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"Friends of mine are struggling on this site so what makes you reply? (Women) " People who read our profile, match our criteria and make an effort with their profile and message. | |||
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"Friends of mine are struggling on this site so what makes you reply? (Women) " What's your "friends" usual opener? | |||
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"People who read our profile, match our criteria and make an effort with their profile and message." This one | |||
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"Friends of mine are struggling on this site so what makes you reply? (Women) " My friend wants to know why your friend couldnt ask? | |||
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"Friends of mine are struggling on this site so what makes you reply? (Women) " This implies you are not struggling, so surely you can give your friends hints on how to successfully compose messages and chat to people? | |||
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"Friends of mine are struggling on this site so what makes you reply? (Women) People who read our profile, match our criteria and make an effort with their profile and message." Which is what i told him but i think he struggles with the engaging with conversation | |||
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"Friends of mine are struggling on this site so what makes you reply? (Women) " Is your friend your penis? | |||
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"Friends of mine are struggling on this site so what makes you reply? (Women) My friend wants to know why your friend couldnt ask? " He has currently come off this and spoke to me about this site not being able to fulfil his needs so now im showing him the replies | |||
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"Friends of mine are struggling on this site so what makes you reply? (Women) This implies you are not struggling, so surely you can give your friends hints on how to successfully compose messages and chat to people?" He messages women but doesnt get responses i told him maybe change the approach or add some more pictures | |||
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"Friends of mine are struggling on this site so what makes you reply? (Women) Is your friend your penis?" Haha my penis dont struggle | |||
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"Friends of mine are struggling on this site so what makes you reply? (Women) Is your friend your penis? Haha my penis dont struggle Why don't you help him? Can't you show him all the successful messages you send?" I have done but he thinks its down to looks ??????? | |||
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"Friends of mine are struggling on this site so what makes you reply? (Women) Is your friend your penis? Haha my penis dont struggle Why don't you help him? Can't you show him all the successful messages you send? I have done but he thinks its down to looks ???????" Because your profile shows so much of what you look like? | |||
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"Friends of mine are struggling on this site so what makes you reply? (Women) Is your friend your penis? Haha my penis dont struggle Why don't you help him? Can't you show him all the successful messages you send? I have done but he thinks its down to looks ??????? Because your profile shows so much of what you look like? " Its not available for men sorry mate ?? | |||
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"Friends of mine are struggling on this site so what makes you reply? (Women) " an interesting message not sexual and cake | |||
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"Friends of mine are struggling on this site so what makes you reply? (Women) " The best advice I can give is to send one message and leave it at that. I get people send 3,4 and 5 messages before I’ve even opened them. I just block them straight away x | |||
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"Friends of mine are struggling on this site so what makes you reply? (Women) The best advice I can give is to send one message and leave it at that. I get people send 3,4 and 5 messages before I’ve even opened them. I just block them straight away x" This x100! 'just checking you got my earlier message ' Why, where do you think it could have got to? It's an internal messaging service, not the Scout post. We got it we just haven't replied for whatever reason but in reality you've just made our decision for us... | |||
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"Friends of mine are struggling on this site so what makes you reply? (Women) Is your friend your penis? Haha my penis dont struggle Why don't you help him? Can't you show him all the successful messages you send? I have done but he thinks its down to looks ???????" Some/quite a lot of it will come down to looks. Your friend could write the world's best ever message, but if the person he's messaging doesn't fancy him, he's may still get a reply. No response is a response and all that. | |||
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"Love it when man sends me pics of his face says would you sit on this " That's quite funny | |||
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"I reply to most messages, the only ones I don't is dick pics, although I'm tempted to rate them Mrs " I used to reply to most messages, I’ve ignored quite a few lately. (Sorry op, I know you wanted women to reply!!) Some men are delusional with their icebreakers to straight males. | |||
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"Love it when man sends me pics of his face says would you sit on this That's quite funny " It's funny when I reply a cow wouldn't sit on that | |||
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"Love it when man sends me pics of his face says would you sit on this That's quite funny It's funny when I reply a cow wouldn't sit on that " Do you mind if I use that one? | |||
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"Love it when man sends me pics of his face says would you sit on this That's quite funny It's funny when I reply a cow wouldn't sit on that " Note to OP...ask women to sit on your face. A replies a reply. | |||
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"Love it when man sends me pics of his face says would you sit on this That's quite funny It's funny when I reply a cow wouldn't sit on that To be fair that does sound like a winner ?? Note to OP...ask women to sit on your face. A replies a reply. " | |||
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"Friends of mine are struggling on this site so what makes you reply? (Women) People who read our profile, match our criteria and make an effort with their profile and message." Simple. | |||
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"Love it when man sends me pics of his face says would you sit on this That's quite funny It's funny when I reply a cow wouldn't sit on that Do you mind if I use that one? " Of course you can. It's all about having fun on here | |||
