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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When the person replies, saying

'not for me, thanks' or, words to that effect?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only block people that annoy me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it's childish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, we only block those that annoys us or have gone too far. I don’t see a reason to block someone who has been perfectly polite

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When the person replies, saying

'not for me, thanks' or, words to that effect?"

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only block people that annoy me. "

Snap.. Or offensive people

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I haven’t blocked anyone on here. Yet.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Nope

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

No I only block if someone is rude or abusive towards me.

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By *ust Ms LovinWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

I rarely ever block i like the entertainment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only block people that annoy me. "

I wear that like a badge of honor

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Only block those that are vile ! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never blocked because I haven't had to on account of not being a woman maybe? And I'm a friendly sausage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, we don’t block unless the person is being annoying, disrespectful or getting caught lying to us.

In that case is an absolute no-no and a total ban.

Vetonna

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blocked an account tonight, it joined 6 mins before sending a friend request and not much info on it, just got a feeling not legit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I only block if they're rude or annoying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, only if they are rude or pester me

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"Never blocked because I haven't had to on account of not being a woman maybe? And I like a friendly sausage"

Brucey! Who knew?

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle


"No it's childish "

No, it's not childish.

It's self preservation. It's final. It's definite.

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

No I have blocked people for abuse and fake profiles though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes. Don't really see the point in having them keep popping up in searches if they're not interested, and saves me from messaging them again if I forget

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never blocked because I haven't had to on account of not being a woman maybe? And I like a friendly sausage

Brucey! Who knew? "

Hahaha you bitccch

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"Never blocked because I haven't had to on account of not being a woman maybe? And I like a friendly sausage

Brucey! Who knew?

Hahaha you bitccch"

Brucey wants the big D everyone…

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I wonder if I annoy an 'fabbers'

By putting up odd 'thread' on the (forums) for discussion? lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's very rare that I hit the block button. Someone has to be repeatedly offensive or similar for me to block them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh sure. Love a block, me. Sometimes I can’t even remember why I’ve blocked someone. But there they are, blocked

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wonder if I annoy an 'fabbers'

By putting up odd 'thread' on the (forums) for discussion? lol. "

'any' 'the'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No it's childish

No, it's not childish.

It's self preservation. It's final. It's definite."

Or you know, you can just unblock them..

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By *iggy5Man
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

I've blocked a fair few it has to be said. Peeps I don't need to see in searches or those looking for very contrasting things.

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle


"No it's childish

No, it's not childish.

It's self preservation. It's final. It's definite.

Or you know, you can just unblock them.."

It's a good way to end a stream of messages though

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By *ucifer And MazikeenCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Very rare we use the block only if someone is rude or offensive we only have a handful of people on there just tend to delete there message and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only those that spread depression through post

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"When the person replies, saying

'not for me, thanks' or, words to that effect?"

Lol why. Would you its not like they are going to contact you is it .and its their right to say no

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By *burns7Man
over a year ago

walsall

If someone says no then that’s it’s move on I’d say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only block people who do about 20 status updates per day

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By *ttentiveRabbitMan
over a year ago

Lymington

There has been a couple of people (males) I should block, but finding it fascinating how mentally unhinged some are, and borderline obsessive.

I’d be quite concerned if I was female the amount that come across predatorily stalkerish

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By *aughtyWeeMrs1Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I only block anyone who thinks it’s acceptable to be abusive and I’ve had a few I’ve never spoken to before give me abuse in their first message. Pointless

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By *burns7Man
over a year ago

walsall


"There has been a couple of people (males) I should block, but finding it fascinating how mentally unhinged some are, and borderline obsessive.

I’d be quite concerned if I was female the amount that come across predatorily stalkerish "

When you say you ain’t interested and they still message again like same week? Fucking annoying ain’t it

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

No. Some are on forums & it ruins some of the game threads. It’s possible to still chat & have fun…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. Some are on forums & it ruins some of the game threads. It’s possible to still chat & have fun…

"

I want to steal that hooters outfit. Wrong thread?

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree


"No. Some are on forums & it ruins some of the game threads. It’s possible to still chat & have fun…

I want to steal that hooters outfit. Wrong thread?"

