FabSwingers.com forum: Do you EVER change your mind and

By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

admit you could have been wrong about something or somebody?

If you do, how do you explain it to your friends and family?

Can be light hearted or serious.... I am in a good mood

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

"admit you could have been wrong about something or somebody?"

It’s no good OP, I’ve read it several times but still don’t understand, it‘s not a concept I am familiar with.

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"admit you could have been wrong about something or somebody?

It’s no good OP, I’ve read it several times but still don’t understand, it‘s not a concept I am familiar with.

Sorry, I should have explained that truly perfect people should reveal themselves on this thread as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"admit you could have been wrong about something or somebody?

If you do, how do you explain it to your friends and family?

Can be light hearted or serious.... I am in a good mood

Lol

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I am never wrong.

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"admit you could have been wrong about something or somebody?

If you do, how do you explain it to your friends and family?

Can be light hearted or serious.... I am in a good mood

I was wrong once. 1984 was a tough for us all.

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"I am never wrong."

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"admit you could have been wrong about something or somebody?

If you do, how do you explain it to your friends and family?

Can be light hearted or serious.... I am in a good mood

I was wrong once. 1984 was a tough for us all."
Just the once huh... did you admit it at the time?

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

Yes frequently, though in later years I've learnt to withhold judgement until they've been a twat

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"admit you could have been wrong about something or somebody?

If you do, how do you explain it to your friends and family?

Can be light hearted or serious.... I am in a good mood

I was wrong once. 1984 was a tough for us all. Just the once huh... did you admit it at the time?

Of course! In defeat, I was a most magnanimous 7 year old. They all said so after the case.

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Yes frequently, though in later years I've learnt to withhold judgement until they've been a twat

Maybe I should take advice from you - I am way too outspoken (part of my hyperactive mind)

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"admit you could have been wrong about something or somebody?

If you do, how do you explain it to your friends and family?

Can be light hearted or serious.... I am in a good mood

I was wrong once. 1984 was a tough for us all. Just the once huh... did you admit it at the time?

Of course! In defeat, I was a most magnanimous 7 year old. They all said so after the case."
Priceless... and such a big word for a 7 year old!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

No, once my minds made up that's it x

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"No, once my minds made up that's it x"

I wish I could be that certain at times. I often have buyer's regret for example.

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Very very rare, although one of my closest friends we first met as we were neighbours and I went round angry to complain about noise, she shouted at me and slammed door in my face, but that was a unique situation.

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Very very rare, although one of my closest friends we first met as we were neighbours and I went round angry to complain about noise, she shouted at me and slammed door in my face, but that was a unique situation. "

I have experienced that change of mind about people whom I initially did not like - I can relate to that.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"admit you could have been wrong about something or somebody?

If you do, how do you explain it to your friends and family?

Can be light hearted or serious.... I am in a good mood

I’m big enough to admit to being wrong at times.

Sadly it tends to be where I have viewed someone in a positive light and then they let their true personality shine.

The most recent person to do this seemed to have pulled the wool over many peoples eyes here and it was only when we got together to talk about our collective experiences we realised what a vile pathetic person she is!

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

"Yes frequently, though in later years I've learnt to withhold judgement until they've been a twat

Maybe I should take advice from you - I am way too outspoken (part of my hyperactive mind)

Oh the inner voice is probably screaming all sorts of things just I've learnt to temper the verbal, my face on the other hand is not a very good poker face

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"admit you could have been wrong about something or somebody?

If you do, how do you explain it to your friends and family?

Can be light hearted or serious.... I am in a good mood

What about you, OP? Is there a story lurking backstage you would share with us?

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

Nope 99.9 % of the time hubby hits the mark with how people are and will be so we tend to agree with his thoughts

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Yes frequently, though in later years I've learnt to withhold judgement until they've been a twat

Maybe I should take advice from you - I am way too outspoken (part of my hyperactive mind)

Oh the inner voice is probably screaming all sorts of things just I've learnt to temper the verbal, my face on the other hand is not a very good poker face

I know that feeling... my natural default is that when something comes into my head, something funny or just an opinion, it HAS to be said. I cannot send it back into my head! But like you I have learnt over the years that I have to temper it.

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"admit you could have been wrong about something or somebody?

If you do, how do you explain it to your friends and family?

Can be light hearted or serious.... I am in a good mood

What about you, OP? Is there a story lurking backstage you would share with us?

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Oh heck, I could write a book about the things I have done, mostly because I did not think through the possible consequences of my actions.

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Nope 99.9 % of the time hubby hits the mark with how people are and will be so we tend to agree with his thoughts "
Does he give private lessons?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes if I realise that I'm wrong then I don't have any issues saying so

I then apologise

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Yes if I realise that I'm wrong then I don't have any issues saying so

I then apologise "

I have to do a lot of that.... the apologising!

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I have experienced that change of mind about people whom I initially did not like - I can relate to that.

It was an unusual circumstance - both having very bad days for different reasons. Met again later and got along famously she quickly became a close friend.

But most of the time I can tell pretty much instantly upon meeting in real life if I will like someone or not, I’ve also almost always been right in sensing someone “not quite right” - except with exes

was shit at sizing them up!

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

All the time there are always new and better ways of thinking and doing...

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

if your wrong then the decent thing to do is apologise,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes if I realise that I'm wrong then I don't have any issues saying so

I then apologise

I have to do a lot of that.... the apologising!

I just count to ten and get it over with

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"All the time there are always new and better ways of thinking and doing..."
I like that way of thinking!

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"if your wrong then the decent thing to do is apologise,,"

I agree - but some people don't / cannot recognise they were wrong?

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Only when they have shown that they are actually rotten inside.

I like to see the best in people, but will drop them like a hot stone, once they have proven themselves to be a wrongun

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

Yup, been there done that..

Sometimes you just have to accept you for something wrong and say so sorry, I will never wear socks with sandals again..

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

With people, first Impressions matter to me and if I don't like you, I'm unlikely to change my mind.

In terms of situations, everyone has been wrong at some point, just own your shit and move on. Easier said than done of course because I know although I can move on, others may not be able to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This will be seen and answered by the wife

I’m never wrong and sussed Paula was into women a long time before she opened up

Now I’m not being arrogant on this one

But I’m definitely gloating for Two reason

1st the one mentioned above

2nd what man doesn’t want his beautiful wife to enjoy women with him

It’s fine to admit to being wrong but when your right your right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time.

I love being proved that I was or am wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This will be seen and answered by the wife

I’m never wrong and sussed Paula was into women a long time before she opened up

Now I’m not being arrogant on this one

But I’m definitely gloating for Two reason

1st the one mentioned above

2nd what man doesn’t want his beautiful wife to enjoy women with him

It’s fine to admit to being wrong but when your right your right "

Dear sexy handsome husband: I know how to admit when I’m wrong about something because almost never I’m wrong about something, unlike you, stubborn as hell. I can be showing you proof of you being wrong and you still saying you’re right

PS: I never said you were wrong about me being bi curious, I just never said it before I spat it out.

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"admit you could have been wrong about something or somebody?

If you do, how do you explain it to your friends and family?

Can be light hearted or serious.... I am in a good mood

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not really I'm a good judge of character a person is either nice or not and i judge on that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are all imperfect. That's what makes us human. Realising and accepting that is the key....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was wrong just the once. ..it was a time that I thought I was wrong, but it turned out I was actually right the 1st time.

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