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What are the point of winks

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By *rhuges OP   Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

I've had quite a few couples leave wink. I generally reply with a polite message after reading their profile.

The message thanks them for their wink mentions what I interests we have in common and would love to have a chat with them.

The messages are read ,then nothing .

So what was the point of winking at me in the first place,,,

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

A wink is not a guaranteed chat. It's just a preliminary "I like you". That can change after the first message and especially picture, if there is no attraction

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

To help dash the dreams of the unloved!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally pointless

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts


"I've had quite a few couples leave wink. I generally reply with a polite message after reading their profile.

The message thanks them for their wink mentions what I interests we have in common and would love to have a chat with them.

The messages are read ,then nothing .

So what was the point of winking at me in the first place,,,"

I think it's just a misspelling. Should have been an "A" not an "I"

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

OP - mix it up and try some different tactics. Maybe the next few you get, just wink back and leave it - see whether that makes a difference. Or maybe try a different response.

If one thing doesn’t work then stop using that approach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wink to show we’re interested, if we get a wink back then we send a well thought out message. Just ages sending lots of messages to people who aren’t interested.

Likewise if we get a wink we assume they’re interested and want to see if we are before messaging.

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

Who knows.. its like one of life's biggest mystery really lol

Scientist of the future will look at fab and be baffled by the wink feature of this site. Many theories will be hypothesise and none will come any closer to the truth lol be like the mystery of stonehenge all over again lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A wink is not a contract - but it's very nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've accidentally winked people before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone winks and doesn't respond when I wink back, I just assume they have an eye twitch and move on with my life.

Plenty more eyes in the sea.

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
over a year ago

South West London

I get quite a fair of winks from women however they dont message back when you thank them for it so dont see the sense

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