Nooooooo. It’s my best outfit

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"No it's childish "

Many people block everyone who they are not going to meet, it prevents them from showing in their searches.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

I try not to block too many negative waves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder if I annoy an 'fabbers'

By putting up odd 'thread' on the (forums) for discussion? lol. "

Don't worry about it.

I like your unusual posting style. It's cool.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Yes I do.

But not in a hissy fit angry block way.

Just so that I don't bother them again.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"No it's childish

Many people block everyone who they are not going to meet, it prevents them from showing in their searches."

Yes, I'll block people if I'm not what they're looking for.

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling


"No it's childish

Many people block everyone who they are not going to meet, it prevents them from showing in their searches."

Yes, exactly this. I block if I got polite no thanks,

not for me. And it’s not because I am angry or annoyed and don’t want them to see my profile. It’s because I don’t want them to appear in my search or local updates so I won’t contact them in a few months again. Should there be a feature on this site like mark profile as “not interested” that stops it from search and local updates - my block list probably would be empty.

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

No, I block very few people. Only those who are annoying me (or if I know from their forum posts that we wouldn't get on!)

I don't message many people, so if I get a "no thanks" I'll remember without the need to block.

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By *anae21Woman
over a year ago

Nearer than you think

I'll block those I've already said no to. Why message again?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

only block if a issue

if not interested send a not interested message

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By *burns7Man
over a year ago

walsall


"only block if a issue

if not interested send a not interested message "

Agreed

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

I only block those that aren’t on same wavelength as us and are particularly rude when we say no thank you or if they post endless pics of something not for us. Not because we don’t like them just because we don’t want to see it frequently

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By *assyleigh92Couple
over a year ago

Coventry


"No it's childish

No, it's not childish.

It's self preservation. It's final. It's definite.

Or you know, you can just unblock them..

It's a good way to end a stream of messages though "

This for me- the chatting to themselves in our inbox, waste of time reading it. Persistent messaging after saying no thank you also annoys me.

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By *heSofaDestroyersCouple
over a year ago

HereAndThere


"It's very rare that I hit the block button. Someone has to be repeatedly offensive or similar for me to block them."

Same for us or if they block us we also block them in return

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Only quite clearly, I am not in their preference range because simply time is precious

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire


"No. Some are on forums & it ruins some of the game threads. It’s possible to still chat & have fun…

"
,, this,,

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

Nope only people who we block have been rude, nasty or abusive towards us usually for us saying no thanks your not for us

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By *ttentiveRabbitMan
over a year ago

Lymington


"There has been a couple of people (males) I should block, but finding it fascinating how mentally unhinged some are, and borderline obsessive.

I’d be quite concerned if I was female the amount that come across predatorily stalkerish

When you say you ain’t interested and they still message again like same week? Fucking annoying ain’t it "

Exactly that, it gets to the point you wonder when it will actually sink in

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

I never block, ignoring can be far more effective when someone, male, female, or couple get on their high horse.

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By *heGigglersCouple
over a year ago

Butlins Minehead (for the weekend)


"No. Some are on forums & it ruins some of the game threads. It’s possible to still chat & have fun…

,, this,,"

The private note function is perfect for this situation. Well, as long as you are the type of person who reads a profile before sending a message

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By *lcoupleneCouple
over a year ago

morpeth


"When the person replies, saying

'not for me, thanks' or, words to that effect?"

We use blocking to filter it just stops us from seeing content we’re not interested in. It’s not that anyone has annoyed us just not for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When the person replies, saying

'not for me, thanks' or, words to that effect?"

It's been said before but yes, I block, it stops the same message one or two weeks later, where the sender has forgot or i get a second message asking why? Then a third asking but you never know? Try me out, then a forth message with a cock pic.....

I dont need to explain myself my profile explains it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block if there's no pic, intro, or if they've not read my bio. It's not personal per se. I get a lot of traffic and find it a necessary strategy. Also, taking no for a final answer isn't fashionable around here ime... I'll often respond politely first though.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"Never blocked because I haven't had to on account of not being a woman maybe? And I'm a friendly •LITTLE• sausage"

•

Little?!?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, so they don't contact me again if I'm not attracted to them.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

No i we only block bellends.

