklad2021Man
over a year ago

Brandon

Couldn’t sleep with someone who didn’t want a cuddle. I give great cuddles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With my partner cuddles please, even if there's been no sex. With casual partners not thank you. "

Aren’t they worthy enough ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always cuddles after. One of the best parts of the whole naked experience

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Cuddles are very high on list on the manual for a better sex life.

In fact number 3 if you do it alpha abetically

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By *errocaWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

Always cuddles... I like the legs tangled in each other.. Giggling and basking in the after sex glow.

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"Always cuddles... I like the legs tangled in each other.. Giggling and basking in the after sex glow. "

Yes giggling and a bit of basking in there too subsection 12

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By *ueryMan
over a year ago

london

"Just blow your load and run away like a real man."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly, I'm perfectly ok with them just leaving straight after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely more the merrier?

Share the love people

haha!"

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

Couldn't even consider having sex with someone who didn't cuddle before, during & after sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuddling to me is romantic, there's very few people in this world I want to be romantic with.

Lots I'd like to have sex with though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With my partner cuddles please, even if there's been no sex. With casual partners not thank you.

Aren’t they worthy enough ? "

Cuddles like kisses are intimate and for partners not for casual hook ups which lets be honest this site is predominantly about surely!

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

Cuddle

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Intriguing.

I'm quite surprised with some of the answers on here.

I rarely deny my tactile tendencies. A sharing of a post-coital cuddle or — dare I say it — pillow talk is quite benign in comparison when two people have shared the effects of copulation, sweat, pheromones and breath.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With my partner cuddles please, even if there's been no sex. With casual partners not thank you.

Aren’t they worthy enough ?

Cuddles like kisses are intimate and for partners not for casual hook ups which lets be honest this site is predominantly about surely!"

Oh yes, I am not disagreeing with that perspective at all.

I was just interested in the reasons behind wanting to give yourself sexually to someone but refusing that same person a cuddle after.

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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago

Bath

To not cuddle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what she wants. If its a cuddle then she will get a cuddle. If its a fuck and go ide go. Simples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With my partner cuddles please, even if there's been no sex. With casual partners not thank you.

Aren’t they worthy enough ?

Cuddles like kisses are intimate and for partners not for casual hook ups which lets be honest this site is predominantly about surely!

Oh yes, I am not disagreeing with that perspective at all.

I was just interested in the reasons behind wanting to give yourself sexually to someone but refusing that same person a cuddle after. "

I'd give them a hug goodbye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With my partner cuddles please, even if there's been no sex. With casual partners not thank you.

Aren’t they worthy enough ?

Cuddles like kisses are intimate and for partners not for casual hook ups which lets be honest this site is predominantly about surely!

Oh yes, I am not disagreeing with that perspective at all.

I was just interested in the reasons behind wanting to give yourself sexually to someone but refusing that same person a cuddle after.

I'd give them a hug goodbye. "

With a bueno ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With my partner cuddles please, even if there's been no sex. With casual partners not thank you.

Aren’t they worthy enough ?

Cuddles like kisses are intimate and for partners not for casual hook ups which lets be honest this site is predominantly about surely!

Oh yes, I am not disagreeing with that perspective at all.

I was just interested in the reasons behind wanting to give yourself sexually to someone but refusing that same person a cuddle after.

I'd give them a hug goodbye.

With a bueno ? "

I have to supply parting gifts?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"With my partner cuddles please, even if there's been no sex. With casual partners not thank you.

Aren’t they worthy enough ? "

The reason I don't cuddle our casual partners is because everyone we've met has made it very clear that they don't want to engage in cuddling with me. After several attempts by me to have a post coital embrace with different guys I stopped to save myself from further rejection. I think the question is probably

'aren't I worthy?'

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"With my partner cuddles please, even if there's been no sex. With casual partners not thank you.

Aren’t they worthy enough ?

Cuddles like kisses are intimate and for partners not for casual hook ups which lets be honest this site is predominantly about surely!

Oh yes, I am not disagreeing with that perspective at all.

I was just interested in the reasons behind wanting to give yourself sexually to someone but refusing that same person a cuddle after.

I'd give them a hug goodbye.

With a bueno ?

I have to supply parting gifts? "

Wait. Is it not standard to provide a parting snack if they did a good job?

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"With my partner cuddles please, even if there's been no sex. With casual partners not thank you.