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"Friends of mine are struggling on this site so what makes you reply? (Women) This implies you are not struggling, so surely you can give your friends hints on how to successfully compose messages and chat to people? He messages women but doesnt get responses i told him maybe change the approach or add some more pictures " That's good advice. Whoever told you to tell him that was quite right and is no doubt doing very well on Fab. Will you be taking the same advice? A | |||
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"Friends of mine are struggling on this site so what makes you reply? (Women) " How do their profiles look? Have they a good range of (non-cock pic) photos and a good bio with a bit of personality to it? Have they a veri or two? If not then that's why we don't reply. | |||
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"When someone reads my profile and sends a funny (that’s obviously subjective), engaging message without a dick pic. But it helps if they look good as well, ngl. " That’s a shame, my dick gets most of the laughs in general | |||
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"Love it when man sends me pics of his face says would you sit on this That's quite funny It's funny when I reply a cow wouldn't sit on that Do you mind if I use that one? Of course you can. It's all about having fun on here" Cows can't sit. We know this right? | |||
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"Love it when man sends me pics of his face says would you sit on this That's quite funny It's funny when I reply a cow wouldn't sit on that Do you mind if I use that one? Of course you can. It's all about having fun on here Cows can't sit. We know this right?" I googled csn cows sit before replying and surprisingly they can. And they're smug about it too. | |||
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"Friends of mine are struggling on this site so what makes you reply? (Women) Is your friend your penis? Haha my penis dont struggle Why don't you help him? Can't you show him all the successful messages you send? I have done but he thinks its down to looks ???????" Is your cock bigger than his? Lol! Or are you taller/thinner?/more muscular?/less hairy? than him? Not great if he doesn't have confidence in his looks. I'm not massively hung( puns?) up on looks like some women on the forum. I've been with guys shorter than me, guys taller, guys thinner than me, guys more muscular, guys chubbier than me and bigger than me. Penis size is not an issue for me except I haven't had an official micro penis or one that was...um....too big? Bald is not an issue either. I always remember the movie Fast and Furious 6 and the hottest guys were all bald or sporting a skinhead/buzzcut look! Vin Diesel, The Rock, Ludacris, Tyrese, Luke Evans. Your friend probably needs more confidence and information on how to present and approach women. | |||
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"I reply to most messages, the only ones I don't is dick pics, although I'm tempted to rate them Mrs I used to reply to most messages, I’ve ignored quite a few lately. (Sorry op, I know you wanted women to reply!!) Some men are delusional with their icebreakers to straight males. " We already know they are delusional as women. I get it when I go to clubs with a man. Suddenly out of nowhere another man pops up and wants us to fuck on demand for HIS pleasure. Lol! It's always interesting to see the reaction of the man I'm with. I'm like welcome to my world as a woman and being accosted by men continuously for sexual favours. Men like this need to buy a sex doll really and stay away from humans. | |||
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"Maybe your struggling friends could just ask for advice themselves? " I was just thinking that myself | |||
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"Friends of mine are struggling on this site so what makes you reply? (Women) This implies you are not struggling, so surely you can give your friends hints on how to successfully compose messages and chat to people? He messages women but doesnt get responses i told him maybe change the approach or add some more pictures " Well you only have one and are implying you are successful, so not sure why you are telling him he needs more pics! Maybe tell him to do what you have done and put a massive yellow face on pics - winner We say on our profile that we like to make an effort so expect the same in return - guess who still get dick pics? K | |||
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"Friends of mine are struggling on this site so what makes you reply? (Women) People who read our profile, match our criteria and make an effort with their profile and message." This, 90% of the messages we get don't do any of these things. | |||
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"I’m actually struggling in here myself to get a reply I know the ladies on here get overwhelmed with messages they probably get ten time more messages than men do but I do read profiles and only message one that seem compatible " I can't tell if we are compatible from your profile. so there needs to be some effort in showing who you are as a person. Most people also want to see what you look like in minimal clothing. You don't have to be naked but like me in my swimsuit and my carnival costume. You have to stand out from the other guys. Literally hundreds if not thousands of divorced and separated guys looking for a FWB. Even being tall is not a distinction. I've probably come across more tall guys on Fab than in real life! | |||
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"Love it when man sends me pics of his face says would you sit on this That's quite funny It's funny when I reply a cow wouldn't sit on that Do you mind if I use that one? Of course you can. It's all about having fun on here Cows can't sit. We know this right?" This cow can. Guess you not meet this one | |||
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"I usually reply when they've sent a compliment, a witty riposte or made a polite reference to my profile narrative." Or if its me | |||
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"Interesting pics, an interesting profile with no red flags and less then 2 yellow flags. Then we'll read the message." Ooo that's the first time I've heard someone mention yellow flags! | |||
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"Interesting pics, an interesting profile with no red flags and less then 2 yellow flags. Then we'll read the message. Ooo that's the first time I've heard someone mention yellow flags!" It tends to be things like a little outside our normal area or not very good pictures (quality not content) | |||
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"I usually reply when they've sent a compliment, a witty riposte or made a polite reference to my profile narrative. Or if its me " • Especially you. A_l_w_a_y_s. | |||
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