The mr

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By *uiet_69Man
over a year ago

Near

Block consistent messengers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In general, no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block if..

They don't appeal

They don't entice

They have a shit profile

They're too far away

They clearly haven't read my profile

They annoy me just by messaging

They don't have a profile pic

They have a profile pic I don't like

They send a crap message

They barely send a message

They wink repeatedly

They have new/I've noted often profiles

They live too far

They don't accomadate

They sound like a knobhead

I don't like their body

They have veris I don't like

They're too new

They live too close

They live too far

I'm just plain old fuckin not interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I block if..

They don't appeal

They don't entice

They have a shit profile

They're too far away

They clearly haven't read my profile

They annoy me just by messaging

They don't have a profile pic

They have a profile pic I don't like

They send a crap message

They barely send a message

They wink repeatedly

They have new/I've noted often profiles

They live too far

They don't accomadate

They sound like a knobhead

I don't like their body

They have veris I don't like

They're too new

They live too close

They live too far

I'm just plain old fuckin not interested "

* I do actually meet folk

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By *ustincider888Man
over a year ago

Preston Ish


"When the person replies, saying

'not for me, thanks' or, words to that effect?"

Most of the time.

There's no point stumbling across a profile that there's no interest in anymore.

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By *rummychuc32Woman
over a year ago

Coventry

Same here , didn't like to block at first,but when I replied not for me or something like that,I either got abuse or constant messages asking to change my mind .

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

No I don't block for that I might make a note on their profile so I remember but that's all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When the person replies, saying

'not for me, thanks' or, words to that effect?"

Probably not.

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By *ayna20Couple
over a year ago

Kent


"When the person replies, saying

'not for me, thanks' or, words to that effect?"

No, takes a lot for us to bother blocking

Usually it’s repeatedly messaging after we’ve replied that it’s a no for us (politely) that ends in a block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When the person replies, saying

'not for me, thanks' or, words to that effect?

No, takes a lot for us to bother blocking

Usually it’s repeatedly messaging after we’ve replied that it’s a no for us (politely) that ends in a block

"

Curious why it takes a lot to block though? Surely if there is no interest for a 1st message, why wait on a 2nd?

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

Manchester(ish).


"I block if..

They don't appeal

They don't entice

They have a shit profile

They're too far away

They clearly haven't read my profile

They annoy me just by messaging

They don't have a profile pic

They have a profile pic I don't like

They send a crap message

They barely send a message

They wink repeatedly

They have new/I've noted often profiles

They live too far

They don't accomadate

They sound like a knobhead

I don't like their body

They have veris I don't like

They're too new

They live too close

They live too far

I'm just plain old fuckin not interested

* I do actually meet folk "

Totally agree with this list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When the person replies, saying

'not for me, thanks' or, words to that effect?

No, takes a lot for us to bother blocking

Usually it’s repeatedly messaging after we’ve replied that it’s a no for us (politely) that ends in a block

Curious why it takes a lot to block though? Surely if there is no interest for a 1st message, why wait on a 2nd? "

And I've noted I've been blocked before even messaging if I've posted something on the forums that's clearly huffed someone

Which is nuts.. As I'd probs not even message them anyways, and it doesn't mean my forum comments aren't shown

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I never used to block people. I have taken to it since new year though, anyone that is an asshole and won't leave well enough alone after multiple clear no answers gets a block now.

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By *ookingtoseeMan
over a year ago

Southwick

I never know what the best thing to say is..

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I block after i say no thanks as i noticed after i say that, they keep sending me messages and wasting both of our times

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"Sometimes. Don't really see the point in having them keep popping up in searches if they're not interested, and saves me from messaging them again if I forget"

That is far too sensible!

Mike

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"When the person replies, saying

'not for me, thanks' or, words to that effect?

No, takes a lot for us to bother blocking

Usually it’s repeatedly messaging after we’ve replied that it’s a no for us (politely) that ends in a block

Curious why it takes a lot to block though? Surely if there is no interest for a 1st message, why wait on a 2nd?