Aren’t they worthy enough ?

'aren't I worthy?'"

Aw, that makes me sad

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"With my partner cuddles please, even if there's been no sex. With casual partners not thank you.

Aren’t they worthy enough ?

Cuddles like kisses are intimate and for partners not for casual hook ups which lets be honest this site is predominantly about surely!"

There's this too.

I don't know if men find it awkward in front of my partner or they just don't want the intimacy that a cuddle implies in case I 'get the wrong idea' I don't know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With my partner cuddles please, even if there's been no sex. With casual partners not thank you.

Aren’t they worthy enough ?

Cuddles like kisses are intimate and for partners not for casual hook ups which lets be honest this site is predominantly about surely!

Oh yes, I am not disagreeing with that perspective at all.

I was just interested in the reasons behind wanting to give yourself sexually to someone but refusing that same person a cuddle after.

I'd give them a hug goodbye.

With a bueno ?

I have to supply parting gifts?

Wait. Is it not standard to provide a parting snack if they did a good job?"

I could stretch to a mini mars bar. That's it.

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

Oh you have to have cwtches afterwards , goes without saying x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"With my partner cuddles please, even if there's been no sex. With casual partners not thank you.

Aren’t they worthy enough ?

'aren't I worthy?'

Aw, that makes me sad

I'm not sad

but I am a realist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So... to cuddle or not to cuddle... that is the question? "

I find this really odd (just my opinion). Cuddles and kisses are for your partner? I couldn't be affectionate with a stranger, I find that kind of intimacy a personal thing, and not saying it's wrong , as each to their own. Personally it's a no for us x

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"I'd give them a hug goodbye.

With a bueno ?

I have to supply parting gifts?

Wait. Is it not standard to provide a parting snack if they did a good job?

I could stretch to a mini mars bar. That's it. "

Ah.

I'm gonna pretend I don't keep a snack drawer stocked with my favourite people's favourite chocolate bars specifically for parting gifts then

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

I wasn’t before but now I’m game for a cuddle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With my partner cuddles please, even if there's been no sex. With casual partners not thank you.

Aren’t they worthy enough ?

Cuddles like kisses are intimate and for partners not for casual hook ups which lets be honest this site is predominantly about surely!

Oh yes, I am not disagreeing with that perspective at all.

I was just interested in the reasons behind wanting to give yourself sexually to someone but refusing that same person a cuddle after. "

I think it's different for guys if I'm honest, most guys are happy to fuck and go, as I'm sure some ladies are. But isn't the whole point of swinging the fun without the strings? When cuddles and affection are in the mix, maybe the lines become blurred, just a theory x

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"With my partner cuddles please, even if there's been no sex. With casual partners not thank you.

Aren’t they worthy enough ?

'aren't I worthy?'

Aw, that makes me sad

I'm not sad

but I am a realist. "

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My invitation to Claridges still stands (in horizontal fashion

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"With my partner cuddles please, even if there's been no sex. With casual partners not thank you.

Aren’t they worthy enough ?

'aren't I worthy?'

Aw, that makes me sad

I'm not sad

but I am a realist.

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My invitation to Claridges still stands (in horizontal fashion

You've restored my faith in human nature

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I've always cuddled after. I'm quite affectionate and tactile, doesn't mean I've started to run through the seating arrangements of the wedding (okay, I lied) but I like having that little bubble extended for a bit longer.

It's intimate and rather sweet. I like people who are comfortable sharing that side of themselves with me, knowing it's not going to lead to declarations of love but enjoying the moment for what it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d meet for cuddles alone but maybe I’m weird haha

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Oh you have to have cwtches afterwards , goes without saying x"

Anyone can cuddle, but only the Welsh can cwtch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With my partner cuddles please, even if there's been no sex. With casual partners not thank you. "

Agreed x

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By *ot_Guy999 OP Man
over a year ago

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"I'd give them a hug goodbye.

With a bueno ?

I have to supply parting gifts?

Wait. Is it not standard to provide a parting snack if they did a good job?

I could stretch to a mini mars bar. That's it.

Ah.

I'm gonna pretend I don't keep a snack drawer stocked with my favourite people's favourite chocolate bars specifically for parting gifts then

Secretly you fly around the room on a ladder picking sweets like the candy man from willy wonka... haha

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london

"Cuddle!!

Has to be a cuddle after

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