And I've noted I've been blocked before even messaging if I've posted something on the forums that's clearly huffed someone

Which is nuts.. As I'd probs not even message them anyways, and it doesn't mean my forum comments aren't shown "

Loads of men on the forum block me...I obviously have that effect on men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never used to block people. I have taken to it since new year though, anyone that is an asshole and won't leave well enough alone after multiple clear no answers gets a block now."

I'm too old to be arsed to be 'nice' to some randomer I'm never gonna meet from the Internet

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By *edonandHellCouple
over a year ago

Stevenage old town

Just all single guys, way to many on here, none photo verified who have been on months on end.

People who don't have any verifications after months of being on here. Plus all the single guys acting like there in a couples relationship.

So we most definitely have a lost blocked list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, we only block those that annoys us or have gone too far. I don’t see a reason to block someone who has been perfectly polite

Mrs"

This for us too

Miss S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only block ppl for being ppl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block indiscriminately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not yet. Well except for blocking men from messaging me that is...

'I can turn you Gay if you give me a chance' was the last message I got of a 'guy' before I found the block button

But individuals? Nope not needed too as of yet. Shocking I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not yet. Well except for blocking men from messaging me that is...

'I can turn you Gay if you give me a chance' was the last message I got of a 'guy' before I found the block button

But individuals? Nope not needed too as of yet. Shocking I know "

But I really can though.

Give me a chance

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

close


"No, we don’t block unless the person is being annoying, disrespectful or getting caught lying to us.

In that case is an absolute no-no and a total ban.

Vetonna"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only block people who block people who blocked people yesterday

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london


"Oh sure. Love a block, me. Sometimes I can’t even remember why I’ve blocked someone. But there they are, blocked "

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london

I haven’t blocked anyone as of yet, but I would only block if they were rude or very

Very annoying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I haven’t blocked anyone as of yet, but I would only block if they were rude or very

Very annoying "

Quite easily.

Especially weird messages

"Big cock? Show me? Come now?"

No. No and no.

And 3am requests to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I haven’t blocked anyone as of yet, but I would only block if they were rude or very

Very annoying

Quite easily.

Especially weird messages

"Big cock? Show me? Come now?"

No. No and no.

And 3am requests to meet. "

Just don't open the messages. This is what I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I haven’t blocked anyone as of yet, but I would only block if they were rude or very

Very annoying

Quite easily.

Especially weird messages

"Big cock? Show me? Come now?"

No. No and no.

And 3am requests to meet. "

Before anyone asks, it wasn’t me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I haven’t blocked anyone as of yet, but I would only block if they were rude or very

Very annoying

Quite easily.

Especially weird messages

"Big cock? Show me? Come now?"

No. No and no.

And 3am requests to meet.

Just don't open the messages. This is what I do. "

Before anyone asks, this one was from me.

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

they have really got to piss me off to block,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"they have really got to piss me off to block,,"

Checked.

I need to Try harder

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

A few days ago I unblocked all the blocked folk from my profile.

So far it’s made absolutely no difference. I haven’t been inundated with stupid messages or dick pics and the status updates page isn’t annoying me. But that will change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A few days ago I unblocked all the blocked folk from my profile.

So far it’s made absolutely no difference. I haven’t been inundated with stupid messages or dick pics and the status updates page isn’t annoying me. But that will change."

Thank you. I can now perv again on your white ikea chest of drawers

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I haven’t blocked anyone as of yet, but I would only block if they were rude or very

Very annoying

Quite easily.

Especially weird messages

"Big cock? Show me? Come now?"

No. No and no.

And 3am requests to meet.

Just don't open the messages. This is what I do. "

They don't bother me. Just no interest in talking to them and easier to trim the fat where possible

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Well it can be a good idea, so you don't msg them again in the future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well it can be a good idea, so you don't msg them again in the future"

My thoughts. Saving everyone's time.

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By *wales_hotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I only block people that annoy me. "
same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only block people that annoy me. same here "

Hey stranger, where is my hug?

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

[Removed by poster at 08/02/23 18:40:54]

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By *oreAgainForeverCouple
over a year ago

doncaster

We got blocked yesterday as someone had sent us 3 exact same copy and pasted messages in the space of 2 weeks and after replying the first time to him saying he’s to far for us he continued to send we asked why he keeps sending the same message and he called us rude and blocked us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 08/02/23 18:40:54]"

That’s not how we remove a block by the way ^

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

If I get a no thanks politely or otherwise or deleted with no reply I block them. Not out of malice it saves me wasting my time or theirs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only when they say they love jaffa cakes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only when they say they love jaffa cakes "

I love Jaffa cakes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh sure. Love a block, me. Sometimes I can’t even remember why I’ve blocked someone. But there they are, blocked "

Yup. I regret this one

But my block list is sooooo loooooong, I’d never find you!

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london


"Oh sure. Love a block, me. Sometimes I can’t even remember why I’ve blocked someone. But there they are, blocked

Yup. I regret this one

But my block list is sooooo loooooong, I’d never find you!"

I haven’t blocked anyone so don’t know how you would unblock, I guess I will have to just make another account

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

Anyone else using this thread to see if they've been blocked by the prolific blockers? Oh, just me then.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

No ,I'd just write a profile note so I didn't make contact again.I only block pests or anyone who might annoy me on my updates.

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8


"A few days ago I unblocked all the blocked folk from my profile.

So far it’s made absolutely no difference. I haven’t been inundated with stupid messages or dick pics and the status updates page isn’t annoying me. But that will change.

Thank you. I can now perv again on your white ikea chest of drawers

Xx "

Oh you swine!!! Haha excellent spot but I’m afraid I’ve just sold them.

I’ll up my game next time!!

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth


"I only block people that annoy me. "

This

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon

Block button is a site tool. If I'm not interested, I block. Saves so much hassle.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"When the person replies, saying

'not for me, thanks' or, words to that effect?"

You can make a private note to remind you why not to message them again.

Otherwise you could block to prevent them coming up in searches.

Or you could just block because they hurt your feelings!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A few days ago I unblocked all the blocked folk from my profile.

So far it’s made absolutely no difference. I haven’t been inundated with stupid messages or dick pics and the status updates page isn’t annoying me. But that will change.

Thank you. I can now perv again on your white ikea chest of drawers

Xx

Oh you swine!!! Haha excellent spot but I’m afraid I’ve just sold them.

I’ll up my game next time!! "

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

Only people I block are the ones who annoy me. I have very good patience so if you get blocked by me it's means you are extremely annoying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only people I block are the ones who annoy me. I have very good patience so if you get blocked by me it's means you are extremely annoying "

Note: must try harder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've blocked people who I don't want to recieve messages from and shouldnt be viewing my profile

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By *ts the taking part thatMan
over a year ago

southampton


"No it's childish "

Why is it childish?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only block fellow clique member's

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Only block people who interact inappropriately, have extreme views or leave their messages unread for long time even though they have been on several times. Why would people block someone just because they viewed their profile is not something I understand but each to their own.

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling

I block profiles that I have not interaction with if they appear in my local updates but we aren’t match e.g. profile says no bi guys, looking for black only, bbc or their pics are off putting to me. Nothing personal, I just don’t want them pop up in my updates and clear space for others

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

My own little world

I've only blocked a few people on here and normally it's for persistent messaging when I've made it clear im not interested etc (was before I realised you could filter messages from blokes) never blocked anyone based on there updates or interactions on forums or if locations make it highly unlikely I'd ever meet said person anyways as not a profile nosey arse tbh rarely check profiles here tbh even locals

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

No as thats there choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but if I dont want certain groups of people looking at my profile, I will be very trigger happy at using the block option from their profile.

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis


"I block if..

They don't appeal

They don't entice

They have a shit profile

They're too far away

They clearly haven't read my profile

They annoy me just by messaging

They don't have a profile pic

They have a profile pic I don't like

They send a crap message

They barely send a message

They wink repeatedly

They have new/I've noted often profiles

They live too far

They don't accomadate

They sound like a knobhead

I don't like their body

They have veris I don't like

They're too new

They live too close

They live too far

I'm just plain old fuckin not interested "

Ditto!!!

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown


"When the person replies, saying

'not for me, thanks' or, words to that effect?"

Nope

If they can't take No for answer or throw abuse, then Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Block button is a site tool. If I'm not interested, I block. Saves so much hassle. "

You forgot to block me

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